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On July 25 2011 06:24 RedJustice wrote:Show nested quote +On July 25 2011 06:21 DanCeWithDevil wrote:On July 25 2011 06:05 RedJustice wrote:On July 25 2011 06:02 DanCeWithDevil wrote:
Guys I'm not asking for your silly advice about long term expectations etc. lmao.
I'm just asking how do I get laid that night in that situation with that sort of creature. From what you've said about her behavior, I would suggest: Walk back to your place. Lie down. Let her jump on your dick. Later on in the night I ended up kissing her somehow, not for too long because the place was relatively empty and we were out in the open for the bored workers to stare. She asked me "what do you want?" to which I replied "thats a complicated question..what do you want?" she said "lets just have a casual relationship." I said "uhh I'm not sure what you mean by that and I think I have two of those already anyways." she replied "well then have another one." We finalize, I call my private driver to come pick us up, I pay the bill, then we go outside. I called my driver he said he'd be there in less than a minute. Shes holding my arm acting all lovey-dovey and I feel like "GG I'm getting laid." Then she suddenly takes off running through the rain and jumps in a cab closes the door and drives off. WTF? So she backs out last minute. Probably felt a sudden twinge of guilt over cheating on her fiance. Don't worry about it. You have two other casual relationships; it's not the end of the world. If she wants to hang out again, don't bother. If she didn't go through with it the first time, she probably won't go through with it a second time, and you're just wasting your efforts.
Okay, this is exactly what I thought too. But 2 days later (no contact till then again) she skype's me and tells me I should invite her to my place.
WTF?
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On July 25 2011 06:21 DanCeWithDevil wrote:Show nested quote +On July 25 2011 06:05 RedJustice wrote:On July 25 2011 06:02 DanCeWithDevil wrote:
Guys I'm not asking for your silly advice about long term expectations etc. lmao.
I'm just asking how do I get laid that night in that situation with that sort of creature. From what you've said about her behavior, I would suggest: Walk back to your place. Lie down. Let her jump on your dick. Later on in the night I ended up kissing her somehow, not for too long because the place was relatively empty and we were out in the open for the bored workers to stare. She asked me "what do you want?" to which I replied "thats a complicated question..what do you want?" she said "lets just have a casual relationship." I said "uhh I'm not sure what you mean by that and I think I have two of those already anyways." she replied "well then have another one." We finalize, I call my private driver to come pick us up, I pay the bill, then we go outside. I called my driver he said he'd be there in less than a minute. Shes holding my arm acting all lovey-dovey and I feel like "GG I'm getting laid." Then she suddenly takes off running through the rain and jumps in a cab closes the door and drives off. WTF?
On July 25 2011 06:26 DanCeWithDevil wrote:Show nested quote +On July 25 2011 06:24 RedJustice wrote:On July 25 2011 06:21 DanCeWithDevil wrote:On July 25 2011 06:05 RedJustice wrote:On July 25 2011 06:02 DanCeWithDevil wrote:
Guys I'm not asking for your silly advice about long term expectations etc. lmao.
I'm just asking how do I get laid that night in that situation with that sort of creature. From what you've said about her behavior, I would suggest: Walk back to your place. Lie down. Let her jump on your dick. Later on in the night I ended up kissing her somehow, not for too long because the place was relatively empty and we were out in the open for the bored workers to stare. She asked me "what do you want?" to which I replied "thats a complicated question..what do you want?" she said "lets just have a casual relationship." I said "uhh I'm not sure what you mean by that and I think I have two of those already anyways." she replied "well then have another one." We finalize, I call my private driver to come pick us up, I pay the bill, then we go outside. I called my driver he said he'd be there in less than a minute. Shes holding my arm acting all lovey-dovey and I feel like "GG I'm getting laid." Then she suddenly takes off running through the rain and jumps in a cab closes the door and drives off. WTF? So she backs out last minute. Probably felt a sudden twinge of guilt over cheating on her fiance. Don't worry about it. You have two other casual relationships; it's not the end of the world. If she wants to hang out again, don't bother. If she didn't go through with it the first time, she probably won't go through with it a second time, and you're just wasting your efforts. Okay, this is exactly what I thought too. But 2 days later (no contact till then again) she skype's me and tells me I should invite her to my place. WTF?
Women are fickle creatures with their own insecurities and oddities, just like men. They only manifest differently.
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Nice thread rofl. Will read with interest keke
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On July 25 2011 06:26 DanCeWithDevil wrote:Show nested quote +On July 25 2011 06:24 RedJustice wrote:On July 25 2011 06:21 DanCeWithDevil wrote:On July 25 2011 06:05 RedJustice wrote:On July 25 2011 06:02 DanCeWithDevil wrote:
Guys I'm not asking for your silly advice about long term expectations etc. lmao.
I'm just asking how do I get laid that night in that situation with that sort of creature. From what you've said about her behavior, I would suggest: Walk back to your place. Lie down. Let her jump on your dick. Later on in the night I ended up kissing her somehow, not for too long because the place was relatively empty and we were out in the open for the bored workers to stare. She asked me "what do you want?" to which I replied "thats a complicated question..what do you want?" she said "lets just have a casual relationship." I said "uhh I'm not sure what you mean by that and I think I have two of those already anyways." she replied "well then have another one." We finalize, I call my private driver to come pick us up, I pay the bill, then we go outside. I called my driver he said he'd be there in less than a minute. Shes holding my arm acting all lovey-dovey and I feel like "GG I'm getting laid." Then she suddenly takes off running through the rain and jumps in a cab closes the door and drives off. WTF? So she backs out last minute. Probably felt a sudden twinge of guilt over cheating on her fiance. Don't worry about it. You have two other casual relationships; it's not the end of the world. If she wants to hang out again, don't bother. If she didn't go through with it the first time, she probably won't go through with it a second time, and you're just wasting your efforts. Okay, this is exactly what I thought too. But 2 days later (no contact till then again) she skype's me and tells me I should invite her to my place. WTF?
Don't do it. gg no re
Indecisive women are a pain in the ass.
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On July 25 2011 06:22 ILOVEKITTENS wrote:Show nested quote +On July 25 2011 06:04 Ravencruiser wrote:
Seriousment question:
How do you get an uptight N.A. born Asian girlfriend to do drugs and have anal sex with you?
Your opinion is appreciated. You don't, you accept her for who she is, and if you can't do that then you should not be going out with her. I recently heard somewhere (I don't remember where, sorry if it is a TL member) that every relationship has an admittance fee, and that may be the fact that you have to give up smoking, anal sex, drugs, video games, whatever it may be. The question is whether or not you are willing to pay the price. If she is unwilling to pay the price of being with a boyfriend who wants to have anal sex and do drugs with his girlfriend, she should call it quits. If you are unwilling to accept her not wanting to have anal sex and do drugs, call it quits. In my personal experience, she will do drugs when she is ready for them. It happened to my ex after we stopped going out, and though I was pissed (she was completely against me doing drugs while we were dating), it was just a natural development. Anal will probably happen by accident eventually anyways, so you can hope something slips at some point, but more likely than not you won't change her mind by pressuring her. If anything, you pressuring her will make her more unlikely to succumb.
Ty for reply.
One of these days, a friend of a friend of Barney is going to slip his GF an XTC tablet in her morning coffee. Ahhh the temptation...
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On July 25 2011 06:33 RedJustice wrote:Show nested quote +On July 25 2011 06:26 DanCeWithDevil wrote:On July 25 2011 06:24 RedJustice wrote:On July 25 2011 06:21 DanCeWithDevil wrote:On July 25 2011 06:05 RedJustice wrote:On July 25 2011 06:02 DanCeWithDevil wrote:
Guys I'm not asking for your silly advice about long term expectations etc. lmao.
I'm just asking how do I get laid that night in that situation with that sort of creature. From what you've said about her behavior, I would suggest: Walk back to your place. Lie down. Let her jump on your dick. Later on in the night I ended up kissing her somehow, not for too long because the place was relatively empty and we were out in the open for the bored workers to stare. She asked me "what do you want?" to which I replied "thats a complicated question..what do you want?" she said "lets just have a casual relationship." I said "uhh I'm not sure what you mean by that and I think I have two of those already anyways." she replied "well then have another one." We finalize, I call my private driver to come pick us up, I pay the bill, then we go outside. I called my driver he said he'd be there in less than a minute. Shes holding my arm acting all lovey-dovey and I feel like "GG I'm getting laid." Then she suddenly takes off running through the rain and jumps in a cab closes the door and drives off. WTF? So she backs out last minute. Probably felt a sudden twinge of guilt over cheating on her fiance. Don't worry about it. You have two other casual relationships; it's not the end of the world. If she wants to hang out again, don't bother. If she didn't go through with it the first time, she probably won't go through with it a second time, and you're just wasting your efforts. Okay, this is exactly what I thought too. But 2 days later (no contact till then again) she skype's me and tells me I should invite her to my place. WTF? Don't do it. gg no re Indecisive women are a pain in the ass.
Yeah, I definitely wasn't going to do it. Then I was drunk at 4 AM one morning and texted her saying she can come over now. She came over and got all serious mode on me. Asking me "what do you want?" again. I asked "Right this moment?" she said "yeah" so I said "A blowjob" with a cocky shrug. She said "IS THAT ALL YOU WANT?" To which I said "Nah I wouldn't mind sex either but I'm pretty worn out from drinking all night." She asked again "Is that all you really want from me?" I said "Yeah in this moment." Then we kissed me again but would not let me progress to the breasts or any other areas. So I'm like "what..." and she says "I'm leaving the country to vegas tomorrow. If you want me to postpone my flight and get together tell me now."
Whats my move? (though I don't mind getting with a girl who has a BF that I do not know...its against my morals to fake some 'relationship' to get laid.)
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On July 25 2011 06:04 Ravencruiser wrote:
Seriousment question:
How do you get an uptight N.A. born Asian girlfriend to do drugs and have anal sex with you?
Your opinion is appreciated.
From what I've heard, seemingly uptight "pure" Asian girls are usually willing to try those types of things, as long as you guys are in a serious relationship. Have you actually asked?
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On July 25 2011 06:39 DanCeWithDevil wrote:Show nested quote +On July 25 2011 06:33 RedJustice wrote:On July 25 2011 06:26 DanCeWithDevil wrote:On July 25 2011 06:24 RedJustice wrote:On July 25 2011 06:21 DanCeWithDevil wrote:On July 25 2011 06:05 RedJustice wrote:On July 25 2011 06:02 DanCeWithDevil wrote:
Guys I'm not asking for your silly advice about long term expectations etc. lmao.
I'm just asking how do I get laid that night in that situation with that sort of creature. From what you've said about her behavior, I would suggest: Walk back to your place. Lie down. Let her jump on your dick. Later on in the night I ended up kissing her somehow, not for too long because the place was relatively empty and we were out in the open for the bored workers to stare. She asked me "what do you want?" to which I replied "thats a complicated question..what do you want?" she said "lets just have a casual relationship." I said "uhh I'm not sure what you mean by that and I think I have two of those already anyways." she replied "well then have another one." We finalize, I call my private driver to come pick us up, I pay the bill, then we go outside. I called my driver he said he'd be there in less than a minute. Shes holding my arm acting all lovey-dovey and I feel like "GG I'm getting laid." Then she suddenly takes off running through the rain and jumps in a cab closes the door and drives off. WTF? So she backs out last minute. Probably felt a sudden twinge of guilt over cheating on her fiance. Don't worry about it. You have two other casual relationships; it's not the end of the world. If she wants to hang out again, don't bother. If she didn't go through with it the first time, she probably won't go through with it a second time, and you're just wasting your efforts. Okay, this is exactly what I thought too. But 2 days later (no contact till then again) she skype's me and tells me I should invite her to my place. WTF? Don't do it. gg no re Indecisive women are a pain in the ass. Yeah, I definitely wasn't going to do it. Then I was drunk at 4 AM one morning and texted her saying she can come over now. She came over and got all serious mode on me. Asking me "what do you want?" again. I asked "Right this moment?" she said "yeah" so I said "A blowjob" with a cocky shrug. She said "IS THAT ALL YOU WANT?" To which I said "Nah I wouldn't mind sex either but I'm pretty worn out from drinking all night." She asked again "Is that all you really want from me?" I said "Yeah in this moment." Then we kissed me again but would not let me progress to the breasts or any other areas. So I'm like "what..." and she says I'm leaving the country to vegas tomorrow. If you want me to postpone my flight and get together tell me now." Whats my move?
If you want to hit it (you sound like you do) get her to postpone her flight and try and make it happen, but it does sound like you've caught yourself a crazy one so I wouldn't be shocked if she backs out again. Either way, I don't see what you have to lose.
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On July 25 2011 06:39 DanCeWithDevil wrote:Show nested quote +On July 25 2011 06:33 RedJustice wrote:On July 25 2011 06:26 DanCeWithDevil wrote:On July 25 2011 06:24 RedJustice wrote:On July 25 2011 06:21 DanCeWithDevil wrote:On July 25 2011 06:05 RedJustice wrote:On July 25 2011 06:02 DanCeWithDevil wrote:
Guys I'm not asking for your silly advice about long term expectations etc. lmao.
I'm just asking how do I get laid that night in that situation with that sort of creature. From what you've said about her behavior, I would suggest: Walk back to your place. Lie down. Let her jump on your dick. Later on in the night I ended up kissing her somehow, not for too long because the place was relatively empty and we were out in the open for the bored workers to stare. She asked me "what do you want?" to which I replied "thats a complicated question..what do you want?" she said "lets just have a casual relationship." I said "uhh I'm not sure what you mean by that and I think I have two of those already anyways." she replied "well then have another one." We finalize, I call my private driver to come pick us up, I pay the bill, then we go outside. I called my driver he said he'd be there in less than a minute. Shes holding my arm acting all lovey-dovey and I feel like "GG I'm getting laid." Then she suddenly takes off running through the rain and jumps in a cab closes the door and drives off. WTF? So she backs out last minute. Probably felt a sudden twinge of guilt over cheating on her fiance. Don't worry about it. You have two other casual relationships; it's not the end of the world. If she wants to hang out again, don't bother. If she didn't go through with it the first time, she probably won't go through with it a second time, and you're just wasting your efforts. Okay, this is exactly what I thought too. But 2 days later (no contact till then again) she skype's me and tells me I should invite her to my place. WTF? Don't do it. gg no re Indecisive women are a pain in the ass. Yeah, I definitely wasn't going to do it. Then I was drunk at 4 AM one morning and texted her saying she can come over now. She came over and got all serious mode on me. Asking me "what do you want?" again. I asked "Right this moment?" she said "yeah" so I said "A blowjob" with a cocky shrug. She said "IS THAT ALL YOU WANT?" To which I said "Nah I wouldn't mind sex either but I'm pretty worn out from drinking all night." She asked again "Is that all you really want from me?" I said "Yeah in this moment." Then we kissed me again but would not let me progress to the breasts or any other areas. So I'm like "what..." and she says "I'm leaving the country to vegas tomorrow. If you want me to postpone my flight and get together tell me now." Whats my move? (though I don't mind getting with a girl who has a BF that I do not know...its against my morals to fake some 'relationship' to get laid.)
Then don't do it. None of your new stories really change the situation at all.
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On July 25 2011 06:44 Eufouria wrote:Show nested quote +On July 25 2011 06:39 DanCeWithDevil wrote:On July 25 2011 06:33 RedJustice wrote:On July 25 2011 06:26 DanCeWithDevil wrote:On July 25 2011 06:24 RedJustice wrote:On July 25 2011 06:21 DanCeWithDevil wrote:On July 25 2011 06:05 RedJustice wrote:On July 25 2011 06:02 DanCeWithDevil wrote:
Guys I'm not asking for your silly advice about long term expectations etc. lmao.
I'm just asking how do I get laid that night in that situation with that sort of creature. From what you've said about her behavior, I would suggest: Walk back to your place. Lie down. Let her jump on your dick. Later on in the night I ended up kissing her somehow, not for too long because the place was relatively empty and we were out in the open for the bored workers to stare. She asked me "what do you want?" to which I replied "thats a complicated question..what do you want?" she said "lets just have a casual relationship." I said "uhh I'm not sure what you mean by that and I think I have two of those already anyways." she replied "well then have another one." We finalize, I call my private driver to come pick us up, I pay the bill, then we go outside. I called my driver he said he'd be there in less than a minute. Shes holding my arm acting all lovey-dovey and I feel like "GG I'm getting laid." Then she suddenly takes off running through the rain and jumps in a cab closes the door and drives off. WTF? So she backs out last minute. Probably felt a sudden twinge of guilt over cheating on her fiance. Don't worry about it. You have two other casual relationships; it's not the end of the world. If she wants to hang out again, don't bother. If she didn't go through with it the first time, she probably won't go through with it a second time, and you're just wasting your efforts. Okay, this is exactly what I thought too. But 2 days later (no contact till then again) she skype's me and tells me I should invite her to my place. WTF? Don't do it. gg no re Indecisive women are a pain in the ass. Yeah, I definitely wasn't going to do it. Then I was drunk at 4 AM one morning and texted her saying she can come over now. She came over and got all serious mode on me. Asking me "what do you want?" again. I asked "Right this moment?" she said "yeah" so I said "A blowjob" with a cocky shrug. She said "IS THAT ALL YOU WANT?" To which I said "Nah I wouldn't mind sex either but I'm pretty worn out from drinking all night." She asked again "Is that all you really want from me?" I said "Yeah in this moment." Then we kissed me again but would not let me progress to the breasts or any other areas. So I'm like "what..." and she says I'm leaving the country to vegas tomorrow. If you want me to postpone my flight and get together tell me now." Whats my move? If you want to hit it (you sound like you do) get her to postpone her flight and try and make it happen, but it does sound like you've caught yourself a crazy one so I wouldn't be shocked if she backs out again. Either way, I don't see what you have to lose.
What if her fiance is jacked and jealous? And has a crew of douchebros? Sounds like the stakes get significantly higher.
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I'm in love with a girl but whenever she beats me in a 1v1 I hit her to divert my anger away from starting a balance discussion on TL.. On one hand we have abuse, on the other we have balance disucssions... what should I do?
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On July 25 2011 06:51 ILOVEKITTENS wrote:Show nested quote +On July 25 2011 06:44 Eufouria wrote:On July 25 2011 06:39 DanCeWithDevil wrote:On July 25 2011 06:33 RedJustice wrote:On July 25 2011 06:26 DanCeWithDevil wrote:On July 25 2011 06:24 RedJustice wrote:On July 25 2011 06:21 DanCeWithDevil wrote:On July 25 2011 06:05 RedJustice wrote:On July 25 2011 06:02 DanCeWithDevil wrote:
Guys I'm not asking for your silly advice about long term expectations etc. lmao.
I'm just asking how do I get laid that night in that situation with that sort of creature. From what you've said about her behavior, I would suggest: Walk back to your place. Lie down. Let her jump on your dick. Later on in the night I ended up kissing her somehow, not for too long because the place was relatively empty and we were out in the open for the bored workers to stare. She asked me "what do you want?" to which I replied "thats a complicated question..what do you want?" she said "lets just have a casual relationship." I said "uhh I'm not sure what you mean by that and I think I have two of those already anyways." she replied "well then have another one." We finalize, I call my private driver to come pick us up, I pay the bill, then we go outside. I called my driver he said he'd be there in less than a minute. Shes holding my arm acting all lovey-dovey and I feel like "GG I'm getting laid." Then she suddenly takes off running through the rain and jumps in a cab closes the door and drives off. WTF? So she backs out last minute. Probably felt a sudden twinge of guilt over cheating on her fiance. Don't worry about it. You have two other casual relationships; it's not the end of the world. If she wants to hang out again, don't bother. If she didn't go through with it the first time, she probably won't go through with it a second time, and you're just wasting your efforts. Okay, this is exactly what I thought too. But 2 days later (no contact till then again) she skype's me and tells me I should invite her to my place. WTF? Don't do it. gg no re Indecisive women are a pain in the ass. Yeah, I definitely wasn't going to do it. Then I was drunk at 4 AM one morning and texted her saying she can come over now. She came over and got all serious mode on me. Asking me "what do you want?" again. I asked "Right this moment?" she said "yeah" so I said "A blowjob" with a cocky shrug. She said "IS THAT ALL YOU WANT?" To which I said "Nah I wouldn't mind sex either but I'm pretty worn out from drinking all night." She asked again "Is that all you really want from me?" I said "Yeah in this moment." Then we kissed me again but would not let me progress to the breasts or any other areas. So I'm like "what..." and she says I'm leaving the country to vegas tomorrow. If you want me to postpone my flight and get together tell me now." Whats my move? If you want to hit it (you sound like you do) get her to postpone her flight and try and make it happen, but it does sound like you've caught yourself a crazy one so I wouldn't be shocked if she backs out again. Either way, I don't see what you have to lose. What if her fiance is jacked and jealous? And has a crew of douchebros? Sounds like the stakes get significantly higher.
That is the least of my concerns. Anyways I told her "In that case you better go pack your bags." She was apparently very emotionally struck by this. She went to the bathroom to adjust her makeup or something and while she wasn't crying she was pretty teary eyed. I had known her iPhone's password because I saw her type it in last time so I took the pleasure of looking at her texts while she was in the bathroom. She was playing atleast 5 more guys the same way as me from what little I could see in the time I had. She promptly came out of the bathroom and got her phone (which I placed in the exact same position it was) and bag and left.
Later that week I overhear random rumors from people that don't even know about 'me and her' that she also works as a part time escort for like 5k a pop.
Strange strange world....shoulda gone with my gut instinct.
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I'm pretty uninteresting. I consider myself above average intelligence here in the United States, and all I do is basically spend time on the computer or at school. What is some activity to either do or get good at so I have something interesting to go into conversations with the general woman* would find interesting? I'm pretty awkward so the "go out and have a good time!" wouldn't be good advice for me. I also just moved, so I don't really have friends here.
*I say this not because I want a general woman as a girlfriend. I would prefer one with similar interests, but I think I would be hard pressed to get involved enough in a conversation without some other things to talk about first.
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On July 25 2011 06:51 ILOVEKITTENS wrote:Show nested quote +On July 25 2011 06:44 Eufouria wrote:On July 25 2011 06:39 DanCeWithDevil wrote:On July 25 2011 06:33 RedJustice wrote:On July 25 2011 06:26 DanCeWithDevil wrote:On July 25 2011 06:24 RedJustice wrote:On July 25 2011 06:21 DanCeWithDevil wrote:On July 25 2011 06:05 RedJustice wrote:On July 25 2011 06:02 DanCeWithDevil wrote:
Guys I'm not asking for your silly advice about long term expectations etc. lmao.
I'm just asking how do I get laid that night in that situation with that sort of creature. From what you've said about her behavior, I would suggest: Walk back to your place. Lie down. Let her jump on your dick. Later on in the night I ended up kissing her somehow, not for too long because the place was relatively empty and we were out in the open for the bored workers to stare. She asked me "what do you want?" to which I replied "thats a complicated question..what do you want?" she said "lets just have a casual relationship." I said "uhh I'm not sure what you mean by that and I think I have two of those already anyways." she replied "well then have another one." We finalize, I call my private driver to come pick us up, I pay the bill, then we go outside. I called my driver he said he'd be there in less than a minute. Shes holding my arm acting all lovey-dovey and I feel like "GG I'm getting laid." Then she suddenly takes off running through the rain and jumps in a cab closes the door and drives off. WTF? So she backs out last minute. Probably felt a sudden twinge of guilt over cheating on her fiance. Don't worry about it. You have two other casual relationships; it's not the end of the world. If she wants to hang out again, don't bother. If she didn't go through with it the first time, she probably won't go through with it a second time, and you're just wasting your efforts. Okay, this is exactly what I thought too. But 2 days later (no contact till then again) she skype's me and tells me I should invite her to my place. WTF? Don't do it. gg no re Indecisive women are a pain in the ass. Yeah, I definitely wasn't going to do it. Then I was drunk at 4 AM one morning and texted her saying she can come over now. She came over and got all serious mode on me. Asking me "what do you want?" again. I asked "Right this moment?" she said "yeah" so I said "A blowjob" with a cocky shrug. She said "IS THAT ALL YOU WANT?" To which I said "Nah I wouldn't mind sex either but I'm pretty worn out from drinking all night." She asked again "Is that all you really want from me?" I said "Yeah in this moment." Then we kissed me again but would not let me progress to the breasts or any other areas. So I'm like "what..." and she says I'm leaving the country to vegas tomorrow. If you want me to postpone my flight and get together tell me now." Whats my move? If you want to hit it (you sound like you do) get her to postpone her flight and try and make it happen, but it does sound like you've caught yourself a crazy one so I wouldn't be shocked if she backs out again. Either way, I don't see what you have to lose. What if her fiance is jacked and jealous? And has a crew of douchebros? Sounds like the stakes get significantly higher.
My first thought when he described the ring was about the fiance maybe being a gangster, but I figured that didn't stop him trying before, so why should it now?
I interpreted what she said about postponing the flight as like a one night stand, but if she meant a relationship, and you aren't interested in a relationship I would probably stay clear. I doubt pretending you do want a relationship and backing out after you get what you want would go at all smoothly.
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On July 25 2011 06:53 Endymion wrote:
I'm in love with a girl but whenever she beats me in a 1v1 I hit her to divert my anger away from starting a balance discussion on TL.. On one hand we have abuse, on the other we have balance disucssions... what should I do?
I think that you should ladder more and get better, then you won't have to hit her. I think that you know this option exists but also know that hitting her is more fun, so I don't think you really want advice. Balance discussions are like 99% of gaming advice anyway, in the sense that they achieve nothing and don't change your playstyle anyways. At least abuse produces bruises, feelings, and sometimes laughter :D
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On July 25 2011 07:03 Frozenhelfire wrote:
I'm pretty uninteresting. I consider myself above average intelligence here in the United States, and all I do is basically spend time on the computer or at school. What is some activity to either do or get good at so I have something interesting to go into conversations with the general woman* would find interesting? I'm pretty awkward so the "go out and have a good time!" wouldn't be good advice for me. I also just moved, so I don't really have friends here.
*I say this not because I want a general woman as a girlfriend. I would prefer one with similar interests, but I think I would be hard pressed to get involved enough in a conversation without some other things to talk about first.
Describing yourself as uninteresting and of average intelligence are your first issue. You should have more self-respect than that. Work on that first.
To more directly answer your question, you should read literature. This makes you mature into a more worldly person, expands your vocabulary, gives you a better sense of at least scripted interaction, and gives you a topic to talk about with the few other people who enjoy reading in this world. Personally I find women who read literature to be my cup of tea, for the same reasons that reading literature would be beneficial for you. Besides that, you can consider sports and other activities that are easy to get involved in around town.
If you don't know many people in your area, you have no choice but to go to social events and locations and strike up conversations with people. By doing this you will improve your conversation skills and your confidence will hopefully go up. Also, you will be more likely to make friends and meet women this way than you would be by sitting at home. This advice works only as well as you are willing to follow it.
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United States1004 Posts
On July 25 2011 07:03 Frozenhelfire wrote:
I'm pretty uninteresting. I consider myself above average intelligence here in the United States, and all I do is basically spend time on the computer or at school. What is some activity to either do or get good at so I have something interesting to go into conversations with the general woman* would find interesting? I'm pretty awkward so the "go out and have a good time!" wouldn't be good advice for me. I also just moved, so I don't really have friends here.
*I say this not because I want a general woman as a girlfriend. I would prefer one with similar interests, but I think I would be hard pressed to get involved enough in a conversation without some other things to talk about first.
Unless you have no nerdy passions related to school and/or your computer time, I'd say you don't need to bother doing something else for the purpose of attracting a woman. As long as you have some maturity, put some effort into work/school, and have good hygiene, it's not important that you have specific interests but more so that you have some. Depending on how crazy your interests are, it might take longer to find a woman who shares or at least appreciates them.
If you really have no interests at all, learn to play an instrument, follow a sport or an esport, find some subject that you can get really excited about, read books... anything really that you can be passionate about.
As for have a convo with women (or anyone for that matter, since you just moved)-- observe something they are doing or talking about and ask about it. If they just look nice and are sitting there, say hi, introduce yourself, and ask what they like to do/if they play any sports/any games/etc. LISTEN (pro tip for talking with women-- they like when you listen to them talk about themselves). Once they are done talking about their interests, this is the point where you either sequence into something related that you enjoy, or they will just ask you what your interests are. Tell them. They will ask questions. Continue this pattern of listening and talking back. ??? Profit.
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On July 25 2011 07:03 Frozenhelfire wrote:
I'm pretty uninteresting. I consider myself above average intelligence here in the United States, and all I do is basically spend time on the computer or at school. What is some activity to either do or get good at so I have something interesting to go into conversations with the general woman* would find interesting? I'm pretty awkward so the "go out and have a good time!" wouldn't be good advice for me. I also just moved, so I don't really have friends here.
*I say this not because I want a general woman as a girlfriend. I would prefer one with similar interests, but I think I would be hard pressed to get involved enough in a conversation without some other things to talk about first.
A hobby isn't a necessity at all, there are plenty of guys with no hobbies who are great with girls but it sounds like you want a hobby because you struggle with conversation topics, so anything you feel comfortable talking to a girl about is good, sports are the obvious ones also you could do something artistic like music, but it doesn't even need to be a hobby, you could go to the gym or volunteer, just anything you feel comfortable talking about.
Don't talk about yourself too much though, let the girls talking and try and engage with what they're saying.
I know you didn't ask for social advice, but I think you should focus on making friends first, its easier than talking to girls and makes it easier to get into situations where you can talk to girls.
On July 25 2011 07:01 DanCeWithDevil wrote:Show nested quote +On July 25 2011 06:51 ILOVEKITTENS wrote:On July 25 2011 06:44 Eufouria wrote:On July 25 2011 06:39 DanCeWithDevil wrote:On July 25 2011 06:33 RedJustice wrote:On July 25 2011 06:26 DanCeWithDevil wrote:On July 25 2011 06:24 RedJustice wrote:On July 25 2011 06:21 DanCeWithDevil wrote:On July 25 2011 06:05 RedJustice wrote:On July 25 2011 06:02 DanCeWithDevil wrote:
Guys I'm not asking for your silly advice about long term expectations etc. lmao.
I'm just asking how do I get laid that night in that situation with that sort of creature. From what you've said about her behavior, I would suggest: Walk back to your place. Lie down. Let her jump on your dick. Later on in the night I ended up kissing her somehow, not for too long because the place was relatively empty and we were out in the open for the bored workers to stare. She asked me "what do you want?" to which I replied "thats a complicated question..what do you want?" she said "lets just have a casual relationship." I said "uhh I'm not sure what you mean by that and I think I have two of those already anyways." she replied "well then have another one." We finalize, I call my private driver to come pick us up, I pay the bill, then we go outside. I called my driver he said he'd be there in less than a minute. Shes holding my arm acting all lovey-dovey and I feel like "GG I'm getting laid." Then she suddenly takes off running through the rain and jumps in a cab closes the door and drives off. WTF? So she backs out last minute. Probably felt a sudden twinge of guilt over cheating on her fiance. Don't worry about it. You have two other casual relationships; it's not the end of the world. If she wants to hang out again, don't bother. If she didn't go through with it the first time, she probably won't go through with it a second time, and you're just wasting your efforts. Okay, this is exactly what I thought too. But 2 days later (no contact till then again) she skype's me and tells me I should invite her to my place. WTF? Don't do it. gg no re Indecisive women are a pain in the ass. Yeah, I definitely wasn't going to do it. Then I was drunk at 4 AM one morning and texted her saying she can come over now. She came over and got all serious mode on me. Asking me "what do you want?" again. I asked "Right this moment?" she said "yeah" so I said "A blowjob" with a cocky shrug. She said "IS THAT ALL YOU WANT?" To which I said "Nah I wouldn't mind sex either but I'm pretty worn out from drinking all night." She asked again "Is that all you really want from me?" I said "Yeah in this moment." Then we kissed me again but would not let me progress to the breasts or any other areas. So I'm like "what..." and she says I'm leaving the country to vegas tomorrow. If you want me to postpone my flight and get together tell me now." Whats my move? If you want to hit it (you sound like you do) get her to postpone her flight and try and make it happen, but it does sound like you've caught yourself a crazy one so I wouldn't be shocked if she backs out again. Either way, I don't see what you have to lose. What if her fiance is jacked and jealous? And has a crew of douchebros? Sounds like the stakes get significantly higher. That is the least of my concerns. Anyways I told her "In that case you better go pack your bags." She was apparently very emotionally struck by this. She went to the bathroom to adjust her makeup or something and while she wasn't crying she was pretty teary eyed. I had known her iPhone's password because I saw her type it in last time so I took the pleasure of looking at her texts while she was in the bathroom. She was playing atleast 5 more guys the same way as me from what little I could see in the time I had. She promptly came out of the bathroom and got her phone (which I placed in the exact same position it was) and bag and left. Later that week I overhear random rumors from people that don't even know about 'me and her' that she also works as a part time escort for like 5k a pop. Strange strange world....shoulda gone with my gut instinct.
I'm confused now, was this all happening while you were asking for advice?
My advice is don't get played, but I think you've been doing fine at that so far. She sounds like she'll never give you what you want when you're doing exactly what she wants.
Personally I'd leave it, you don't sound desperate and she sounds like way too much work.
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Alright, here's something that's an actual question and not a mere story about a confused hooker wandering through life.
So 2 years ago I had a roommate and he was madly in love with his GF and so was she. She came over all the time and they had like ritualistic fights. 2-5 times a week there'd be some big fight in his room involving her doing all the screaming and crying and I never really heard much from him but he was surely saying things. He'd often storm out and go drinking and leave her at home and come home and then they'd have sex and be all happy again. Sometimes he'd just stay home but the end result was always the same. Fight --> Fuck --> Happy. It's a very strange relationship and they both are really cool people but they got some weird shit going on.
So I'm minding my own business playing some 4v4 BGH and the screaming begins again. Whatevs just another day in their life. He storms out of the house this time. About 1 hour later she comes into the doorway of my computer room and is just standing there and says "This is the last time we will ever see eachother." I'm like "Uh ok." and continue spawning hydralisks. She still is standing there in the doorway and she says it again "I'm serious this is the last time we will see eachother." I look at her like 'WTF' and say "OK." She backs out of the doorway back to his room. I go out to get a drink and see shes cracked open a bottle of wine and is over 3/4ths done with it. 30 mins later she comes back in the computer room and comes behind me and starts massaging my shoulders and is almost reaching down to my pecs with her hands and says again "seriously this is the last time we will have a chance to see eachother..." She's obviously drunk but not blackout drunk but I don't think she's ever touched me in her life before this. I grab her hands kinda throw them off of me and tell her "OK we will never see eachother again thats fine you are drunk please go away." She goes back into the room and shuts the door.
I go to bed a bit later but the next day my roommate is back and they wake up after me and they obviously completed the ritual again...everything was back to happy normal.
They are blatantly in love but are both a little crazy. Do I tell him what happened?
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United States1004 Posts
On July 25 2011 07:32 DanCeWithDevil wrote:+ Show Spoiler +Alright, here's something that's an actual question and not a mere story about a confused hooker wandering through life.
So 2 years ago I had a roommate and he was madly in love with his GF and so was she. She came over all the time and they had like ritualistic fights. 2-5 times a week there'd be some big fight in his room involving her doing all the screaming and crying and I never really heard much from him but he was surely saying things. He'd often storm out and go drinking and leave her at home and come home and then they'd have sex and be all happy again. Sometimes he'd just stay home but the end result was always the same. Fight --> Fuck --> Happy. It's a very strange relationship and they both are really cool people but they got some weird shit going on.
So I'm minding my own business playing some 4v4 BGH and the screaming begins again. Whatevs just another day in their life. He storms out of the house this time. About 1 hour later she comes into the doorway of my computer room and is just standing there and says "This is the last time we will ever see eachother." I'm like "Uh ok." and continue spawning hydralisks. She still is standing there in the doorway and she says it again "I'm serious this is the last time we will see eachother." I look at her like 'WTF' and say "OK." She backs out of the doorway back to his room. I go out to get a drink and see shes cracked open a bottle of wine and is over 3/4ths done with it. 30 mins later she comes back in the computer room and comes behind me and starts massaging my shoulders and is almost reaching down to my pecs with her hands and says again "seriously this is the last time we will have a chance to see eachother..." She's obviously drunk but not blackout drunk but I don't think she's ever touched me in her life before this. I grab her hands kinda throw them off of me and tell her "OK we will never see eachother again thats fine you are drunk please go away." She goes back into the room and shuts the door.
I go to bed a bit later but the next day my roommate is back and they wake up after me and they obviously completed the ritual again...everything was back to happy normal.
They are blatantly in love but are both a little crazy. Do I tell him what happened?
This happened 2 years ago. This is just as pointless as the other story you had.
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