EPTHurting your ex-gf's feelings - Page 4
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ZBiR
Poland1092 Posts
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Metalwing
Turkey1038 Posts
@ZBiR: Lol, the last thing in my life was getting banned because of my conversation with my ex. If i succeed this, i can die in peace. | ||
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koreasilver
9109 Posts
On July 08 2010 07:35 Metalwing wrote: @koreasilver: So you say this: "If you don't want, you don't have to be friends with her. But you could do this without smashing her to the ground". Well, i admit, i could. And actually it was just the flow of conversation. But i'm pretty much satisfied with the way it went. No, I'm saying you're a FUCKING IMBECILE for deriving happiness from making another person miserable. Get fucked. | ||
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Zurles
United Kingdom1659 Posts
So you don't find anything wrong with deriving happiness off of the misery of another being? I don't give a shit if he blew off an ex-SO. That is necessary at times. But being happy that she is miserable is completely different thing, particularly since there seems to be nothing that she has done to warrant such a response. He's happy because him not being miserable in a situation where he easily could be proves he's a strong person. He hasn't done any damage to her, and like I said it was probably somewhat lost in translation. All he's done is asserted his feelings and hasn't wasted time prolonging something he doesn't want. The way he acts brings much more success and wastes much less time. Labelling him as a sadist and trying to sympathise too much with the ex is pointless and foolish. | ||
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HeavOnEarth
United States7087 Posts
The OP is being pretty well mannered in regards to this thread and all the negative criticism so im SLIGHTLY inclined to believe the ex-gf had fault. Not that i would ever do something like that. actually ima just go with this is just all made up  | ||
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niteReloaded
Croatia5281 Posts
I'm guessing she didn't do anything horrible, coz otherwise she'd know it and wouldn't even try to reestablish a connection. She broke up, wants to be friends/get back together, you blow her of in a very childish way and feel esctatic about it. Is she not physically attractive anymore or did she really cause such an emotional damage that you don't even think of her that way? she probly did something bad after all... | ||
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TwilightStar
United States649 Posts
You are invincible  | ||
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Count9
China10928 Posts
On July 08 2010 07:35 ZBiR wrote: Wasn't being an asshole + an idiot at once a bannable offense? It definitely should. Should be added to report function. | ||
FakeSteve[TPR]
Valhalla18444 Posts
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Surrealz
United States449 Posts
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TaaiJoeng
Hong Kong164 Posts
f*** f*** f*** f*** f*** f*** LOL I'm making fun of the way you talk. The f***'s in my paragraph were on purpose. Please be creative with your profanities. And I don't see the fuckin point of putting asterisks to censor "fuck". It's text for fuck's sake...not audio. | ||
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ssj114
Afghanistan461 Posts
On July 08 2010 08:17 FakeSteve[TPR] wrote: is civility dead in children today No, making comments on civility in children on a blog on the internet is alive. What's dead is discussing these things face to face like real men haha. | ||
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koreasilver
9109 Posts
On July 08 2010 07:40 Zurles wrote: He's happy because him not being miserable in a situation where he easily could be proves he's a strong person. He hasn't done any damage to her, and like I said it was probably somewhat lost in translation. All he's done is asserted his feelings and hasn't wasted time prolonging something he doesn't want. The way he acts brings much more success and wastes much less time. Labelling him as a sadist and trying to sympathise too much with the ex is pointless and foolish. If he actually was over this girl and he wasn't miserable about it then he wouldn't have lashed out at this girl for little to no reason. He was miserable to begin with. He tried to move his misery onto her and claimed some sort of victory and bragged about this false happiness even if everything suggest that he is still miserable. If he wasn't miserable then this entire debacle wouldn't have existed and the whole situation would have been very inconsequential to him. He would have just declined without any antagonism. No false sense of victory and revenge. The way he acted brings a false sense of success and ultimately wastes more time as he deceives himself and continues to falsely rationalize his poor judgement as not to face what actually did happen. He didn't prove he's a strong person. He did the exact opposite. To say that he showed the characteristics of a strong person is a deceit. | ||
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Tadzio
3340 Posts
-Punish them for breaking our hearts so they'll never dare to hurt us again. What we actually accomplish when we act like jerks to our ex's: -Reinforce and validate their decision to hurt us. | ||
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[NyC]HoBbes
United States803 Posts
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InRaged
1047 Posts
On July 08 2010 08:03 niteReloaded wrote: I'm trying to understand this, but I fail. I'm guessing she didn't do anything horrible, coz otherwise she'd know it and wouldn't even try to reestablish a connection. She broke up, wants to be friends/get back together, you blow her of in a very childish way and feel esctatic about it. Is she not physically attractive anymore or did she really cause such an emotional damage that you don't even think of her that way? she probly did something bad after all... Yeah, she did. She hurt his FEELINGS =)) | ||
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rockon1215
United States612 Posts
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Chef
10810 Posts
What you should do is get back together with her, after 5 years or so get engaged, then a week before the wedding break up with her on the radio by building up to the 'big question' which is actually 'when can you move out?' + Show Spoiler + I wonder how the overlap works with those two threads, in terms of posters. Bandwagons form quickly, and seem to decide threads like these. Perhaps in another time, another place, TLers would have been cheering you on. | ||
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Reason
United Kingdom2770 Posts
OP is freak. "Whatever, i'm feeling happy now and nothing can ruin my happiness unless it goes away by itself :D:D:D"!" Yeah I almost feel sad for you. It's going to go away, and soon. You actually nailed it so hard here you won't believe it. | ||
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Romantic
United States1844 Posts
give no backstory come in 10 pages later and explain she cheated on you and slashed your tires, so how dare anyone criticize you ^ predicting above | ||
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