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My reply to this thread would be lol.
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On January 19 2012 00:39 Bortlett wrote:Show nested quote +On January 18 2012 18:18 jarrydesque wrote:
Aw, you guys. I do love my new shirt!
Feeling very sorry for myself today. Drank faaaaar too much last night and stayed at a friends house because I could not drive so sporting a lovely beer/red wine hangover. Plus it's like 30ºc/86ºF in Cape Town but it feels about ten times hotter. Cape Town is only that hot because you live there <3. Regarding SWTOR, a lot of people are trying to get me to play it, but I got really burnt out on WoW. What's the end game like? Typical raiding/pvp stuff, or something different?
IMO end game is the problem with SWtor. There is basically nothing to do. PvP is extremely casual (see imbalanced) and PvE has no dungeon finder or addons so you have to spam for ages LFG in fleet (the hub since there is no universal LFG channel/system) and with no meters of any kind it is difficult to quantify the value of gear/rotations.
The leveling experience on the other hand i found super fun. Every quest in the game has voice acted npc cut scenes. While this gets old for the more grindey quests, each class has its own main story which kept me engaged and logged on.
I got one sith sorc to 50, spent 3 hours trying to get a district 7 group and then unsubbed.
tl/dr: Is it worth the initial purchase price to get your char to 50? yes
Is it worth 15 dollars a month after your free time expires to keep playing? i dont think so.
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Been reading through a lot of this thread but can't remember this question being asked:
What's your take on a guy that is turned on by the thought of getting a blowjob from another guy, but doesn't really go with the idea of kissing, snuggling, or anything else?
To elaborate: that doesn't mean that any other activity feels bad per say, but rather that a blowjob is the only thing that really seems interesting.
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On January 19 2012 04:24 Luggage wrote:
Been reading through a lot of this thread but can't remember this question being asked:
What's your take on a guy that is turned on by the thought of getting a blowjob from another guy, but doesn't really go with the idea of kissing, snuggling, or anything else?
To elaborate: that doesn't mean that any other activity feels bad per say, but rather that a blowjob is the only thing that really seems interesting.
That's usually the sign of a straight guy who wants to experiment...at least in my experience (and I have had some WEIRD experience with straight guys).
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On January 19 2012 04:26 Klondikebar wrote:Show nested quote +On January 19 2012 04:24 Luggage wrote:
Been reading through a lot of this thread but can't remember this question being asked:
What's your take on a guy that is turned on by the thought of getting a blowjob from another guy, but doesn't really go with the idea of kissing, snuggling, or anything else?
To elaborate: that doesn't mean that any other activity feels bad per say, but rather that a blowjob is the only thing that really seems interesting. That's usually the sign of a straight guy who wants to experiment...at least in my experience (and I have had some WEIRD experience with straight guys).
That's my take too.
I've had this feeling/concept in my head for a while that I'm trying my best in life to be open to experiences, and that if I don't try sex with a guy I'd would be holding back. I'm still annoyed that I find kissing another guy... weird. Not disgusting or repulsive, just really... strange. To the extent that I think sucking someone off would be less strange. I really think that one is conformity and just living in a society where it's not as common to see it in public (the kissing part!  )
As it is now, I don't think I'd take the step to do anything with a guy when sober, which also sort of annoys me. :/
These feelings resound with anyone pre-bi or before coming out?
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On January 19 2012 04:37 Luggage wrote:Show nested quote +On January 19 2012 04:26 Klondikebar wrote:On January 19 2012 04:24 Luggage wrote:
Been reading through a lot of this thread but can't remember this question being asked:
What's your take on a guy that is turned on by the thought of getting a blowjob from another guy, but doesn't really go with the idea of kissing, snuggling, or anything else?
To elaborate: that doesn't mean that any other activity feels bad per say, but rather that a blowjob is the only thing that really seems interesting. That's usually the sign of a straight guy who wants to experiment...at least in my experience (and I have had some WEIRD experience with straight guys). That's my take too. I've had this feeling/concept in my head for a while that I'm trying my best in life to be open to experiences, and that if I don't try sex with a guy I'd would be holding back. I'm still annoyed that I find kissing another guy... weird. Not disgusting or repulsive, just really... strange. To the extent that I think sucking someone off would be less strange. I really think that one is conformity and just living in a society where it's not as common to see it in public (the kissing part! ) As it is now, I don't think I'd take the step to do anything with a guy when sober, which also sort of annoys me. :/ These feelings resound with anyone pre-bi or before coming out?
While I wholeheartedly recommend sex with men, what makes you think it's one of those things you have to experience?
As weird as it sounds, kissing is a lot more intimate than blowies for a lot of people. While I personally don't think so, you're not alone in thinking that. I was a straight guy's experiment once and he wouldn't kiss either.
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On January 19 2012 05:07 Klondikebar wrote:Show nested quote +On January 19 2012 04:37 Luggage wrote:On January 19 2012 04:26 Klondikebar wrote:On January 19 2012 04:24 Luggage wrote:
Been reading through a lot of this thread but can't remember this question being asked:
What's your take on a guy that is turned on by the thought of getting a blowjob from another guy, but doesn't really go with the idea of kissing, snuggling, or anything else?
To elaborate: that doesn't mean that any other activity feels bad per say, but rather that a blowjob is the only thing that really seems interesting. That's usually the sign of a straight guy who wants to experiment...at least in my experience (and I have had some WEIRD experience with straight guys). That's my take too. I've had this feeling/concept in my head for a while that I'm trying my best in life to be open to experiences, and that if I don't try sex with a guy I'd would be holding back. I'm still annoyed that I find kissing another guy... weird. Not disgusting or repulsive, just really... strange. To the extent that I think sucking someone off would be less strange. I really think that one is conformity and just living in a society where it's not as common to see it in public (the kissing part! ) As it is now, I don't think I'd take the step to do anything with a guy when sober, which also sort of annoys me. :/ These feelings resound with anyone pre-bi or before coming out? While I wholeheartedly recommend sex with men, what makes you think it's one of those things you have to experience? As weird as it sounds, kissing is a lot more intimate than blowies for a lot of people. While I personally don't think so, you're not alone in thinking that. I was a straight guy's experiment once and he wouldn't kiss either.
That's a big question.
To condense the answer: I'm a sexual person, and I want to explore what there is to explore. I don't want to miss out on something that could be amazing just because of silly social blocks in my head.
I guess I can understand why kissing is more intimate - it isn't usually seen as something purely physical, rather something with lots of emotions mixed in.
Being "the experiment" of that guy, how did that feel? I guess if it was mostly for sex then it doesn't really matter if he didn't want to kiss?
Thanks for the answers 
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On January 19 2012 06:10 Luggage wrote:Show nested quote +On January 19 2012 05:07 Klondikebar wrote:On January 19 2012 04:37 Luggage wrote:On January 19 2012 04:26 Klondikebar wrote:On January 19 2012 04:24 Luggage wrote:
Been reading through a lot of this thread but can't remember this question being asked:
What's your take on a guy that is turned on by the thought of getting a blowjob from another guy, but doesn't really go with the idea of kissing, snuggling, or anything else?
To elaborate: that doesn't mean that any other activity feels bad per say, but rather that a blowjob is the only thing that really seems interesting. That's usually the sign of a straight guy who wants to experiment...at least in my experience (and I have had some WEIRD experience with straight guys). That's my take too. I've had this feeling/concept in my head for a while that I'm trying my best in life to be open to experiences, and that if I don't try sex with a guy I'd would be holding back. I'm still annoyed that I find kissing another guy... weird. Not disgusting or repulsive, just really... strange. To the extent that I think sucking someone off would be less strange. I really think that one is conformity and just living in a society where it's not as common to see it in public (the kissing part! ) As it is now, I don't think I'd take the step to do anything with a guy when sober, which also sort of annoys me. :/ These feelings resound with anyone pre-bi or before coming out? While I wholeheartedly recommend sex with men, what makes you think it's one of those things you have to experience? As weird as it sounds, kissing is a lot more intimate than blowies for a lot of people. While I personally don't think so, you're not alone in thinking that. I was a straight guy's experiment once and he wouldn't kiss either. That's a big question. To condense the answer: I'm a sexual person, and I want to explore what there is to explore. I don't want to miss out on something that could be amazing just because of silly social blocks in my head. I guess I can understand why kissing is more intimate - it isn't usually seen as something purely physical, rather something with lots of emotions mixed in. Being "the experiment" of that guy, how did that feel? I guess if it was mostly for sex then it doesn't really matter if he didn't want to kiss? Thanks for the answers
Well it did not feel good. Surprise surprise people act differently in bed than they do out in public. The dude was actually a really good friend of mine and, it turns out, he treats people like shit in bed. It won't be that way for everyone but you're definitely going to see a side of them that you never knew existed.
I really enjoy kissing but yeah, it wasn't that hard to not do it.
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On January 19 2012 06:10 Luggage wrote:Show nested quote +On January 19 2012 05:07 Klondikebar wrote:On January 19 2012 04:37 Luggage wrote:On January 19 2012 04:26 Klondikebar wrote:On January 19 2012 04:24 Luggage wrote:
Been reading through a lot of this thread but can't remember this question being asked:
What's your take on a guy that is turned on by the thought of getting a blowjob from another guy, but doesn't really go with the idea of kissing, snuggling, or anything else?
To elaborate: that doesn't mean that any other activity feels bad per say, but rather that a blowjob is the only thing that really seems interesting. That's usually the sign of a straight guy who wants to experiment...at least in my experience (and I have had some WEIRD experience with straight guys). That's my take too. I've had this feeling/concept in my head for a while that I'm trying my best in life to be open to experiences, and that if I don't try sex with a guy I'd would be holding back. I'm still annoyed that I find kissing another guy... weird. Not disgusting or repulsive, just really... strange. To the extent that I think sucking someone off would be less strange. I really think that one is conformity and just living in a society where it's not as common to see it in public (the kissing part! ) As it is now, I don't think I'd take the step to do anything with a guy when sober, which also sort of annoys me. :/ These feelings resound with anyone pre-bi or before coming out? While I wholeheartedly recommend sex with men, what makes you think it's one of those things you have to experience? As weird as it sounds, kissing is a lot more intimate than blowies for a lot of people. While I personally don't think so, you're not alone in thinking that. I was a straight guy's experiment once and he wouldn't kiss either. That's a big question. To condense the answer: I'm a sexual person, and I want to explore what there is to explore. I don't want to miss out on something that could be amazing just because of silly social blocks in my head. I guess I can understand why kissing is more intimate - it isn't usually seen as something purely physical, rather something with lots of emotions mixed in. Being "the experiment" of that guy, how did that feel? I guess if it was mostly for sex then it doesn't really matter if he didn't want to kiss? Thanks for the answers
I understand the scientific curiosity but I guess my 2c is that excluding intimacy sort of sabotages the potential of the experience a little. If the purpose of the sex is pure variety/experience/release then sure, but if you want a real comparison between m/m and m/f sex then sex with comfort/intimacy > sex without right?
I have had straight sex with a girl i liked and it was certainly intimate but also a strong affirmation that while i loved her, i am gay.
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On January 19 2012 06:15 Klondikebar wrote:Show nested quote +On January 19 2012 06:10 Luggage wrote:On January 19 2012 05:07 Klondikebar wrote:On January 19 2012 04:37 Luggage wrote:On January 19 2012 04:26 Klondikebar wrote:On January 19 2012 04:24 Luggage wrote:
Been reading through a lot of this thread but can't remember this question being asked:
What's your take on a guy that is turned on by the thought of getting a blowjob from another guy, but doesn't really go with the idea of kissing, snuggling, or anything else?
To elaborate: that doesn't mean that any other activity feels bad per say, but rather that a blowjob is the only thing that really seems interesting. That's usually the sign of a straight guy who wants to experiment...at least in my experience (and I have had some WEIRD experience with straight guys). That's my take too. I've had this feeling/concept in my head for a while that I'm trying my best in life to be open to experiences, and that if I don't try sex with a guy I'd would be holding back. I'm still annoyed that I find kissing another guy... weird. Not disgusting or repulsive, just really... strange. To the extent that I think sucking someone off would be less strange. I really think that one is conformity and just living in a society where it's not as common to see it in public (the kissing part! ) As it is now, I don't think I'd take the step to do anything with a guy when sober, which also sort of annoys me. :/ These feelings resound with anyone pre-bi or before coming out? While I wholeheartedly recommend sex with men, what makes you think it's one of those things you have to experience? As weird as it sounds, kissing is a lot more intimate than blowies for a lot of people. While I personally don't think so, you're not alone in thinking that. I was a straight guy's experiment once and he wouldn't kiss either. That's a big question. To condense the answer: I'm a sexual person, and I want to explore what there is to explore. I don't want to miss out on something that could be amazing just because of silly social blocks in my head. I guess I can understand why kissing is more intimate - it isn't usually seen as something purely physical, rather something with lots of emotions mixed in. Being "the experiment" of that guy, how did that feel? I guess if it was mostly for sex then it doesn't really matter if he didn't want to kiss? Thanks for the answers Well it did not feel good. Surprise surprise people act differently in bed than they do out in public. The dude was actually a really good friend of mine and, it turns out, he treats people like shit in bed. It won't be that way for everyone but you're definitely going to see a side of them that you never knew existed.
Sounds pretty hot to me 
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On January 19 2012 06:38 marvellosity wrote:Show nested quote +On January 19 2012 06:15 Klondikebar wrote:On January 19 2012 06:10 Luggage wrote:On January 19 2012 05:07 Klondikebar wrote:On January 19 2012 04:37 Luggage wrote:On January 19 2012 04:26 Klondikebar wrote:On January 19 2012 04:24 Luggage wrote:
Been reading through a lot of this thread but can't remember this question being asked:
What's your take on a guy that is turned on by the thought of getting a blowjob from another guy, but doesn't really go with the idea of kissing, snuggling, or anything else?
To elaborate: that doesn't mean that any other activity feels bad per say, but rather that a blowjob is the only thing that really seems interesting. That's usually the sign of a straight guy who wants to experiment...at least in my experience (and I have had some WEIRD experience with straight guys). That's my take too. I've had this feeling/concept in my head for a while that I'm trying my best in life to be open to experiences, and that if I don't try sex with a guy I'd would be holding back. I'm still annoyed that I find kissing another guy... weird. Not disgusting or repulsive, just really... strange. To the extent that I think sucking someone off would be less strange. I really think that one is conformity and just living in a society where it's not as common to see it in public (the kissing part! ) As it is now, I don't think I'd take the step to do anything with a guy when sober, which also sort of annoys me. :/ These feelings resound with anyone pre-bi or before coming out? While I wholeheartedly recommend sex with men, what makes you think it's one of those things you have to experience? As weird as it sounds, kissing is a lot more intimate than blowies for a lot of people. While I personally don't think so, you're not alone in thinking that. I was a straight guy's experiment once and he wouldn't kiss either. That's a big question. To condense the answer: I'm a sexual person, and I want to explore what there is to explore. I don't want to miss out on something that could be amazing just because of silly social blocks in my head. I guess I can understand why kissing is more intimate - it isn't usually seen as something purely physical, rather something with lots of emotions mixed in. Being "the experiment" of that guy, how did that feel? I guess if it was mostly for sex then it doesn't really matter if he didn't want to kiss? Thanks for the answers Well it did not feel good. Surprise surprise people act differently in bed than they do out in public. The dude was actually a really good friend of mine and, it turns out, he treats people like shit in bed. It won't be that way for everyone but you're definitely going to see a side of them that you never knew existed. Sounds pretty hot to me
It's not. He flipped between borderline abusive and incredibly whiny. It wasn't the hot dominant kinda stuff, it was just like "I'm going to beat you up" one minute and "WHAAAAAA" the next.
Maybe that's hot for you but I prefer consistent performance through my banging. And I love my fair share of rough play but straight up bullying me and threatening to beat me up makes it REALLY hard to maintain an erection.
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On January 19 2012 06:46 Klondikebar wrote:Show nested quote +On January 19 2012 06:38 marvellosity wrote:On January 19 2012 06:15 Klondikebar wrote:On January 19 2012 06:10 Luggage wrote:On January 19 2012 05:07 Klondikebar wrote:On January 19 2012 04:37 Luggage wrote:On January 19 2012 04:26 Klondikebar wrote:On January 19 2012 04:24 Luggage wrote:
Been reading through a lot of this thread but can't remember this question being asked:
What's your take on a guy that is turned on by the thought of getting a blowjob from another guy, but doesn't really go with the idea of kissing, snuggling, or anything else?
To elaborate: that doesn't mean that any other activity feels bad per say, but rather that a blowjob is the only thing that really seems interesting. That's usually the sign of a straight guy who wants to experiment...at least in my experience (and I have had some WEIRD experience with straight guys). That's my take too. I've had this feeling/concept in my head for a while that I'm trying my best in life to be open to experiences, and that if I don't try sex with a guy I'd would be holding back. I'm still annoyed that I find kissing another guy... weird. Not disgusting or repulsive, just really... strange. To the extent that I think sucking someone off would be less strange. I really think that one is conformity and just living in a society where it's not as common to see it in public (the kissing part! ) As it is now, I don't think I'd take the step to do anything with a guy when sober, which also sort of annoys me. :/ These feelings resound with anyone pre-bi or before coming out? While I wholeheartedly recommend sex with men, what makes you think it's one of those things you have to experience? As weird as it sounds, kissing is a lot more intimate than blowies for a lot of people. While I personally don't think so, you're not alone in thinking that. I was a straight guy's experiment once and he wouldn't kiss either. That's a big question. To condense the answer: I'm a sexual person, and I want to explore what there is to explore. I don't want to miss out on something that could be amazing just because of silly social blocks in my head. I guess I can understand why kissing is more intimate - it isn't usually seen as something purely physical, rather something with lots of emotions mixed in. Being "the experiment" of that guy, how did that feel? I guess if it was mostly for sex then it doesn't really matter if he didn't want to kiss? Thanks for the answers Well it did not feel good. Surprise surprise people act differently in bed than they do out in public. The dude was actually a really good friend of mine and, it turns out, he treats people like shit in bed. It won't be that way for everyone but you're definitely going to see a side of them that you never knew existed. Sounds pretty hot to me It's not. He flipped between borderline abusive and incredibly whiny. It wasn't the hot dominant kinda stuff, it was just like "I'm going to beat you up" one minute and "WHAAAAAA" the next. Maybe that's hot for you but I prefer consistent performance through my banging. And I love my fair share of rough play but straight up bullying me and threatening to beat me up makes it REALLY hard to maintain an erection.
Well, now you put it like that...
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On January 19 2012 06:52 marvellosity wrote:Show nested quote +On January 19 2012 06:46 Klondikebar wrote:On January 19 2012 06:38 marvellosity wrote:On January 19 2012 06:15 Klondikebar wrote:On January 19 2012 06:10 Luggage wrote:On January 19 2012 05:07 Klondikebar wrote:On January 19 2012 04:37 Luggage wrote:On January 19 2012 04:26 Klondikebar wrote:On January 19 2012 04:24 Luggage wrote:
Been reading through a lot of this thread but can't remember this question being asked:
What's your take on a guy that is turned on by the thought of getting a blowjob from another guy, but doesn't really go with the idea of kissing, snuggling, or anything else?
To elaborate: that doesn't mean that any other activity feels bad per say, but rather that a blowjob is the only thing that really seems interesting. That's usually the sign of a straight guy who wants to experiment...at least in my experience (and I have had some WEIRD experience with straight guys). That's my take too. I've had this feeling/concept in my head for a while that I'm trying my best in life to be open to experiences, and that if I don't try sex with a guy I'd would be holding back. I'm still annoyed that I find kissing another guy... weird. Not disgusting or repulsive, just really... strange. To the extent that I think sucking someone off would be less strange. I really think that one is conformity and just living in a society where it's not as common to see it in public (the kissing part! ) As it is now, I don't think I'd take the step to do anything with a guy when sober, which also sort of annoys me. :/ These feelings resound with anyone pre-bi or before coming out? While I wholeheartedly recommend sex with men, what makes you think it's one of those things you have to experience? As weird as it sounds, kissing is a lot more intimate than blowies for a lot of people. While I personally don't think so, you're not alone in thinking that. I was a straight guy's experiment once and he wouldn't kiss either. That's a big question. To condense the answer: I'm a sexual person, and I want to explore what there is to explore. I don't want to miss out on something that could be amazing just because of silly social blocks in my head. I guess I can understand why kissing is more intimate - it isn't usually seen as something purely physical, rather something with lots of emotions mixed in. Being "the experiment" of that guy, how did that feel? I guess if it was mostly for sex then it doesn't really matter if he didn't want to kiss? Thanks for the answers Well it did not feel good. Surprise surprise people act differently in bed than they do out in public. The dude was actually a really good friend of mine and, it turns out, he treats people like shit in bed. It won't be that way for everyone but you're definitely going to see a side of them that you never knew existed. Sounds pretty hot to me It's not. He flipped between borderline abusive and incredibly whiny. It wasn't the hot dominant kinda stuff, it was just like "I'm going to beat you up" one minute and "WHAAAAAA" the next. Maybe that's hot for you but I prefer consistent performance through my banging. And I love my fair share of rough play but straight up bullying me and threatening to beat me up makes it REALLY hard to maintain an erection. Well, now you put it like that...
Like I said, you learn things about your friends when you have sex with them. Shit gets weird.
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On January 19 2012 06:57 Klondikebar wrote:Show nested quote +On January 19 2012 06:52 marvellosity wrote:On January 19 2012 06:46 Klondikebar wrote:On January 19 2012 06:38 marvellosity wrote:On January 19 2012 06:15 Klondikebar wrote:On January 19 2012 06:10 Luggage wrote:On January 19 2012 05:07 Klondikebar wrote:On January 19 2012 04:37 Luggage wrote:On January 19 2012 04:26 Klondikebar wrote:On January 19 2012 04:24 Luggage wrote:
Been reading through a lot of this thread but can't remember this question being asked:
What's your take on a guy that is turned on by the thought of getting a blowjob from another guy, but doesn't really go with the idea of kissing, snuggling, or anything else?
To elaborate: that doesn't mean that any other activity feels bad per say, but rather that a blowjob is the only thing that really seems interesting. That's usually the sign of a straight guy who wants to experiment...at least in my experience (and I have had some WEIRD experience with straight guys). That's my take too. I've had this feeling/concept in my head for a while that I'm trying my best in life to be open to experiences, and that if I don't try sex with a guy I'd would be holding back. I'm still annoyed that I find kissing another guy... weird. Not disgusting or repulsive, just really... strange. To the extent that I think sucking someone off would be less strange. I really think that one is conformity and just living in a society where it's not as common to see it in public (the kissing part! ) As it is now, I don't think I'd take the step to do anything with a guy when sober, which also sort of annoys me. :/ These feelings resound with anyone pre-bi or before coming out? While I wholeheartedly recommend sex with men, what makes you think it's one of those things you have to experience? As weird as it sounds, kissing is a lot more intimate than blowies for a lot of people. While I personally don't think so, you're not alone in thinking that. I was a straight guy's experiment once and he wouldn't kiss either. That's a big question. To condense the answer: I'm a sexual person, and I want to explore what there is to explore. I don't want to miss out on something that could be amazing just because of silly social blocks in my head. I guess I can understand why kissing is more intimate - it isn't usually seen as something purely physical, rather something with lots of emotions mixed in. Being "the experiment" of that guy, how did that feel? I guess if it was mostly for sex then it doesn't really matter if he didn't want to kiss? Thanks for the answers Well it did not feel good. Surprise surprise people act differently in bed than they do out in public. The dude was actually a really good friend of mine and, it turns out, he treats people like shit in bed. It won't be that way for everyone but you're definitely going to see a side of them that you never knew existed. Sounds pretty hot to me It's not. He flipped between borderline abusive and incredibly whiny. It wasn't the hot dominant kinda stuff, it was just like "I'm going to beat you up" one minute and "WHAAAAAA" the next. Maybe that's hot for you but I prefer consistent performance through my banging. And I love my fair share of rough play but straight up bullying me and threatening to beat me up makes it REALLY hard to maintain an erection. Well, now you put it like that... Like I said, you learn things about your friends when you have sex with them. Shit gets weird.
Thankfully that's not happened to me o.o
The one or two straight people I've slept with haven't been friends.
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On January 19 2012 07:01 marvellosity wrote:Show nested quote +On January 19 2012 06:57 Klondikebar wrote:On January 19 2012 06:52 marvellosity wrote:On January 19 2012 06:46 Klondikebar wrote:On January 19 2012 06:38 marvellosity wrote:On January 19 2012 06:15 Klondikebar wrote:On January 19 2012 06:10 Luggage wrote:On January 19 2012 05:07 Klondikebar wrote:On January 19 2012 04:37 Luggage wrote:On January 19 2012 04:26 Klondikebar wrote:
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That's usually the sign of a straight guy who wants to experiment...at least in my experience (and I have had some WEIRD experience with straight guys). That's my take too. I've had this feeling/concept in my head for a while that I'm trying my best in life to be open to experiences, and that if I don't try sex with a guy I'd would be holding back. I'm still annoyed that I find kissing another guy... weird. Not disgusting or repulsive, just really... strange. To the extent that I think sucking someone off would be less strange. I really think that one is conformity and just living in a society where it's not as common to see it in public (the kissing part! ) As it is now, I don't think I'd take the step to do anything with a guy when sober, which also sort of annoys me. :/ These feelings resound with anyone pre-bi or before coming out? While I wholeheartedly recommend sex with men, what makes you think it's one of those things you have to experience? As weird as it sounds, kissing is a lot more intimate than blowies for a lot of people. While I personally don't think so, you're not alone in thinking that. I was a straight guy's experiment once and he wouldn't kiss either. That's a big question. To condense the answer: I'm a sexual person, and I want to explore what there is to explore. I don't want to miss out on something that could be amazing just because of silly social blocks in my head. I guess I can understand why kissing is more intimate - it isn't usually seen as something purely physical, rather something with lots of emotions mixed in. Being "the experiment" of that guy, how did that feel? I guess if it was mostly for sex then it doesn't really matter if he didn't want to kiss? Thanks for the answers Well it did not feel good. Surprise surprise people act differently in bed than they do out in public. The dude was actually a really good friend of mine and, it turns out, he treats people like shit in bed. It won't be that way for everyone but you're definitely going to see a side of them that you never knew existed. Sounds pretty hot to me It's not. He flipped between borderline abusive and incredibly whiny. It wasn't the hot dominant kinda stuff, it was just like "I'm going to beat you up" one minute and "WHAAAAAA" the next. Maybe that's hot for you but I prefer consistent performance through my banging. And I love my fair share of rough play but straight up bullying me and threatening to beat me up makes it REALLY hard to maintain an erection. Well, now you put it like that... Like I said, you learn things about your friends when you have sex with them. Shit gets weird. Thankfully that's not happened to me o.o The one or two straight people I've slept with haven't been friends.
My old college roommate is a water polo player (aka REALLY hot) and I know for a fact he's curious but now I can't do anything about it because I know how poorly it turns out when you gay sex your straight friends.
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On January 19 2012 07:17 Klondikebar wrote:Show nested quote +On January 19 2012 07:01 marvellosity wrote:On January 19 2012 06:57 Klondikebar wrote:On January 19 2012 06:52 marvellosity wrote:On January 19 2012 06:46 Klondikebar wrote:On January 19 2012 06:38 marvellosity wrote:On January 19 2012 06:15 Klondikebar wrote:On January 19 2012 06:10 Luggage wrote:On January 19 2012 05:07 Klondikebar wrote:On January 19 2012 04:37 Luggage wrote:[quote] That's my take too. I've had this feeling/concept in my head for a while that I'm trying my best in life to be open to experiences, and that if I don't try sex with a guy I'd would be holding back. I'm still annoyed that I find kissing another guy... weird. Not disgusting or repulsive, just really... strange. To the extent that I think sucking someone off would be less strange. I really think that one is conformity and just living in a society where it's not as common to see it in public (the kissing part! ) As it is now, I don't think I'd take the step to do anything with a guy when sober, which also sort of annoys me. :/ These feelings resound with anyone pre-bi or before coming out? While I wholeheartedly recommend sex with men, what makes you think it's one of those things you have to experience? As weird as it sounds, kissing is a lot more intimate than blowies for a lot of people. While I personally don't think so, you're not alone in thinking that. I was a straight guy's experiment once and he wouldn't kiss either. That's a big question. To condense the answer: I'm a sexual person, and I want to explore what there is to explore. I don't want to miss out on something that could be amazing just because of silly social blocks in my head. I guess I can understand why kissing is more intimate - it isn't usually seen as something purely physical, rather something with lots of emotions mixed in. Being "the experiment" of that guy, how did that feel? I guess if it was mostly for sex then it doesn't really matter if he didn't want to kiss? Thanks for the answers Well it did not feel good. Surprise surprise people act differently in bed than they do out in public. The dude was actually a really good friend of mine and, it turns out, he treats people like shit in bed. It won't be that way for everyone but you're definitely going to see a side of them that you never knew existed. Sounds pretty hot to me It's not. He flipped between borderline abusive and incredibly whiny. It wasn't the hot dominant kinda stuff, it was just like "I'm going to beat you up" one minute and "WHAAAAAA" the next. Maybe that's hot for you but I prefer consistent performance through my banging. And I love my fair share of rough play but straight up bullying me and threatening to beat me up makes it REALLY hard to maintain an erection. Well, now you put it like that... Like I said, you learn things about your friends when you have sex with them. Shit gets weird. Thankfully that's not happened to me o.o The one or two straight people I've slept with haven't been friends. My old college roommate is a water polo player (aka REALLY hot) and I know for a fact he's curious but now I can't do anything about it because I know how poorly it turns out when you gay sex your straight friends.
Drawing an overarching conclusion from a single incident is a bit silly, imo.
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On January 19 2012 07:18 marvellosity wrote:Show nested quote +On January 19 2012 07:17 Klondikebar wrote:On January 19 2012 07:01 marvellosity wrote:On January 19 2012 06:57 Klondikebar wrote:On January 19 2012 06:52 marvellosity wrote:On January 19 2012 06:46 Klondikebar wrote:On January 19 2012 06:38 marvellosity wrote:On January 19 2012 06:15 Klondikebar wrote:On January 19 2012 06:10 Luggage wrote:On January 19 2012 05:07 Klondikebar wrote:
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While I wholeheartedly recommend sex with men, what makes you think it's one of those things you have to experience?
As weird as it sounds, kissing is a lot more intimate than blowies for a lot of people. While I personally don't think so, you're not alone in thinking that. I was a straight guy's experiment once and he wouldn't kiss either.
That's a big question. To condense the answer: I'm a sexual person, and I want to explore what there is to explore. I don't want to miss out on something that could be amazing just because of silly social blocks in my head. I guess I can understand why kissing is more intimate - it isn't usually seen as something purely physical, rather something with lots of emotions mixed in. Being "the experiment" of that guy, how did that feel? I guess if it was mostly for sex then it doesn't really matter if he didn't want to kiss? Thanks for the answers Well it did not feel good. Surprise surprise people act differently in bed than they do out in public. The dude was actually a really good friend of mine and, it turns out, he treats people like shit in bed. It won't be that way for everyone but you're definitely going to see a side of them that you never knew existed. Sounds pretty hot to me It's not. He flipped between borderline abusive and incredibly whiny. It wasn't the hot dominant kinda stuff, it was just like "I'm going to beat you up" one minute and "WHAAAAAA" the next. Maybe that's hot for you but I prefer consistent performance through my banging. And I love my fair share of rough play but straight up bullying me and threatening to beat me up makes it REALLY hard to maintain an erection. Well, now you put it like that... Like I said, you learn things about your friends when you have sex with them. Shit gets weird. Thankfully that's not happened to me o.o The one or two straight people I've slept with haven't been friends. My old college roommate is a water polo player (aka REALLY hot) and I know for a fact he's curious but now I can't do anything about it because I know how poorly it turns out when you gay sex your straight friends. Drawing an overarching conclusion from a single incident is a bit silly, imo.
Not willing to take the risk with one of my best friends.
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On January 19 2012 07:20 Klondikebar wrote:Show nested quote +On January 19 2012 07:18 marvellosity wrote:On January 19 2012 07:17 Klondikebar wrote:On January 19 2012 07:01 marvellosity wrote:On January 19 2012 06:57 Klondikebar wrote:On January 19 2012 06:52 marvellosity wrote:On January 19 2012 06:46 Klondikebar wrote:On January 19 2012 06:38 marvellosity wrote:On January 19 2012 06:15 Klondikebar wrote:On January 19 2012 06:10 Luggage wrote:[quote] That's a big question. To condense the answer: I'm a sexual person, and I want to explore what there is to explore. I don't want to miss out on something that could be amazing just because of silly social blocks in my head. I guess I can understand why kissing is more intimate - it isn't usually seen as something purely physical, rather something with lots of emotions mixed in. Being "the experiment" of that guy, how did that feel? I guess if it was mostly for sex then it doesn't really matter if he didn't want to kiss? Thanks for the answers Well it did not feel good. Surprise surprise people act differently in bed than they do out in public. The dude was actually a really good friend of mine and, it turns out, he treats people like shit in bed. It won't be that way for everyone but you're definitely going to see a side of them that you never knew existed. Sounds pretty hot to me It's not. He flipped between borderline abusive and incredibly whiny. It wasn't the hot dominant kinda stuff, it was just like "I'm going to beat you up" one minute and "WHAAAAAA" the next. Maybe that's hot for you but I prefer consistent performance through my banging. And I love my fair share of rough play but straight up bullying me and threatening to beat me up makes it REALLY hard to maintain an erection. Well, now you put it like that... Like I said, you learn things about your friends when you have sex with them. Shit gets weird. Thankfully that's not happened to me o.o The one or two straight people I've slept with haven't been friends. My old college roommate is a water polo player (aka REALLY hot) and I know for a fact he's curious but now I can't do anything about it because I know how poorly it turns out when you gay sex your straight friends. Drawing an overarching conclusion from a single incident is a bit silly, imo. Not willing to take the risk with one of my best friends.
Let it be known I strongly disapprove :p
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On January 19 2012 07:21 marvellosity wrote:Show nested quote +On January 19 2012 07:20 Klondikebar wrote:On January 19 2012 07:18 marvellosity wrote:On January 19 2012 07:17 Klondikebar wrote:On January 19 2012 07:01 marvellosity wrote:On January 19 2012 06:57 Klondikebar wrote:On January 19 2012 06:52 marvellosity wrote:On January 19 2012 06:46 Klondikebar wrote:On January 19 2012 06:38 marvellosity wrote:On January 19 2012 06:15 Klondikebar wrote:
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Well it did not feel good. Surprise surprise people act differently in bed than they do out in public. The dude was actually a really good friend of mine and, it turns out, he treats people like shit in bed. It won't be that way for everyone but you're definitely going to see a side of them that you never knew existed.
Sounds pretty hot to me It's not. He flipped between borderline abusive and incredibly whiny. It wasn't the hot dominant kinda stuff, it was just like "I'm going to beat you up" one minute and "WHAAAAAA" the next. Maybe that's hot for you but I prefer consistent performance through my banging. And I love my fair share of rough play but straight up bullying me and threatening to beat me up makes it REALLY hard to maintain an erection. Well, now you put it like that... Like I said, you learn things about your friends when you have sex with them. Shit gets weird. Thankfully that's not happened to me o.o The one or two straight people I've slept with haven't been friends. My old college roommate is a water polo player (aka REALLY hot) and I know for a fact he's curious but now I can't do anything about it because I know how poorly it turns out when you gay sex your straight friends. Drawing an overarching conclusion from a single incident is a bit silly, imo. Not willing to take the risk with one of my best friends. Let it be known I strongly disapprove :p
Well he's coming to town next month. If I break down...I'll let you know.
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On January 19 2012 07:27 Klondikebar wrote:Show nested quote +On January 19 2012 07:21 marvellosity wrote:On January 19 2012 07:20 Klondikebar wrote:On January 19 2012 07:18 marvellosity wrote:On January 19 2012 07:17 Klondikebar wrote:On January 19 2012 07:01 marvellosity wrote:On January 19 2012 06:57 Klondikebar wrote:On January 19 2012 06:52 marvellosity wrote:On January 19 2012 06:46 Klondikebar wrote:On January 19 2012 06:38 marvellosity wrote:[quote] Sounds pretty hot to me It's not. He flipped between borderline abusive and incredibly whiny. It wasn't the hot dominant kinda stuff, it was just like "I'm going to beat you up" one minute and "WHAAAAAA" the next. Maybe that's hot for you but I prefer consistent performance through my banging. And I love my fair share of rough play but straight up bullying me and threatening to beat me up makes it REALLY hard to maintain an erection. Well, now you put it like that... Like I said, you learn things about your friends when you have sex with them. Shit gets weird. Thankfully that's not happened to me o.o The one or two straight people I've slept with haven't been friends. My old college roommate is a water polo player (aka REALLY hot) and I know for a fact he's curious but now I can't do anything about it because I know how poorly it turns out when you gay sex your straight friends. Drawing an overarching conclusion from a single incident is a bit silly, imo. Not willing to take the risk with one of my best friends. Let it be known I strongly disapprove :p Well he's coming to town next month. If I break down...I'll let you know.
I'll try to work on your psyche
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