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On August 27 2013 21:41 Rixxe wrote:
So i have a question for you lovely people, how do you move on from 'dating' to the relationship part?
Bit of background, we are both 24, went to the same college and have the same friend group as a result of that. Live near each other and both work full time. Anyway, been out on 3 or so dates, each one has been really great fun, great conversation and i've been getting a really good vibe. At the end of the last date, we show our affection for a few minutes before she leaves.
Annnnd.... now i'm stuck. Dates are great fun, but really expensive in London. Not to mention i'm running out of ideas, and generally feel like i'd enjoy seeing her in a more relaxed enviroment. Problem is, i don't want to make her think i'm only in it for sex by inviting her round, yet i can't think of what else to do.
Not promising this will help, but can you give us a little context? Like where are the good vibes coming from? Does it seem clear that she's dating you exclusively and doesn't have any interest seeing other guys?
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On August 27 2013 21:41 Rixxe wrote:
So i have a question for you lovely people, how do you move on from 'dating' to the relationship part?
Bit of background, we are both 24, went to the same college and have the same friend group as a result of that. Live near each other and both work full time. Anyway, been out on 3 or so dates, each one has been really great fun, great conversation and i've been getting a really good vibe. At the end of the last date, we show our affection for a few minutes before she leaves.
Annnnd.... now i'm stuck. Dates are great fun, but really expensive in London. Not to mention i'm running out of ideas, and generally feel like i'd enjoy seeing her in a more relaxed enviroment. Problem is, i don't want to make her think i'm only in it for sex by inviting her round, yet i can't think of what else to do.
I don`t see why is wrong to invite her at your place. Make some food or watch some movie.. if the sex thing will happen then lucky you, if don`t then don`t pressure. But make sure if you call here more then 3 times at your home and you don`t even make out like kissing and such.. then there is a problem in the middle.
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On August 27 2013 21:49 Chicken Chaser wrote:Show nested quote +On August 27 2013 21:41 AmOkk000 wrote:On August 27 2013 21:36 Chicken Chaser wrote:On August 27 2013 16:55 AmOkk000 wrote:
No creepy messages, nothing. She seemed happy when we talked last time. Okay, I move on. But how? I mean this really was my first relationship (im 17) and I don't want to end it, especially not in this way.
edit: fuuck, if im this sad even with a relationship like this, whats gonna happen later with more serious ones?
sorry if i seem really desperate, but i am. You're not ready for relationships if you can't handle ending them. Let that sink in before you continue clinging onto anyone. Do the counter-intuitive thing and *NUKE* her yourself: rid yourself of any shred of evidence she was in your life and go talk to your other friends, share what happened (good and bad) about her--don't focus on what you think was good, just share it all. For example, I was recently friend-zoned by someone I thought I'd have a lot of potential dating--it really sucked for the next few days but I shared what happened with my best friend and let myself see how I dodged some bullets like having to date a vegan or someone who actually plays video games more than me (lol?). The more objective and unafraid you are of what happened, the sooner you will come to conquer your feelings and "move on." Just take a deep breath (or two or three) and chill. **Everything will be okay.** Learn from the experience and reflect on your character and move forward. You will feel shitty and all this again in the future, but you'll at least know that you are capable of moving on and keeping your life together. My problem may not even the 'move on' thing, but the fact the I have no idea why. I only need a reason why she doesnt answer me, anything. Just to clarify things. Sorry, "all is fair in love and war." She doesn't have to give you a reason. And you might not get one directly from her if she's deleted or deactivated her facebook.
well okay. i will still try to contact her friends, even if i cant get her back, maybe learn what i did wrong.
about the hobbies: you are right, i was just too close minded. i like watching tv shows (dexter, breaking bad) and have other interests as well. but they are connected to the 'sit home and do nothing' thing, thats why i didnt mention them. sorry, im a bit frustrated.
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Don't contact her friends take the hint
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the thing is i believe she might have found out something about me and she misunderstood it, or i dont know. thats the only possible reason i can think of.
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On August 27 2013 21:52 Chicken Chaser wrote:Show nested quote +On August 27 2013 21:41 Rixxe wrote:
So i have a question for you lovely people, how do you move on from 'dating' to the relationship part?
Bit of background, we are both 24, went to the same college and have the same friend group as a result of that. Live near each other and both work full time. Anyway, been out on 3 or so dates, each one has been really great fun, great conversation and i've been getting a really good vibe. At the end of the last date, we show our affection for a few minutes before she leaves.
Annnnd.... now i'm stuck. Dates are great fun, but really expensive in London. Not to mention i'm running out of ideas, and generally feel like i'd enjoy seeing her in a more relaxed enviroment. Problem is, i don't want to make her think i'm only in it for sex by inviting her round, yet i can't think of what else to do. Not promising this will help, but can you give us a little context? Like where are the good vibes coming from? Does it seem clear that she's dating you exclusively and doesn't have any interest seeing other guys?
Well when we go out and chat, she seems interested in things i talk about that she does know or partake in (this can be anything from sports, to work etc). We joke, flirt and generally talk about stuff which i'd normally not bring up with someone on a 1st or 2nd date.
She clearly makes an effort with her appearance (i've had enough ex's to know that), and seems keen enough to suggest going out.
As far as dating me exclusively, i can't be sure. As far as i'm aware, none of the people in our friends group think she is seeing someone else.
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On August 27 2013 21:52 AmOkk000 wrote:Show nested quote +On August 27 2013 21:49 Chicken Chaser wrote:On August 27 2013 21:41 AmOkk000 wrote:On August 27 2013 21:36 Chicken Chaser wrote:On August 27 2013 16:55 AmOkk000 wrote:
No creepy messages, nothing. She seemed happy when we talked last time. Okay, I move on. But how? I mean this really was my first relationship (im 17) and I don't want to end it, especially not in this way.
edit: fuuck, if im this sad even with a relationship like this, whats gonna happen later with more serious ones?
sorry if i seem really desperate, but i am. You're not ready for relationships if you can't handle ending them. Let that sink in before you continue clinging onto anyone. Do the counter-intuitive thing and *NUKE* her yourself: rid yourself of any shred of evidence she was in your life and go talk to your other friends, share what happened (good and bad) about her--don't focus on what you think was good, just share it all. For example, I was recently friend-zoned by someone I thought I'd have a lot of potential dating--it really sucked for the next few days but I shared what happened with my best friend and let myself see how I dodged some bullets like having to date a vegan or someone who actually plays video games more than me (lol?). The more objective and unafraid you are of what happened, the sooner you will come to conquer your feelings and "move on." Just take a deep breath (or two or three) and chill. **Everything will be okay.** Learn from the experience and reflect on your character and move forward. You will feel shitty and all this again in the future, but you'll at least know that you are capable of moving on and keeping your life together. My problem may not even the 'move on' thing, but the fact the I have no idea why. I only need a reason why she doesnt answer me, anything. Just to clarify things. Sorry, "all is fair in love and war." She doesn't have to give you a reason. And you might not get one directly from her if she's deleted or deactivated her facebook. well okay. i will still try to contact her friends, even if i cant get her back, maybe learn what did wrong. about the hobbies: you are right, i was just too close minded. i like watching tv shows (dexter, breaking bad) and have other interests as well. but they are connected to the 'sit home and do nothing' thing, thats why i didnt mention them. sorry, im a bit frustrated.
I edited my post since you last quoted--check the previous page.
Well, I'm trying to share you advice in the future. Embrace who you are; don't fabricate your identity. You should want someone who likes you for who you are, so be yourself! If you feel like there are areas you're lacking, then that's something you do for yourself. Feel like a couch potato? Then take some time to exercise or play a sport--I promise you that will make you feel way more energetic, chirpy, positive, and confident about yourself. It's not a terribly demanding or daunting task--just set up small goals for yourself to achieve. That aside, don't worry so much about your "shared interests" but think about "sharing your interests". See what I did there? Haha, then it becomes a subject to talk about--an active process instead of just listing things in common, which is passive. Now, the catch is maybe one or the two simply isn't interested in what's being shared. In that case.. lol, that should be a flag that maybe you two aren't that compatible after all. Don't force a dead conversation--it's the most awkward and awful thing ever.
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On August 27 2013 22:03 Chicken Chaser wrote:Show nested quote +On August 27 2013 21:52 AmOkk000 wrote:On August 27 2013 21:49 Chicken Chaser wrote:On August 27 2013 21:41 AmOkk000 wrote:On August 27 2013 21:36 Chicken Chaser wrote:On August 27 2013 16:55 AmOkk000 wrote:
No creepy messages, nothing. She seemed happy when we talked last time. Okay, I move on. But how? I mean this really was my first relationship (im 17) and I don't want to end it, especially not in this way.
edit: fuuck, if im this sad even with a relationship like this, whats gonna happen later with more serious ones?
sorry if i seem really desperate, but i am. You're not ready for relationships if you can't handle ending them. Let that sink in before you continue clinging onto anyone. Do the counter-intuitive thing and *NUKE* her yourself: rid yourself of any shred of evidence she was in your life and go talk to your other friends, share what happened (good and bad) about her--don't focus on what you think was good, just share it all. For example, I was recently friend-zoned by someone I thought I'd have a lot of potential dating--it really sucked for the next few days but I shared what happened with my best friend and let myself see how I dodged some bullets like having to date a vegan or someone who actually plays video games more than me (lol?). The more objective and unafraid you are of what happened, the sooner you will come to conquer your feelings and "move on." Just take a deep breath (or two or three) and chill. **Everything will be okay.** Learn from the experience and reflect on your character and move forward. You will feel shitty and all this again in the future, but you'll at least know that you are capable of moving on and keeping your life together. My problem may not even the 'move on' thing, but the fact the I have no idea why. I only need a reason why she doesnt answer me, anything. Just to clarify things. Sorry, "all is fair in love and war." She doesn't have to give you a reason. And you might not get one directly from her if she's deleted or deactivated her facebook. well okay. i will still try to contact her friends, even if i cant get her back, maybe learn what did wrong. about the hobbies: you are right, i was just too close minded. i like watching tv shows (dexter, breaking bad) and have other interests as well. but they are connected to the 'sit home and do nothing' thing, thats why i didnt mention them. sorry, im a bit frustrated. I edited my post since you last quoted--check the previous page. Well, I'm trying to share you advice in the future. Embrace who you are; don't fabricate your identity. You should want someone who likes you for who you are, so be yourself! If you feel like there are areas you're lacking, then that's something you do for yourself. Feel like a couch potato? Then take some time to exercise or play a sport--I promise you that will make you feel way more energetic, chirpy, positive, and confident about yourself. It's not a terribly demanding or daunting task--just set up small goals for yourself to achieve. That aside, don't worry so much about your "shared interests" but think about "sharing your interests". See what I did there? Haha, then it becomes a subject to talk about--an active process instead of just listing things in common, which is passive. Now, the catch is maybe one or the two simply isn't interested in what's being shared. In that case.. lol, that should be a flag that maybe you two aren't that compatible after all. Don't force a dead conversation--it's the most awkward and awful thing ever.
So its a lost cause with this girl? okay, i accept it but the following few days will be hell for me im sure. i couldnt sleep a minute this night either.
Thanks for the advice, im definitely gonna use them later.
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On August 27 2013 21:59 Rixxe wrote:Show nested quote +On August 27 2013 21:52 Chicken Chaser wrote:On August 27 2013 21:41 Rixxe wrote:
So i have a question for you lovely people, how do you move on from 'dating' to the relationship part?
Bit of background, we are both 24, went to the same college and have the same friend group as a result of that. Live near each other and both work full time. Anyway, been out on 3 or so dates, each one has been really great fun, great conversation and i've been getting a really good vibe. At the end of the last date, we show our affection for a few minutes before she leaves.
Annnnd.... now i'm stuck. Dates are great fun, but really expensive in London. Not to mention i'm running out of ideas, and generally feel like i'd enjoy seeing her in a more relaxed enviroment. Problem is, i don't want to make her think i'm only in it for sex by inviting her round, yet i can't think of what else to do. Not promising this will help, but can you give us a little context? Like where are the good vibes coming from? Does it seem clear that she's dating you exclusively and doesn't have any interest seeing other guys? Well when we go out and chat, she seems interested in things i talk about that she does know or partake in (this can be anything from sports, to work etc). We joke, flirt and generally talk about stuff which i'd normally not bring up with someone on a 1st or 2nd date. She clearly makes an effort with her appearance (i've had enough ex's to know that), and seems keen enough to suggest going out. As far as dating me exclusively, i can't be sure. As far as i'm aware, none of the people in our friends group think she is seeing someone else.
Hopefully others will chime in too, but from what you've shared it sounds like things are good. Maybe each date doesn't have to be some extravagant or creative idea. There's nothing wrong with just hanging out or kicking back at one of your guys' places--maybe she's waiting to see you in a more relaxed environment as well. You could just be direct with her and ask her intentions on where you guys are heading.. that's some advice I've heard from a few of my girl friends. It saves both persons the time and trouble if it turns out one is getting lead on. Or just keep up what's been going on and the time will just come when you both know?
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On August 27 2013 22:09 AmOkk000 wrote:Show nested quote +On August 27 2013 22:03 Chicken Chaser wrote:On August 27 2013 21:52 AmOkk000 wrote:On August 27 2013 21:49 Chicken Chaser wrote:On August 27 2013 21:41 AmOkk000 wrote:On August 27 2013 21:36 Chicken Chaser wrote:On August 27 2013 16:55 AmOkk000 wrote:
No creepy messages, nothing. She seemed happy when we talked last time. Okay, I move on. But how? I mean this really was my first relationship (im 17) and I don't want to end it, especially not in this way.
edit: fuuck, if im this sad even with a relationship like this, whats gonna happen later with more serious ones?
sorry if i seem really desperate, but i am. You're not ready for relationships if you can't handle ending them. Let that sink in before you continue clinging onto anyone. Do the counter-intuitive thing and *NUKE* her yourself: rid yourself of any shred of evidence she was in your life and go talk to your other friends, share what happened (good and bad) about her--don't focus on what you think was good, just share it all. For example, I was recently friend-zoned by someone I thought I'd have a lot of potential dating--it really sucked for the next few days but I shared what happened with my best friend and let myself see how I dodged some bullets like having to date a vegan or someone who actually plays video games more than me (lol?). The more objective and unafraid you are of what happened, the sooner you will come to conquer your feelings and "move on." Just take a deep breath (or two or three) and chill. **Everything will be okay.** Learn from the experience and reflect on your character and move forward. You will feel shitty and all this again in the future, but you'll at least know that you are capable of moving on and keeping your life together. My problem may not even the 'move on' thing, but the fact the I have no idea why. I only need a reason why she doesnt answer me, anything. Just to clarify things. Sorry, "all is fair in love and war." She doesn't have to give you a reason. And you might not get one directly from her if she's deleted or deactivated her facebook. well okay. i will still try to contact her friends, even if i cant get her back, maybe learn what did wrong. about the hobbies: you are right, i was just too close minded. i like watching tv shows (dexter, breaking bad) and have other interests as well. but they are connected to the 'sit home and do nothing' thing, thats why i didnt mention them. sorry, im a bit frustrated. I edited my post since you last quoted--check the previous page. Well, I'm trying to share you advice in the future. Embrace who you are; don't fabricate your identity. You should want someone who likes you for who you are, so be yourself! If you feel like there are areas you're lacking, then that's something you do for yourself. Feel like a couch potato? Then take some time to exercise or play a sport--I promise you that will make you feel way more energetic, chirpy, positive, and confident about yourself. It's not a terribly demanding or daunting task--just set up small goals for yourself to achieve. That aside, don't worry so much about your "shared interests" but think about "sharing your interests". See what I did there? Haha, then it becomes a subject to talk about--an active process instead of just listing things in common, which is passive. Now, the catch is maybe one or the two simply isn't interested in what's being shared. In that case.. lol, that should be a flag that maybe you two aren't that compatible after all. Don't force a dead conversation--it's the most awkward and awful thing ever. So its a lost cause with this girl? okay, i accept it but the following few days will be hell for me im sure. i couldnt sleep a minute this night either. Thanks for the advice, im definitely gonna use them later.
Hey man, if I had a dollar for every day I felt the way you do, I'd be a rich man. Unfortunately, no one gets paid for being depressed over an ex-girlfriend, so it's in everyone's best interest to move on lol. I remember when I broke up with my ex of 2.5 years 2-3 years ago, I lost a lot of sleep and had plentiful of nightmares. I turtled up and didn't open up what was going on with *me* to anyone, and ended up hurting myself way more than what it was worth at the time. Any advice or comfort I received from friends just bounced off my shell, but in retrospect, if I had listened and understood what the advice meant, I'd have saved myself so much trouble and hard feelings (and grades). Growing up has a lot to do with expanding your perspective on life--don't let this one little incident/girl narrow your vision on life. There's so much more to it than dwelling on a girl who doesn't like you back lol. We both know it'll be hell for you, but that's no reason not to be able to laugh and enjoy other things in life.
EDIT: While you're feeling this way, I advise you to do things in moderation. Like don't splurge too much on video games or TV or food etc.--it distracts you for a while but then that awful feeling comes back. I call it the "rubber band effect". Live day by day and eventually, one day you will feel free. When you do feel shitty, just take a moment to pause and relax. Surrounding yourself with close friends or family helps. Even though you said you can't get anyone to hang out with you, you mention online gaming friends/class mates--chat with them! Share what's happened, throw the girl under the bus if you want--nothing's off limits when you're trying to move on.
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On August 27 2013 22:15 Chicken Chaser wrote:Show nested quote +On August 27 2013 22:09 AmOkk000 wrote:On August 27 2013 22:03 Chicken Chaser wrote:On August 27 2013 21:52 AmOkk000 wrote:On August 27 2013 21:49 Chicken Chaser wrote:On August 27 2013 21:41 AmOkk000 wrote:On August 27 2013 21:36 Chicken Chaser wrote:On August 27 2013 16:55 AmOkk000 wrote:
No creepy messages, nothing. She seemed happy when we talked last time. Okay, I move on. But how? I mean this really was my first relationship (im 17) and I don't want to end it, especially not in this way.
edit: fuuck, if im this sad even with a relationship like this, whats gonna happen later with more serious ones?
sorry if i seem really desperate, but i am. You're not ready for relationships if you can't handle ending them. Let that sink in before you continue clinging onto anyone. Do the counter-intuitive thing and *NUKE* her yourself: rid yourself of any shred of evidence she was in your life and go talk to your other friends, share what happened (good and bad) about her--don't focus on what you think was good, just share it all. For example, I was recently friend-zoned by someone I thought I'd have a lot of potential dating--it really sucked for the next few days but I shared what happened with my best friend and let myself see how I dodged some bullets like having to date a vegan or someone who actually plays video games more than me (lol?). The more objective and unafraid you are of what happened, the sooner you will come to conquer your feelings and "move on." Just take a deep breath (or two or three) and chill. **Everything will be okay.** Learn from the experience and reflect on your character and move forward. You will feel shitty and all this again in the future, but you'll at least know that you are capable of moving on and keeping your life together. My problem may not even the 'move on' thing, but the fact the I have no idea why. I only need a reason why she doesnt answer me, anything. Just to clarify things. Sorry, "all is fair in love and war." She doesn't have to give you a reason. And you might not get one directly from her if she's deleted or deactivated her facebook. well okay. i will still try to contact her friends, even if i cant get her back, maybe learn what did wrong. about the hobbies: you are right, i was just too close minded. i like watching tv shows (dexter, breaking bad) and have other interests as well. but they are connected to the 'sit home and do nothing' thing, thats why i didnt mention them. sorry, im a bit frustrated. I edited my post since you last quoted--check the previous page. Well, I'm trying to share you advice in the future. Embrace who you are; don't fabricate your identity. You should want someone who likes you for who you are, so be yourself! If you feel like there are areas you're lacking, then that's something you do for yourself. Feel like a couch potato? Then take some time to exercise or play a sport--I promise you that will make you feel way more energetic, chirpy, positive, and confident about yourself. It's not a terribly demanding or daunting task--just set up small goals for yourself to achieve. That aside, don't worry so much about your "shared interests" but think about "sharing your interests". See what I did there? Haha, then it becomes a subject to talk about--an active process instead of just listing things in common, which is passive. Now, the catch is maybe one or the two simply isn't interested in what's being shared. In that case.. lol, that should be a flag that maybe you two aren't that compatible after all. Don't force a dead conversation--it's the most awkward and awful thing ever. So its a lost cause with this girl? okay, i accept it but the following few days will be hell for me im sure. i couldnt sleep a minute this night either. Thanks for the advice, im definitely gonna use them later. Hey man, if I had a dollar for every day I felt the way you do, I'd be a rich man. Unfortunately, no one gets paid for being depressed over an ex-girlfriend, so it's in everyone's best interest to move on lol. I remember when I broke up with my ex of 2.5 years 2-3 years ago, I lost a lot of sleep and had plentiful of nightmares. I turtled up and didn't open up what was going on with *me* to anyone, and ended up hurting myself way more than what it was worth at the time. Any advice or comfort I received from friends just bounced off my shell, but in retrospect, if I had listened and understood what the advice meant, I'd have saved myself so much trouble and hard feelings (and grades). Growing up has a lot to do with expanding your perspective on life--don't let this one little incident/girl narrow your vision on life. There's so much more to it than dwelling on a girl who doesn't like you back lol. We both know it'll be hell for you, but that's no reason not to be able to laugh and enjoy other things in life. EDIT: While you're feeling this way, I advise you to do things in moderation. Like don't splurge too much on video games or TV or food etc.--it distracts you for a while but then that awful feeling comes back. I call it the "rubber band effect". Live day by day and eventually, one day you will feel free. When you do feel shitty, just take a moment to pause and relax. Surrounding yourself with close friends or family helps. Even though you said you can't get anyone to hang out with you, you mention online gaming friends/class mates--chat with them! Share what's happened, throw the girl under the bus if you want--nothing's off limits when you're trying to move on.
I guess this is something you cant learn, you have to experience.
Actually, i dont want to play games. I tried watching a movie, but hardly paid attention to it. I just wanna lay and think about her and what we did together, which is most probably the worst thing i can do. Everything reminds me of her. Music, gaming etc.
I havent talked about it to anyone, the first person im going to tell will be my mom. Im sure she will understand and support me.
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Its wonderful to read about guys being in love, any girl who thinks guys are dogs who only want to mate should read this thread!
Just before I found my girfriend for many years now I made some realisations.
1: A horribly dissapointing date or a rejection is a million times better than not dearing to ask.
2: I wanted a girl which I could spend a lot of time with without being bored or awkward and she should love me for who I am. Sex should be and feel natural for both.
If you guys feel like you do, try to create a nice situation and tell her excacly how you think about her and feel (nothing dirty and be yourself.) This is all in, but it has worked for thousands of years. Even if you dont get the seal of approval, she will for sure think about you before she goes to sleep...
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On August 27 2013 21:58 AmOkk000 wrote:
the thing is i believe she might have found out something about me and she misunderstood it, or i dont know. thats the only possible reason i can think of.
STAHP.
Just do some shit that you would normally enjoy and pass the time. Getting a run/workout and listening to music is always good for me. You'll feel better in a few days. DON'T CONTACT HER OR HER FRIENDS FOR THE LOVE OF GOD.
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On August 27 2013 23:50 decafchicken wrote:Show nested quote +On August 27 2013 21:58 AmOkk000 wrote:
the thing is i believe she might have found out something about me and she misunderstood it, or i dont know. thats the only possible reason i can think of. STAHP. Just do some shit that you would normally enjoy and pass the time. Getting a run/workout and listening to music is always good for me. You'll feel better in a few days. DON'T CONTACT HER OR HER FRIENDS FOR THE LOVE OF GOD.
Por favor, don't contact her. Listen to the Chicken.
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Okay, not gonna contact her. How can i forget her? She was an anime/korea/japan lover and they always remind me of her. I play legend of zelda? Fuck, she loved that. I listen to my favourite music/band? Fuck, she loved that. I watch a horror movie? Fuck, those were her favourites. I eat my favourite food (cherry pie)? Fuck, that was her favourite as well.
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find a new fb girl to stalk, duh
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On August 27 2013 23:04 Slydie wrote:
Its wonderful to read about guys being in love, any girl who thinks guys are dogs who only want to mate should read this thread!
Gotta skip over some peoples posts if you want to keep up that image... cough cloud
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On August 28 2013 00:35 QuanticHawk wrote:
find a new fb girl to stalk, duh
if u cant say anything useful, please dont say anything.
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On August 28 2013 00:37 AmOkk000 wrote:if u cant say anything useful, please dont say anything.
You must see things from out perspective and how its difficult not to treat you as a troll.
17yo fb gf zelda is like the bread and butter for fake girl blogs.
irregardless my best advice is to look to the future and get better people skills / confidence.
your barely a fifth of the way through your life and by 2 fifth id be surprised if you could remember her name.
literally thousands of women like zelda and are not prejudice against video games.
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Please don't walk away and, please TELL ME YOU'LL STAYYYYYYYEEAAAAAA. WHOAAAAAAA OHHH STAYYYYYYYYY!!!!!!! WHOAAA OHHH OHHHHH!
USE ME AS YOU WILL, PULL MY STRINGS JUST FOR A THRILL!! AND I KNOW I'LL BE OKAY, THOUGH MY SKIES ARE TURNING GRAY.
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