EPTmasturbation addiction - Page 3
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Chairman Ray
United States11903 Posts
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n.DieJokes
United States3443 Posts
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Divergence
Canada363 Posts
On August 01 2011 12:11 dhe95 wrote: Either find a girl so you don't need to masturbate, or play some more SC2 so your mind isn't on masturbating. TL has some great guides for whichever choice you go for either http://www.teamliquid.net/forum/viewmessage.php?topic_id=95315 or http://wiki.teamliquid.net/starcraft2/Main_Page No offence dude, but it's pretty damn naive to think that getting a girlfriend will solve his problem (assuming he is even capable of getting one). Chances are even if he gets a girlfriend she won't be there 24/7 to satisfy his "needs", and based on the amount of masturbation he does his girlfriend will probably be worse at jacking him off than he is at jacking himself off(unless she is a pornstar). I'm sorry to hear this OP. That's quite the beat. | ||
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jlim
Spain943 Posts
On August 01 2011 13:26 n.DieJokes wrote: Increase the length of your fap sessions, like go for a fucking hour. What we want to increase is your spe or strokes per ejaculation. If your spe is really high, you'll literally burn out your own penis via friction drastically reducing your ability to touch yourself! makes complete sense (no sarcasm intended) | ||
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arbitrageur
Australia1202 Posts
On August 01 2011 13:26 n.DieJokes wrote: Increase the length of your fap sessions, like go for a fucking hour. What we want to increase is your spe or strokes per ejaculation. If your spe is really high, you'll literally burn out your own penis via friction drastically reducing your ability to touch yourself! Making his dick sore is not a good solution to a completely brain-based addiction. | ||
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n.DieJokes
United States3443 Posts
On August 01 2011 13:35 arbitrageur wrote: Making his dick sore is not a good solution to a completely brain-based addiction. He can focus on the mental aspects of his addictions once he's free from the physical distractions. It's like a jerkoff detox | ||
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ToDieFoR
United States52 Posts
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HeavOnEarth
United States7087 Posts
On August 01 2011 13:51 n.DieJokes wrote: He can focus on the mental aspects of his addictions once he's free from the physical distractions. It's like a jerkoff detox more likely to just increase his stamina and make it worse :O | ||
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SockMonkey
United Kingdom88 Posts
On August 01 2011 14:01 HeavOnEarth wrote: more likely to just increase his stamina and make it worse :O I think die jokes is onto something here! I've heard this before actually and I'm in full support of fapping for an hour. Sides when he follows up on the first page of advice to get a girlfriend. Said girlfriend is going to appppppprrrrreeeeciiiiaaaaa*moan*tttttttttttttttteeeeee it. | ||
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L_Master
United States8017 Posts
As far as OP is concerned: First off, masturbation in and of itself is a common practice, and its the norm for males to masturbate an average of once a day or more. Now if your masturbating 4,5,6+ times a day then yes, perhaps there is something of an addiction. To be honest, I don't understand why this topic makes people uncomfortable, but so many tiptoe around it like its major taboo and very wrong/bad, which just makes no sense As far as the addiction goes some things certainly help. Exercise is one, especially aerobic exercise. Running and the like have a noticeable lowering effect on sex drive, not to mention its one more thing your out doing that keeps you from worrying about masturbation. Really the big key for addictions or compulsions is to find a value that you can set as paramount. For instance, I've been training hard running all summer, and needed to lose my excess weight to get faster. I had being as fast as possible as being my main goal and with that firmly in place the desire to overeat or binge hard like normal took care of itself. You must make the decision to live by your principles and guiding ideas rather than be controlled by your impulses and feelings. I think its also good to have replacement behavior for when you start considering masturbation. When I was working on my weight, I decided that any time I started getting an impulse to eat too much or binge I would go do 5 pushups and 2 or 3 strides outside. Then coming back in I was refocused on fitness and in a much better mental state to deal with strong temptations. Its when you sit there thinking about how much you want to do activity X that it becomes harder to resist. Just go do something, anything, as soon as you start feeling the urge to masturbate. | ||
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Deleted User 3420
24492 Posts
level of maturity is real low in this thread, level of stupidity is real high =[ edit: after reading it, it got better after the first page | ||
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FreshNoThyme
United States356 Posts
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Ulfsark
United States958 Posts
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obesechicken13
United States10467 Posts
On August 01 2011 13:01 cz wrote: thats my point - its there, he said it wasn't. It's also been an hour and he hasn't responded: lol to that guy above who called people out for being so "negative" when it's a clear troll post oops misread :x | ||
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Cr4zyH0r5e
Peru1308 Posts
Also, watch a porn movie, and actually watch the entire thing without masturbating. You don't really notice when you masturbate, but it's incredibly boring and the acting is crap. Hopefully it will reinforce a psychological response that porn is bad. Good luck. Edit: To the people crying troll. Whether this is a troll or not, does it matter? OK So the guy just wasted 2 min of my life. and maybe 2 min. of yours. He must feel so accomplished that he managed to take 2 entire minutes! It costs nothing to type a response and I'm bored/interested enough in this to actually try to help. That's what we do in the blog section anyway. So who cares? | ||
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zeOllie
Australia486 Posts
I would just NOT FAP when I feel like it. Do something else. If it's from the pleasure you get (like the pleasure from drugs) you have to find something else as pleasurable but not lethal. Addiction is all in the brain. With 100% willpower, you can stop it easily. | ||
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ryan1894
Australia264 Posts
I'm sure you'll eventually stop feeling horny lol. | ||
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GoDLy MD
United Kingdom258 Posts
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Trizz
Netherlands1320 Posts
Oh man such a stupid reply, I mean, you can't be serious with that answer right? | ||
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Stratos_speAr
United States6959 Posts
LOL, this is such a fail. I would just NOT FAP when I feel like it. Do something else. If it's from the pleasure you get (like the pleasure from drugs) you have to find something else as pleasurable but not lethal. Addiction is all in the brain. With 100% willpower, you can stop it easily. It blows my mind that some people really think that anyone can just kick addiction simply by willing it so. Unfortunately that's not how everyone's brain works. | ||
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