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Honestly, just hang out with people more, put yourself in more situations where you're around people like your family.
I fap all the time(once a day) but i can go for months if i dont feel alone. However, i wouldnt feel too bad about it, you SHOULD get worn out if it's too much(for me thats twice a day, or if i go once a day for month straight. Need a break, when i was younger i didnt) Also, the lack of interest in girls after fapping so much can and will minutely change your personality, which is a major point imo for not doing it too much.
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On August 01 2011 14:12 SockMonkey wrote:Show nested quote +On August 01 2011 14:01 HeavOnEarth wrote:On August 01 2011 13:51 n.DieJokes wrote:On August 01 2011 13:35 arbitrageur wrote:On August 01 2011 13:26 n.DieJokes wrote: Increase the length of your fap sessions, like go for a fucking hour. What we want to increase is your spe or strokes per ejaculation. If your spe is really high, you'll literally burn out your own penis via friction drastically reducing your ability to touch yourself! Making his dick sore is not a good solution to a completely brain-based addiction. He can focus on the mental aspects of his addictions once he's free from the physical distractions. It's like a jerkoff detox more likely to just increase his stamina and make it worse :O I think die jokes is onto something here! I've heard this before actually and I'm in full support of fapping for an hour. Sides when he follows up on the first page of advice to get a girlfriend. Said girlfriend is going to appppppprrrrreeeeciiiiaaaaa*moan*tttttttttttttttteeeeee it.
Fapping for an hour is the most satisfying fap, but then you HAVE to shower, you gross kid
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If you live at home, tell your parents openly about your addiction. They will hold you accountable. If you live at a flat, that may be a bit more harder to enforce because your flatmates are unlikely to give a shit about how much you masturbate.
Seriously, the quickest way to end an addiction is to make sure everyone knows about it. That way you have the added incentive to stop due to the embarrassment. If you feel like it's too embarrassing to tell people about, then you value your reputation more than your need to be cured.
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I think you may have an addiction addiction. You feel compelled to consider anything you do regularly that you've been given the impression is "unacceptable" is something you're addicted to.
Calling things an addiction when they aren't is a crutch, it lets you not feel so bad about things you think you shouldn't do so much. You can't control an addiction, after all, so it's not your fault.
The proper solution, then, is to get to the root cause. Why do you feel there's something wrong with your behavior? Is the behavior actually causing you any problems? If not, there's no actual need for concern. If it is, those problems it causes should be your focus for backing off from the behavior.
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On August 01 2011 22:30 Discretionary Duck wrote: If you live at home, tell your parents openly about your addiction. They will hold you accountable. If you live at a flat, that may be a bit more harder to enforce because your flatmates are unlikely to give a shit about how much you masturbate.
Seriously, the quickest way to end an addiction is to make sure everyone knows about it. That way you have the added incentive to stop due to the embarrassment. If you feel like it's too embarrassing to tell people about, then you value your reputation more than your need to be cured.
oh god..
awkward and not necessary
people DO NOT want to hear about his masturbation addiction, which isn't a serious thing anyways.
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On August 01 2011 12:12 BLinD-RawR wrote: is this trolling,are you serious?
OK,look at shit,you can't fap at shit.
Challenge accepted..
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On August 02 2011 02:37 Torenhire wrote:Show nested quote +On August 01 2011 12:12 BLinD-RawR wrote: is this trolling,are you serious?
OK,look at shit,you can't fap at shit. Challenge accepted..
Tread carefully, friend. This is how scat fetishes are formed.
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I fap like 3 times a day and i dont see a problem in it... disgusting??? wtf man its pretty natural. dont use any discusting- or any usual-porn at all this gonna make you enjoy it much more, and if you enjoy it again you will see no need in changing it holy moly... an hour... i can do it three times in 2 hours but a hour in a row seems a bid painfull to me
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maybe the OP just wanted to boast about his libido?
Though there are better ways to achieve that I suppose
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why would you share this on the starcraft related website? o.O
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Everytime you feel the urges, rub your hands with Jalapenos, or any other hot pepper/seasoning of choice. This will curb the problem very quickly.
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Every time you think of watching porn and fab, just think of other things you could do. A lot of times you masturbate is because you're bored and alone. Try to avoid both by doing something else more productive.. work out or something. I'm sure if you work out as often you masturbate, in 6 months you will get laid easily.
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haha i agree tell your mom haha
just find other shit to do. shit that doesnt involve sitting inside by yourself at the computer.
i can wank 5 times a day when im being lazy and not doing anything
but when i have a job and meet up with people and have a "good" (busy) day then i might not wank for a week
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On August 01 2011 22:25 Bippzy wrote: Honestly, just hang out with people more, put yourself in more situations where you're around people like your family.
I fap all the time(once a day) but i can go for months if i dont feel alone. However, i wouldnt feel too bad about it, you SHOULD get worn out if it's too much(for me thats twice a day, or if i go once a day for month straight. Need a break, when i was younger i didnt) Also, the lack of interest in girls after fapping so much can and will minutely change your personality, which is a major point imo for not doing it too much.
Lol I've noticed that personality shift as well. Whenever I fap I tend to not give a fluck about women any more and because I started at like 12 doing it habitually, sex is super desensitized unless I save it for a couple days. It might be bi-polar, but I felt like when I was growing up every time I finished I felt like I was in a different mood, but it was probably all in my head xD Like I was going through "cycles" or something...
If you want to cut back on it you need to involve yourself in other things, or go spend the night at a friends or something. If you still need to jerk off at their house, then well GG lol. For a while I got used to doing it and falling asleep afterwords so I couldn't ever fall asleep without doing it so I would do it even when at other people's places xD
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Thanks for all the replies.
I created this this thread after mlg which was pretty late. But at the next day I only briefly checked the general forum and was glad I didnt see any of my post because I felt rather emberassed about this op.
However after reading all your repliesI am very glad I did search for it. Even though many think I am a troll (especially in the beginning), which is definitely not true I am glad for their posts because they lightned my mood and some even made me smile + Show Spoiler +[You can be a male prostitute. You'll earn more than other male prostitutes because you can do it many times a day. OK,look at shit,you can't fap at shit.
I knew that many people would reply"get a gf". But firstly that's no easy task for me (not exactly because I look horrible but because I think my personality is strange, unactive, lazy).
This leads to the 2nd problem "If you don't want it, stop doing it" replys. If I just could, I would, but as I can't even though I tried it loweres my self esteem, as I seemingly can't control myself.
I am very grateful for all the serious replies. It's interesting and new for me that Sport will help fighting my addicition. But I will now work at this. Even though some things appear obivous like "be more under people" I am glad people said it, because I am often alone, and I should at least try some to get with people.
In the end I am happy I made this thread and even though I was to emberassed to lead the discussion, I think I learned a lot.
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You could always turn that addiction into a charming benefit. Donate at your sperm bank today!
Sorry you can't get over getting off. Don't be embarrassed, we all have problems. Lots of them. For example I'm horribly (And I mean HORRIBLY) addicted to smoking. Don't feel alone. Even if compulsory masturbation is regarded as a bit of a joke by some people + Show Spoiler + I highly support the idea of you telling a psychiatrist or the one you're currently seeing. Hell you might even get some xanax to help you relax.
And trust me on this one, you can try all day but a few milligrams of xanax you're never getting that thing hard.
+ Show Spoiler +Learned from a very, very embarrassing evening.
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Obvious troll is obvious. No response for 4 days?
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On August 02 2011 03:26 Horuku wrote:Show nested quote +On August 01 2011 22:25 Bippzy wrote: Honestly, just hang out with people more, put yourself in more situations where you're around people like your family.
I fap all the time(once a day) but i can go for months if i dont feel alone. However, i wouldnt feel too bad about it, you SHOULD get worn out if it's too much(for me thats twice a day, or if i go once a day for month straight. Need a break, when i was younger i didnt) Also, the lack of interest in girls after fapping so much can and will minutely change your personality, which is a major point imo for not doing it too much. Lol I've noticed that personality shift as well. Whenever I fap I tend to not give a fluck about women any more and because I started at like 12 doing it habitually, sex is super desensitized unless I save it for a couple days. It might be bi-polar, but I felt like when I was growing up every time I finished I felt like I was in a different mood, but it was probably all in my head xD Like I was going through "cycles" or something... If you want to cut back on it you need to involve yourself in other things, or go spend the night at a friends or something. If you still need to jerk off at their house, then well GG lol. For a while I got used to doing it and falling asleep afterwords so I couldn't ever fall asleep without doing it so I would do it even when at other people's places xD
"OMG THIS IS THE BEST PRONZ EVAR!!!" *done fapping* "Eww, wtf am I watching"
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On August 05 2011 07:02 Wrath 2.1 wrote:Thanks for all the replies. + Show Spoiler [An additional and lengthy post] +I created this this thread after mlg which was pretty late. But at the next day I only briefly checked the general forum and was glad I didnt see any of my post because I felt rather emberassed about this op. However after reading all your repliesI am very glad I did search for it. Even though many think I am a troll (especially in the beginning), which is definitely not true I am glad for their posts because they lightned my mood and some even made me smile + Show Spoiler +[You can be a male prostitute. You'll earn more than other male prostitutes because you can do it many times a day. OK,look at shit,you can't fap at shit. I knew that many people would reply"get a gf". But firstly that's no easy task for me (not exactly because I look horrible but because I think my personality is strange, unactive, lazy). This leads to the 2nd problem "If you don't want it, stop doing it" replys. If I just could, I would, but as I can't even though I tried it loweres my self esteem, as I seemingly can't control myself. I am very grateful for all the serious replies. It's interesting and new for me that Sport will help fighting my addicition. But I will now work at this. Even though some things appear obivous like "be more under people" I am glad people said it, because I am often alone, and I should at least try some to get with people. In the end I am happy I made this thread and even though I was to emberassed to lead the discussion, I think I learned a lot.
On August 05 2011 07:37 DoomsVille wrote: Obvious troll is obvious. No response for 4 days?
Uh yeah, about reading the thread.. Not to be hostile or anything but you should try it.
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