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Dating: How's your luck? - Page 69
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We are extremely close to shutting down this thread for the same reasons the PUA thread was shut down. While some of the time this thread contains actual discussion with people asking help and people giving nice advice, it often gets derailed by rubbish that should not be here. The moderation team will be trying to steer this thread in a different direction from now on. Posts of the following nature are banned: 1) ANYTHING regarding PUA. If your post contains the words 'alpha' or 'beta' or anything of that sort please don't hit post. 2) Stupid brags. You can tell us about your nice success stories with someone, but posts such as 'lol 50 Tinder matches' are a no-no. 3) Any misogynistic bullshit, including discussion about rape culture. 4) One night stands and random sex. These are basically brags that invariably devolve into gender role discussions and misogynistic comments. Last chance, guys. This thread is for dating advice and sharing dating stories. While gender roles, sociocultural norms, and our biological imperative to reproduce are all tangentially related, these subjects are not the main purpose of the thread. Please AVOID these discussions. If you want to discuss them at length, go to PMs or start a blog. If you disagree with someone's ideologies, state that you disagree with them and why they won't work from a dating standpoint and move on. We will not tolerate any lengthy derailments that aren't directly about dating. | ||
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Sakray
France2198 Posts
Internet ftw | ||
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generalyao
United States262 Posts
On January 05 2013 10:38 Sakray wrote: I've never dated a girl even tho I'm on a relatioship for almost 6 years now. Internet ftw So how'd you end up in a relationship then..? There has to be some interesting story behind that | ||
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MountainDewJunkie
United States10340 Posts
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arb
Noobville17920 Posts
On January 05 2013 10:51 generalyao wrote: So how'd you end up in a relationship then..? There has to be some interesting story behind that he's gay | ||
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MountainDewJunkie
United States10340 Posts
I think he means he's in a relationship with someone he's never even met in person, ie, he met her online, cyber sex, phone calls, WoW, stuff like that. Phone sex is pretty good, imo | ||
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arb
Noobville17920 Posts
On January 05 2013 11:18 MountainDewJunkie wrote: I think he means he's in a relationship with someone he's never even met in person, ie, he met her online, cyber sex, phone calls, WoW, stuff like that. Phone sex is pretty good, imo he said he's never dated a girl but been in a relationship for 6 years gay imo | ||
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Mariosatr
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MountainDewJunkie
United States10340 Posts
On January 05 2013 11:19 arb wrote: he said he's never dated a girl but been in a relationship for 6 years gay imo But he said internet ftw, what would that have to do with sexual preference | ||
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arb
Noobville17920 Posts
On January 05 2013 11:22 MountainDewJunkie wrote: But he said internet ftw, what would that have to do with sexual preference you can still date guys on the internet plus he said never a girl that leaves only one other sex, that being male unless its male/female or some kind of animal ?? | ||
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generalyao
United States262 Posts
On January 05 2013 11:22 MountainDewJunkie wrote: But he said internet ftw, what would that have to do with sexual preference Maybe he was talking about a 2-d waifu? 0_0 | ||
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Makro
France16890 Posts
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sam!zdat
United States5559 Posts
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MountainDewJunkie
United States10340 Posts
On January 05 2013 11:23 arb wrote: you can still date guys on the internet plus he said never a girl that leaves only one other sex, that being male unless its male/female or some kind of animal ?? Well I don't consider internet meetings as real dates, so when he said he hasn't dated a girl I assumed he meant not a real one, because he's in a long-distance online-only relationship Or he's gay... which seems entirely irrelevant to the discussion | ||
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r.Evo
Germany14079 Posts
GG. | ||
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arb
Noobville17920 Posts
On January 05 2013 11:28 MountainDewJunkie wrote: Well I don't consider internet meetings as real dates, so when he said he hasn't dated a girl I assumed he meant not a real one, because he's in a long-distance online-only relationship Or he's gay... which seems entirely irrelevant to the discussion depends on his definition of dating | ||
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MountainDewJunkie
United States10340 Posts
On January 05 2013 11:33 r.Evo wrote: Maybe they met online, fell in love and greeted each other with a kiss the first time, skipping the "dating process". GG. Could be. I've known my fiance for years, but when actually hooked up, we were able to skip all the bullshit phase of walking on eggshells, hiding secrets, basically, we didn't have to upsell ourselves to each other because we already knew. It was easy. | ||
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Kukaracha
France1954 Posts
On January 05 2013 08:34 Saumure wrote: "Social" skills: - Leading: putting yourself in a better position than others as they do not notice. Do not forget to take their credit. - Managing: superficial work you do to get paid. - Relating culturally: act like you give a damn about the others origin and stuff - Relating with others : be nice to them so they do the work your boss wants them to do - Communicating: act interested when others talk about themselves. Increase hypocrite attitude. Also, you can convince people that the crap you are selling is in fact good for example. WTF is this discussion doing in the Dating topic ? :D :D What about... empathy? Confidence? Curiosity? Enthousiasm? It seems so cliché that nerds would have such extreme opinions on things that seem natural to others... as if it was something completely unkown to them. | ||
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Mentalizor
Denmark1596 Posts
...however...!...guys... And this is important! Me... This guy who haven't been dating other girls for nearly 8 years (!)... Who gained weight and lost confidence... I actually manage to still go out there - talking to girls, getting out kissing them and even hooking up with some of them. Honestly, I'm not quite looking for something new stable atm, so it's just perfect. The only 5 things I've got going for me is: 1: Humor 2: Charm 3: Confidence (diminished - but still strong) 4: Experience... Girls dig guys who have tried things... 7 years in a relationship is strangly attractive to them ladies.. 5: I have no fear of talking to girls/strangers at all. Most of these things sound simple - and they are! Most girls say they are more attracted to most of those things - rather than looks... And seriously, I was shocked to discover they were actually telling the truth. My guess is (since this is the internet) some guys would miss a few points in the list - but then you've got something else instead. Keep your heads up, guys  When I can manage to slowly get back into the game after losing every investment I've ever had emotionally in a girl - then I bet you can aswell. Remember: Girls are not evil, condesending creatures. They are nice and are also just looking for a good time. | ||
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Leyra
United States1222 Posts
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the_business_og
United States167 Posts
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