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So I am bored right now so I thought about sharing a story with you guys about an experience I had. I'm going to go back to the freshman and sophomore year of highschool. I remember this time, I was confused teen in a paradoxical world. Its a story of class and superifical standards. So my school is filled with alot of attractive girls and there was this asian girl that I just met and got into. She seemed really nice to me and she seemed interested in me. We talked for a while, and we were planning about hanging out some time. She was older then me though. So anyway I met her through a club in my school called Model U.N. and we were going on a competition. I met her friends too.
So anyway our club leader/teacher are driving us to the competition. There is me, my teacher, two white kids (boy and girl) and the asian girl with her two friends. All of a sudden *bam*, huge brag fest starts, the three girls talk aloud over the entire car and no one is able to listen to anyone but them. Anyway, guess what they were talking about? Going to Ivy league schools, they were bragging to literally everyone in the car about which Ivy league school they would go to. I swear no one could talk because these three loudmouths were talking so loud. God was it annoying, and of course came the "I'm more superior and I'm smarter then you" body language. Me, the white guy, white girl and teacher just sat silent without a word in the car.
Anyway so the whole conundram stops, I get to know her more and more. Sophomore year comes, she learns more about me as well. Turns out that I'm not in the same boat as her. She begins to notice that I'm not in any of the advanced classes for my grade as I should be according to her standards. She has a group of people that she hangs around with that are all going to attend prestigious institutions of sorts or won something. Of course I didn't exactly meet the criteria, so she stops talking to me and pretends for the rest of the year that I don't exist.
So I decided to ditch this stupid girl for another girl. This girl was a hot-ass Bulgarian-american girl that I wanted bang till I died. Guess what happens? She too loses interest in me because I'm kinda weird and I'm not the intelligent musculine-body built independent alpha white male thats athletic and going to attend a prestigious institution. Turns out the same girl is somewhat part of the same group as the previous group. Nearly all the hot-girls in my highschool are selective as I described. Also I'm not exactly American, as in, I don't talk American, I can't be the stereotypical sarcastic witty American that can steal jokes from shows such as "House" or the "The office". When I watch American commercials I can't imitate the subtle American humor that every guy here does. She kinda ditches me and stops talking to me.
So whats the moral of the story here folks? If you're scrawny, not rich, not elite, not athletically built, brown/some other thing, intelligent, introspective, quiet, not an upper-class American that can make perfectly timed American brand humor jokes, you lose.
If you're an american middle/upper-middle class, white-guy, superficially educated, athletic and bound to go somewhere big, you win a life.
When I asked the second girl out, she said she would hang out with me "some day later". After I asked her, a white guy asked her to prom, I have to make a move fast. In the meantime I'm stuck without a prom date. The first girl is having a blast of her life in UPenn. As for the other girls.... well you know I'm kinda quiet, and intelligent and you know how American teenage white girls are anti-intellectual etc etc etc etc etc...........
Life is cruel my friends, life is cruel.
  
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Australian girls > All
That is, girls from australia, not australian race...
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I respect your decision to not bone her.
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Maybe you should lower your standards.
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Get some confidence.. and it's just high school.
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Yeah it's just highschool. Plus if you motivate yourself enough you COULD have a built body, or even just toned. It really doesn't take that long.
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just find a girl that's fun to be around, even if she's not a supermodel or as hot as the girls you were talking about because they make the best girlfriends!
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I'm sorry for you, but you should stop thinking like this. Don't put all your hopes in one or two girls who you don't even know. There's plenty of fish in the sea, and I think you'll realise even if you were in a relationship with those girls, it wouldn't be all sunshine and roses. They're bratty, superficial, and immature. Why do you need that in your life? Who cares if they're going to ivy league schools. Half of them will drop out anyway when they fail to prioritize their life without mum and dad.
Just learn to value yourself. Maybe that's easier said than done, but as long as you like where you're going in life, it doesn't matter what other people think. When you know what you want to do in life and you go after that, other people will respect you and things will come together.
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BELIEVE YOURSELF!
... or at least do something to build up your confidence.
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On April 25 2009 12:32 nataziel wrote:
Australian girls > All
That is, girls from australia, not australian race...
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dude asian nerds have it worse, quit complaining
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On April 25 2009 12:32 nataziel wrote:
Australian girls > All
That is, girls from australia, not australian race...
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Maybe she picked up on your neurosis?
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you lost me on "american wit" and "subtle american humour"
so you're saying: if you're good looking, have cool gear and money, have decent prospects for your future, and can make people laugh, you'll get girls.
how shallow and superficial for a girl ever wanting to be with someone like that, rather than be with someone like you :x
(oh, and by the way a girl will never date you if she's older than you)
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so here's the story
no, it's not just high school, it'll be like that all your life
did you know that it's a statistically proven fact that girls get more orgasms the higher the income of the boyfriend?
it's in our genes. just like we want to fuck every hot girl we see, girls want to have security and stability - it's the same primeval instinct.
and btw: i don't think that's shallow at all. just as shallow as you wanting to fuck jessica alba
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Dude, at least you don't go on a chat board, have a really meaningful and intimate conversation then tell her that you're asian and later go,
"Oh, sorry i got to go, bye!!"
Be lucky you're of the culture that the majority of women dig.
Get out there! It's the spring-time of youth.
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how are you positive that girls want a guy that isn't in honors classes? are you 100% positive that NO attractive girls would like you if you are not atheletic? Are you positive that you WANT to be with girls that only like guys for their body? Are you 100% sure that if you're not "upper-class" that no hot women would want you? I think you need to think it through man, stop acting like a victim, and do what you can with yourself and your life.
I'm going to go off on a tangent here, because i feel that its important. In my life i've seen MANY hot girls, hundreds... And i can only think of 3 guys that really have their acts together. Which means that if you stop acting like a victim, and just accept whatever comes into your way, and stop caring about other's opinions of you, you'll see life so much better....
btw: also have u noticed that when you ask a guy what they want in a women, most of them would say hot body, nice looking face..... But if you ask a women what they want in a men, most would give you personality traits... Perhaps these girls in your blog didn't ditch you because of your looks, but because you didnt' put your act together.
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cry more
there are bigger problems...biatch
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