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So I am bored right now so I thought about sharing a story with you guys about an experience I had. I'm going to go back to the freshman and sophomore year of highschool. I remember this time, I was confused teen in a paradoxical world. Its a story of class and superifical standards. So my school is filled with alot of attractive girls and there was this asian girl that I just met and got into. She seemed really nice to me and she seemed interested in me. We talked for a while, and we were planning about hanging out some time. She was older then me though. So anyway I met her through a club in my school called Model U.N. and we were going on a competition. I met her friends too.
So anyway our club leader/teacher are driving us to the competition. There is me, my teacher, two white kids (boy and girl) and the asian girl with her two friends. All of a sudden *bam*, huge brag fest starts, the three girls talk aloud over the entire car and no one is able to listen to anyone but them. Anyway, guess what they were talking about? Going to Ivy league schools, they were bragging to literally everyone in the car about which Ivy league school they would go to. I swear no one could talk because these three loudmouths were talking so loud. God was it annoying, and of course came the "I'm more superior and I'm smarter then you" body language. Me, the white guy, white girl and teacher just sat silent without a word in the car.
Anyway so the whole conundram stops, I get to know her more and more. Sophomore year comes, she learns more about me as well. Turns out that I'm not in the same boat as her. She begins to notice that I'm not in any of the advanced classes for my grade as I should be according to her standards. She has a group of people that she hangs around with that are all going to attend prestigious institutions of sorts or won something. Of course I didn't exactly meet the criteria, so she stops talking to me and pretends for the rest of the year that I don't exist.
So I decided to ditch this stupid girl for another girl. This girl was a hot-ass Bulgarian-american girl that I wanted bang till I died. Guess what happens? She too loses interest in me because I'm kinda weird and I'm not the intelligent musculine-body built independent alpha white male thats athletic and going to attend a prestigious institution. Turns out the same girl is somewhat part of the same group as the previous group. Nearly all the hot-girls in my highschool are selective as I described. Also I'm not exactly American, as in, I don't talk American, I can't be the stereotypical sarcastic witty American that can steal jokes from shows such as "House" or the "The office". When I watch American commercials I can't imitate the subtle American humor that every guy here does. She kinda ditches me and stops talking to me.
So whats the moral of the story here folks? If you're scrawny, not rich, not elite, not athletically built, brown/some other thing, intelligent, introspective, quiet, not an upper-class American that can make perfectly timed American brand humor jokes, you lose.
If you're an american middle/upper-middle class, white-guy, superficially educated, athletic and bound to go somewhere big, you win a life.
When I asked the second girl out, she said she would hang out with me "some day later". After I asked her, a white guy asked her to prom, I have to make a move fast. In the meantime I'm stuck without a prom date. The first girl is having a blast of her life in UPenn. As for the other girls.... well you know I'm kinda quiet, and intelligent and you know how American teenage white girls are anti-intellectual etc etc etc etc etc...........
Life is cruel my friends, life is cruel.
  
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Australian girls > All
That is, girls from australia, not australian race...
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I respect your decision to not bone her.
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Maybe you should lower your standards.
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Get some confidence.. and it's just high school.
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Yeah it's just highschool. Plus if you motivate yourself enough you COULD have a built body, or even just toned. It really doesn't take that long.
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just find a girl that's fun to be around, even if she's not a supermodel or as hot as the girls you were talking about because they make the best girlfriends!
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I'm sorry for you, but you should stop thinking like this. Don't put all your hopes in one or two girls who you don't even know. There's plenty of fish in the sea, and I think you'll realise even if you were in a relationship with those girls, it wouldn't be all sunshine and roses. They're bratty, superficial, and immature. Why do you need that in your life? Who cares if they're going to ivy league schools. Half of them will drop out anyway when they fail to prioritize their life without mum and dad.
Just learn to value yourself. Maybe that's easier said than done, but as long as you like where you're going in life, it doesn't matter what other people think. When you know what you want to do in life and you go after that, other people will respect you and things will come together.
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BELIEVE YOURSELF!
... or at least do something to build up your confidence.
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On April 25 2009 12:32 nataziel wrote:
Australian girls > All
That is, girls from australia, not australian race...
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dude asian nerds have it worse, quit complaining
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On April 25 2009 12:32 nataziel wrote:
Australian girls > All
That is, girls from australia, not australian race...
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Maybe she picked up on your neurosis?
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you lost me on "american wit" and "subtle american humour"
so you're saying: if you're good looking, have cool gear and money, have decent prospects for your future, and can make people laugh, you'll get girls.
how shallow and superficial for a girl ever wanting to be with someone like that, rather than be with someone like you :x
(oh, and by the way a girl will never date you if she's older than you)
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so here's the story
no, it's not just high school, it'll be like that all your life
did you know that it's a statistically proven fact that girls get more orgasms the higher the income of the boyfriend?
it's in our genes. just like we want to fuck every hot girl we see, girls want to have security and stability - it's the same primeval instinct.
and btw: i don't think that's shallow at all. just as shallow as you wanting to fuck jessica alba
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Dude, at least you don't go on a chat board, have a really meaningful and intimate conversation then tell her that you're asian and later go,
"Oh, sorry i got to go, bye!!"
Be lucky you're of the culture that the majority of women dig.
Get out there! It's the spring-time of youth.
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how are you positive that girls want a guy that isn't in honors classes? are you 100% positive that NO attractive girls would like you if you are not atheletic? Are you positive that you WANT to be with girls that only like guys for their body? Are you 100% sure that if you're not "upper-class" that no hot women would want you? I think you need to think it through man, stop acting like a victim, and do what you can with yourself and your life.
I'm going to go off on a tangent here, because i feel that its important. In my life i've seen MANY hot girls, hundreds... And i can only think of 3 guys that really have their acts together. Which means that if you stop acting like a victim, and just accept whatever comes into your way, and stop caring about other's opinions of you, you'll see life so much better....
btw: also have u noticed that when you ask a guy what they want in a women, most of them would say hot body, nice looking face..... But if you ask a women what they want in a men, most would give you personality traits... Perhaps these girls in your blog didn't ditch you because of your looks, but because you didnt' put your act together.
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cry more
there are bigger problems...biatch
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"(oh, and by the way a girl will never date you if she's older than you)"
lolno
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On April 25 2009 13:03 starflash wrote:
(oh, and by the way a girl will never date you if she's older than you)
haha don't think you should be giving advice :s
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Spenguin
Australia3316 Posts
On April 25 2009 12:32 nataziel wrote:
Australian girls > All
That is, girls from australia, not australian race...
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Korea (South)11575 Posts
On April 25 2009 12:56 caelym wrote:
dude asian nerds have it worse, quit complaining
and middle eastern nerds have it even worse than them.
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seriously, stop acting like you're the victim.
you are attracted to these girls in the first place because they're hot (i.e. the bulgarian friend you wanted to bone till you died). since you're judging them superficially, they in turn can judge you superficially.
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Baa?21242 Posts
It sounds like you're expecting her to lower her standards for you while bemoaning your own life and making no effort to change it?
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that moral of the story is horrible. I've seen plenty of amazingly hot chicks with guys that have those kind of attributes/features. You just have to know how to come on(hehehe) properly, and not act all nerdy and quiet and like you don't have any confidence. A beautiful, smart woman that likes you back isn't just going to fall onto your lap if you don't put much effort in.
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most girls are like that in high school. sorry to break it you. wait til you're in college. and what everyone's saying about confidence is 100% true. if u don't have it, neither will you have a girlfriend
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doesnt sound like a race specific problem, title change?
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Nothing could possibly be wrong with you.
It's all these girls' faults for not liking you.
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On April 25 2009 14:28 zulu_nation8 wrote:
ITS JUST HIGH SCHOOL
But it hurts now! 
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On April 25 2009 12:26 nimysa wrote:
Life is cruel my friends, life is cruel.
Learn to bounce back from this shit. U can never get what u want but if you pursue what u want(uncreepy way plz) you will get it. Don't let nothing stop you as this will just be a bruise to your self confidence.
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Well start working out, go to the gym 3 times a week for 2 hours and til summer youll have a perfect shaped body. Body + mind = girls
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guys high school sets the pace for the rest of your life
this is serious business ok
its now or never man you better fix this asap
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On April 25 2009 15:25 Carnivorous Sheep wrote:
It sounds like you're expecting her to lower her standards for you while bemoaning your own life and making no effort to change it?
LOLOL so tru
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girls date older guys only cos majority of older guys are more settled and mature and confident than younger guys - if you can put forth confidence, older women are ok. In fact i prefer slightly older women, they seem more down to earth, than young high school chicks who only want tall dark handsome atheletes and swimmers lol.
Although after working out intensively for 6 months, getting compliments from women feels good =D
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This is quite normal really...
Women are controlled by their emotions and instincts and are designed to go with the man who has the best chances of survival, whether that is a well toned physique or money etc. it all comes down to that single aspect. That is why you will usually see beautiful women around average looking fellas with money in the bank.
Too bad its not really the same for us, we pay attention to a Woman's ability to carry our own genes and produce healthy and damn good looking children (i.e.size of hips, busts etc.)
Chef, gave the best advice though... always love and have confidence in yourself and everything will follow, there are billions of women in the world.
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So if you are complaining that you cant get girls because you arent a hot, good loooking rich guy.. Why are you trying to get with hot good looking girls? Shouldnt you be dating ugly girls, according to your opinion of how things work?
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who is this girl going to Upenn?
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What the hell? I live in like a really rich white neighborhood and all the girls here don't give a crap about academics involving the guy. Not like anyone's seeing each other once we're off to college anyway. Just wait til college and you should be able to find someone much better. Plus, at least you're white and you've gotten other white girls before. Asians have no chance on a white girl these days around here.
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On April 25 2009 13:03 starflash wrote:
you lost me on "american wit" and "subtle american humour"
so you're saying: if you're good looking, have cool gear and money, have decent prospects for your future, and can make people laugh, you'll get girls.
how shallow and superficial for a girl ever wanting to be with someone like that, rather than be with someone like you :x
(oh, and by the way a girl will never date you if she's older than you)
i would like to point out the irony in what i bolded/italicized in comparison to the rest of your post
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Uh... what are your pros?
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This is why we go for foreign girls! not white wash asian girls.
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On April 26 2009 07:03 Tekin wrote:
This is why we go for foreign girls! not white wash asian girls.
man fresh foreign asian girls just looks at your wallet.
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On April 26 2009 08:16 YPang wrote:Show nested quote +On April 26 2009 07:03 Tekin wrote:
This is why we go for foreign girls! not white wash asian girls. man fresh foreign asian girls just looks at your wallet.
Which is great if you got a nice wallet.
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On April 26 2009 06:51 Duke wrote:Show nested quote +On April 25 2009 13:03 starflash wrote:
(oh, and by the way a girl will never date you if she's older than you) i would like to point out the irony in what i bolded/italicized in comparison to the rest of your post
Half of my GFs and hookups are with older chicks, wtf are you talking about.
OMFG
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On April 26 2009 09:07 CharlieMurphy wrote:Show nested quote +On April 26 2009 06:51 Duke wrote:On April 25 2009 13:03 starflash wrote:
(oh, and by the way a girl will never date you if she's older than you) i would like to point out the irony in what i bolded/italicized in comparison to the rest of your post Half of my GFs and hookups are with older chicks, wtf are you talking about. OMFG
i like her clothes more her looks
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On April 25 2009 12:26 nimysa wrote:
So whats the moral of the story here folks? If you're scrawny, not rich, not elite, not athletically built, brown/some other thing, intelligent, introspective, quiet, not an upper-class American that can make perfectly timed American brand humor jokes, you FUCKING SUCK
you surprised girls are into healthy-looking, funny and outgoing guys? Seriously, what did you expect. And you dont have to be "upper class" or "unintelligent" or "white". I see worst retards and losers get laid with amazingly looking ladies. Those girls not bright, but if you looking for a bright girl that is attractive, youre in for an upset
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On April 26 2009 12:33 HeavOnEarth wrote:+ Show Spoiler +i like her clothes more her looks
On April 25 2009 15:25 Carnivorous Sheep wrote:
It sounds like you're expecting her to lower her standards for you while bemoaning your own life and making no effort to change it?
On April 25 2009 15:31 Grobyc wrote:
that moral of the story is horrible.
On April 25 2009 12:32 nataziel wrote:
Australian girls > All
That is, girls from australia, not australian race...
On April 25 2009 13:04 snowbird wrote:
did you know that it's a statistically proven fact that girls get more orgasms the higher the income of the boyfriend?
On April 25 2009 13:03 starflash wrote:
(oh, and by the way a girl will never date you if she's older than you)
A lot of gold in this thread, thoroughly enjoyed.
Oh and.
On April 25 2009 13:31 stack wrote:
cry more
there are bigger problems...biatch
Well, since technically we are on this planet to reproduce, if he can't even get the basics down, he's fucked. I consider that a pretty big problem.
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UPenn isn't something to brag about. Let her know 
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You know when you're playing TvP, and you're running your vultures around and you scan a Protoss base that has like 50 cannons? That's like a girl saying no. Just let your vultures move on until you've either teched to tanks with siege mode, or gotten yamato canon.
EDIT that's a reply to the post you just deleted 
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On April 27 2009 08:52 Chef wrote:You know when you're playing TvP, and you're running your vultures around and you scan a Protoss base that has like 50 cannons? That's like a girl saying no. Just let your vultures move on until you've either teched to tanks with siege mode, or gotten yamato canon. EDIT that's a reply to the post you just deleted
What If i'm not a terran player?
What if it's a high level PVP where i'm trying to break into the opponents natural with goons+reavers, and my opponent has goons planted on the side cliffs and I don't have enough goons to break to reinforce the attack.
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chicks never ever date younger guys. ever.
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On April 26 2009 21:25 Milton Friedman wrote:UPenn isn't something to brag about. Let her know
out of curiosity any relation to rebecca friedman?
is friedman a popular last name? i dont know
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On April 28 2009 11:08 JeeJee wrote:Show nested quote +On April 26 2009 21:25 Milton Friedman wrote:UPenn isn't something to brag about. Let her know out of curiosity any relation to rebecca friedman? is friedman a popular last name? i dont know
I'm assuming you know this, but Milton Friedman is the name of a popular economist from the U.S., and almost surely not that members actual name.
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hmm something similar happened to me w/ a girl cept i was too smart for her or soemthing.... so iono man... it's a lose lose situation
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On April 28 2009 13:07 R3condite wrote:
hmm something similar happened to me w/ a girl cept i was too smart for her or soemthing.... so iono man... it's a lose lose situation
Really? Wow? Do share more..
Either the girls are too dumb or too hot for me, lol.
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hey, fuck it! that does not make any fucking difference in a long run!
go and build a body!
go and study! always remember: "be good at something, that makes you valuable", the words from the dying professor Randy Pausch (watch that video btw)
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On April 28 2009 17:05 araav wrote:
hey, fuck it! that does not make any fucking difference in a long run!
go and build a body!
go and study! always remember: "be good at something, that makes you valuable", the words from the dying professor Randy Pausch (watch that video btw)
This.
Essentially, you have to become the "big fish" to be landed. Looks, body, money, intelligence - any combination of these traits. But social skills are still a must, lol. Maybe some ladies man might want to clarify, haha.
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