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AyeH
Profile Blog Joined March 2010
United States534 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-07-10 14:35:46
May 19 2010 19:44 GMT
#1


*
Is it in you?
love1another
Profile Blog Joined December 2009
United States1844 Posts
May 19 2010 19:47 GMT
#2
Drama drama drama. People have sex and you used protection! Her parents will get over it so long as you make sure it doesn't happen again under their roof!
"I'm learning more and more that TL isn't the place to go for advice outside of anything you need in college. It's like you guys just make up your own fantasy world shit and post it as if you've done it." - Chill
TommyGG
Profile Blog Joined August 2009
United States142 Posts
May 19 2010 19:47 GMT
#3
just flush it next time
Tensai176
Profile Blog Joined March 2007
Canada2061 Posts
May 19 2010 19:47 GMT
#4
I don't understand what the big deal is on the whole Sex is taboo kinda thing. Assuming you are at the age of around 17-20, do parents honestly think that couples aren't going to have sex? I mean you were responsible cause they found the condom, it's not like they found her pregnant or anything.
We see things they'll never see
The6357
Profile Blog Joined August 2005
United States1268 Posts
May 19 2010 19:48 GMT
#5
lol that's hard...ouch...
2010 worldcup!! corea fighting!!!
Random()
Profile Blog Joined August 2004
Kyrgyz Republic1462 Posts
May 19 2010 19:48 GMT
#6
This make no sense, why would you apologize? For what?
HeavOnEarth
Profile Blog Joined March 2008
United States7087 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-05-19 19:57:07
May 19 2010 19:49 GMT
#7
probably ask the gf first if she even wants you to do it, and she probably knows the best way for you to confront them.(assuming you can call/text or speak to her online in some way)
regardless it shouldn't be too hard if they liked you before this. i would probably just agree that its a good idea, some small apology , and wait till june 4th. maybe throw in something about how condoms are smart/responsible if u want

-Assuming she's still in high school, it's finals week(s), so they probably just dont want you keeping her up all night lol, essentially dont overstress yourself like it seems you're doing. (huge difference between, you never see her again, and oh u can see her after school ends)
On May 20 2010 04:51 G4T0R4D3 wrote:
Show nested quote +
On May 20 2010 04:48 Random() wrote:
This make no sense, why would you apologize? For what?


Well her parents don't want any guys over at her place when they aren't home. I was over at her house while they weren't. I basically broke some of their house rules and disrespected their home. I don't know...


Oh this makes it different then, understandable reaction from their part.
probably go with what Eiserne suggested
"come korea next time... FXO house... 10 korean, 10 korean"
terrOne
Profile Joined September 2009
Italy172 Posts
May 19 2010 19:49 GMT
#8
If you can't do it under theyr roof you can do it in their lawn!
HeLL yeah!
AyeH
Profile Blog Joined March 2010
United States534 Posts
May 19 2010 19:51 GMT
#9
On May 20 2010 04:48 Random() wrote:
This make no sense, why would you apologize? For what?


Well her parents don't want any guys over at her place when they aren't home. I was over at her house while they weren't. I basically broke some of their house rules and disrespected their home. I don't know...
Is it in you?
J1.au
Profile Blog Joined July 2009
Australia3596 Posts
May 19 2010 19:51 GMT
#10
Why would you leave a used condom lying around? That's just nasty.
Nal_rAwr
Profile Blog Joined July 2009
United States2611 Posts
May 19 2010 19:52 GMT
#11
On May 20 2010 04:47 TommyGG wrote:
just flush it next time

i thought you shouldn't do this since it will not flush properly, and will pop back up at a random time?
Nony is Bonjwa
AyeH
Profile Blog Joined March 2010
United States534 Posts
May 19 2010 19:53 GMT
#12
On May 20 2010 04:51 J1.au wrote:
Why would you leave a used condom lying around? That's just nasty.


It wasn't just laying around... I threw it away in a trash can wrapped in toilet paper and I guess it fell out while her mother was emptying her trash can out... I'm not stupid enough to leave it laying on her bed! lol
Is it in you?
Xxio
Profile Blog Joined July 2009
Canada5565 Posts
May 19 2010 19:54 GMT
#13
Don't write a letter, the only way to talk to them is face to face. Anything else makes you look cowardly or insincere imo, face to face shows maturity and good character.
KTY
Eiserne
Profile Blog Joined February 2010
United States340 Posts
May 19 2010 19:55 GMT
#14
On May 20 2010 04:51 G4T0R4D3 wrote:
Show nested quote +
On May 20 2010 04:48 Random() wrote:
This make no sense, why would you apologize? For what?


Well her parents don't want any guys over at her place when they aren't home. I was over at her house while they weren't. I basically broke some of their house rules and disrespected their home. I don't know...

It seems like this is an easy choice, then. Apologize. Make it sincere. You disrespected their home, so make up for it. Express what you're saying here. You already know what to do, you're just scared to do it cause they might react badly. Well, truth is, they already think less of you, any parent will after they find out their girl has been sleeping with a guy. You'll earn a little of that respect back if you act like a man in this situation.
Code
Profile Blog Joined June 2009
Canada634 Posts
May 19 2010 20:00 GMT
#15
I wouldn't write her parents a letter. If you are old enough to have sex then you are old enough to man-up and talk to her parents about it if it really is an issue for them. I mean, they cant expect their daughter to never have sex but you did break one of their house rules.

You certainly should respect their wishes (its their house). Just tell them that, and apologize. If anything they should be relieved that you guys are having safe sex. I think if you talk to them about it like a mature adult they wont react so negatively about it and wont ban you from seeing each other. It might seem awkward to confront them but keep in mind it's probably just as awkward for them lol

Next time though, clean up after you get down
HeavOnEarth
Profile Blog Joined March 2008
United States7087 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-05-19 20:13:45
May 19 2010 20:01 GMT
#16
whatever you do, dont make excuses for why you were in their house uninvited.
Forrr example, Oh i was raised differently, people come into my house all the time, so i ddidnt know it was that big of a deal ( BAD)
i would say something like:
Im very sorry i disrespected you and went behind your back like this, I want you to know i love your daughter very much and you have done a great job of raising her, and this is not her fault in anyway.
I hope you can forgive my actions and something about agreeing not to see their daughter until june 4th.

First id probably knock and be like, Do you mind if we have a talk about what happened.. etc.
Basically, Just accept whatever you've done and take responsibility. You could offer something to her parents as a favor , but i cant really think of anything relevant to the situation
"come korea next time... FXO house... 10 korean, 10 korean"
Bill Murray
Profile Blog Joined October 2009
United States9292 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-05-19 20:02:40
May 19 2010 20:02 GMT
#17
stop using condoms
problem solved
lol
University of Kentucky Basketball #1
CKSide
Profile Blog Joined March 2010
United States223 Posts
May 19 2010 20:03 GMT
#18
no letter. straight up confrontation. makes you look like a man.
be humble and sincere. you just did the deed with their beloved daughter, better man up real quick.
longer you take, longer you look like a dick.
Check
AyeH
Profile Blog Joined March 2010
United States534 Posts
May 19 2010 20:06 GMT
#19
On May 20 2010 05:03 CKSide wrote:
no letter. straight up confrontation. makes you look like a man.
be humble and sincere. you just did the deed with their beloved daughter, better man up real quick.
longer you take, longer you look like a dick.


My gf wants me to wait til June 4th and talk to them then about it. Things will never be the same but I'm willing to do anything to keep her...
Is it in you?
HeavOnEarth
Profile Blog Joined March 2008
United States7087 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-05-19 20:08:33
May 19 2010 20:07 GMT
#20
Ehh. i think the sooner you do it the better, but probably just listen to your gf.
(assuming you already tried to convince her otherwise)
"come korea next time... FXO house... 10 korean, 10 korean"
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