EPTSuper hyper, confession time (Girl blog) - Page 2
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Arachne
South Africa426 Posts
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meteorskunk
Canada546 Posts
On March 24 2012 02:23 TheEconomist wrote: Don't confess. Look for an intimate moment. Make one. Take advantage. Confessing is overrated in my opinion, and doesnt end as well as just going "hmm, moonlight stroll|? pull in" This. just flirt and treat her like your lover. If she wants a relationship then telling her you like her might encourage her to harness feelings for you. probably not though. You need to show your love through action. Be comfortable feeling loving around her and then it will get easier. telling her will not make it easier. You probably won't listen but you've been warned! | ||
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OpticalShot
Canada6330 Posts
So maybe you should ask her out on a date. Well, ok, you should definitely ask her out on a date. Make sure she knows it's a date (not a friendzone hangout), but don't make it blatantly obvious and awkward. I think she'll get the message and most likely accept your request. I'd like to stick in my massive blurb about making it a physical date and establishing natural connections, but unfortunately my manager has piled on a ton of Friday work on me and I don't want to go home late on a Friday so back to work for me. Uh, short version, establish natural (yes, very very natural) physical connections like hugs and high fives and playful nudges and maybe even holding hands, you know best where to draw the line. Work your charm and keep her guessing, and you'll instinctively know when to pull the trigger (figuratively, not literally). Good luck! | ||
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Garnet
Vietnam9008 Posts
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arb
Noobville17919 Posts
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Cyx.
Canada806 Posts
On March 24 2012 03:10 OpticalShot wrote: So maybe you should ask her out on a date. Well, ok, you should definitely ask her out on a date. Make sure she knows it's a date (not a friendzone hangout), but don't make it blatantly obvious and awkward. Also this. Nothing more awkward than you being all hyped up for your 'date' when she's just chilling with one of her friends. Make sure she knows what you're going for - if she doesn't want it she'll tell you, but if she doesn't figure out what you want she's unlikely to take the initiative. | ||
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sAyMole
Korea (South)35 Posts
I'd hate to be there personally but I voted yes for the lulz. | ||
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Deleted User 3420
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Kojak21
Canada1104 Posts
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Psychobabas
2531 Posts
Funny how once you reach 30 the roles reverse and the 30y.o. females start becoming desperate and go for anybody lol To answer your question, this "confession" just sounds so childish, I mean, you're in I.B. so probably 16-17? You're gonna confess that you've been a pussy all this time? Just ask if she is interested and see what happens. If she does then great, if she doesnt then move on. Simple. | ||
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munchmunch
Canada789 Posts
On March 24 2012 02:42 meteorskunk wrote: Don't do this. Ambush dates suck for everyone (you cause you know it's a date, her cause she didn't know, and once you spring the ambush there is a good chance of creepiness). This. just flirt and treat her like your lover. If she wants a relationship then telling her you like her might encourage her to harness feelings for you. probably not though. You need to show your love through action. Be comfortable feeling loving around her and then it will get easier. telling her will not make it easier. You probably won't listen but you've been warned! The nervous period you mentioned is good. It means you know you have some feelings for her. Presumably your nervous cause now you know you've got to do something, right? So do something: ask her out. It's a good way to let her know you are interested, and it gives her time to think about whether or not she is interested in you, in case she hasn't thought seriously about it before. | ||
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Mr.Rager
United States59 Posts
On March 24 2012 00:13 MaximusT wrote: Yeah don't pull a Mosby. Or if you do, make sure you go back and throw up on her doormat. What this guy said. Never pull a Mosby. | ||
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