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zergnewb
United States816 Posts
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LarJarsE
United States1378 Posts
REMEMBER: Basketball is not the only court of love. you need to broaden your view! | ||
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fanatacist
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On October 17 2009 08:03 SanguineToss wrote: why does it matter who he is you dont need 3000 posts to contribute to tl. It matters because some idiot that no one knows/cares about is posting "attraction advice" which involves getting a tattoo on your arm. He's clearly trolling. Don't be a retard. | ||
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LarJarsE
United States1378 Posts
On October 17 2009 08:39 zergnewb wrote: Hi larjarse. I'm a nerd and an example of the rule that no types of hints from women work on men. I was wondering if i could have some advice to tell if a girl is flirting with me or might like me. If you read my previous posts in this topic, I skim the water about how you know a woman is attracted to you. I, also, am a nerd, however, why would you let that hold you back?!?!! If you are smart, you can figure things out, and this is just another thing to figure out. When a girl talks to you, does she play with her hair? Does she looks at your lips? Does she do unneccessary grooming motions like fixing clothing over and over? These signs can mean that she has interest in you. | ||
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LarJarsE
United States1378 Posts
On October 17 2009 08:44 fanatacist wrote: It matters because some idiot that no one knows/cares about is posting "attraction advice" which involves getting a tattoo on your arm. He's clearly trolling. Don't be a retard. That question about being a bad boy was clearly sarcastic, and I gave a clearly sarcastic anwer. I am not going to respond to any other user's trolling, because my posts are the opposite. Fanatacist, if you would like advice, I would be more than pleased to help a fellow TL member out. | ||
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GOB
50 Posts
On October 17 2009 08:43 larjarse wrote: GOB: Give her a little push, a little trip. Don't actually try to hurt her, but show her that you can get physical and you are not afraid to. Basketball IS a physical game, and you can incorporate flirting. REMEMBER: Basketball is not the only court of love. you need to broaden your view! Yeah, you're probably right. It's also REALLY hard to conceal an erection while you're running in gym shorts, and playing in jeans tires me out really fast. How do you suggest I transition from the basketball court to the bed room? I mean, we've never really talked outside of the YMCA, and even then most of our conversations have been one sided; she will generally score some points and mock me (just playfully I think), and I will usually just blush or apologize for my poor defense. What is the best strategy here? I would like to make love to her while spending as little of my own money as possible. | ||
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zergnewb
United States816 Posts
On October 17 2009 08:47 larjarse wrote: If you read my previous posts in this topic, I skim the water about how you know a woman is attracted to you. I, also, am a nerd, however, why would you let that hold you back?!?!! If you are smart, you can figure things out, and this is just another thing to figure out. When a girl talks to you, does she play with her hair? Does she looks at your lips? Does she do unneccessary grooming motions like fixing clothing over and over? These signs can mean that she has interest in you. Hhmm. Sounds like decent advice thanks :D P.S. were you watching Nongmin today? i think you were there talking about something similar to this. | ||
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LarJarsE
United States1378 Posts
Women typically have three types of men in their life: 1. Friends. Have alot of female friends, meet alot of females, move on to more than friends. Friend's isn't always a bad thing. 2. The lover. This is where you want to be. To her, this is the sexual figure she thinks about when she is with her provider. We'll talk about him next. This is the confident, sexy, straightforward man she calls for a good time. She feels lucky to have him in her life. She calls him more than he calls her, because he has it like that. 3. The provider. This is her emotional outlet. This is the man that takes her out to dinner and blue balls at the last moment. This is the guys who, from the start, started buying her shit. He compliments her and is overly nice. He calls her more than she calls him. DONT BE THIS GUY. | ||
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LarJarsE
United States1378 Posts
On October 17 2009 08:58 zergnewb wrote: P.S. were you watching Nongmin today? i think you were there talking about something similar to this. I certaintly was. | ||
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strong_zeelot
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LarJarsE
United States1378 Posts
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GOB
50 Posts
On October 17 2009 09:02 larjarse wrote: GOB: I have good news in store for you if you don't wish to spend money on her. Women typically have three types of men in their life: 1. Friends. Have alot of female friends, meet alot of females, move on to more than friends. Friend's isn't always a bad thing. 2. The lover. This is where you want to be. To her, this is the sexual figure she thinks about when she is with her provider. We'll talk about him next. This is the confident, sexy, straightforward man she calls for a good time. She feels lucky to have him in her life. She calls him more than he calls her, because he has it like that. 3. The provider. This is her emotional outlet. This is the man that takes her out to dinner and blue balls at the last moment. This is the guys who, from the start, started buying her shit. He compliments her and is overly nice. He calls her more than she calls him. DONT BE THIS GUY. Wow, that is good news. How do I make sure that I become the #2? I don't have her number at the moment, and the only place I know her from is the YMCA. I don't want to meet her there again because we'll just end up playing basketball again, and we've already decided that doing that anymore is probably a bad idea. Should I wait until she leaves the Y one day and follow her to somewhere else, and then "accidentally" run into her there? I'm talking about like a Starbucks or the bank, not her house. | ||
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Keniji
Netherlands2569 Posts
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LarJarsE
United States1378 Posts
that's right, HER | ||
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Chuiu
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frogmelter
United States971 Posts
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KurtistheTurtle
United States1966 Posts
On October 17 2009 08:44 fanatacist wrote: It matters because some idiot that no one knows/cares about is posting "attraction advice" which involves getting a tattoo on your arm. He's clearly trolling. Don't be a retard. all the advice he's given is 100% dead-on. He answered a ridiculous question with a ridiculous answer, but it would work. I suggest you grade him on the quality of all of his answers instead of judging him on his response to a semi-troll and his post count. You probably need to ask him a couple questions too if you don't see the truth of his advice. My question: I need a casual date excuse for a girl I know. This isn't where I live so I don't have a car but she does. I'm also the first boy she's ever kissed, and I can't spend enough time with her to actually make-out with her (maybe 1 hour every couple weeks). She doesn't wanna do anything past occasional close-lipped. What's a situation I can make that would get her to really just relax and let me kiss her? [edit: I'm in town for the weekend] | ||
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Bobo_XIII
United States429 Posts
On October 17 2009 07:30 GOB wrote: What do you do when a girl you like consistently beats you at basketball, one-on-one? She's very attractive but I think the constant emasculation is a turn off for her. I can't use any of my low post moves on her because she's six inches taller than me, and my sky-hook is fairly inaccurate. Most of my friends tell me I need to crash the boards harder, but how can I?? She's got a wingspan like a pterodactyl and she's definitely not afraid to use her elbows. I've been working on my perimeter game, but it's hard to shoot over a defender who can block out the sun. I think she's trying to make me earn my living at the free-throw line, but I'm too much of a gentleman to call a foul! HELP!! LMAO GOB has posted a quality series of posts in this thread | ||
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UFO
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LarJarsE
United States1378 Posts
Okay, you've already made great leaps with this girl. You know she is attracted to you. You are asking me how to get intimate with her. I would suggest watch a movie with her, not in theaters. At someone's house, with you two alone. Women know what men want, they want to be intimate right here and now, with no fight to it. MY ADVICE: Hold back on the sexual intimacy. When you are hanging with her during the movie, don't go in for the kiss immediately. Talk to her a bit, show her your good humor and show her you are comfortable not being intimate with her right in front of you. This will confuse her, she will wonder why you haven't made a move yet. And right before she is about to give up on you, get closer, maybe a small compliment may help, and move in for the makeout session. After kissing for a little, if you are into it, and you notice she is (even remotely into it) just STOP. Find something else to seemingly occupy your attention for a short while. Go to the bathroom right quick. Talk about something else. Pick up a magizine and read it for a little. Carefully notice how she responds to this. She is going to be confused, guys do not act like this! And before she actually gets frustrated or loses hope, move in again. She will LOVE the fact that you still want her. Do this in small steps, and she may be more and more into it every time, getting closer and closer to sexual intimacy. Girls LOVE being chased! If you show her that you can restrain yourself and you have other things on your mind besides sex, she will be confused and try to make you WANT HER. This WORKS. | ||
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