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caradoc
Canada3022 Posts
At this rate, soon [[[Girl Blog] Blog] Blog]s will be sprouting up too. | ||
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obesechicken13
United States10467 Posts
On July 25 2011 05:28 Chairman Ray wrote: Don't use her toilet though, girls can tell if you used their toilet Just hold it while you pee imo. Less messy. This question is a bit general, but if a girl doesn't like you for a long time even though you like her, do you move on or work on yourself and try again later given a better opportunity/time? | ||
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Torte de Lini
Germany38463 Posts
A+ :B | ||
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RedJustice
United States1004 Posts
On July 25 2011 05:42 DanCeWithDevil wrote: So I found out this girl I had been meeting was engaged through the grapevine. She never told me about it and when I asked her about it she said the wedding isn't going to happen and refused to tell me about the fiance or the situation. I was not sure if she was into me or not. After a couple months of not seeing her for whatever reasons she came to my city and really wanted to see me. We met up for dinner and she was acting like she really liked me, showing direct interest. I see an engagement ring on her ring finger that had to be worth atleast 40,000$. I ask her with a confident jeering smile "what the fuck is that?" and she says its her engagement ring but refuses once again to talk about it at all. I press her a bit and she acts really weird and keeps trying to change the subject. Whatever I oblige we have a simple night but I tell her I have other plans and leave because I get a weird feeling. There is no contact between us for a few days then like 4 days later she calls me up saying 'lets hang out.' We meet up and she grabs my arm instantly in the street walking as if I'm her boyfriend or whatevs. I'm thinking 'man this is weird.' I look at her in the eyes then at her arm holding mine then back at her and say "What the fuck is this?" She replies "I don't know," and gives a girly smile. We get to this lounge-type drinking place and after we sit down indian style I notice she still has that ring on... Whats my game plan from this point on? If you care, don't do it. Otherwise expect nothing long term to ever come of it and have fun. | ||
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Torte de Lini
Germany38463 Posts
On July 25 2011 05:55 RedJustice wrote: If you care, don't do it. Otherwise expect nothing long term to ever come of it and have fun. I think he should inquire more and make a statement. Ask her why she keeps wanting to see you if she's clearly in a very serious relationship (one that she isn't making an effort to hide, the ring is in plain sight). Confrontation :B Be clear that you are not interested in seeing her without a proper explanation of the situation. | ||
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ILOVEKITTENS
Korea (South)112 Posts
On July 25 2011 05:42 DanCeWithDevil wrote: So I found out this girl I had been meeting was engaged through the grapevine. She never told me about it and when I asked her about it she said the wedding isn't going to happen and refused to tell me about the fiance or the situation. I was not sure if she was into me or not. After a couple months of not seeing her for whatever reasons she came to my city and really wanted to see me. We met up for dinner and she was acting like she really liked me, showing direct interest. I see an engagement ring on her ring finger that had to be worth atleast 40,000$. I ask her with a confident jeering smile "what the fuck is that?" and she says its her engagement ring but refuses once again to talk about it at all. I press her a bit and she acts really weird and keeps trying to change the subject. Whatever I oblige we have a simple night but I tell her I have other plans and leave because I get a weird feeling. There is no contact between us for a few days then like 4 days later she calls me up saying 'lets hang out.' We meet up and she grabs my arm instantly in the street walking as if I'm her boyfriend or whatevs. I'm thinking 'man this is weird.' I look at her in the eyes then at her arm holding mine then back at her and say "What the fuck is this?" She replies "I don't know," and gives a girly smile. We get to this lounge-type drinking place and after we sit down indian style I notice she still has that ring on... Whats my game plan from this point on? To me it seems like she just wants to have you on the side for now, before she has to commit forever to one guy. Fear of commitment is very typical in both men and women who are about to be married, hence the raunchy bachelor/bachelorette parties. Unfortunately this is a very immature mentality, because if she is willing to cheat before marriage, she will be willing to cheat after, most likely. This is once again a moral issue, so the answer lies within yourself. If you're willing to let her get her fix of cock before she gets married despite the fact that it's still cheating, then do so. If you'd feel guilty, then don't. | ||
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DanCeWithDevil
United States87 Posts
I'm just asking how do I get laid that night in that situation with that sort of creature. | ||
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RedJustice
United States1004 Posts
On July 25 2011 05:54 obesechicken13 wrote: Just hold it while you pee imo. Less messy. This question is a bit general, but if a girl doesn't like you for a long time even though you like her, do you move on or work on yourself and try again later given a better opportunity/time? Depends on why the girl doesn't like you: - A reason you can change: Evaluate it. Is it something stupid and superficial like your appearance? Unless you're grossly obese, she's not someone worth dating anyway. Is it something integral to who you are as a person? She's not worth dating anyway, don't change. Is it something you do that's harmful to others? (smoking/gang violence/shit that will land you in jail) Consider changing this if you care about her a ton. - A situation in her life you don't control: Does she have a boyfriend? If you really think it's worth waiting, you can hang around and see how long it lasts. Be warned it might last forever and decide how long you care to wait ahead of time. Is she going through a shitty situation with personal/family issues? Depending on what it is, it might be worth waiting for a while and being there as friendly support while she gets through it. This gets you pointspointspoints for later on. If it's a long term issue as opposed to one that will go away in a few months, consider moving on. - She's just not interested in you. Move on. Maybe in a few years you will be two different people and she'll be interested. For now it's as futile as building a ladder to the sun. You're better off meeting other girls rather than moping over her. | ||
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Ravencruiser
Canada519 Posts
How do you get an uptight N.A. born Asian girlfriend to do drugs and have anal sex with you? Your opinion is appreciated. | ||
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RedJustice
United States1004 Posts
On July 25 2011 06:02 DanCeWithDevil wrote: Guys I'm not asking for your silly advice about long term expectations etc. lmao. I'm just asking how do I get laid that night in that situation with that sort of creature. From what you've said about her behavior, I would suggest: Walk back to your place. Lie down. Let her jump on your dick. | ||
SirJolt
the Dagon Knight4000 Posts
On July 25 2011 05:52 caradoc wrote: Is this a [Girl Blog] or a [[Girl Blog] Blog]? At this rate, soon [[[Girl Blog] Blog] Blog]s will be sprouting up too. It's worse than that, there's already been a [Girl Blog] Blog [Girl?]. I'm not sure how much spiralling recursion there might be in the future, but I'm a fan of ILOVEKITTENS' work and hope this proves the ultimate girlblogblogblog. If nothing else, it's nice to think there'd be one big "GIRL BLOG" thread that can act as a beacon to anyone considering making one. | ||
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turdburgler
England6749 Posts
if she was interested she would let you know is what she doing acceptable/ok in your relationship? ask yourself, how would you feel if she did the same thing again theres your answer g.g. | ||
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pyaar
United States423 Posts
On July 25 2011 06:04 Ravencruiser wrote: Seriousment question: How do you get an uptight N.A. born Asian girlfriend to do drugs and have anal sex with you? Your opinion is appreciated. Why does she object to these things? Is it just because these things aren't "normal" or "right"? If the reasons are unsubstantiated or silly like that then, if my experience is any guide, it's not going to be easy to change her attitude. | ||
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ILOVEKITTENS
Korea (South)112 Posts
On July 25 2011 05:54 obesechicken13 wrote: This question is a bit general, but if a girl doesn't like you for a long time even though you like her, do you move on or work on yourself and try again later given a better opportunity/time? As you said this question is very obtuse, and therefore it's impossible to give a concrete answer. Both of those are viable options in theory, but depending on the situation, one might be way more likely/productive than the other. In general, I feel that if your feelings are unrequited and the girl is aware of them, you are pretty screwed. It is uncomfortable for anyone to know that their friend is romantically interested in them - sometimes they might even think that is the entirety of the relationship in the other person's mind. This usually leads to awkwardness, assumption, and eventual dissolution of the friendship. There are and always will be exceptions, but I find this to be the case more often than not. If she wasn't interested in you until now, any change you make will only seem like you are doing it only to change her mind (which you are), and as romantic as that may seem, it comes off as desperate and thus distasteful. I suggest moving on in this case, there will be someone out there who appreciates you for who you are and you will not have to change yourself to make the relationship work. Sometimes, especially if you two are not that close yet, and the interest is not yet disclosed, you have a lot more leeway to change your approach and potentially be more successful. This is on a case-by-case basis, however. | ||
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Torte de Lini
Germany38463 Posts
On July 25 2011 06:05 RedJustice wrote: From what you've said about her behavior, I would suggest: Walk back to your place. Lie down. Let her jump on your dick. Bwahah, ace in the hole! | ||
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RedJustice
United States1004 Posts
WP sir. | ||
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DanCeWithDevil
United States87 Posts
On July 25 2011 06:05 RedJustice wrote: From what you've said about her behavior, I would suggest: Walk back to your place. Lie down. Let her jump on your dick. Later on in the night I ended up kissing her somehow, not for too long because the place was relatively empty and we were out in the open for the bored workers to stare. She asked me "what do you want?" to which I replied "thats a complicated question..what do you want?" she said "lets just have a casual relationship." I said "uhh I'm not sure what you mean by that and I think I have two of those already anyways." she replied "well then have another one." We finalize, I call my private driver to come pick us up, I pay the bill, then we go outside. I called my driver he said he'd be there in less than a minute. Shes holding my arm acting all lovey-dovey and I feel like "GG I'm getting laid." Then she suddenly takes off running through the rain and jumps in a cab closes the door and drives off. WTF? | ||
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ILOVEKITTENS
Korea (South)112 Posts
On July 25 2011 06:04 Ravencruiser wrote: Seriousment question: How do you get an uptight N.A. born Asian girlfriend to do drugs and have anal sex with you? Your opinion is appreciated. You don't, you accept her for who she is, and if you can't do that then you should not be going out with her. I recently heard somewhere (I don't remember where, sorry if it is a TL member) that every relationship has an admittance fee, and that may be the fact that you have to give up smoking, anal sex, drugs, video games, whatever it may be. The question is whether or not you are willing to pay the price. If she is unwilling to pay the price of being with a boyfriend who wants to have anal sex and do drugs with his girlfriend, she should call it quits. If you are unwilling to accept her not wanting to have anal sex and do drugs, call it quits. In my personal experience, she will do drugs when she is ready for them. It happened to my ex after we stopped going out, and though I was pissed (she was completely against me doing drugs while we were dating), it was just a natural development. Anal will probably happen by accident eventually anyways, so you can hope something slips at some point, but more likely than not you won't change her mind by pressuring her. If anything, you pressuring her will make her more unlikely to succumb. | ||
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RedJustice
United States1004 Posts
On July 25 2011 06:21 DanCeWithDevil wrote: Later on in the night I ended up kissing her somehow, not for too long because the place was relatively empty and we were out in the open for the bored workers to stare. She asked me "what do you want?" to which I replied "thats a complicated question..what do you want?" she said "lets just have a casual relationship." I said "uhh I'm not sure what you mean by that and I think I have two of those already anyways." she replied "well then have another one." We finalize, I call my private driver to come pick us up, I pay the bill, then we go outside. I called my driver he said he'd be there in less than a minute. Shes holding my arm acting all lovey-dovey and I feel like "GG I'm getting laid." Then she suddenly takes off running through the rain and jumps in a cab closes the door and drives off. WTF? So she backs out last minute. Probably felt a sudden twinge of guilt over cheating on her fiance. Don't worry about it. You have two other casual relationships; it's not the end of the world. If she wants to hang out again, don't bother. If she didn't go through with it the first time, she probably won't go through with it a second time, and you're just wasting your efforts. | ||
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ILOVEKITTENS
Korea (South)112 Posts
On July 25 2011 06:02 DanCeWithDevil wrote: Guys I'm not asking for your silly advice about long term expectations etc. lmao. I'm just asking how do I get laid that night in that situation with that sort of creature. Flirt back, show interest, stop asking about the marriage. Go out for a few drinks, take her back to your place, set yourself to sit next to her, make your move (this is assuming she hasn't already). If she is not cool with this and was merely trying to lead you on for the sake of some internal insecurity or commitment issue, she needs to get the fuck out of your house and your life. | ||
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