i FAIL with the girl at work - Page 3
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EmeraldSparks
United States1451 Posts
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WniO
United States2706 Posts
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WniO
United States2706 Posts
On June 13 2010 15:08 EmeraldSparks wrote: Give us her facebook and save yourself the trouble; TL.net will take care of it for you. or this lmao... | ||
endy
Switzerland8970 Posts
Edit : On June 13 2010 15:08 EmeraldSparks wrote: Give us her facebook and save yourself the trouble; TL.net will take care of it for you. LOL | ||
GoShox
United States1835 Posts
It's like Starcraft. If you lose a game, sure you might be mad that you lost, but you watch the replay and see what your opponent did and see how you should have responded. Real life is like that too. If you mess up with a girl by making a fatal error.. it sucks, it really does. But time heals everything and eventually you'll get over it; not only that, but you'll be a smarter, tougher, and better person overall with more knowledge of situations and you have more experience under your belt. Not saying that this is bound to turn out badly. Best of luck my friend | ||
flamewheel
FREEAGLELAND26780 Posts
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n.DieJokes
United States3443 Posts
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XFire
United States131 Posts
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Kennigit
Canada19447 Posts
You act like you don't give a fuck. When shes around, you laugh and talk loudly to other people so she doesn't think you are embarrassed about it. Include her in it, but DO NOT make her the center of your attention. I.e you don't tell her the joke/story. When you have that first awkward eye catching moment next time you see her, just blow through it like a locomotive by asking her where your fucking _____ is (sandwich, coffee w/e). Then go along your merry way. Don't ask this girl out ever again. Don't talk to girls on fucking chat services and expect them to want to go out with you ever. | ||
Divinek
Canada4045 Posts
good job sir, one small step for man oh for the love of god i just saw your 2nd post dont do it | ||
eLiE
Canada1039 Posts
imo, you're coming off kind of nervous in your facebook conversation. don't say you're joking cause you're afraid of what she's thinking, let her think. Play it cool, you wanna be planting ideas in her head, your interest veiled by nonchalant statements. then once you've confused her..... you pounce!!! (lol, or let her pounce). my mentor also said that you can probably move forward once you've gotten the person to go into a different setting with you, say, out of the workplace, or a movie, etc. (don't do a movie, not enough interaction involved, and the yawn thing is lame). try and get that going, and remember, face to face. also try and get some contact in there, playful nudge, all that. helps move things along. and i just read what you want to say to her tomorrow. don't apologize for "being a douche" or "messing", it makes me think you're not confident in your actions, though what you originally facebooked didn't make you seem that confident, haha. idk, try and be metaphoric with professing your love. CONFIDENCE, women find it sexy! and omg, one chick i worked with was like super model hot, and we're lifeguards and she'd wear a bikini every day. best and worst summer ever (she had a bf, and i was inexperienced ) EDIT: kennigit's def got the right idea, lol. i can bet he watches keys to the vip (hilarious show). ignoring and disrespecting girls makes them want your attention. she'll be begging for you in no time | ||
Kennigit
Canada19447 Posts
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Kennigit
Canada19447 Posts
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eLiE
Canada1039 Posts
^^^ LOL, what a great escape! its definitely better to find out tho, rather than to imagine VVV and using other people as diversions works too. i was with a girl in a club that my friend bet me 20 bucks i couldnt get a kiss out of, so i danced with her a bit, and she said she had to go, and i told her my friend said i couldn't leave here without a kiss, and she pulled me down and sucked my face in front of my coworkers, who proceeded to high five me. my friend bought me a pizza. good birthday... | ||
blabber
United States4448 Posts
On June 13 2010 15:48 Kennigit wrote: I once asked this girl out in grade 9 who sat in front of me in math class. I asked her out on MSN and she said no she thought of me as a friend. So i told her the next day that it was my friend "Adam" LOL and that i hadn't been at the computer. So fucking smoooth LOLOL. lol there's also the ol' "my friend wants to know if you like me" trick | ||
Husky
United States3362 Posts
I'm so tired of this stupid 'OMG U R KAWAII ^_________________________________^.... that means cute in japanese :3' Just ask them out, jesus. Confidence >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> trying to be cutesy on some chat program On June 13 2010 15:48 Kennigit wrote: I once asked this girl out in grade 9 who sat in front of me in math class. I asked her out on MSN and she said no she thought of me as a friend. So i told her the next day that it was my friend "Adam" LOL and that i hadn't been at the computer. So fucking smoooth LOLOL. hahahahahahahah the good ol' days | ||
ella_guru
Canada1741 Posts
On June 13 2010 15:43 Kennigit wrote: Key To the VIP is hilarious, but no - it's from years of training and beating busta tendencies out of my brain. Same principles though - i hate night clubs. And your a big fuckin piece of hot fuckin eye candy. fuck | ||
Lexpar
1813 Posts
Lol in grade seven I asked out a girl for the first time over msn... The same day she got a new boyfriend (she was popular). I was all like " well I dunno I was gonna ask you out today but whatever, go out with Chris". That went over like a fucking lead balloon. | ||
ella_guru
Canada1741 Posts
On June 13 2010 15:37 eLiE wrote: my mentor also said uhhhhhmmmm | ||
Spiffeh
United States830 Posts
It doesn't have to be complicated like planning a two week cruise for the two of you. You can be in the grocery store and simply say, "HEY! lets go check-out...", and BOOM, start walking there without looking back. Lead in any opportunity you get and don't be afraid of making a mistake. Make a decision and GO WITH IT. gl | ||
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