i FAIL with the girl at work - Page 8

Epicfailguy

Norway893 Posts

June 14 2010 23:49 GMT

#141

Here's what I'd do (but I'm a noob so who knows)
Just pretend it didn't happen and that you don't think about it at all..just act a bit like you don't give a fuck + act normal.

If she's interested she'll talk to you, if not then thats how its gonna be.
She knows what's up, and she knows its her "turn" if she wants stuff to happen.

jalstar

United States8198 Posts

June 14 2010 23:58 GMT

#142

This guy was not meant to reproduce and so was not given the skills to do so. This is nothing but natural selection.
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Just putting this in context.

Spiffeh

United States830 Posts

June 15 2010 01:24 GMT

#143

yeah you basically handed her your balls in a paper bag.

only way to salvage this is to get off her radar. lay low for a couple months until she forgets you and then strike. And this time, be a man.

Salv

Canada3083 Posts

June 15 2010 03:55 GMT

#144

On June 14 2010 21:50 zenMaster wrote:

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I don't think this is a bad idea, i mean she would be flattered and maybe find you cute for trying?

Maybe. Or she might see this as fucking creepy and back the fuck away entirely. I personally don't use, or think highly of gaming advice. All this shit about ignoring her so she wants you, or being a total dick because chicks like assholes is retarded. I've had girlfriends, and I didn't have to put on a facade to do it. Maybe the price I pay for that is not being able to have sex with whores from clubs every night, but I do just fine, and I don't have to be fake.

My advice would be to back off because you've been coming on strong and it hasn't worked out, she's clearly not in to that. Wait a while and then try a different approach, like simply asking her out, all this sidestepping, beating around the bush bullshit on FaceBook hasn't gotten you any where. Just be yourself.

Smuft

Canada318 Posts

June 15 2010 04:23 GMT

#145

On June 15 2010 08:58 jalstar wrote:
This guy was not meant to reproduce and so was not given the skills to do so. This is nothing but natural selection.
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Just putting this in context.

Thanks for bringing back good memories; that's a pic of me beating Giyom on ongamenet 10 years ago when I was 15 years old.

eLiE

Canada1039 Posts

June 15 2010 04:36 GMT

#146

@ salv I think you have the wrong idea about "gaming advice". keep in mind that girls do the exact same thing, and having some background knowledge about how girls work can only give someone who may be nervous around an intimidating situation the confidence they need.

I think of it like this. "Game" is a neutral tool, which can be used either positively or negatively. Either to pick up the sleeze, or it can be used so someone is able to approach a girl they have a crush on. Really, the main purpose of it all is to give the guy some confidence. It's not all about ignoring girls and making them feel like shit. More things like learning not to kiss their ass and using witty, backhanded compliments, which is a way to build rapport (the connection) without coming off looking needy for social contact or as an asshole. It's about presenting yourself in the best way possible, rather than creating a mask to hide behind.

I think these are good things to learn, because hey, girls are on our minds most of the day, and procreating is pretty important for mankind. Learning the same tricks the girls do will give the shy guy the confidence to approach the girl he likes, and give them the best chance to make a connection that blossoms into a beautiful flower that is love (how beautiful

).

EDIT: I forgot to add my joke about how life isn't like a Michael Cera movie.

EvilTeletubby

Baltimore, USA22258 Posts

June 15 2010 04:41 GMT

#147

On June 15 2010 13:23 Smuft wrote:

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Thanks for bringing back good memories; that's a pic of me beating Giyom on ongamenet 10 years ago when I was 15 years old.

Jesus it's pretty sick to think that was 10 years ago.

Shield

Bulgaria4824 Posts

June 15 2010 05:45 GMT

#148

On June 14 2010 20:13 DeLoAdEr wrote:
show her this thread, lol

This is too desperate imho.

blabber

United States4448 Posts

June 15 2010 06:54 GMT

#149

I had a female friend read the OP and the "bolded part" and she pretty much said what everyone is saying. Don't even mention the facebook thing to her. Also she's just not into you. She had an opportunity to flirt back with you (during facebook chat) and she didn't take it. She's just one of those girls that are really playful and friendly

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