EPTDating: How's your luck? - Page 32
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We are extremely close to shutting down this thread for the same reasons the PUA thread was shut down. While some of the time this thread contains actual discussion with people asking help and people giving nice advice, it often gets derailed by rubbish that should not be here. The moderation team will be trying to steer this thread in a different direction from now on. Posts of the following nature are banned: 1) ANYTHING regarding PUA. If your post contains the words 'alpha' or 'beta' or anything of that sort please don't hit post. 2) Stupid brags. You can tell us about your nice success stories with someone, but posts such as 'lol 50 Tinder matches' are a no-no. 3) Any misogynistic bullshit, including discussion about rape culture. 4) One night stands and random sex. These are basically brags that invariably devolve into gender role discussions and misogynistic comments. Last chance, guys. This thread is for dating advice and sharing dating stories. While gender roles, sociocultural norms, and our biological imperative to reproduce are all tangentially related, these subjects are not the main purpose of the thread. Please AVOID these discussions. If you want to discuss them at length, go to PMs or start a blog. If you disagree with someone's ideologies, state that you disagree with them and why they won't work from a dating standpoint and move on. We will not tolerate any lengthy derailments that aren't directly about dating. | ||
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wordd
Australia190 Posts
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MikeTheBike
New Zealand136 Posts
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forcestealer
Canada60 Posts
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R4TM
Brazil140 Posts
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Erucious
Norway393 Posts
So, boyfriend and her have had some troubles in their love life, and he bought a house for himself now, and is moving out in november... Not sure if it is directly related with the troubles they have been having, but... yeah... So, asked her, what her plan is with him - she responded with saying that she wasnt sure about their future... So, today, had finally time to penetrate her busy schedule with some skype and cam, while she was waiting to be picked up by her bf. Felt really happy to finally chat with her again, and see her on cam. Boyfriend calls, and she gives him a phone-kiss, and right after, she mimics with her lips: "im sorry" to the camera to me.... Like a dagger, just penetrating my flesh, felt so painful... Worst of it was, i was kinda doodling a massive drawing/heart to her while that happened.... So, now, im drinking my 18yo whisky.~~ | ||
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lightbetsoin
France7 Posts
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mastergriggy
United States1312 Posts
Something that I've always believed about dating is that good things come to those who wait. Although admittedly, had I not had a lot of the less than ideal relationships I was in this one would be non-existent (She was the best friend of one of the girls I dated). So, to anyone worried about not having a girlfriend or having bad luck, don't worry. It just sometimes takes some time  | ||
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heishe
Germany2284 Posts
On October 23 2011 00:43 Erucious wrote: Worked with a girl about 7yrs ago, when i was still living in the Netherlands. Right now i live in Norway and recently saw her again this summer. We fell in love with eachother, and we kissed... But... she has a bf, and has lived with him for years... Rather, he lives with her. Went back to NL a few times, she cheated on him a few more times with me, slept with eachother, (well..technically not sleeping, since it was a few "morning lays" before work and such). So, boyfriend and her have had some troubles in their love life, and he bought a house for himself now, and is moving out in november... Not sure if it is directly related with the troubles they have been having, but... yeah... So, asked her, what her plan is with him - she responded with saying that she wasnt sure about their future... So, today, had finally time to penetrate her busy schedule with some skype and cam, while she was waiting to be picked up by her bf. Felt really happy to finally chat with her again, and see her on cam. Boyfriend calls, and she gives him a phone-kiss, and right after, she mimics with her lips: "im sorry" to the camera to me.... Like a dagger, just penetrating my flesh, felt so painful... Worst of it was, i was kinda doodling a massive drawing/heart to her while that happened.... So, now, im drinking my 18yo whisky.~~ That's tough. Hang in there... with the bottle I mean. A couple of sips more and it'll all feel better. Seriously though, fuck bi.... disregard females, aquire currency... or something. They don't do it on purpose, their insecurities just wire them like that. | ||
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Oldboysctv
Canada58 Posts
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meatbox
Australia349 Posts
, read the game, adds to your arsenal | ||
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satsang
39 Posts
On October 23 2011 10:45 Oldboysctv wrote: dating, how my luck? terrible ....im married lol feel kinda the same, im with my gf for 5 years now. | ||
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Sceptor87
Canada266 Posts
Second girl I dated it lasted 6 months. She was un-fucking-believably crazy, but incredible in bed. However I had to get the hell out of that. Third girl I dated lasted 7 months. She fucked a former friend of mine at a party while I was in the hospital having surgery on my shoulder. Pretty much everybody I knew at the time immediately stayed away from them and they both got tied up in drugs and shit like that. I hope she's living on the street like a cracked out whore with cancer. Fourth girl I dated I'm married to now. We were together for 5 years before saying our vows. I met her at a party a couple of weeks before Valentine's Day and our first date was terrible. The restaurant messed up on my reservation, we were late for the movie we were supposed to go to, and when we got out of the movie my car wouldn't start up. But I guess she saw how much effort I put into it so... Some failures and some success, much like everyone else I take it. | ||
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Whole
United States6046 Posts
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Roffles
Pitcairn19291 Posts
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Pillage
United States804 Posts
 On a more serious note I am working on this one girl from my university. Bumped into her a few times at some parties already, and I like what I see. Planning on dropping in at her work sometime in the near future to boost her spirits and tease her a little bit. I'll see where it goes from there I suppose. | ||
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adacan
United States117 Posts
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Amlitzer
United States471 Posts
Seems like every girl at my university is either some shallow vapid sorority bitch who spends the whole class surfing facebook, or is some religious fundamentalist who wont even kiss before marriage.  Luck is a skill, a skill which I do not have. | ||
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mav451
United States1596 Posts
On October 23 2011 17:50 Amlitzer wrote: I've almost been on a date once. It's the start of a new semester at college, and in one of my classes I sit next to this cute freshmen girl. I talk with her and we flirt through the whole class. After class I walk around campus with her some and I even got her phone number. After walking her back to her room I asked her if she wanted to out to dinner with me that night. She agreed which made me excited, but when I called her she wouldn't answer. I have a class at night so I had to go to that, and when I got back I got a call from her saying she was sorry she did not respond. Apparently, she was to busy eating dinner with her boyfriend and his family. The worse thing is that I have to sit next to this bitch for the rest of the semester in that class. Seems like every girl at my university is either some shallow vapid sorority bitch who spends the whole class surfing facebook, or is some religious fundamentalist who wont even kiss before marriage. Luck is a skill, a skill which I do not have. How good are you with non-verbal cues? Cuz a "yes" doesn't always mean yes. | ||
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Pillage
United States804 Posts
On October 23 2011 23:43 mav451 wrote: How good are you with non-verbal cues? Cuz a "yes" doesn't always mean yes. The sad truth. When I try to determine a girl's underlying schemes/desires in a conversation I look at her body language and tone more than anything she says, that usually lets me know at least where her head's at. | ||
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Sokalo
United States375 Posts
On October 23 2011 17:44 adacan wrote: Don't usually speak to girls outside of salespeople/cashier type interactions. Although I asked some girl in my class last week how she did on her test. Would say I have an average of 4 conversations a year with girls my age, most of them being with the current girlfriend of one of my friends. Did have one girl in high school who would talk with maybe twice a year for all 4 years. She had a younger brother who did not interact with people much so I probably reminded her of him. I prefer to be alone most of the time so the thought of dating someone is not very appealing. Would like to have intelligent conversations with girls but most seem to be either stupid (no offense most people are) or smart but uninterested in intelligent conversations. Have you considered the possibility that you're maybe coming off a wee bit condescending in your interactions, maybe, perhaps? If you're not interested in a relationship of any sort and just searching for some "intelligent" conversation, why need it be gender specific? Most people, especially girls, aren't going to initiate conversations with something technical. Some of them even like to lead in with something intentionally silly to break the ice. | ||
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