Dating: How's your luck? - Page 211

On July 13 2013 05:55 BigAsia wrote:


Thats the thing brah, why even jump into a serious relationship when you just got out of one. You're 21 have sum fun

On July 13 2013 07:48 B.I.G. wrote:
Sucks if you're Russian, suck it up if your Belgique

On July 13 2013 07:59 Kleinmuuhg wrote:
Bigasia you decreased thread quality from 4/10 to 2/10.
Brah

On July 13 2013 20:30 Frenchguy wrote:
Ok I never thought I would write my recent experience, but I guess this is also a good way to get over it :p Sorry in advance for the long read.

There is this incredibly hot chick who is a receptionist at the place I work. Not the most sophisticated woman I have ever met but really pretty.
She is 23 and I'm 28. 6 months ago, after I broke up my my ex-girlfriend (I had been with for 1 year and who is in the same work too :s) I started seducing her in the old fashion way : Sense of humour + Confidence. It worked pretty well and I had my first lunch with her 3 weeks after and my first date on a week end shortly after. I was a happy man as she looked to be very tender and shy - the exact opposite from my precedent girlfriend and I wanted to give it a try. That was in February. Since then, she has kept playing with me and I implicitely accepted it. We were talking every day at work (by email or in face to face) and it was really pleasant. The thing is she was always finding an excuse not to see eachother outside of the workplace. Her explanations were always dramatic :
- Her parents were divorcing
- Her mom is over-possessive
- Her grand ma is about to die
- Very dramatic precedent relationship
- ect ...
This has been going for months and all in all, we have seen eachother 4 times in the week end + a few lunches close to the workplace She forgot my birthay and did not support me at all when I broke my shoulder and was incapacited for 2 weeks. She was asking me for time as she had to recover from her past relationship. I let all of this happen with not so strong reactions. I tried a few times to get things more straight but she was always giving me dramatic reasons. She promised me things will get better soon - in August. I was believing her. As I was not seeing her and start to have doubts, I dated another girl (from my workplace again :s) in secret - who is now back to England - for a few weeks.

Last wednesday I ask her out for restaurant and she declined - pretending she was very sick and that she just learned from the day before she had tyrhoid and also that she was feeling unwell because of her humiliating mother. Wesdnesay night I send her texts with the "we need to talk" crap. She is never getting my phonecalls so we are texting eachother. She replied me that she was very hurt by my message, bla bla bla. Thursday, we talked very little at work. I was concerned about where this was going and decided to tell the truth to my ex-girlfriend who I am very good friend with. She was amazed I was accepting all this crap and was being used in such obvious way, telling me she is just wanting to keep me close 'in case of'. So my ex convinced me to ignore her for the next 2 months (ouch!) - to show her who is the guy with the balls.
On this night, I received a text from my "girlfriend" telling me she almost get raped. I offered her to call me but she turned the offer down, pretending she wanted to sleep. I did not reply after this and resume my sleep, 99,99% convinced she was not reacting like someone who almost get raped. She just wants me to remain under her control.
On Friday, I did not reply any of her messages and stopped by the reception office with my ex (who is really pretty, ofc she is my ex :p) to make her jealous (it worked:p). She sent me a couple of messages, getting angry not to get any answer from me. One of her message was "You don't care of what could have happened to me yesterday night?". I did not reply although I felt really bad. Plan is to keep ignoring her for the next weeks, not sure I'll succeed though :p

I really feel terrible to have been used by this attractive 23 year old girl who has been using overdramatic lies to get what she wants from me. I just think this girl is mentally sick and I did not suspect it at all.
Conclusion is that I will be tougher with girls now and stop being the "kind and supportive" guy.

On July 11 2013 01:38 docvoc wrote:

Solo moms tend to be looking for a guy who can take over the fatherly role. It would be bad if they dated around and the child experienced the mom not sticking to one person, it tends to produce irregularities in the household and it can be bad for children. Also, single moms tend to understand that the fact that they have a kid is a huge turnoff to guys in many cases, not just for the obvious facts that the kid costs money and is not the man's own, but also for the fact that, more unconsciously speaking, the man wants to produce his own generations and not worry about helping continue on the lineage of another man's successful continuation (that would be strictly from the point of view of a biological psychologist at least).

Solomoms do have a kind of mature sexyness to them, and not all girls mature fast, some look their best in their mid 30-s to 40-s when everyone else is falling off, but they just hit their peak.

On July 14 2013 04:32 Funshines wrote:
hey bros

So for the last 4 months i've been chillen with my best friends ex of 2 years because she is like the only one in town in our circle of friends aaaand over this time we've both developed feelings for each other that are more than physical. We never kissed or had sex, just a lot of cuddling and stuff while we watched shows and we have come to realize that we are prety compatible. shes still close to her ex, my best friend, whatever but their strong feelings for each other are dead. i know the best thing to do in this situation is just to distance myself away from her and find some other girl but i really don't want to. im just looking for advice on maybe what should i do or say to my best friend to not have him think way less of me and his ex if we started dating.

and if you are wondering about age me and my best friend are 23 while his ex is 22

On July 14 2013 04:32 Funshines wrote:
hey bros

So for the last 4 months i've been chillen with my best friends ex of 2 years because she is like the only one in town in our circle of friends aaaand over this time we've both developed feelings for each other that are more than physical. We never kissed or had sex, just a lot of cuddling and stuff while we watched shows and we have come to realize that we are prety compatible. shes still close to her ex, my best friend, whatever but their strong feelings for each other are dead. i know the best thing to do in this situation is just to distance myself away from her and find some other girl but i really don't want to. im just looking for advice on maybe what should i do or say to my best friend to not have him think way less of me and his ex if we started dating.

and if you are wondering about age me and my best friend are 23 while his ex is 22

On July 14 2013 10:21 Najda wrote:


Have you talked to your friend about it at all?

On July 14 2013 11:06 Funshines wrote:


not yet, he isn't in town but i plan to before i go anywhere with his ex. i just don't know how to go about the conversation.

On July 14 2013 11:28 Najda wrote:


"Hey would you be cool if (ex's name) and I got together?"