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Hello TL.
As the topic title already implies I am addicted to masturbation. On the web I did not find any useful informations on how to react to this. I am not sure what could help. Addictions are hard to deal with, I think everyone who once was addicted to something will agree with that.
I don't really want to talk about how often I masturbate because this topic is already emberassing enough. I just don't know any other place to ask, irl I won't aks anyone.. and online I don't know any decent place.
I was once at a phyoterapist but that was due to my gaming addiction, but it didnt really help either.
I don't doubt that my masturbation addiction is the only thing "going wrong" in my life, but it's a thing I want to change. It's no enjoyment for me at all, it's boring and disgusting.
I really appreciate any kind of tips
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this sounds more like a blessing then a curse.
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either this is a terrible joke, or, learn some self restraint.
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Buy a can of pepper spray, and if you feel the temptation spray your hands with it
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You simply have only two options here I'm sorry to inform.
A) Get a girlfriend.
B) Chop off both arms.
So much for multiple choice.
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Make shitty troll threads on TL..
Oh wait you've already done that...yeah idk
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HMM...ehh..Okay...Hmm..Uhh..Okay...hm... Try reformatting your computer and installing an anti-porn addon on firefox, as there are some...I don't know what else to say...I think the best thing you could do, no offense, is get a girlfriend, though.
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Glue sandpaper to the palms of your hands.
You're welcome
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umm get icy hot and some sandpaper
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Not sure if trolling...
Are you 15? its pretty common for 15 year olds.
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I think esports is my antifap, I haven't done it all weekend with MLG and GSL finals.
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There are some spaces on the internet that offer help. Some kind of medical forum or even a board, but all of that is useless if you dont have the power of will, to change something.
There is no magic trick, there is no1 to take your burden, it is you thing, so get the f**** up and do something about it.
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On August 01 2011 12:10 SentinelSC2 wrote:
umm get icy hot and some sandpaper
Icy hot feels good actually
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Just... why... Don't fap if you don't feel like it? Some useful tips where already posted but I'd suggest a chastity belt.
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Please someone deal with the trolls above. Thx.
-Sport. More sport. Easiest way to get rid of sexual energy. Just something where you can power youself out.
-Social life. Part of that addiction is (usually) not having a girl to do the real thing with. Getting a solid social foundation is key there. Talk to random people. Go out if you're invite. Invite random people to just do stuff.
-More sport.
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User was warned for this post
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Honestly, any addiction can be overcome with 100% committing to an idea in your mind, and following through with it. Basically, pick something you can do in place of masturbation and every time you feel a craving for it, do your replacement activity instead, usually something tiring works best.
Try running, doing calisthenics or weight lifting. After you're done you'll most likely be too tired to masturbate and over time you'll just not consider it. Aim for one week, then one month, then just keep going.
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is this trolling,are you serious?
OK,look at shit,you can't fap at shit.
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How often do you masturbate per day? Per week? I need to know this so I can diagnose the intensity of your situation.
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Alright heres what to do:
1. Get a old pair of gloves
2. attach sand paper to both gloves
3.????
4.profit
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anti-depressants will kill your ability to get an erection. as you imply, your life isn't going to smoothest. going on celexa (which I take for depression) could be a win-win for you
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Feels like a troll post:
1) Can't find anything on web about "masturbation addiction". No way.
2) Went to physiotherapist for gaming addiction (did they stretch the addiction out of you?)
3) Doesn't want to talk about frequency at all
4) Created in general, not a blog
trolling
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Not sure if troll or not but I'll bite.
1st of all: how old are you?
2nd. Is masturbation just cure for your boredom or lazyness? If so, find something to do,
Last of all, you just need some good old fashioned discipline. If you REALLY can't do it yourself, call up friends and ask them out for a beer or something. Bottom line is, be around someone, so you can't spank the monkey.
If you're forced to be alone, do something physically tiring. Go run 10 miles, swim 100 pool lengths, clear the entire house. DO SOMETHING.
If you're young still (like below say 18/19) the amount youre masturbating is perfectly fine. If your body needs to ejaculate that often, then do it. It's healthy for you.
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Huh.
How much do you masturbate exactly? If you'd call it an "addiction"...
Moderation in all things, etc. Masturbating is normal, doing it 5 times a day is not.
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On August 01 2011 12:07 Wrath 2.1 wrote:
I don't really want to talk about how often I masturbate because this topic is already emberassing enough. I just don't know any other place to ask, irl I won't aks anyone.. and online I don't know any decent place.
Teamliquid is actually a very mature place. A lot of people masturbate and I've seen a relatively large amount of people on here admit it too. You have nothing to fear.
Referring to your question, you should find something else that satisfies you more than orgasms and isn't frowned upon by society, or better yet, productive or even profitable.
I found music as an interest when I realized I was spending too much time on the computer, and the pleasure of playing along with a band and/or playing to the terran themes on my clarinet outweighed that of staring at a screen all day. I cured an addiction with an addiction, yes, but the latter was way more awesome, productive, and accepted.
I should also mention that after a few months of that I stopped playing music as much, but didn't do computer that much either. It kinda balanced me.
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There is an addiction to masturbation. A chronic-masturbator is not common, but it has been seen before.
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Yeah, like most posters above, I want to insert the Fry meme from Futurama.
However, I will concur with the above opinion that you need a replacement activity, and or a cold shower. Physical activity is the best. Run and or lift weights. Do hand stands! Try not to pass out.
Edit: Finding a partner to have sex with helped me the most. Solo runs stopped happening as much. You do need release either way. You might start having dreams where a clean up on Aisle 5 is needed.
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LOLOLOLOL @ all the "find a girl so there's no need to masturbate" replies.
Oh you kids, I envy your naivety.
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Please don't ask for help on serious personal issues on TL. As you can see a vast majority of the people that replied here has no respect or understanding of the subject. They are simply immature kids that wants to have a laugh pr proove how cool they are. It hurts my head to read such uneducated disrespectful comments.
As for the replies that are indeed good. I would also concur that working out atleast every other day will help you get your thoughts away from this and release som sexual energy. Part of the problem of masturbation addiction is that it feeds itself. If you hold off for a day or two you will lose some of the urge. Couple that with physical training and you can live a perfectly healthy life in which your sexual desire doesn't hurt you in other aspects of your life.
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On August 01 2011 12:24 Ravencruiser wrote:
LOLOLOLOL @ all the "find a girl so there's no need to masturbate" replies.
Oh you kids, I envy your naivety.
Naive what? The world does change when you stop finding girls who say they aren't sexual active because they don't think they need to move.
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Get a 40 hour a week job. You will be able to masturbate maybe once, but after that all your energy should be gone. This is pretty much like when druggies or people with behavior disorders go to boot camps to be rehabilitated, except it is paid.
If you are going through puberty, then don't worry because everyone starts fapping like crazy for a few months.
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On August 01 2011 12:27 Stayenalive wrote:Show nested quote +On August 01 2011 12:24 Ravencruiser wrote:
LOLOLOLOL @ all the "find a girl so there's no need to masturbate" replies.
Oh you kids, I envy your naivety. Naive what? The world does change when you stop finding girls who say they aren't sexual active because they don't think they need to move.
Girlfriends make people fap even more.. it isn't like someone can have nonstop sex to "cure" masturbation when they still live with their parents.
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hmm...
The term addiction to masturbation has been deliberately misused by certain Christians for quite some time to discourage any type or amount of masturbation, so unfortunately you'll need to man up and be more specific in what you mean when you say "I'm addicted to masturbation". Anyway your best bet is to figure out what triggers your masturbation and try and remove that from your life, and to access whether you can masturbate at all with out it leading to addiction.
If this isn't a troll then good luck. ^^
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Select a song to be your boner kill. A song that you hate so much that every time you hear it, it replaces thoughts of hot sex and giant tits with images of punching babies and kicking kittens. Find the song on youtube, favorite it, and load it whenever you feel the urge and DO NOT close it/ mute it. It's going to take some effort to control that blood flow.
For me the easy chose was the song Photograph by Nickleback.
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On August 01 2011 12:24 Ravencruiser wrote:
LOLOLOLOL @ all the "find a girl so there's no need to masturbate" replies.
Oh you kids, I envy your naivety.
Indeed.
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thats my point - its there, he said it wasn't. It's also been an hour and he hasn't responded: lol to that guy above who called people out for being so "negative" when it's a clear troll post
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You can be a male prostitute. You'll earn more than other male prostitutes because you can do it many times a day.
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Increase the length of your fap sessions, like go for a fucking hour. What we want to increase is your spe or strokes per ejaculation. If your spe is really high, you'll literally burn out your own penis via friction drastically reducing your ability to touch yourself!
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No offence dude, but it's pretty damn naive to think that getting a girlfriend will solve his problem (assuming he is even capable of getting one). Chances are even if he gets a girlfriend she won't be there 24/7 to satisfy his "needs", and based on the amount of masturbation he does his girlfriend will probably be worse at jacking him off than he is at jacking himself off(unless she is a pornstar).
I'm sorry to hear this OP. That's quite the beat.
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On August 01 2011 13:26 n.DieJokes wrote:
Increase the length of your fap sessions, like go for a fucking hour. What we want to increase is your spe or strokes per ejaculation. If your spe is really high, you'll literally burn out your own penis via friction drastically reducing your ability to touch yourself!
makes complete sense (no sarcasm intended)
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On August 01 2011 13:26 n.DieJokes wrote:
Increase the length of your fap sessions, like go for a fucking hour. What we want to increase is your spe or strokes per ejaculation. If your spe is really high, you'll literally burn out your own penis via friction drastically reducing your ability to touch yourself!
Making his dick sore is not a good solution to a completely brain-based addiction.
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On August 01 2011 13:35 arbitrageur wrote:Show nested quote +On August 01 2011 13:26 n.DieJokes wrote:
Increase the length of your fap sessions, like go for a fucking hour. What we want to increase is your spe or strokes per ejaculation. If your spe is really high, you'll literally burn out your own penis via friction drastically reducing your ability to touch yourself! Making his dick sore is not a good solution to a completely brain-based addiction.
He can focus on the mental aspects of his addictions once he's free from the physical distractions. It's like a jerkoff detox
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Find a friend and try to do it with him.
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On August 01 2011 13:51 n.DieJokes wrote:Show nested quote +On August 01 2011 13:35 arbitrageur wrote:On August 01 2011 13:26 n.DieJokes wrote:
Increase the length of your fap sessions, like go for a fucking hour. What we want to increase is your spe or strokes per ejaculation. If your spe is really high, you'll literally burn out your own penis via friction drastically reducing your ability to touch yourself! Making his dick sore is not a good solution to a completely brain-based addiction. He can focus on the mental aspects of his addictions once he's free from the physical distractions. It's like a jerkoff detox
more likely to just increase his stamina and make it worse :O
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On August 01 2011 14:01 HeavOnEarth wrote:Show nested quote +On August 01 2011 13:51 n.DieJokes wrote:On August 01 2011 13:35 arbitrageur wrote:On August 01 2011 13:26 n.DieJokes wrote:
Increase the length of your fap sessions, like go for a fucking hour. What we want to increase is your spe or strokes per ejaculation. If your spe is really high, you'll literally burn out your own penis via friction drastically reducing your ability to touch yourself! Making his dick sore is not a good solution to a completely brain-based addiction. He can focus on the mental aspects of his addictions once he's free from the physical distractions. It's like a jerkoff detox more likely to just increase his stamina and make it worse :O
I think die jokes is onto something here! I've heard this before actually and I'm in full support of fapping for an hour. Sides when he follows up on the first page of advice to get a girlfriend. Said girlfriend is going to appppppprrrrreeeeciiiiaaaaa*moan*tttttttttttttttteeeeee it.
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First off, how is this a troll thread? He isn't trying to get any sort of emotional response from people, and it sure isn't trying to derail anything since its his own thread.
As far as OP is concerned: First off, masturbation in and of itself is a common practice, and its the norm for males to masturbate an average of once a day or more. Now if your masturbating 4,5,6+ times a day then yes, perhaps there is something of an addiction. To be honest, I don't understand why this topic makes people uncomfortable, but so many tiptoe around it like its major taboo and very wrong/bad, which just makes no sense
As far as the addiction goes some things certainly help. Exercise is one, especially aerobic exercise. Running and the like have a noticeable lowering effect on sex drive, not to mention its one more thing your out doing that keeps you from worrying about masturbation. Really the big key for addictions or compulsions is to find a value that you can set as paramount. For instance, I've been training hard running all summer, and needed to lose my excess weight to get faster. I had being as fast as possible as being my main goal and with that firmly in place the desire to overeat or binge hard like normal took care of itself. You must make the decision to live by your principles and guiding ideas rather than be controlled by your impulses and feelings.
I think its also good to have replacement behavior for when you start considering masturbation. When I was working on my weight, I decided that any time I started getting an impulse to eat too much or binge I would go do 5 pushups and 2 or 3 strides outside. Then coming back in I was refocused on fitness and in a much better mental state to deal with strong temptations. Its when you sit there thinking about how much you want to do activity X that it becomes harder to resist. Just go do something, anything, as soon as you start feeling the urge to masturbate.
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Find other things to do with your time and work on masturbating less.
level of maturity is real low in this thread, level of stupidity is real high =[
edit: after reading it, it got better after the first page
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I am baffled by the amount of people who don't believe that sex addiction exists, and also baffled by the amount of people suggesting to fix the problem with more sex.
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Play more starcraft instead man!
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On August 01 2011 13:01 cz wrote:thats my point - its there, he said it wasn't. It's also been an hour and he hasn't responded: lol to that guy above who called people out for being so "negative" when it's a clear troll post
oops misread :x
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Find a hobby to keep your mind occupied, reading a good book or performing an activity, preferably physically stimulating that gives you pleasure or a sense of achievement. Find what it is that makes masturbation so appealing and replace it with something else that won't get you so tired.
Also, watch a porn movie, and actually watch the entire thing without masturbating. You don't really notice when you masturbate, but it's incredibly boring and the acting is crap. Hopefully it will reinforce a psychological response that porn is bad.
Good luck.
Edit: To the people crying troll. Whether this is a troll or not, does it matter? OK So the guy just wasted 2 min of my life. and maybe 2 min. of yours. He must feel so accomplished that he managed to take 2 entire minutes! It costs nothing to type a response and I'm bored/interested enough in this to actually try to help. That's what we do in the blog section anyway. So who cares?
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LOL, this is such a fail.
I would just NOT FAP when I feel like it.
Do something else.
If it's from the pleasure you get (like the pleasure from drugs) you have to find something else as pleasurable but not lethal.
Addiction is all in the brain. With 100% willpower, you can stop it easily.
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Everytime you feel horny, do 10 pushups and slap yourself.
I'm sure you'll eventually stop feeling horny lol.
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"Just get a girlfriend"
Oh man such a stupid reply, I mean, you can't be serious with that answer right?
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Get some activities. Focusing on other things in life will make it a lot easier. Being in a sport/other extracurricular/lots of social circles will give you a whole lot of other things to think and worry about.
LOL, this is such a fail.
I would just NOT FAP when I feel like it.
Do something else.
If it's from the pleasure you get (like the pleasure from drugs) you have to find something else as pleasurable but not lethal.
Addiction is all in the brain. With 100% willpower, you can stop it easily.
It blows my mind that some people really think that anyone can just kick addiction simply by willing it so. Unfortunately that's not how everyone's brain works.
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Honestly, just hang out with people more, put yourself in more situations where you're around people like your family.
I fap all the time(once a day) but i can go for months if i dont feel alone.
However, i wouldnt feel too bad about it, you SHOULD get worn out if it's too much(for me thats twice a day, or if i go once a day for month straight. Need a break, when i was younger i didnt)
Also, the lack of interest in girls after fapping so much can and will minutely change your personality, which is a major point imo for not doing it too much.
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On August 01 2011 14:12 SockMonkey wrote:Show nested quote +On August 01 2011 14:01 HeavOnEarth wrote:On August 01 2011 13:51 n.DieJokes wrote:On August 01 2011 13:35 arbitrageur wrote:On August 01 2011 13:26 n.DieJokes wrote:
Increase the length of your fap sessions, like go for a fucking hour. What we want to increase is your spe or strokes per ejaculation. If your spe is really high, you'll literally burn out your own penis via friction drastically reducing your ability to touch yourself! Making his dick sore is not a good solution to a completely brain-based addiction. He can focus on the mental aspects of his addictions once he's free from the physical distractions. It's like a jerkoff detox more likely to just increase his stamina and make it worse :O I think die jokes is onto something here! I've heard this before actually and I'm in full support of fapping for an hour. Sides when he follows up on the first page of advice to get a girlfriend. Said girlfriend is going to appppppprrrrreeeeciiiiaaaaa*moan*tttttttttttttttteeeeee it.
Fapping for an hour is the most satisfying fap, but then you HAVE to shower, you gross kid
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If you live at home, tell your parents openly about your addiction. They will hold you accountable. If you live at a flat, that may be a bit more harder to enforce because your flatmates are unlikely to give a shit about how much you masturbate.
Seriously, the quickest way to end an addiction is to make sure everyone knows about it. That way you have the added incentive to stop due to the embarrassment. If you feel like it's too embarrassing to tell people about, then you value your reputation more than your need to be cured.
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I think you may have an addiction addiction. You feel compelled to consider anything you do regularly that you've been given the impression is "unacceptable" is something you're addicted to.
Calling things an addiction when they aren't is a crutch, it lets you not feel so bad about things you think you shouldn't do so much. You can't control an addiction, after all, so it's not your fault.
The proper solution, then, is to get to the root cause. Why do you feel there's something wrong with your behavior? Is the behavior actually causing you any problems? If not, there's no actual need for concern. If it is, those problems it causes should be your focus for backing off from the behavior.
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On August 01 2011 22:30 Discretionary Duck wrote:
If you live at home, tell your parents openly about your addiction. They will hold you accountable. If you live at a flat, that may be a bit more harder to enforce because your flatmates are unlikely to give a shit about how much you masturbate.
Seriously, the quickest way to end an addiction is to make sure everyone knows about it. That way you have the added incentive to stop due to the embarrassment. If you feel like it's too embarrassing to tell people about, then you value your reputation more than your need to be cured.
oh god..
awkward and not necessary
people DO NOT want to hear about his masturbation addiction, which isn't a serious thing anyways.
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On August 01 2011 12:12 BLinD-RawR wrote:
is this trolling,are you serious?
OK,look at shit,you can't fap at shit.
Challenge accepted..
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On August 02 2011 02:37 Torenhire wrote:Show nested quote +On August 01 2011 12:12 BLinD-RawR wrote:
is this trolling,are you serious?
OK,look at shit,you can't fap at shit. Challenge accepted..
Tread carefully, friend. This is how scat fetishes are formed.
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I fap like 3 times a day and i dont see a problem in it...
disgusting??? wtf man its pretty natural. dont use any discusting- or any usual-porn at all this gonna make you enjoy it much more, and if you enjoy it again you will see no need in changing it 
holy moly... an hour... i can do it three times in 2 hours but a hour in a row seems a bid painfull to me
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maybe the OP just wanted to boast about his libido?
Though there are better ways to achieve that I suppose
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why would you share this on the starcraft related website? o.O
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Everytime you feel the urges, rub your hands with Jalapenos, or any other hot pepper/seasoning of choice. This will curb the problem very quickly.
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Every time you think of watching porn and fab, just think of other things you could do. A lot of times you masturbate is because you're bored and alone. Try to avoid both by doing something else more productive.. work out or something. I'm sure if you work out as often you masturbate, in 6 months you will get laid easily.
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haha i agree tell your mom haha
just find other shit to do. shit that doesnt involve sitting inside by yourself at the computer.
i can wank 5 times a day when im being lazy and not doing anything
but when i have a job and meet up with people and have a "good" (busy) day then i might not wank for a week
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On August 01 2011 22:25 Bippzy wrote:
Honestly, just hang out with people more, put yourself in more situations where you're around people like your family.
I fap all the time(once a day) but i can go for months if i dont feel alone.
However, i wouldnt feel too bad about it, you SHOULD get worn out if it's too much(for me thats twice a day, or if i go once a day for month straight. Need a break, when i was younger i didnt)
Also, the lack of interest in girls after fapping so much can and will minutely change your personality, which is a major point imo for not doing it too much.
Lol I've noticed that personality shift as well. Whenever I fap I tend to not give a fluck about women any more and because I started at like 12 doing it habitually, sex is super desensitized unless I save it for a couple days. It might be bi-polar, but I felt like when I was growing up every time I finished I felt like I was in a different mood, but it was probably all in my head xD Like I was going through "cycles" or something...
If you want to cut back on it you need to involve yourself in other things, or go spend the night at a friends or something. If you still need to jerk off at their house, then well GG lol. For a while I got used to doing it and falling asleep afterwords so I couldn't ever fall asleep without doing it so I would do it even when at other people's places xD
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Thanks for all the replies.
I created this this thread after mlg which was pretty late. But at the next day I only briefly checked the general forum and was glad I didnt see any of my post because I felt rather emberassed about this op.
However after reading all your repliesI am very glad I did search for it. Even though many think I am a troll (especially in the beginning), which is definitely not true I am glad for their posts because they lightned my mood and some even made me smile + Show Spoiler +[You can be a male prostitute. You'll earn more than other male prostitutes because you can do it many times a day. OK,look at shit,you can't fap at shit.
I knew that many people would reply"get a gf". But firstly that's no easy task for me (not exactly because I look horrible but because I think my personality is strange, unactive, lazy).
This leads to the 2nd problem "If you don't want it, stop doing it" replys. If I just could, I would, but as I can't even though I tried it loweres my self esteem, as I seemingly can't control myself.
I am very grateful for all the serious replies. It's interesting and new for me that Sport will help fighting my addicition. But I will now work at this. Even though some things appear obivous like "be more under people" I am glad people said it, because I am often alone, and I should at least try some to get with people.
In the end I am happy I made this thread and even though I was to emberassed to lead the discussion, I think I learned a lot.
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You could always turn that addiction into a charming benefit. Donate at your sperm bank today!
Sorry you can't get over getting off. Don't be embarrassed, we all have problems. Lots of them. For example I'm horribly (And I mean HORRIBLY) addicted to smoking. Don't feel alone. Even if compulsory masturbation is regarded as a bit of a joke by some people + Show Spoiler + I highly support the idea of you telling a psychiatrist or the one you're currently seeing. Hell you might even get some xanax to help you relax.
And trust me on this one, you can try all day but a few milligrams of xanax you're never getting that thing hard.
+ Show Spoiler +Learned from a very, very embarrassing evening.
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Obvious troll is obvious. No response for 4 days?
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On August 02 2011 03:26 Horuku wrote:Show nested quote +On August 01 2011 22:25 Bippzy wrote:
Honestly, just hang out with people more, put yourself in more situations where you're around people like your family.
I fap all the time(once a day) but i can go for months if i dont feel alone.
However, i wouldnt feel too bad about it, you SHOULD get worn out if it's too much(for me thats twice a day, or if i go once a day for month straight. Need a break, when i was younger i didnt)
Also, the lack of interest in girls after fapping so much can and will minutely change your personality, which is a major point imo for not doing it too much. Lol I've noticed that personality shift as well. Whenever I fap I tend to not give a fluck about women any more and because I started at like 12 doing it habitually, sex is super desensitized unless I save it for a couple days. It might be bi-polar, but I felt like when I was growing up every time I finished I felt like I was in a different mood, but it was probably all in my head xD Like I was going through "cycles" or something... If you want to cut back on it you need to involve yourself in other things, or go spend the night at a friends or something. If you still need to jerk off at their house, then well GG lol. For a while I got used to doing it and falling asleep afterwords so I couldn't ever fall asleep without doing it so I would do it even when at other people's places xD
"OMG THIS IS THE BEST PRONZ EVAR!!!"
*done fapping*
"Eww, wtf am I watching"
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On August 05 2011 07:02 Wrath 2.1 wrote:Thanks for all the replies. + Show Spoiler [An additional and lengthy post] +I created this this thread after mlg which was pretty late. But at the next day I only briefly checked the general forum and was glad I didnt see any of my post because I felt rather emberassed about this op. However after reading all your repliesI am very glad I did search for it. Even though many think I am a troll (especially in the beginning), which is definitely not true I am glad for their posts because they lightned my mood and some even made me smile + Show Spoiler +[You can be a male prostitute. You'll earn more than other male prostitutes because you can do it many times a day. OK,look at shit,you can't fap at shit. I knew that many people would reply"get a gf". But firstly that's no easy task for me (not exactly because I look horrible but because I think my personality is strange, unactive, lazy). This leads to the 2nd problem "If you don't want it, stop doing it" replys. If I just could, I would, but as I can't even though I tried it loweres my self esteem, as I seemingly can't control myself. I am very grateful for all the serious replies. It's interesting and new for me that Sport will help fighting my addicition. But I will now work at this. Even though some things appear obivous like "be more under people" I am glad people said it, because I am often alone, and I should at least try some to get with people. In the end I am happy I made this thread and even though I was to emberassed to lead the discussion, I think I learned a lot.
On August 05 2011 07:37 DoomsVille wrote:
Obvious troll is obvious. No response for 4 days?
Uh yeah, about reading the thread.. Not to be hostile or anything but you should try it.
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On August 01 2011 12:07 Wrath 2.1 wrote:
I don't really want to talk about how often I masturbate
Sorry dude, but you totally have to give us the dirty details. I need to know how often a guy needs to jerk off before it qualifies as an addiction. A guy needs goals in life, ya know?
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i think it's all about how bored you are, find a hobby
gg
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momma always said sports keep a man sane... and away from jerking off.
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Keep yourself busy, don't keep yourself lonely.
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find something to keep yourself busy. eg. read a book, hit the gym, go for a jog, learn a dance move, find some dyi stuff (doesn't have to be useful, it's just for fun!), apply for jobs, work on your resume, whatever! ban all your common and favorite porn sites from your browser. if you firefox then get a addon called blocksite (ban google if you're really REALLY tempted and having a hard time controlling it). basically keep yourself busy, and everything you get the urge tell yourself you're not doing it. it's probably a phase if you're young, if you're 18+ you need to stop cuz i suspect it's also a porn addiction and that will be detrimental to future relationships.
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