EPTOne night you just met a girl. How do you break down her boundaries for a one night stand? Assume she's not an outrageous nympho nor super conservative.
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igotmyown
United States4291 Posts
One night you just met a girl. How do you break down her boundaries for a one night stand? Assume she's not an outrageous nympho nor super conservative. | ||
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-HellZerg-
United States409 Posts
My questions are: 1. How do I know if she has a boyfriend without asking her about it? 2. How can I meet her and get together to know each other better if she lives off campus, like 45 minutes away from campus, if I don't have a car here? Would it be rude to ask her when she is in campus most of times? Thanks. | ||
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LarJarsE
United States1378 Posts
1. She fucks around. 2. She/you were drunk when this happened. It is a better idea to go out, approach and talk to women confidently, learn how to maintain conversation with women you just met, get numbers or emails or other means of contact. Most importantly: ENJOY YOURSELF. If you are a confident guy who just enjoys himself meeting and talking to women, there WILL be women attracted to you. And during this process, you may find yourself going further than you would ever imagine, maybe even a one night stand if that's what you are into! | ||
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Maero
349 Posts
On October 17 2009 07:30 GOB wrote: What do you do when a girl you like consistently beats you at basketball, one-on-one? She's very attractive but I think the constant emasculation is a turn off for her. I can't use any of my low post moves on her because she's six inches taller than me, and my sky-hook is fairly inaccurate. Most of my friends tell me I need to crash the boards harder, but how can I?? She's got a wingspan like a pterodactyl and she's definitely not afraid to use her elbows. I've been working on my perimeter game, but it's hard to shoot over a defender who can block out the sun. I think she's trying to make me earn my living at the free-throw line, but I'm too much of a gentleman to call a foul! HELP!! This post almost made me choke to death laughing. I think that is a mark of quality. | ||
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Thratur
Canada917 Posts
I know that I'm a stupid monkey animal that want to fuck girls. The point is that I consider dating girls like a loss of time/money (but because "time is money", then it's almost the same thing). But that's not really important. Also, when I meet a beautiful girl, it always put me in a bad, unstable, psychological state that depresses me for weeks and weeks and I can't do anything good. What should I do to avoid psychological troubles so I can stay happy in life? | ||
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Phrujbaz
Netherlands512 Posts
On October 17 2009 09:39 ProHellZerg wrote: Hey,larjarse; I am AdrenalZG44. So, like I said, I know two girls in my actuarial math class; one I saw from calc 1 class from freshman year, and another one (this is the tall girl I talked about) I saw from interest theory math class last year. The tall girl seems a lot more athletic; she always rides rollerblades to class. Anyways, recently, I find myself talking more to the first girl I met from calc 1 class, and today was probably the day that I talked to her the longest out of all other days. My questions are: 1. How do I know if she has a boyfriend without asking her about it? 2. How can I meet her and get together to know each other better if she lives off campus, like 45 minutes away from campus, if I don't have a car here? Would it be rude to ask her when she is in campus most of times? Thanks. 1.) Finding out if she has a boyfriend is an indication you are interested in her. Be careful with this. Most men have the tendency to be way too generous with their shows of interest. If she has been particularly nice to you and compliant with your request or demands, feel free to ask her if she has a boyfriend. She will feel like she's earned it and you can reward her by showing your interest in her. Otherwise, just don't care about whether she has a boyfriend or not. If you play it right she will dump him for you, anyway  2.) Asking that is a show of interest. Do not do this if she has not earned it. The best timing to handle logistical problems like this if she is already admitting that she wants to hang out with you more. Once you're at that point, just discuss openly. | ||
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LarJarsE
United States1378 Posts
On October 17 2009 09:39 ProHellZerg wrote: 1. How do I know if she has a boyfriend without asking her about it? 2. How can I meet her and get together to know each other better if she lives off campus, like 45 minutes away from campus, if I don't have a car here? Would it be rude to ask her when she is in campus most of times? Thanks. Adrenal, in this kind of situation, it is sometimes okay to make a white lie to find out information. During casual conversation, switch the topic that would make her talk about her boyfriend status. EXAMPLE: Speaking of articles I read online, I just read about some woman who broke up with her abusive boyfriend of 10 years, that's just insane how people would stay that long. SHE RESPONDS. Yeah, have you had any crazy boyfriends? You can definitely manage to get an answer you want out of her, I don't have the time to answer question 2. Work is over, and because it is a FRIDAY NIGHT, I am going out! As you all should too! Going out and meeting and socializing with women is important if you want to improve your game, so get to it! I will be back tomorrow to answer more questions. Thanks for posting  | ||
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Thratur
Canada917 Posts
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LarJarsE
United States1378 Posts
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Phrujbaz
Netherlands512 Posts
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HonestTea
5007 Posts
but used to be you had to have some rep before you could make threads like these... | ||
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KurtistheTurtle
United States1966 Posts
On October 17 2009 10:03 HonestTea wrote: This isn't endorsement, nor is it condemnation, but used to be you had to have some rep before you could make threads like these... I'd say at this point he's given enough good advice and showed himself mature enough to run this thread. | ||
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Romance_us
Seychelles1806 Posts
On October 17 2009 10:03 HonestTea wrote: This isn't endorsement, nor is it condemnation, but used to be you had to have some rep before you could make threads like these... Maybe if his general attitude had been questionable? I think the newer you are, the more you absolutely cannot get away with any real form of trolling. As a veteran, people here generally understand your personality and have pre-conceived notions pertaining to your disposition towards certain touchy subjects. Makes "taking the joke" much, much more bearable. It's annoying to see somebody new come in and try to be grandiose because you can't tell. | ||
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MeriaDoKk
Chile1726 Posts
On October 17 2009 08:11 larjarse wrote: If you hate people, this is not the topic for you! But what about prostitutes? | ||
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LarJarsE
United States1378 Posts
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igotmyown
United States4291 Posts
On October 17 2009 09:43 larjarse wrote: One night stands are another thing. Getting a girl to have sex with you the FIRST NIGHT she meets you can mean a couple things. 1. She fucks around. 2. She/you were drunk when this happened. It is a better idea to go out, approach and talk to women confidently, learn how to maintain conversation with women you just met, get numbers or emails or other means of contact. Most importantly: ENJOY YOURSELF. If you are a confident guy who just enjoys himself meeting and talking to women, there WILL be women attracted to you. And during this process, you may find yourself going further than you would ever imagine, maybe even a one night stand if that's what you are into! http://www.livescience.com/health/080710-onenight-stand.html Campbell surveyed more than 3,300 individuals, most of whom were between the ages of 17 and 40. Of the heterosexual respondents, more than half reported a one-night stand, about evenly split between men and women. Well apparently not. "It's that they wanted the man to understand that they weren't like this normally. That they were doing this for him on this night as a particular event." I wasn't asking whether it's better to have a one night stand or whether that's the most satisfying relationship. But it definitely gets into another area of attraction, and I think it's a valid question. I consider my question still unanswered. If you don't know, just say you something to that regard. and one last excerpt from the article + Show Spoiler + Women predominantly reported "regret at being used," with additional comments including: "I felt cheap," "horrified afterward," and "I felt degraded. Made myself look cheap and easy. Total regret." | ||
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Smokin_Squirrel
Korea (South)674 Posts
Anyhow, I've been so affected by the last rejection that I rarely ever smile now and feel dead inside like I'm incapable of feeling any emotions (it's been nearly 2 weeks). Whenever I am around others, I am a cold, insensitive bastard and it drives me crazy. I KNOW I have a problem but it feels like I couldn't care less about it while at the same time I want to become better (I know it sounds stupid). Anyways what I want to ask is, when is the right timing to let a girl know how I feel about her? I'm such a shy guy that I always take a friend relationship too far and miss the chance. Keep in mind I am still in high school. | ||
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Phrujbaz
Netherlands512 Posts
On October 17 2009 11:37 Smokin_Squirrel wrote: Anyways what I want to ask is, when is the right timing to let a girl know how I feel about her? I'm such a shy guy that I always take a friend relationship too far and miss the chance. Keep in mind I am still in high school. If you're romantically interested in a girl then you have to add a passionate element the relationship from the start. Flirt with her. Touch her. Hug her. Hold eye contact for as long as you are comfortable with. Fact of the matter is you don't really need to let her know your feelings for her. Just feel confident with yourself, express your sexuality and let nature run its course. By "express your sexuality" I don't mean you need to put your dick into her pussy. I just mean you need to bring passion into the relationship and make it a romantic adventure. If she is going to reject you she will reject you now and you know you are going to be just friends. You're not going to get your hopes crushed. And if she goes along with it, you know you aren't going to be just friends. Just because of the kind of relationship you are building with her. So, you will both know your feelings for each other already and where the relationship is going. Just try it, try touching a girl lightly on the arm in the middle of a conversation and you'll see it feels completely natural. It's just as natural, just a different course, heading to romance instead of to the friend zone. From there you can slowly turn up the heat to what you're both comfortable with. There no need to create this big "turnaround" point where you have to make a friend into a lover. | ||
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Drowsy
United States4876 Posts
On October 17 2009 08:03 heyoka wrote: There is a girl I want to be with but I don't know anything about her religion (and respective piety), family and family history, socio-economic class, artistic and literary talents, sensitivity/romanticism/sentimentalism, patriotism/provincialism or rootedness in her native culture, cooking & cleaning (or other domestic abilities), mental and emotional stability, historical attitude and preferences regarding bourgeois family life, racial origins (not already clear), or feminine virtues (virginity, modesty, etc). How can I go about finding these things to decide if she is the girl for me? rofl, man that post is like 2 years old and still legendary. Does that guy still post here? | ||
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ricebowl
United States31 Posts
And i don't know if she has a boyfriend or not | ||
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