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On December 21 2010 05:23 Xeofreestyler wrote:The more you start being an attention-seeking child in her eyes the more you'll push her away.
Cat-string theory son.
True when getting girls, not so true when trying to keep girls. Vast amounts of attention required.
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real men do not cry over girls.
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Before you break it off give her shampoo as a parting gift and put nair in it
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I lost my first serious gf after 11 months when i was 17 and i was devastated. Looking back to it i should've just said fuck her and move on never think about her again. I meet her time to time and i jsut can't understand what was so special about her. I think it was just the time spent together and it makes you really miss it/her, but man up and don't look back - it is not worthy and trust me in this. Good luck geting over it asap.
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On December 21 2010 06:15 Forgottenfrog wrote:Show nested quote +On December 21 2010 06:08 gongryong wrote:Centaurion Netherlands. December 21 2010 05:29. Wow, guys. thanks for all the fast comments. yeah, I agree I overreacted on the phone thing, but it's just not only that. I just asked her if she still likes me, she said no. Just while I was reading your posts. She said it wasn't my fault, she just doesn't feel the same for me anymore. I asked her if we were going to hang out on wednesday? She said no, I understand, I'm not crying. I just need your advice. Break up now? WTF is she doing with your phone anyway? Listening to you, i'll say she's a player taking advantage of how much you love her. Don't break up. Yet. Play the game. Cold her out and go out with girls. Actively, like 1 girl a day LOL Preferably not your friends. If she doesnt bring it up in a couple of weeks or so, it means you are officially free. If she does, quote here "doesnt feel the same way for you anymore." GG EDIT: Before you break up, be sure to score (one last time) big ok? xd ^ He knows what he's saying. Score one then dump her! Also from now you don't let anyone take your phone. If she can't trust you to have your OWN phone then she's not worth wasting your time over. You're only 16yrs old, there are more girls to come, stop wasting your time getting hurt over 1 girl.
Ya man switch to terran just this once and all in her and make her gg.
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I'm guessing your phone has a vibrate function?
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On December 21 2010 06:16 UrASofty wrote: real men do not cry over girls. *reads username* ... *reads post*
Perfect.
Don't worry about it man, its alright to cry, but when you do - don't do it in front of others.
She seems to have lost interest in you... she can say that she loves you, but it is just to help you destroy yourself some more. Happened to me and I learned from it, just know next time you can't become too complacent and predictable in the relationship.
Once you are in the palm of her hand its gg, F10 N and hit that search button.
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On December 21 2010 06:19 Flaccid wrote: I'm guessing your phone has a vibrate function?
oh snap.
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She made an obviously kidding remark and then you gave her the silent treatment and cried at your computer....
I hope this is not true, because I have no idea why you'd want people to know that about you. Either way you're taking a trip to frown town.
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On December 21 2010 06:19 Flaccid wrote: I'm guessing your phone has a vibrate function? mystery: SOLVED
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Netherlands19124 Posts
On December 21 2010 06:19 Flaccid wrote: I'm guessing your phone has a vibrate function? Comming from a guy nicknamed flaccid haha.
Classic.
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you know that probably 70% of your problems with her is because you " so love her and just can't break up ".. man she knows it better than you, the difference is she can just break up with you, like this..
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This sounds like a girlfriend that i had for a week in high school. I really liked her and she got jealous that i started liking a different girl so she asked me out and i said yes because it was kinda what i wanted. Long story short, i'm glad i broke up with her as fast as possible. She was bipolar and insane. She never spoke plainly and wasn't in full control of her emotions. She told me several times while dating me (for one week) that she didn't like me and then 10 minutes later said that she changed her mind again.
Beware of these girls. Find a normal girl who is laid back and chill. (If you can chill, chill). Try being friends and spot spending time on the internet. Dating takes up too much time to be doing stuff like play sc2 hours a day.
Also consider this time in your life. You might not believe it but the girls in college are 1000 times cooler than in high school mostly because they tend to be the more educated and intelligent ones (unless you live in a country where everyone goes to college, then college is probably just high school 2.0). I met my wife at 19, started dating my wife when i was 20 and got married at 22. These things take time. Also, your 16. SC2 is an awesome game that you should enjoy, much better than dating bad girls.
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On December 21 2010 04:53 Centaurion wrote:
Havn't talked to her since a hour ago, I feel like we're falling apart, this wednesday i'll see her again after school for a couple of hours and i'll try to settle things with her and see what's really wrong with her. But I wrote this blog also to ask you guys, what did I do wrong? I kind of admitted to her that I was a little bitch and made a huge problem from it to like make her happy, today after school. if you guys need any details about fights or us, just ask me.
I'm kind of mad at her right now, but I love her so much I just can't break up.
Sounds like the problem is with you. You tweaked out cause she always plays on your phone to the point of tears? Don't go in being all sweet trying to "help her" on wednesday, that's probably the crap she's finding annoying about you. Sounds like your relationship needs to change and grow up a little or else it will end. This involves you changing too. Figure out whats wrong but don't be surprised if you have to take a look at yourself.
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did you consider getting an ipad ?
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Canada2480 Posts
On December 21 2010 05:54 Kyuukyuu wrote: you're 16 AND you post on a pro-gaming forum AND you had a girlfriend already
this is good enough tbh
agreed
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Well Teamliquid has "dubbed me" a " real treat to be a boyfriend" which is not good at all. but i been with my girlfriend for about three weeks now and we havnt fought or anything, but imo you need to get time apart from eachother and see how that goes.. wait a few days without talking. then start talking and if she isnt giving those one words texts ( i know a few girls who do it and its annoying) but if she isnt. id say its getting back , if its not changing then id have to say end it!
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Oh my god, no offense, but its like she's the dude and your the girl! LOL!
edit: Seriously, everyone, replace 'she' with 'he' and 'girlfriend' with 'boyfriend' and this blog makes a lot more sense, i swear!
but in all seriousness, dont be such a needy guy :\. If she doesnt want to talk, dont non stop talk to her on msn, just leave her alone, lol
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Korea (South)11566 Posts
On December 21 2010 06:34 Chef wrote: She made an obviously kidding remark and then you gave her the silent treatment and cried at your computer....
I hope this is not true, because I have no idea why you'd want people to know that about you. Either way you're taking a trip to frown town.
this.
i lol'd when i read that you cried at your computer because she was teasing you. She was teasing and you took it wayyy too seriously. If she hides the phone behind her back and say you cant have it. Do something cheesy like say 'well at least i can have you' and kiss her or something. Or you can just whip it out and start wanking saying you don't need a toy to have fun. whichever works best for you.
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