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Kyrgyz Republic1462 Posts
On May 20 2010 04:51 G4T0R4D3 wrote:Show nested quote +On May 20 2010 04:48 Random() wrote: This make no sense, why would you apologize? For what? Well her parents don't want any guys over at her place when they aren't home. I was over at her house while they weren't. I basically broke some of their house rules and disrespected their home. I don't know...
Ah, I see. Well, if you knew they had those rules, you really should apologize. Just don't overdo it, act humble but confident.
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On May 20 2010 05:07 Random() wrote:Show nested quote +On May 20 2010 04:51 G4T0R4D3 wrote:On May 20 2010 04:48 Random() wrote: This make no sense, why would you apologize? For what? Well her parents don't want any guys over at her place when they aren't home. I was over at her house while they weren't. I basically broke some of their house rules and disrespected their home. I don't know... Ah, I see. Well, if you knew they had those rules, you really should apologize. Just don't overdo it, act humble but confident. Ah yeah it's terrible and harsh that something like this had to happen. I don't think parents like to think about their children having sex. You really weren't too much in the wrong though, since if they are reasonable parents they should realize that they should be thankful their daughter has a responsible boyfriend. Parent finding a condom you used >>> parents finding you got their daughter pregnant imo
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You are both the same or near the same age?
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Her parents need to grow up and be a little more mature. Sex is a normal thing for teenagers to do. edit: Her parents should be glad you used a condom and that you love each other.
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seems like hes in university and shes still in high school. so probably
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On May 20 2010 05:24 Mastermind wrote: Her parents need to grow up and be a little more mature. Sex is a normal thing for teenagers to do. but they arent upset about the the condom or even the sex, seems like they made it completely clear that they didnt want people in the house when they weren't home
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On May 20 2010 05:25 HeavOnEarth wrote:Show nested quote +On May 20 2010 05:24 Mastermind wrote: Her parents need to grow up and be a little more mature. Sex is a normal thing for teenagers to do. but they arent upset about the the condom or even the sex, seems like they made it completely clear that they didnt want people in the house when they weren't home oh ok, I guess that is much different then. Still seems a little silly though since he is their daughter's boyfriend.
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On May 20 2010 05:21 Kralic wrote: You are both the same or near the same age?
Yeah, she's 17 and I'm 18.
I think her parents feel betrayed mostly because I made such a good first impression... And yeah, I attend a university and she is in HS still.
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On May 20 2010 05:30 G4T0R4D3 wrote:Show nested quote +On May 20 2010 05:21 Kralic wrote: You are both the same or near the same age? Yeah, she's 17 and I'm 18. I think her parents feel betrayed mostly because I made such a good first impression... And yeah, I attend a university and she is in HS still.
talk to them about it.
it is going to feel awkward but they'll understand.
plus her parents are probably worried because your in college and shes in highschool.
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Make sure you only apologize specifically for having sex in their house. Don't let them think you're sorry for having sex!
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you should ask them to apologize to you or threaten to withhold future babies
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On May 20 2010 05:43 Bill Murray wrote: you should ask them to apologize to you or threaten to withhold future babies
lol, they are really nice though.. that's why i find it so shameful in the first place.
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United States22883 Posts
On May 20 2010 05:02 Bill Murray wrote: stop using condoms problem solved lol This will make everyone feel better.
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Vatican City State1650 Posts
On May 20 2010 05:06 G4T0R4D3 wrote:Show nested quote +On May 20 2010 05:03 CKSide wrote: no letter. straight up confrontation. makes you look like a man. be humble and sincere. you just did the deed with their beloved daughter, better man up real quick. longer you take, longer you look like a dick. My gf wants me to wait til June 4th and talk to them then about it. Things will never be the same but I'm willing to do anything to keep her...
Anything? really?
+ Show Spoiler + Then get a vasectomy lol No condom needed!
Sigh. I don't see the point of these threads.
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On May 20 2010 05:56 Jibba wrote: This will make everyone feel better. in more ways than one obviously
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On May 20 2010 05:57 orgolove wrote:Show nested quote +On May 20 2010 05:06 G4T0R4D3 wrote:On May 20 2010 05:03 CKSide wrote: no letter. straight up confrontation. makes you look like a man. be humble and sincere. you just did the deed with their beloved daughter, better man up real quick. longer you take, longer you look like a dick. My gf wants me to wait til June 4th and talk to them then about it. Things will never be the same but I'm willing to do anything to keep her... Anything? really? + Show Spoiler + Then get a vasectomy lol No condom needed!
Sigh. I don't see the point of these threads.
I'm only 18... Plus, I would like to have kids in the future. Also, I just needed some anonymous people to talk to because this isn't something I can talk to with my parents/sister or even my best friend.
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If my daughter was 17 and I found a condom I think my reaction would be something like, "thank god we got through to them" instead of "zomg my 17 year old daughter has sex when we arent there?! Preposterous!"
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lol this rules are terrible. you did good to brake them. people should learn that sex is normal
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On May 20 2010 04:53 G4T0R4D3 wrote:Show nested quote +On May 20 2010 04:51 J1.au wrote: Why would you leave a used condom lying around? That's just nasty. It wasn't just laying around... I threw it away in a trash can wrapped in toilet paper and I guess it fell out while her mother was emptying her trash can out... I'm not stupid enough to leave it laying on her bed! lol this implies you did it on her bed? that might be the reason? LOL
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Uhhh...it's 2010. These people should be counting their lucky stars that at least you guys are being safe.
And I highly doubt that these people are really more at issue with their rules being broken than with their daughter having sex. You don't place such a stupid rule like 'no boys in the house when we aren't home' if you aren't afraid of your daughter having sex. They clearly don't want it happening and should stop trying to fight the inevitable and just be happy that you guys are responsible.
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