EPTalways be clear that you like her, only school kids get 'friendzoned', or weird people
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run.at.me
Australia550 Posts
always be clear that you like her, only school kids get 'friendzoned', or weird people | ||
Firebolt145
Lalalaland34478 Posts
On April 18 2012 14:33 PenguinWithNuke wrote: How do i not get friendzoned, turn this into a relationship or whatever? I need advices and i stayed up till 3 in the morning chatting with her. I feel like a fucking boss right now. and she didn't say that i was creepy or whatever for getting her number and shit. i really owe you guys. Give it another one or two phone calls, or one or two meetups, then say 'hey, I don't know if it's really obvious or anything, but I'm interested in you. What do you say?' You'll have to play it by ear a little and look for an appropriate time. That said, set yourself a deadline of maybe 2 weeks before telling her or you'll chicken out, never tell her and get friendzoned. The fact that you stayed up till 3 chatting with her is a really good sign, props. | ||
rotinegg
United States1719 Posts
On April 18 2012 14:33 PenguinWithNuke wrote: How do i not get friendzoned, turn this into a relationship or whatever? I need advices and i stayed up till 3 in the morning chatting with her. I feel like a fucking boss right now. and she didn't say that i was creepy or whatever for getting her number and shit. i really owe you guys. you're in the clear; at this point, if you don't fuck up royally, you won't get friend zoned. remember to be assertive and lead her, while still being manner. | ||
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OpticalShot
Canada6330 Posts
The more you do things out of the ordinary to avoid the friendzone, the more steps you take towards it. Trust your guts, not your head nor the shit you read on the internet (except TL because TL is awesome  ). It won't turn into a relationship unless you show her how you feel. Be confident about being yourself. Say you think Twilight is the best love story ever. Maybe you think Rebecca Black and Justin Bieber are the future stars of music. Perhaps your favourite band is Nickelback. Hell, if you actually agreed to those man you are one disgusting fuck, but but if that's truly what you are, then she might find it attractive. Okay those examples were horrible lol. The point is, be proud of who you are and don't be afraid to show her (but don't like overly press your interests onto her). Don't go out of the ordinary to be a white knight. Here's a line I quite like these days: if you want her to be your princess, you better be a prince yourself. Don't be her slave, and don't make her your slave either. Another thing - less thinking about distant future, and more enjoying the present! Good luck! | ||
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MaximusT
United States126 Posts
But seriously, the friend zone...I hate that term. Every girl I've ever dated was my friend. The only woman I loved was my best friend (until she stomped on my soul). Why is there a mentality (in some) that you can't be friends with your g/f? I need to research this... Just relax, be yourself. Hell, tell her you like her. She'll be like ZOMFG a boy likes me!!!11!!1! + Show Spoiler + I basically just commented and made up some advice so I could say fuck you first :D | ||
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