EPTDating: How's your luck? - Page 662
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We are extremely close to shutting down this thread for the same reasons the PUA thread was shut down. While some of the time this thread contains actual discussion with people asking help and people giving nice advice, it often gets derailed by rubbish that should not be here. The moderation team will be trying to steer this thread in a different direction from now on. Posts of the following nature are banned: 1) ANYTHING regarding PUA. If your post contains the words 'alpha' or 'beta' or anything of that sort please don't hit post. 2) Stupid brags. You can tell us about your nice success stories with someone, but posts such as 'lol 50 Tinder matches' are a no-no. 3) Any misogynistic bullshit, including discussion about rape culture. 4) One night stands and random sex. These are basically brags that invariably devolve into gender role discussions and misogynistic comments. Last chance, guys. This thread is for dating advice and sharing dating stories. While gender roles, sociocultural norms, and our biological imperative to reproduce are all tangentially related, these subjects are not the main purpose of the thread. Please AVOID these discussions. If you want to discuss them at length, go to PMs or start a blog. If you disagree with someone's ideologies, state that you disagree with them and why they won't work from a dating standpoint and move on. We will not tolerate any lengthy derailments that aren't directly about dating. | ||
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Jerubaal
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[UoN]Sentinel
United States11320 Posts
On July 22 2015 04:54 Jerubaal wrote: Somewhat off topic but related: Anyone else have trouble peeing in public? Yeah, I get put on a list for the rest of my life if I try, so I have a bit of trouble working up the courage to do it. | ||
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Snotling
Germany885 Posts
On July 22 2015 04:54 Jerubaal wrote: Somewhat off topic but related: Anyone else have trouble peeing in public? Im a dirty pig, so no. Raised by hippies, there is pretty much nothign im ashamed off :D | ||
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farvacola
United States18869 Posts
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Jerubaal
United States7684 Posts
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[UoN]Sentinel
United States11320 Posts
On July 22 2015 05:12 Jerubaal wrote: By "in public", I mean in a restroom. I know you know what I mean, you turds. That's not public! Everytime I try to strike up a conversation in there or play a friendly game of Ghostbusters, people look at me like I curbstomped their dog or something. | ||
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IgnE
United States7684 Posts
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farvacola
United States18869 Posts
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[UoN]Sentinel
United States11320 Posts
On July 22 2015 05:28 farvacola wrote: To be honest, I'm surprised I haven't.Yeah, are you saying that you get beat up in the bathroom a lot? That might reflect on you. | ||
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bloodwhore~
1010 Posts
A while back in this thread I asked out a girl who had a bf got rejected because she had a bf, she dumps said bf day after and lets me know. Anyway, she is now dating my friend. My respect and trust for him dropped a lot. He was one of the people who pushed me the most to ask her out. I wouldn't mind them dating at all, but that he didn't even ask me if I was okay with it tells me he doesn't care at all what I think or feel. | ||
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[UoN]Sentinel
United States11320 Posts
On July 22 2015 05:43 bloodwhore~ wrote: Some other news in regards to dating. A while back in this thread I asked out a girl who had a bf got rejected because she had a bf, she dumps said bf day after and lets me know. Anyway, she is now dating my friend. My respect and trust for him dropped a lot. He was one of the people who pushed me the most to ask her out. I wouldn't mind them dating at all, but that he didn't even ask me if I was okay with it tells me he doesn't care at all what I think or feel. That's like the textbook violation of the bro code wtf Honestly you should go and tell him your thoughts on the matter. Maybe he was pushing you to go for it because he wanted her too, but who knows. Either way, talk to him. | ||
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Jerubaal
United States7684 Posts
On July 22 2015 05:22 [UoN]Sentinel wrote: That's not public! Everytime I try to strike up a conversation in there or play a friendly game of Ghostbusters, people look at me like I curbstomped their dog or something. DON'T CROSS THE STREAMS! | ||
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[UoN]Sentinel
United States11320 Posts
Exactly. Usually I try to aim over their shoulder. | ||
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LemOn
United Kingdom8629 Posts
On July 21 2015 22:27 bloodwhore~ wrote: If that's what you think, telling me to "just have sex with her" is just awful advice. The problem in the first place is that I can't. I can't just bruteforce a boner. The solution would be to go no fap and stop watching a porn to get ride of the extreme standards I have. If you really want to go the brute force of body over mind, just focus on maxing testosterone/dht - no porn. Fappings perfectly fine, practicing stopping right before you cum's useful as well for kegel muscles/self control. Stop 3-4 days before you see her tho - large compound exercises and sprints at the gym - Plenty of sleep - high cholesterol diet, cutting pasta/bread/sugars - proper hydration - cold showers - no alcohol one way to brute force it -you'll be naturally a lot more horny and have more energy | ||
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LemOn
United Kingdom8629 Posts
On July 22 2015 04:54 Jerubaal wrote: Somewhat off topic but related: Anyone else have trouble peeing in public? I pee in public on dates. I'm like "Oh NOWAY So lucky - look, I found a toilet right when I need it!" and tell her to keep walking that I'll catch up. And then pee on a tree when she can't see me :D | ||
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bloodwhore~
1010 Posts
On July 22 2015 05:48 [UoN]Sentinel wrote: That's like the textbook violation of the bro code wtf Honestly you should go and tell him your thoughts on the matter. Maybe he was pushing you to go for it because he wanted her too, but who knows. Either way, talk to him. Yeah I agree. I won't bother telling him that he dun goofd and I lost some of my respect and trust for him though, he has made his choice. Things will just get more awkward and it will just look like I care that they're together and that I want to be with her. | ||
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JoeCool
Germany2520 Posts
On July 22 2015 04:54 Jerubaal wrote: Somewhat off topic but related: Anyone else have trouble peeing in public? Not anymore... had that couple of years ago. But I guess going to military, since there is absoluteley no privacy, helps. | ||
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Jerubaal
United States7684 Posts
On July 22 2015 07:06 bloodwhore~ wrote: Yeah I agree. I won't bother telling him that he dun goofd and I lost some of my respect and trust for him though, he has made his choice. Things will just get more awkward and it will just look like I care that they're together and that I want to be with her. Passive aggression is always best. | ||
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FanaticCZ
Czech Republic287 Posts
not sure where to start but here goes: A year ago I posted into this topic while i was struggling to get one girl. In the end a month after that we got together and we are still happily together as well as living together for 7 months already. Shes definitely the nicest girl Ive ever met and Im really happy with her. And it seems to be the same for her. Everything about her is amazing. Shes a great human being, shes caring and selfless as well as beautiful and sex is also really good. The thing is...while the sex is good...its not as good as the sex i used to have with my ex GF with whom i broke up two years ago. And i cant get that thought out of my head. When we sleep together its okay, its fun, theres a lot of emotion in it but she simply lacks that energy, passion and sexiness my ex-gf had in bed. I could do everything with her and she enjoyed it and wanted to do it every time and from the very first sex weve had i knew exactly how to make her reach orgasm multiple times. And the fact that she has mentioned that shed love to have sex with me again many times isnt really helping me get rid of these thoughts. But I would never consider cheating on my current GF. With my current girlfriend we have sex a lot less, its much harder to get her excited and she rarely reaches orgasm more than once. Im sure its gonna keep improving and once she also regains confidence in her body (cuz shes been struggling with a little weight gain lately) its probably gonna get a lot better overall. But Id like to hear your thoughts on this because im sure im not the only one thinking back to better sex partners. What did u guys do if this ever happened to you? Cheers  | ||
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Yoz
Australia357 Posts
On July 22 2015 08:35 FanaticCZ wrote: Im sure its gonna keep improving and once she also regains confidence in her body (cuz shes been struggling with a little weight gain lately) its probably gonna get a lot better overall. But Id like to hear your thoughts on this because im sure im not the only one thinking back to better sex partners. What did u guys do if this ever happened to you? Well we know the answer is definitely not Ashley Madison right now =P | ||
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