Dating: How's your luck? - Page 636

On June 19 2015 19:59 bloodwhore~ wrote:


I've already sent a message that she didn't respond to and removed her.

On June 19 2015 20:00 LemOn wrote:
you pretty much screwed up so good that you did - this is how you set dates through texts next/tinder time.

On June 19 2015 23:08 unsaeglich wrote:
I can't wait you for you to fall in love with the girl that teaches you sex

Once you have (good) sex, you will find out how much you enjoy being this girl. I was in a similar situation, and I was until a few month with that girl together, total 1,5+ years. Great time though.

I am somewhat active on tinder too, and managed to be together (for 3 weeks, it seems) with an incredibly hot, and strange 18 year old girl ( I am 25 now). And while she's every nerds dream (so mine too ofc) : petite half japanese girl with natural white blond hair (albino influences), swiss, american and german pass, watches this anime stuff in japanese( translates to me fluently while watching), plays dota / lol / wc3 / cod / and some mmorpg's, worked as model, and didn't have a partner or a relationship in the past 2 years (she is very inexperienced and ehrm.. incredibly tight).
For some reason she works at least 12 houres a days as apprentice for stylist (haircutter). For her it's that important that in her little free time she takes extra customers and makes their hair, and weekends too, that she has basicly no time left to do anything else. (I don't think money is the reason, maybe for the extra work, but as apprentice you don't get paid by hours..)
Anyway meeting with her, regularly is become more and more impossible, as she also doesn't have a very good timemanagement (spend one saturday wondering if she would show up eventually), no clue what she was thinking looking for a steady relationship.
This world is weird.

So let's see what else tinder has in store for us, I wouldn't mind a shade more normal..

On June 19 2015 23:19 Snotling wrote:


Girls who have lots of sex get more tight, not less. Because the muscles in their vagina get more exercise (kegels also helps).
more sex = less tight is a porn myth (as long as the women doesnt give birth). Also it might have to do with inexperienced women cramping up.

On June 19 2015 23:32 unsaeglich wrote:

I didn't give a reason to why she was tight, I just stated that she was, and I didn't mean to imply a reason also. I think it's coz she's asian, but I won't know for sure, so what does it matter.

On June 19 2015 23:19 lastpuritan wrote:
been so long but i'll update just in case you remember, i bought her lilies, a bouquet well shaped, not so huge, not so tiny. she cried as expected, saying this is the first time a guy brings her flowers. i was overthinking when to gift because normally i pick her up with car and it wouldnt be nice to take flowers from backseat while driving so i decided to lie and told my ride is on service, i cant pick her this time, we decided to have desserts and i went early, tried to figure out what should be my entrance words, i dont know why but when she got here i picked the wrong one and hugged her, it was something like "they are no match for your beauty, but your hands shall only carry these" :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D I THINK I AM BACK TO MY FOURTEENS.........

need to find a good diamond ring shop, any franchise?

On June 19 2015 23:06 IgnE wrote:
Probably your other messages also.

On June 20 2015 01:17 bloodwhore~ wrote:


I don't think I'm that bad otherwise. I'm pretty good at talking shit over text, given that the other person is somewhat interesting. She sent a shitton of wink smilies etc.

She might have been a bit off put by my level of banter. I enjoy teasing people and discussing things so when she mentioned Crossfit I just started talking about how it is literally shit . I of course didn't just flame and I backed my shit up with proof. On the other hand if she can't handle a discussion then she is it not for me anyways.

On June 19 2015 18:51 bloodwhore~ wrote:
Asked her if she was still up for saturday or if she lost her interest. No answer for 10 hours to that question or to the other one so into the trash the match went.

Might have to initiate contact with girls myself now.

On June 20 2015 01:17 bloodwhore~ wrote:


I don't think I'm that bad otherwise. I'm pretty good at talking shit over text, given that the other person is somewhat interesting. She sent a shitton of wink smilies etc.

She might have been a bit off put by my level of banter. I enjoy teasing people and discussing things so when she mentioned Crossfit I just started talking about how it is literally shit . I of course didn't just flame and I backed my shit up with proof. On the other hand if she can't handle a discussion then she is it not for me anyways.

On June 20 2015 01:21 Acrofales wrote:
Might have to initiate contact with girls myself now.
sends big red flags.

your standards for "fuck buddies" are extremly high, haha. Really though, you should save your deep knowledge criticism for after the first meeting maybe..

On June 19 2015 18:51 bloodwhore~ wrote:
Asked her if she was still up for saturday or if she lost her interest. No answer for 10 hours to that question or to the other one so into the trash the match went.

Might have to initiate contact with girls myself now.

On June 19 2015 23:08 unsaeglich wrote:
I can't wait you for you to fall in love with the girl that teaches you sex

Once you have (good) sex, you will find out how much you enjoy being this girl. I was in a similar situation, and I was until a few month with that girl together, total 1,5+ years. Great time though.

I am somewhat active on tinder too, and managed to be together (for 3 weeks, it seems) with an incredibly hot, and strange 18 year old girl ( I am 25 now). And while she's every nerds dream (so mine too ofc) : petite half japanese girl with natural white blond hair (albino influences), swiss, american and german pass, watches this anime stuff in japanese( translates to me fluently while watching), plays dota / lol / wc3 / cod / and some mmorpg's, worked as model, and didn't have a partner or a relationship in the past 2 years (she is very inexperienced and ehrm.. incredibly tight).
For some reason she works at least 12 houres a days as apprentice for stylist (haircutter). For her it's that important that in her little free time she takes extra customers and makes their hair, and weekends too, that she has basicly no time left to do anything else. (I don't think money is the reason, maybe for the extra work, but as apprentice you don't get paid by hours..)
Anyway meeting with her, regularly is become more and more impossible, as she also doesn't have a very good timemanagement (spend one saturday wondering if she would show up eventually), no clue what she was thinking looking for a steady relationship.
This world is weird.

So let's see what else tinder has in store for us, I wouldn't mind a shade more normal..

On June 19 2015 02:11 LemOn wrote:

It's like a secondary thing that gives you confidence - it's helpful, like anything positive you do for yourself that makes you a more attractive and healthy/happy person overall . But there are way more direct, faster and longer lasting ways to improve dating skills themselves. You know - like dating a lot for instance :p


Btw Jeez. Had the puppey love goggles on with this chick, now I realized.
She is literally late to every single date
Initiated contact twice in total in 3 months
Leaves spaces between answering messages, sometimes doesn't answer at all to a question.
On three separate occasions when I spontaneously told her I'm going to this thing and that I'd love her to join me, she says she's studying next 4 days. And that reply came after 12 hours. And yesterday she didn't come at all after my quirky text telling her where to meet me. Thought her interest level is high enough to send her a big ass over complicated text and she'd read it and I can do something dorky like that cause the interest level is high enough, but obvy I was wrong/not paying attention to her.


She's like super present at all times so that's just her. But still last couple weeks I stopped watching porn, run every day, started eating healthy, keep training social skills (promoted myself from drunk to sober. Nerve wracking, but I managed to talk to every person of interest after a lot of stress at an expat event - still can't be my genuine self when sober) and it's like my head became clear and I realized that I don't want to stand for that bullshit really - I passed on a lot of great girls that were clearly into me because of this one.


I care about her a lot tho, so my plan's to tighten up my game - no texting, no long phone calls, get to know her more on dates (was auto piloting so far not really trying that much as I was tired/not on my A game on a lot of them - I realized I stopped asking questions about her - getting laid so why try right? Wrong. ), after a date tell her to call me when she'll know when she's free again and get back to scheduled dates only. And if she's late again...just leave and tell her where to meet me and how to get there (I always plan event based dates or cool places where I'd go regardless if it's with her or not)


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