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Hello TL! I'm god damn fucking happy and i want to share my happiness. And what did i do to become this happy?
A few hours ago, my ex-gf texted me, saying that she wants to be friends. At first, i acted like a total jerk. Then i looked back to my past with her, some emotionality there, and right after that i became a jerk again and said "f*** that, it's all f***ing history. And i'm just 18. F***ING 18!!! I got a future ahead of me". She went emotional again and said "I missed calling you Dırdıl". Dırdıl is my nickname that she used to use. I said "I didn't miss that F***ING thing". She went emotional again. "I thought maybe we could figure things out and put it in the way, but the way is already closed on your side. Good luck with your life ahead and have fun". And i've gone a total jerk and said "Thank you :D i'm f***ing having a really f***ing good fun right now :D:D:D".
I'm pretty sure she started crying. I mean, i can feel her sorrow, and this gives me some f***ing feeling that i got an EPIC WIN, i just fulfilled my purpose of living, and this makes me FUCKING happy. This happiness may be temporary or permanent. Whatever, i'm feeling happy now and nothing can ruin my happiness unless it goes away by itself :D:D:D
  
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Burning bridges with women @ 18 not the best move I've ever seen.
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please tell me that this blog post is real at least.
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Erm.. Yeah, interesting thing to blog about. Not sure this is the coolest thing to do, but if for some reason this makes you happy whatever, enjoy it I guess. :/
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I'm with the OP on this one... nothing like dishing out a lil pain to those who deserve it. Especially if SHE broke up with YOU and now wants to be friends... tell her to go to hell. If you broke up with her then you're just being an ass. But either way you are 100% within your right to tell her you don't wanna be friends afterward.
Of course she might just be looking for sex in which case you just missed out on some no-strings-attached fun... ex-gfs sometimes do crazy stuff like that.
If you are 18 then just go to college next year and meet much more interesting & attractive girls. Your time with her will seem like a distant dream.
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she asked for a "re" and you said "GG NO RE BITCH!" good for you man :D
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You sound like an asshole to me.
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I've kept in contact with all of my Exs and they have turned into very good friends for the most part.
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On July 08 2010 06:18 Kalingingsong wrote:
please tell me that this blog post is real at least.
of course it's real. It's not like he met her at disney land or sacrificed a friendship in the process...
....holy shit here we go again.
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I find it dumb. If you really wanted to hurt her feelings you should have done the bachelor frog fuck-her-one-more-time thing.
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Great work, if there is one thing I learned from tl over the years is that everyone hates when u talk badly to girls (unless u make a post showing how cute ur gf is or something then everyone willl bash her and say she's hardly a 2/10)
I'm stoked for u tho bro attay boy
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So now that you fulfilled the purpose of your life, you're probably looking for a new one (or for a razor?). May I suggest one? Stop being a jerk.
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On July 08 2010 06:23 ondik wrote:
I find it dumb. If you really wanted to hurt her feelings you should have done the bachelor frog fuck-her-one-more-time thing.
I prefer the 'just ignore and don't talk to her again thing' alot cooler tbh. Girls get so worked up on that.
And it's probably not the best move you pulled OP. I mean you should have had good times with her if you were together, or did she pull some shit on you? Then it's justified 
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@Uranium: Actually dude, yep, she broke up with me which is why i'm enjoying myself this much. And even if she's just looking for sex, i'm not that easy to dish myself out to a girl like that one. And i'm already a sophmore at a college.
And before all, thanks for sharing my happiness. And, she texted me again. Nothing new, emotional again. Just telling me "I don't know you anymore, you changed so much. I'm so sad, i'm wounded deep inside my heart, and i know you're so happy and i'm making you even happier" etc etc. I don't know about the first part, but i'm so happy and she's making me EVEN FUCKING HAPPIER :D:D:D
Again, thanks for sharing my happiness !!!
@Sephy69: Thank you too man, I'm just extatic :D:D:D and it happened just like the way you told :D:D:D
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You can say "fuck" on TL. Hell, you did in your post sometimes, but censored it other times. Makes no fucking sense, kind of like you posting this shit as if you did something commendable.
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Please just type out fuck next time you want to use it in a post. Its annoying to read a bunch of starred out crap.
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F*** you Mastermind
mother *er
yeah, I know 1 letter cuss words
suck it
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Deriving happiness from hurting another? That's deranged no matter what angle you put it. I don't have an issue with anyone saying no to an ex-SO but actively enjoying the process of hurting another person is fucked.
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@huameng&Mastermind: At first, i thought that saying "fuck" is forbidden on TL, and afterwards i said "Fuck rules, that's it. Even if it's outlaw.".
EDIT: Plz don't bash the blog :D i'm so damn high and i want to share it. No more discussions about the word "fuck" please.
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Philosophy I go by is if it bothers you 40 years from the incident, then you can do something about it. lol at you miserable cunt
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18 year old burns bridges, looks back on it later and realized it wasn't constructive and didn't actually help him which is why he made a blog about it to try and materialize a real feeling about said burning of bridges.
ps- if she was looking for casual sex u should have said yez
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Also, you can call me a miserable cunt, an idiot or even gay. I mean, ALL THE WAY. I don't give a FUCK !!! I'm touching the sky right now :D
@Surrealz: Sex couldn't make me happier, just like anything else.
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well it's a refreshing change from girl help threads, i guess
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Holy crap you're a fucking asshole..it boggles my mind really.
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On July 08 2010 06:43 Metalwing wrote:
Also, you can call me a miserable cunt, an idiot or even gay. I mean, ALL THE WAY. I don't give a FUCK !!! I'm touching the sky right now :D
@Surrealz: Sex couldn't make me happier, just like anything else.
Oh no, god forbid!
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i can't feel happy for you without knowing if she was a bitch to you first
in that case 5/5 would be justified
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NICE! you should call your ex-gf, then she will answer and be expecting maybe an apology or something, then say "IT WAS AN ACCIDENT! LOLOLOL"
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@St3MoR: If you're asking this, she broke up with me. Still 5/5 goes ?
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You are a fucking idiot, you don't deserve to have friends nor another girlfriend.
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On July 08 2010 06:50 Metalwing wrote:
@St3MoR: If you're asking this, she broke up with me. Still 5/5 goes ?
Hmm..I wonder why she broke up with you...
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Nothing wrong with turning down an ex in terms of friendship, or distancing yourself.
Something wrong for enjoying making anyone at all cry.
There's always gonna be assholes I guess.
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WoW OP. You've done nothing but prove you're immature and worthy of the break-up in the first place.
Personally, I'd say you're really actually distraught by the breakup and you're hiding that fact subconsciously by acting out in an vulgar and immature way.
Of course I'm wrong, there is no way I have you pegged.
You're high on a kite of "i pwned you bitch". Really all you've done is pwned yourself, because you are positively reinforcing this horrible behavior. It could bite you in the ass in the future.
And just because you feel justified in acting this way in this circumstance, this type of behavior DOES reflect, in a manner, how you act in normal life. Take a moment to reflect on the way you treated her during the relationship.
Also - cursing at a girl is like ultra-fail way of being a jerk - I'm not going to deny there aren't skeletons in my closet, there are way better ways of mentally screwing with a chick, than cursing at her. Even harmless ways too.
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Breaking up with someone is not intrinsically bitchy. So far it pretty much just seems like her breaking up with you fucked you up hard even if she wasn't being malicious, and to get back at her for what you thought was an offense to yourself you lashed out at her for little to no reason.
I almost want to pity you for being so miserable. The idea of the height of happiness being a deranged euphoria from hurting another is mind boggling.
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you probably deserved to be broken up with in the worst way possible if you're this emotionally stunted
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On July 08 2010 06:19 Sephy69 wrote:
she asked for a "re" and you said "GG NO RE BITCH!" good for you man :D
+ Show Spoiler +
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Wow..... you're a douche.
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The immaturity is palpable. To be honest, based on your reaction it's obvious you still care about her and haven't got over your relationship with her. People tend to lash out at ex's when they still have strong enough emotional ties. Your reaction is pretty much the classic scenario of what I just described. You are literally acting like my ex-girlfriend did, and has been acting towards me since I broke up with her.
The fact that you made this thread is just... ridiculous.
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Hrm she might also be considering that she wants to get back together with you for serious, and "being friends" is just a way to get started.
I don't know if thats what you want, but if you wanted to try you could be like "Well I've been thinking about it a lot and ..." etc
I think you need to ask yourself whether she's worth trying to get back together with, or if you are better off without her.
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Doubtful Uranium...Please don't fill the OP's head with that.
If you see the way he acts, its doubtful the girl wants to get back with him. I dunno though...
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@gillon&Sephy69: You're the man :D:D:D
@Other people: Every single word about me being immature or a douchebag is so so correct. Like every word about me being skyhigh. Miserable cunt ? Well, i can accept that :D, words like: "you probably deserved to be broken up with in the worst way possible", also accepted :D Tonight (it's night time for my country) i'll be so so so understanding to all those people who think that i could be friends with her. Or i could be a little nicer when rejecting her. Well, rejection has no nice ways. Why can't i just say "Screw you bitch, gtfo of my life" ? Oh fuck, i actually said that !!!
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Really immature. Are you so selfish to not be aware that your action are hurting other people's feeling?
I actually feel bad for you.
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This is not only a bragblog, but you're an asshole too.
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Your actions are understandable and if that's how you want to be don't let the fools on this forum tell you otherwise. I actually approve of them completely, If you don't want her don't waste her time tell her like a man, you did, though in not the most tactful was possible, but some could have been lost in translation. Don't let the symps on this forum worm you out of what you want to act like, it wasn't unreasonable.
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@QueueQueue: Good comment dude, actually. You're totally right about that getting over thing. I really couldn't get over the relationship, and i was desperately trying to do that. And now i did it :D:D:D
@Uranium: I think you're the only one in this topic. I thought about that LOTS of times. I mean it. Me&her, should really be history. And now, we're history. GG WP NO RE :D:D:D
@Martinni: Well, i'm so aware. Even if i said the girl that i never believed that she actually has feelings, i'm aware that she has them. And i hurt them too. But well, what goes around comes around. She has hurt mine before, now her feelings go bye bye.
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You can't beat an idiot, he will bring you down to his level and beat you there...
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5/5 because you're happy and that's what matters 
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@Zurles: Wow. You got something rare dude. It's called respect !
@InTheFade: Thanks dude :D
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On July 08 2010 07:11 Zurles wrote:
Your actions are understandable and if that's how you want to be don't let the fools on this forum tell you otherwise. I actually approve of them completely, If you don't want her don't waste her time tell her like a man, you did, though in not the most tactful was possible, but some could have been lost in translation. Don't let the symps on this forum worm you out of what you want to act like, it wasn't unreasonable.
So you don't find anything wrong with deriving happiness off of the misery of another being? I don't give a shit if he blew off an ex-SO. That is necessary at times. But being happy that she is miserable is completely different thing, particularly since there seems to be nothing that she has done to warrant such a response.
On July 08 2010 07:15 InTheFade wrote:5/5 because you're happy and that's what matters
Yeah, fuck anything else, as long as I'm happy whatever I do to attain it doesn't matter, right?
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HEYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY go to hell
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On July 08 2010 07:15 InTheFade wrote:5/5 because you're happy and that's what matters
Agree with InTheFade. Happiness is what matters.
Just one thing I didn't understand. She dumped you a couple of hours again, and in matter of hours she wanted to get back together? Or did she just want to be friends?
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@koreasilver: i may be immature, but you're much less experienced than me. I was good and nice to her all the time, she got me out of her life (we also had been friends after breaking up, she got that out of the question before), now she wants to get in my life and i say "fuck you bitch gtfo of my life" and i'm the guilty person ?! Why ?! I'm not happy because i fucked up her feelings. I'm happy because she FUCKING DESERVED THAT.
@Demise: We broke up a few months ago, to be more clear. For 1-2 months after breaking up, we were still friends and she fucked up the friendship part as well.
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On July 08 2010 07:02 QueueQueue wrote:
The immaturity is palpable.
This.
Children are funny.
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Sometimes you must sacrifice others for yourself. I doubt anything good would've come out if he had been nice to her anyway. He could've been nicer though.
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@Squeegy: FUCKING HELL YES DUDE ! I could have been nicer to her. But i'm not. And like you, I also doubt that anything good would come out of that one.
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On July 08 2010 07:24 Metalwing wrote:
@koreasilver: i may be immature, but you're much less experienced than me. I was good and nice to her all the time, she got me out of her life (we also had been friends after breaking up, she got that out of the question before), now she wants to get in my life and i say "fuck you bitch gtfo of my life" and i'm the guilty person ?! Why ?! I'm not happy because i fucked up her feelings. I'm happy because she FUCKING DESERVED THAT.
How do you know I'm much less experienced that you? That's a random assumption and is probably false as I have had quite a few fucked up relationships before where I got owned.
Some relationships end. That's just a fact of life. It doesn't matter if you think you were nice to her or not as just the simple fact of nicety does not define a relationship or keep the relationship alive. There are more factors. Now, you say she broke up with you but you once again don't say that whatever her reasons for breaking up with you were malicious. It seems like she broke up with you simply because of a falling out of feelings, which is natural for the vast majority of relationships at that age. It is not wrong to deny someone from coming back into your life. That is of your own prerogative. However, maliciously throwing another person down to the ground for no other reason besides of your own personal bitterness towards what was not a malicious act towards yourself just betrays your own inexperience, your insecurities, your lack of confidence, and of how poor your character actually is. This girl did not deserve such a response from you; or at least you never claim such a reason. You are rationalizing your actions off of something that is nonexistent, and of one that you created yourself due to your own self-pity.
tldr; you are hilariously pathetic. This girl probably got a chance to distance herself from a blubbering, weak idiot that is not worth her time.
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Wasn't being an asshole + an idiot at once a bannable offense? It definitely should.
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@koreasilver: So you say this: "If you don't want, you don't have to be friends with her. But you could do this without smashing her to the ground". Well, i admit, i could. And actually it was just the flow of conversation. But i'm pretty much satisfied with the way it went.
@ZBiR: Lol, the last thing in my life was getting banned because of my conversation with my ex. If i succeed this, i can die in peace.
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On July 08 2010 07:35 Metalwing wrote:
@koreasilver: So you say this: "If you don't want, you don't have to be friends with her. But you could do this without smashing her to the ground". Well, i admit, i could. And actually it was just the flow of conversation. But i'm pretty much satisfied with the way it went.
No, I'm saying you're a FUCKING IMBECILE for deriving happiness from making another person miserable. Get fucked.
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So you don't find anything wrong with deriving happiness off of the misery of another being? I don't give a shit if he blew off an ex-SO. That is necessary at times. But being happy that she is miserable is completely different thing, particularly since there seems to be nothing that she has done to warrant such a response.
He's happy because him not being miserable in a situation where he easily could be proves he's a strong person. He hasn't done any damage to her, and like I said it was probably somewhat lost in translation. All he's done is asserted his feelings and hasn't wasted time prolonging something he doesn't want. The way he acts brings much more success and wastes much less time. Labelling him as a sadist and trying to sympathise too much with the ex is pointless and foolish.
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Why the fuck is she calling you, acting all cutesy, if she broke up with you, and STILL calling you when you treat her like absolute garbage. I'll never understand women.
The OP is being pretty well mannered in regards to this thread and all the negative criticism so im SLIGHTLY inclined to believe the ex-gf had fault. Not that i would ever do something like that.
actually ima just go with this is just all made up 
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I'm trying to understand this, but I fail.
I'm guessing she didn't do anything horrible, coz otherwise she'd know it and wouldn't even try to reestablish a connection. She broke up, wants to be friends/get back together, you blow her of in a very childish way and feel esctatic about it.
Is she not physically attractive anymore or did she really cause such an emotional damage that you don't even think of her that way?
she probly did something bad after all...
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Nice dude. +1 Up for you, keep being HAPPY!
You are invincible
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Man, blogs are easy to troll. Just write girl and something douchie and you got people up in arms giving you attention.
On July 08 2010 07:35 ZBiR wrote:
Wasn't being an asshole + an idiot at once a bannable offense? It definitely should.
Should be added to report function.
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is civility dead in children today
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OP is a nerd virgin, he turned down a booty call with an ex
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I don't f***in know the history of your break-up..but that doesn't give you the f***in right to f***in act like a total asshole to her...She wanted to be friends with you for f***s sake. You don't deserve a f***in girlfriend, if you can't act like a gentleman about a f***in break-up.
f*** f*** f*** f*** f*** f*** LOL I'm making fun of the way you talk. The f***'s in my paragraph were on purpose. Please be creative with your profanities.
And I don't see the fuckin point of putting asterisks to censor "fuck". It's text for fuck's sake...not audio.
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On July 08 2010 08:17 FakeSteve[TPR] wrote:
is civility dead in children today
No, making comments on civility in children on a blog on the internet is alive. What's dead is discussing these things face to face like real men haha.
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On July 08 2010 07:40 Zurles wrote:Show nested quote +So you don't find anything wrong with deriving happiness off of the misery of another being? I don't give a shit if he blew off an ex-SO. That is necessary at times. But being happy that she is miserable is completely different thing, particularly since there seems to be nothing that she has done to warrant such a response. He's happy because him not being miserable in a situation where he easily could be proves he's a strong person. He hasn't done any damage to her, and like I said it was probably somewhat lost in translation. All he's done is asserted his feelings and hasn't wasted time prolonging something he doesn't want. The way he acts brings much more success and wastes much less time. Labelling him as a sadist and trying to sympathise too much with the ex is pointless and foolish.
If he actually was over this girl and he wasn't miserable about it then he wouldn't have lashed out at this girl for little to no reason. He was miserable to begin with. He tried to move his misery onto her and claimed some sort of victory and bragged about this false happiness even if everything suggest that he is still miserable. If he wasn't miserable then this entire debacle wouldn't have existed and the whole situation would have been very inconsequential to him. He would have just declined without any antagonism. No false sense of victory and revenge. The way he acted brings a false sense of success and ultimately wastes more time as he deceives himself and continues to falsely rationalize his poor judgement as not to face what actually did happen. He didn't prove he's a strong person. He did the exact opposite. To say that he showed the characteristics of a strong person is a deceit.
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What we mean to do when we act like jerks to our ex's:
-Punish them for breaking our hearts so they'll never dare to hurt us again.
What we actually accomplish when we act like jerks to our ex's:
-Reinforce and validate their decision to hurt us.
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This guy is the complete opposite of a gentleman
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On July 08 2010 08:03 niteReloaded wrote:
I'm trying to understand this, but I fail.
I'm guessing she didn't do anything horrible, coz otherwise she'd know it and wouldn't even try to reestablish a connection. She broke up, wants to be friends/get back together, you blow her of in a very childish way and feel esctatic about it.
Is she not physically attractive anymore or did she really cause such an emotional damage that you don't even think of her that way?
she probly did something bad after all...
Yeah, she did. She hurt his FEELINGS
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That's a pretty big dick move. WTF? Couldn't you have at least tried to have acted nice to someone in that situation?
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I like making girls cry, but you could have been more elaborate. Maybe with time your skill will increase.
What you should do is get back together with her, after 5 years or so get engaged, then a week before the wedding break up with her on the radio by building up to the 'big question' which is actually 'when can you move out?'
+ Show Spoiler +I wonder how the overlap works with those two threads, in terms of posters. Bandwagons form quickly, and seem to decide threads like these. Perhaps in another time, another place, TLers would have been cheering you on.
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^ The fuck?
OP is freak.
"Whatever, i'm feeling happy now and nothing can ruin my happiness unless it goes away by itself :D:D:D"!"
Yeah I almost feel sad for you. It's going to go away, and soon.
You actually nailed it so hard here you won't believe it.
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Tell a story about how you were an asshole to a girl you dated who wanted to get back with you
give no backstory
come in 10 pages later and explain she cheated on you and slashed your tires, so how dare anyone criticize you
^ predicting above
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Sounds like something a child would do and I stick by that.
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On July 08 2010 06:13 Metalwing wrote:
At first, i acted like a total jerk. Then i looked back to my past with her, some emotionality there, and right after that i became a jerk again
Lol, anyone else read this and think, "wait, at what point in between were you NOT a jerk?"
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OP is probably a troll, douche, and attention whore. He is sure good at all of em.
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Hes just putting up a tough front, I bet it was the other way round. After all that has happened over the past few weeks, my morality core was destroyed (now I'm flooding the place with gas).
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Great tale. However I don't believe it at all, it fits too nicely with the recent influx of lying bloggers.
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On July 08 2010 07:11 Zurles wrote:
Your actions are understandable and if that's how you want to be don't let the fools on this forum tell you otherwise. I actually approve of them completely, If you don't want her don't waste her time tell her like a man, you did, though in not the most tactful was possible, but some could have been lost in translation. Don't let the symps on this forum worm you out of what you want to act like, it wasn't unreasonable.
On July 08 2010 07:15 Metalwing wrote:
@Zurles: Wow. You got something rare dude. It's called respect !
@InTheFade: Thanks dude :D
lol. look at the wounded children egging each other on.
whether or not the girl "deserved" it, the way it was handled puts him at least on the same level.
+ Show Spoiler +
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you are a mother fucking cunt and you deserve to die.
User was banned for this post.
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Obviously this guy is a troll. No person with an anime character for his TL photo can ever get a girlfriend.
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On July 08 2010 09:37 December12345 wrote:
you are a mother fucking cunt and you deserve to die.
Now you're getting yourself into ban territory D:.
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OP, I understand how hard it is to be friends with the girl who ripped your heart out and is most likely sleeping around with other men. Also, what I find the funniest about these situations is that, the ex will act as if in pain when you won't be her friend, etc., so you eventually go through with it. Then, the whole time you ever hang out with her, she is crying about some guy who doesn't care about her or she is just flirting ridiculous amounts, etc. Been there, done that. Some bitches are heartless or just plain oblivious.
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Meh. Guess its good youre happy. I cant really judge because I dont know the circumstance of your relationship and her motives or sincerity. But if you are happier or cant maintain a friendship with an Ex, then atleast you did the right thing for your self I guess...
On second thought, that is kind of disturbing how happy you are over something so trivial . Epic win.. purpose of living... :D
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Yeah because there is nothing more productive when you´re hurt to hurt other people as well.
You really sound like the kind of person i would like to live in . . .
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My blog ratings generally aren't a reflection of the blog itself but the message the OP was trying to convey and how I react to it. Basically, its rating you.
Guess what I gave this blog? Hint: It's not a 5, 4, 3, or 2.
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As a straight misogynist, I totally support OP!
5/5!
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You are one fucked up bastard.
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Sometimes you just gotta give 'em the cold shoulder, but there's no reason to be a douche about it. What goes around, comes around... It kind of troubles me how happy you seem to be after doing this. Probably means you were really into her.
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On July 08 2010 06:13 Metalwing wrote:
I'm pretty sure she started crying. I mean, i can feel her sorrow, and this gives me some f***ing feeling that i got an EPIC WIN, i just fulfilled my purpose of living, and this makes me FUCKING happy. This happiness may be temporary or permanent. Whatever, i'm feeling happy now and nothing can ruin my happiness unless it goes away by itself :D:D:D
There is something wrong with this person.
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Yea, that was totally uncalled for.
No need to be mean to others..
Saying it's justified is just bring yourself down to their level or lower
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lol. girls talk to each other a lot. youve just killed your chance with any of her female friends for the record. not the end of the world. but something to consider for your future
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On July 08 2010 08:23 Tadzio wrote:
What we mean to do when we act like jerks to our ex's:
-Punish them for breaking our hearts so they'll never dare to hurt us again.
What we actually accomplish when we act like jerks to our ex's:
-Reinforce and validate their decision to hurt us.
Everybody wins! :D
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i wonder if this blog was just an epic troll.
if so:
troll successful!
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She must've hurt you something fierce for you to react like that. At least now you can both move on without missing each other. I contemplated ex revenge when I was younger but didn't go through with it. It's not worth wasting your time and energy over.
TLDR; I know how you feel but couldn't do something like that myself.
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On July 08 2010 15:38 Subversion wrote:
i wonder if this blog was just an epic troll.
if so:
troll successful!
Hi OP here's a reply to boost your troll ego :D:D:D:D:D
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hmm she made right choice after all
lucky girl
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On July 08 2010 07:12 Boblion wrote:
I sense a proxy.
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On July 08 2010 14:26 InTheFade wrote:Show nested quote +On July 08 2010 08:23 Tadzio wrote:
What we mean to do when we act like jerks to our ex's:
-Punish them for breaking our hearts so they'll never dare to hurt us again.
What we actually accomplish when we act like jerks to our ex's:
-Reinforce and validate their decision to hurt us. Everybody wins! :D
This man speaks the truth.
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@Romance_us: This one is just like the ones you're talking about.
@JFKWT: Actually, every single fucking thing about this boosts my ego. Even the ones that say "you're a fucking bastard who deserves to die".
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What did she do that made you act like this besides breaking up with you?
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good work, she's your ex for a reason. if she can't see that then she's too naieve
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@nerium: After breaking up (well to be more precise, she broke up with me), we stayed friends for quite a time (actually, that time was longer than our relationship), and she was the person who destroyed our friendship. She bluffed me about not talking for rest of her life, i called that bluff etc etc. Long story indeed. 1.5-2 months after that "long" story, yesterday she texted me again. She wants to be friends again. And i told her to get the fuck out of my life. And she finally got the fuck out of my life. At least it's what i think.
So, contrary to popular belief, i'm not the person who burned the bridges. I'm the person who said NO to re-establish them.
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On July 08 2010 17:10 Metalwing wrote:
@nerium: After breaking up (well to be more precise, she broke up with me), we stayed friends for quite a time (actually, that time was longer than our relationship), and she was the person who destroyed our friendship. She bluffed me about not talking for rest of her life, i called that bluff etc etc. Long story indeed. 1.5-2 months after that "long" story, yesterday she texted me again. She wants to be friends again. And i told her to get the fuck out of my life. And she finally got the fuck out of my life. At least it's what i think.
So, contrary to popular belief, i'm not the person who burned the bridges. I'm the person who said NO to re-establish them.
applaud way to man up and stand your own ground, fuck that bitch.
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On July 08 2010 06:13 Metalwing wrote:
Hello TL! I'm god damn fucking happy and i want to share my happiness. And what did i do to become this happy?
A few hours ago, my ex-gf texted me, saying that she wants to be friends. At first, i acted like a total jerk. Then i looked back to my past with her, some emotionality there, and right after that i became a jerk again and said "f*** that, it's all f***ing history. And i'm just 18. F***ING 18!!! I got a future ahead of me". She went emotional again and said "I missed calling you Dırdıl". Dırdıl is my nickname that she used to use. I said "I didn't miss that F***ING thing". She went emotional again. "I thought maybe we could figure things out and put it in the way, but the way is already closed on your side. Good luck with your life ahead and have fun". And i've gone a total jerk and said "Thank you :D i'm f***ing having a really f***ing good fun right now :D:D:D".
I'm pretty sure she started crying. I mean, i can feel her sorrow, and this gives me some f***ing feeling that i got an EPIC WIN, i just fulfilled my purpose of living, and this makes me FUCKING happy. This happiness may be temporary or permanent. Whatever, i'm feeling happy now and nothing can ruin my happiness unless it goes away by itself :D:D:D
We all know you're not ACTUALLY happy. This entire post is a big bunch of what is known as denial and over-compensating. You're trying so hard to convince yourself that you're happy that you end up taking it way too far, to lengths no *truly* happy person would ever do. For example;
1 - You make a post about something this arbitrary. When we try to convince ourselves about something we don't have much confidence in, we often tell others about it because it's easier to believe things with support from other people.
2 - You use the word "happy," shift and smileys in a excessive manner only over-compensating people do. Once again, trying so hard to convince yourself makes you go too far, and it's very visible when you know about it.
3 - Your last line, "nothing can ruin my happiness," is a huge qualifier that wouldn't have been necessary if you were truly happy. When we say something we don't have much confidence in we often qualify it, trying to make it stronger by adding on statements because we know that what we just said can't stand on it's own very well.
You can deny it all you want, but you're missing her. You're sad it ended. And you're trying your best to protect yourself from the horrible truth. But in the end, you'd do much better to just suck it up and move on instead of trying to deny it this much. You will move on in the end, how much time you'll be spending in denial before you do is up to you.
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You guys are sissies. This guy's the man. You can't punch a girl. This is the next best thing!
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On July 08 2010 22:31 Hawk wrote:
You guys are sissies. This guy's the man. You can't punch a girl. This is the next best thing!
Yeah, because guys who heralds negative feelings towards girls are prone to go a long way with them. Oh wait, that's the outcome of not being able to have relationships with them which makes them feel misdirected anger at them over their own failure.
Real men loves women. Not in a pathetic pedistal way, but they are certainly not trying to hurt them under any circumstances.
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It's his ex! He already had a relationship. He's not making new girls cry for no reason. How do you know this broad didn't go blow the guy's dog or something??
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So what if it's his ex? Getting into a relationship with a girl you don't care for is a bad move in the first way, and I have a very hard time believing that they broke up by her being a complete soulless fucktard deserving of such mannerism. If that was the case he'd have mentioned it in order to gain more sympathy.
She most likely broke it up with him for pretty much the same reason every girl breaks up with a guy. She wasn't that interested in him anymore, he wasn't really what she was looking for.
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Well he obviously cared. He's pissed enough to make her cry. Would you prefer that he beats her to explain his feelings?
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Yo.. your an asshole..
She went out of her way and put herself out there to try and make amends and you totally just shit on her face. What kind of person does that.. Not only that, but feels such joy after doing it..
I have a friend that treats girls like this and it simply amazes me to see how he can treat people so badly so easily
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@soverRR: Location: Sweden. This tells pretty much everything about your view on boy-girl relationships. In this place, it doesn't work like "Hey, this guy/girl is so handsome/beautiful; let's sleep with him/her" and "he/she was just an ordinary handsome/beautiful guy/girl. I have no more interest, so let's break up". In my place, love starts a relationship. In yours, it's sexual desire. And believe me or not, i'm not looking for sympathy or support. But well, i got both. And this is not a bad thing.
@Hawk: In my place, there is a very famous word: "The people who tells the truth is kicked out of the place" or something like that. So, i can understand other people who behave like my ex is their little sister. I told her what i really feel about her, what i really think about her and what i really will think about her until sun rises from the west. And another famous word from my place: "The tree with much fruit on it, is stoned" or something like that (I can't translate them as they are).
FAYI (For all your interest): why should i lie to you in the first place. Do I owe you a lie ? If you think like soverRR, can you plz tell me one good reason to tell a lie to you. PLZ.
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@Ian Ian Ian: The only thing that i did wrong in this was not to tell you the whole fucking story in the first place. Fyi, she was the first to burn the bridges. And i'm the person who didn't allow the construction of new ones, and that's FUCKING it.
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Stop with the overuse of 'fucking', seriously.
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...burning bridges at the age of 18 is never a good idea
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On July 08 2010 23:43 Reason wrote:
Stop with the overuse of 'fucking', seriously.
I was also thinking the same thing
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this is fun
its like I get to take out all the anger that dwells inside me towards stupid immature high schoolers on metalwing!
thank you for being TL's punching bag.
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On July 08 2010 06:13 Metalwing wrote:And i'm just 18. F***ING 18!!!
And it shows
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@mOnion: Well, "punching" something feels good. I know that in the first place  if you're happy, good for you :D:D
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If there's one thing I learned from Yugioh, it's that everything can be resolved with a duel. The conversation should have gone like this
Girl: Let's be friends
You: No
Girl: Come on
You: Fine, but only if you beat me in a duel. If you win, we're friends. If I win, you never talk to me ever again
And since you challenged her to a duel, there's no way she can refuse. She has to duel. It's a good way to resolve differences, because if you can't win in a duel, you don't deserve to get whatever you want.
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On July 09 2010 01:19 Purind wrote:
If there's one thing I learned from Yugioh, it's that everything can be resolved with a duel. The conversation should have gone like this
Girl: Let's be friends
You: No
Girl: Come on
You: Fine, but only if you beat me in a duel. If you win, we're friends. If I win, you never talk to me ever again
And since you challenged her to a duel, there's no way she can refuse. She has to duel. It's a good way to resolve differences, because if you can't win in a duel, you don't deserve to get whatever you want.
But he wouldn't stand a ghost of a chance!
Also I like how in the OP, metal censors a million of his own "fucks", then leaves the one at the end uncensored, what was the point of censoring all of them (but one)? It doesn't make you look any less stupid.
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On July 09 2010 01:19 Purind wrote:
If there's one thing I learned from Yugioh, it's that everything can be resolved with a duel. The conversation should have gone like this
Girl: Let's be friends
You: No
Girl: Come on
You: Fine, but only if you beat me in a duel. If you win, we're friends. If I win, you never talk to me ever again
And since you challenged her to a duel, there's no way she can refuse. She has to duel. It's a good way to resolve differences, because if you can't win in a duel, you don't deserve to get whatever you want.
I think for this particular situation, Pistols at dawn is a better solution than Yugioh cards
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On July 09 2010 01:34 [NyC]HoBbes wrote:Show nested quote +On July 09 2010 01:19 Purind wrote:
If there's one thing I learned from Yugioh, it's that everything can be resolved with a duel. The conversation should have gone like this
Girl: Let's be friends
You: No
Girl: Come on
You: Fine, but only if you beat me in a duel. If you win, we're friends. If I win, you never talk to me ever again
And since you challenged her to a duel, there's no way she can refuse. She has to duel. It's a good way to resolve differences, because if you can't win in a duel, you don't deserve to get whatever you want. I think for this particular situation, Pistols at dawn is a better solution than Yugioh cards
Real men settle their disputes with children's card games.
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Feeling big and smart and all good for making a girl cry ?
Pathetic.
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you r a sick sick fuck. ppl like you should die to maximize utility
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Did you really say those things word for word?
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On July 09 2010 01:45 YoonHo wrote:
Did you really say those things word for word?
Yeah he said "fuck" that many times he's so edgy and cool :D.
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On July 09 2010 01:34 [NyC]HoBbes wrote:Show nested quote +On July 09 2010 01:19 Purind wrote:
If there's one thing I learned from Yugioh, it's that everything can be resolved with a duel. The conversation should have gone like this
Girl: Let's be friends
You: No
Girl: Come on
You: Fine, but only if you beat me in a duel. If you win, we're friends. If I win, you never talk to me ever again
And since you challenged her to a duel, there's no way she can refuse. She has to duel. It's a good way to resolve differences, because if you can't win in a duel, you don't deserve to get whatever you want. I think for this particular situation, Pistols at dawn is a better solution than Yugioh cards
There was actually an episode where they were in a cowboy setting, then they had to fire from their duel disk or whatever and whoever fired faster gets the first turn
On July 09 2010 01:40 Dakk wrote:
Feeling big and smart and all good for making a girl cry ?
Pathetic.
I made a girl cry by showing her my hand. I had Exodia. It felt DAMN good
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wow you are really a dick
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On July 09 2010 01:48 Purind wrote:
I made a girl cry by showing her my hand. I had Exodia. It felt DAMN good
NOOOOOOOO THATS IMPOSSIBLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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On July 09 2010 02:44 Megalisk wrote:Show nested quote +On July 09 2010 01:48 Purind wrote:
I made a girl cry by showing her my hand. I had Exodia. It felt DAMN good NOOOOOOOO THATS IMPOSSIBLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You don't tell people you have Exodia! That's how Yugi got screwed over by the creepy bug kid.
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On July 09 2010 02:57 shieldbreak wrote:Show nested quote +On July 09 2010 02:44 Megalisk wrote:On July 09 2010 01:48 Purind wrote:
I made a girl cry by showing her my hand. I had Exodia. It felt DAMN good NOOOOOOOO THATS IMPOSSIBLE!!!!!!!!!!!!! You don't tell people you have Exodia! That's how Yugi got screwed over by the creepy bug kid.
+ Show Spoiler +
Also this threads needs more blah blah blah
+ Show Spoiler +
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On July 09 2010 01:45 YoonHo wrote:
Did you really say those things word for word?
@YoonHo: Of course not.
Chill edit: Please quote the post in the future so people know what you're talking about.
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So ...
I guess after a day your hapiness had faded and you're back to being your same old insecure self? Probably wondering if maybe you should call her? Yeah, I figured.
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ok, now what u gotta do is reel her in, make her think you may still have feelings for her, then dump her again. repeat this cycle for as long as you can. Also, i recommend doing this with multiple girls at the same time, its quite exhilarating.
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On July 09 2010 04:09 Saechiis wrote:
So ...
I guess after a day your hapiness had faded and you're back to being your same old insecure self? Probably wondering if maybe you should call her? Yeah, I figured.
Faded ?! What are you talking about ?! And where did you get that ?! Maybe i should call her ?! Lol, i've never been this peaceful for a quite long time. Yes, i couldn't get rid of her even after the relationship or after she fucked our friendship, but now, let me tell you what's fading: Her presence in my mind.
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Hurting ex's feels great and helps you get over it
To be honest, whilst not many people want to admit it, this is true in many cases and perfectly normal
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On July 09 2010 07:12 BrTarolg wrote:
Hurting ex's feels great and helps you get over it
To be honest, whilst not many people want to admit it, this is true in many cases and perfectly normal
Yep, i discovered that yesterday.
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On July 09 2010 07:12 BrTarolg wrote:
Hurting ex's feels great and helps you get over it
To be honest, whilst not many people want to admit it, this is true in many cases and perfectly normal
yeah, because it's actually quite normal for a guy to be an insecure loser in this day and age
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Sounds like you did her a favor by getting out of her life.
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Only in Turkey baby, only in Turkey. In Romania there wouldn't be a post and the girl would be six feet under.
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Could've been less of a giant douchebag about it but I support your intentions.
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I'm with you on this one. Glad that made you feel good. She probably deserved it.
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On July 09 2010 21:47 Thrill wrote:
Only in Turkey baby, only in Turkey. In Romania there wouldn't be a post and the girl would be six feet under.
Girl is again 6 feet under. But (unlike Romanian boys) i'm a douchebag (well, am i ? i just don't know).
On July 09 2010 21:54 Kyuukyuu wrote:
Could've been less of a giant douchebag about it but I support your intentions.
Exactly.
On July 09 2010 23:53 Galneryus wrote:
I'm with you on this one. Glad that made you feel good. She probably deserved it.
Thanks dude
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On July 08 2010 23:36 Metalwing wrote:
@soverRR: Location: Sweden. This tells pretty much everything about your view on boy-girl relationships. In this place, it doesn't work like "Hey, this guy/girl is so handsome/beautiful; let's sleep with him/her" and "he/she was just an ordinary handsome/beautiful guy/girl. I have no more interest, so let's break up". In my place, love starts a relationship. In yours, it's sexual desire. And believe me or not, i'm not looking for sympathy or support. But well, i got both. And this is not a bad thing.
Actually, no.
I read his post. He simply stated that she might have broken up with you because she wasn't interested in you anymore. Wasn't even the faintest hint of anything to do with sex. That's your spin.
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On July 10 2010 01:46 Scaramanga wrote:
What a douche
agreed
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Read page 1, didn't read the rest.
That was stupid. She wanted to keep fucking you with no strings attached, and you were having none of it. PLUS everyone she knows/her hot friends now hate you. gl bro~
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Meh.
I couldn't imagine hurting anyone's feelings to get them out of my life. If I wanted someone out of my life, I'd just ignore them.
Nothing you've said sounds like she deserves it. So I don't think she did. It almost seems as if she enjoys your friendship, but I don't know, you are pretty vague on the details so I can't say. Instead, it sounds like you are just mad you can't have her the way you want her and you're taking it out by being a douche.
But whatever. Both of you will get over this, there's a lot worse shit that could happen.
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I like the cut of your jib, dont let the hate get you down !
if idra can make tossgirl cry, I don't see why you shouldn't make girls cry too.
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