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Okay guys, I decided to write a blog, about me and my girlfriend. English is not my native language, so don't comment me on my fails in grammar, haha.
i've had a girlfriend for 14 months and around 25 days already, well..all those 14 months, we had fights, not huge ones, but just what every couple has. Everything was good, till wednesday..
We were at my house just hanging out, but already for around 2 months, always when she's with me, she always is on my phone (blackberry). I didn't mind really, but wednesday, I tried to take it from her, she hided it like behind her, and when I asked her, for who did you come here? me or my phone? she said that she came for my phone. I just..kind of snapped, went on my pc, and said nothing for 10 minutes. I started crying and pushed her out of my room, well let me fast forward, everything was cool 1 hour later, she said she understood me etc.
next day, we were on msn, and we kind of got in a fight again, this doesn't happen often, but she told me she told I made a huge problem from nothing yesterday, I was really hurt cause she lied in my fucking face. I asked my friends, 2 girls 1 guy, they all told me that I was right, and the guy was also a good friend with my girlfriend but he still said that I was right and she was wrong...
We kind of made it better, but today I saw her in real life for around 10 minutes, after school, I had to go home really quick because my dad was picking me up with the car. We talked, she said she still likes me, we kissed. Everything was cool..But just now, around a hour ago, I was on msn again, really happy that everything was cool again between us, talking to her a lot. But the only thing she said was things like; "yes, no, sometimes, yep." I asked her if somethings wrong, she said no, I kept talking, then she said me I really talkative today. I said yes and she said that she isn't really in the mood to talk. This has been since wednesday already like this. I asked her if she finds me annoying, she said yes. I was kind of, yeah..I asked for her oppinion, but if she loves and likes me, how can she find me annoying? I was being nice to her..before wednesday she always responded happy and really like a girlfriend would. I told her that i'll stop talking.
Havn't talked to her since a hour ago, I feel like we're falling apart, this wednesday i'll see her again after school for a couple of hours and i'll try to settle things with her and see what's really wrong with her. But I wrote this blog also to ask you guys, what did I do wrong? I kind of admitted to her that I was a little bitch and made a huge problem from it to like make her happy, today after school.
if you guys need any details about fights or us, just ask me.
I'm kind of mad at her right now, but I love her so much I just can't break up.
EDIT:
Guys I think some of you really got the wrong impression about the phone thing, let me get a bit more in detail. She was on my phone, I was next to her watching, she was talking with some friends on msn on the phone, I said like are you now done? She answered me no, I wanna keep talking. I gave her another 10 minutes etc then I took the phone from her, she grabbed it from my hands, but not like in a giggly and funny way. I was laughing a bit though, but yeah just I asked her that, and she went like no i'm here for your phone, but not really laughing and smiling while she said that. I was like oh okay then. Went on the pc, I didn't really cry, but my voice became like, you know the feeling when you have something in your throat, like a stone, it was that feeling. I still agree I was a little bitch about that, but I think it has to do something with;
On December 21 2010 05:46 fabulously wrote:
No shame in feeling horrible after a breakup in my opinion. Since you are 16 it is probably your first heartache. First cut is often the deepest. When feelings are involved everyone is fragile.
About the feelings thing, I just came from school, I noticed her at the lockers but nothing really happened. On one side i'm glad we broke up, but on the other side i'm really down.
 
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I know absolutely nothing about you, but I'm going to go ahead and guess that you're about 17?
You sound like you have low self-esteem and judge your worth on your relationships. Stop it.
I'll be honest with you, you guys are probably going to break up and you'll be sad for a while, and then you'll meet someone else and think you're in love with her too. This'll probably happen about 2 or 3 times, then you'll realize that you can't base your happiness on the success of your relationships.
Get some hobbies and other activities that make you happy without having to involve a girlfriend, and eventually the rest of the stuff will fall into place - there's no point in making yourself sick worrying about a relationship that, quite frankly, probably won't matter to you anymore within the next 5 years.
Overall, cheer up! :D Things aren't so bad.
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@Maero
Thanks for the fast post.
I just want to say, I don't have a low self-esteem, but I just kind of really love her too much. It's not like if we'll break up that I'll have no friends etc. I just feel kind of bad because I feel like it's my fault.
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Just be chilled out, women are like that so play it cool and take your time. No need to star in your own drama when you can just chill out together.
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Sometimes things just fizzle out, and dont feel the same for people. Perhaps she doesnt feel the same for you as she once did. Not everyone is just capable of maintaining long relationships, as once the novelty of it wears off, 1 of you might just not feel compatable. If she was being even slightly serious with the phone comment, then I'd assume that would be a decent indication that she isnt head over heels for you anymore lol.
From this 1 blog post, and just in my own opinion, you do come across as slightly annoying with the questions. I have witnessed guys act the same way around girls, and its never a good thing. You dont want to come across as super clingy/needy as I find that generally throws off both guys and girls. Just chill out, act like your not phased by any of this inner drama, and be a man about it. Give her the space and if she truely wants to be with you, she will obviously make the attempt to get back to normal. If she doesnt wanna be with you, then at least you will maintain your dignity, rather than look somewhat like an emotional wreck. Either way GL man.
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You can't handle this and she knows it, so she's keeping you at the edge. One of these days you'll snap and say it's over. She'll be fine with it and that will be that. My advice is - you do it, and do it now. Maybe you guys can hook up in the future again - for now, this doesn't sound healthy. Take my advice with a grain of salt because I don't know you or your girl. Maybe you love each other to death and my advice will end something beautiful. Just consider it.
Also - what kind of boyfriend are you to a girl? Where do you take her, how are you with her parents, how are you with the cooking, romantically etc? Are you dressed like the b/f, are you thinking about your future and your education? Seems to me like you're focused on getting HER that you're forgetting being someone who girls are attracted to.
You seem like a nice guy. Just get your priorities straight and you'll be alright.
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The only time you need to start drama is when you know that your gf is cheating on you. You sound very needy and sensitive, to the point where I don't think you realize it yourself sometimes. And I am like that in some regards. But you got to know your boundaries and her boundaries. If you want her attention, ask her for it. If she doesn't give it to you, she's just not that in to you. Don't start crying about it. It only shows that you are weak. Be assertive and appear not needy.
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you let your gf take your phone and then you cry about it???? good god hahahahaha
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Belgium6768 Posts
Don't be such a clingy weakloid. The more you start being an attention-seeking child in her eyes the more you'll push her away.
Cat-string theory son.
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On December 21 2010 05:19 Hawk wrote:
you let your gf take your phone and then you cry about it???? good god hahahahaha
Yeah, I'm having trouble sympathizing with the OP because of this.
But i'll try and be nice and say this - try really really really hard to not be too sensitive, try to chill out, and take things easy. It's okay to be in love with someone, but try not to tare yourself or her over just the little things - rather save that stress over bigger things.
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She kind of sounds like a cunt.
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Wow, guys. thanks for all the fast comments. yeah, I agree I overreacted on the phone thing, but it's just not only that.
I just asked her if she still likes me, she said no. Just while I was reading your posts.
She said it wasn't my fault, she just doesn't feel the same for me anymore.
I asked her if we were going to hang out on wednesday? She said no, I understand, I'm not crying. I just need your advice.
Break up now?
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You asked what you did wrong, it is no easy way to answer that. I dont know you at all, dont know anything about your history, personality or experiences, but I try to give you my thoughts either way.
It sounds a lot like my first relationship actually, I was constantly worrying over short answers and details like that. It drove me insane. It was quite ridiculous how much my mood depended on the degree of contact I had with my significant other. From what I read in your opener, it looks like you analyze a lot too.
In my experience it is easy to get into a bad circle, specially if she thinks you make a big deal out of something which doesnt mean much to her. If she has a bad day and only respond to you with yes/no/sometimes/maybe and you start asking her whats wrong, she might get annoyed at you. If she says she doesnt want to talk at the moment, and you keep asking her why and in general talking, she might get annoyed.
Everyone is put together differently, so what works for you, doesnt always work for the other person in a "conflict". You wanna talk with her, figuring out what is wrong, she seems to have some issues on her own, or just having bad days, which she seem to wanna deal with by silence. Some are talkers, others are thinkers.
I know for a fact that it is quite common to get annoyed at the people you love and adore. It is human nature. So it is still possible she likes you a lot, even if she is annoyed at you over a period of time.
My assumptions might be way off, since I, as mentioned, know nothing about you, nor your girl, but I say for sure I know your pain. It takes me back. I hope for your sake the outcome of your situation is better than what I experienced, but my best advice to you is to give her some space. It is rarely any point in forcing problemsolving.
Good luck, either way! Hope you keep us posted as this evolves one way or another.
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You pouted and cried because she took your phone? She was just messing around with you dude, you need to chill out quite a bit. From what you've described you come across as a bit clingy, needy, and definitely a worrier. She just needs some space right now, give it to her and things will work themselves out if they were meant to be.
Also, just out of curiosity, how old are you two?
Edit: Just saw your last post. If she says she doesn't feel the same way about you it is time to make the break man. Maybe the break will do you some good and you will get together later on, and maybe not. But if she isn't interested in you anymore, there is no need to keep torturing yourself by trying to keep it alive.
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On December 21 2010 05:29 Centaurion wrote:
Wow, guys. thanks for all the fast comments. yeah, I agree I overreacted on the phone thing, but it's just not only that.
I just asked her if she still likes me, she said no. Just while I was reading your posts.
She said it wasn't my fault, she just doesn't feel the same for me anymore.
I asked her if we were going to hang out on wednesday? She said no, I understand, I'm not crying. I just need your advice.
Break up now?
Sorry to read, man. And sorry to say, but it sounds like it has already ended If she doesnt like you like that anymore there is not much you can do unfortunately.
Not much comfort in this, I know, life just is though sometimes.
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I don't understand the thing with the phone.... lol. Why would she have come over for your phone? (I assume she was joking when she said that? )
And... yeah don't cry over something like that, o.o;
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Stop being so clingy. Girls will mindfuck us clingy guys. It's okay to love your girl but she's obiously being slightly irrational and being clingy the way you are right now will only feed into her. If she's going to be ignoring you and calling you annoying just go talk to other people and hang out with other friends until she's done being retarded. Otherwise she's just going to keep acting like this. It's how all girls are and yea its pretty dumb! Single life ftw.
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On December 21 2010 05:35 Haemonculus wrote:
I don't understand the thing with the phone.... lol. Why would she have come over for your phone? (I assume she was joking when she said that? )
And... yeah don't cry over something like that, o.o;
It is proof that Europeans don't understand sarcasm. I think.
also, I can't understand why your girlfriend would tell you that she doesn't feel the same about you anymore whilst she's watching you whine like a total and complete bitch on an internet forum to strangers..............
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Okay guys, I think you guys kind of got a diffirent point of view of me.
But I just broke up with her, I told her that it had to be done now and not any other time in school or so.
Thanks for the advice. I'm pretty down right now and shaking like hell, but to forever comes and end.
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On December 21 2010 05:32 Thegilaboy wrote:
Also, just out of curiosity, how old are you two?
I kind of wonder this too, no disrespect or anything, but the age can sometimes put some more perspective into the situation.
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I'm sorry, and I know this may be hard to hear, but it sounds to me like she's found someone else. Probably because he has a better phone. Perhaps your network was getting spotty coverage. Have you been noticing a lot of dropped calls lately? Do you live outside of a 3G coverage zone? Perhaps she was just frustrated with having to download websites on an Edge network. Most of us have left the horrors of 56k speeds in the distant past, and will never go back. Perhaps watching google load like it was a 20mb NASA photo just wore her too thin. I mean, do you even have a data plan? How committed to this relationship are you?
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On December 21 2010 05:38 fabulously wrote:Show nested quote +On December 21 2010 05:32 Thegilaboy wrote:
Also, just out of curiosity, how old are you two?
I kind of wonder this too, no disrespect or anything, but the age can sometimes put some more perspective into the situation.
I'm 16
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On December 21 2010 05:37 Centaurion wrote:
Okay guys, I think you guys kind of got a diffirent point of view of me.
But I just broke up with her, I told her that it had to be done now and not any other time in school or so.
Thanks for the advice. I'm pretty down right now and shaking like hell, but to forever comes and end.
Good luck further, man. It is better to break up now than to stall it, having more days of doubt and sorrow. Breaking up is never easy to do in my opinion. Good friends can ease the pain a bit though.
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On December 21 2010 05:39 JackMcCoy wrote:
I'm sorry, and I know this may be hard to hear, but it sounds to me like she's found someone else. Probably because he has a better phone. Perhaps your network was getting spotty coverage. Have you been noticing a lot of dropped calls lately? Do you live outside of a 3G coverage zone? Perhaps she was just frustrated with having to download websites on an Edge network. Most of us have left the horrors of 56k speeds in the distant past, and will never go back. Perhaps watching google load like it was a 20mb NASA photo just wore her too thin. I mean, do you even have a data plan? How committed to this relationship are you?
HAHAHAHAH, man. I'm feeling so bad right now..You guys all see me like a little bitch right now, but just, the thing about the phone wasn't really important..It just happened, I didn't really cry and yell I just yeah.
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On December 21 2010 05:42 Centaurion wrote:Show nested quote +On December 21 2010 05:39 JackMcCoy wrote:
I'm sorry, and I know this may be hard to hear, but it sounds to me like she's found someone else. Probably because he has a better phone. Perhaps your network was getting spotty coverage. Have you been noticing a lot of dropped calls lately? Do you live outside of a 3G coverage zone? Perhaps she was just frustrated with having to download websites on an Edge network. Most of us have left the horrors of 56k speeds in the distant past, and will never go back. Perhaps watching google load like it was a 20mb NASA photo just wore her too thin. I mean, do you even have a data plan? How committed to this relationship are you? HAHAHAHAH, man. I'm feeling so bad right now..You guys all see me like a little bitch right now, but just, the thing about the phone wasn't really important..It just happened, I didn't really cry and yell I just yeah.
Not gonna lie, but that was my take on things until you mentioned you were 16. Now it's pretty understandable, lol. You're both really young, don't worry about it.
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On December 21 2010 05:40 Centaurion wrote:Show nested quote +On December 21 2010 05:38 fabulously wrote:On December 21 2010 05:32 Thegilaboy wrote:
Also, just out of curiosity, how old are you two?
I kind of wonder this too, no disrespect or anything, but the age can sometimes put some more perspective into the situation. I'm 16
Lol your 16, shit happens. At least you had a girlfriend!
p.s. Don't let girls get your phones anymore. You won't be able to cheat on them in the future or hide secrets or anything! Just not a good idea cus girls are so snoopy.
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No shame in feeling horrible after a breakup in my opinion. Since you are 16 it is probably your first heartache. First cut is often the deepest. When feelings are involved everyone is fragile.
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On December 21 2010 05:43 Haemonculus wrote:Show nested quote +On December 21 2010 05:42 Centaurion wrote:On December 21 2010 05:39 JackMcCoy wrote:
I'm sorry, and I know this may be hard to hear, but it sounds to me like she's found someone else. Probably because he has a better phone. Perhaps your network was getting spotty coverage. Have you been noticing a lot of dropped calls lately? Do you live outside of a 3G coverage zone? Perhaps she was just frustrated with having to download websites on an Edge network. Most of us have left the horrors of 56k speeds in the distant past, and will never go back. Perhaps watching google load like it was a 20mb NASA photo just wore her too thin. I mean, do you even have a data plan? How committed to this relationship are you? HAHAHAHAH, man. I'm feeling so bad right now..You guys all see me like a little bitch right now, but just, the thing about the phone wasn't really important..It just happened, I didn't really cry and yell I just yeah. Not gonna lie, but that was my take on things until you mentioned you were 16. Now it's pretty understandable, lol. You're both really young, don't worry about it.
Omg that was the best post in this whole thread.. fucking lol man props
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Friends will generally agree with your side of the story to your face. Seeing as I'm not your friend, I'll say she was probably just teasing and you overreacted because you're hyper-sensitive and insecure. This isn't the end of the world, just try not to be so needy with your next girlfriend.
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you're 16 AND you post on a pro-gaming forum AND you had a girlfriend already
this is good enough tbh
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You just exhibited all the classic neuroticism of a first relationship. Don't sweat it, everyone fucks this shit up...you just need to grow a thick skin and the ability to take a step back and observe your actions and thoughts rationally. Just one path on the step to emotional maturity.
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+ Show Spoiler +On December 21 2010 05:39 JackMcCoy wrote:
I'm sorry, and I know this may be hard to hear, but it sounds to me like she's found someone else. Probably because he has a better phone. Perhaps your network was getting spotty coverage. Have you been noticing a lot of dropped calls lately? Do you live outside of a 3G coverage zone? Perhaps she was just frustrated with having to download websites on an Edge network. Most of us have left the horrors of 56k speeds in the distant past, and will never go back. Perhaps watching google load like it was a 20mb NASA photo just wore her too thin. I mean, do you even have a data plan? How committed to this relationship are you?
lol, every JMC's post is gold.
OP: yea, she found someone with a shiny Iphone 4, no wonder because blackberry is really fugly and more of a MILF catcher. On a serious note, just break up with her, it will hurt, especially because it's the first time, but the longer it goes on, the shittier you will feel. Everyone except forever alone guy had to experience it.
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Can't thank you guys enough, your little motivation posts just made me feel a lot better. I'm so happy I blogged about this.
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On December 21 2010 06:01 Centaurion wrote:
Can't thank you guys enough, your little motivation posts just made me feel a lot better. I'm so happy I blogged about this.
Sarcasm or real? I can't tell through the internetz.
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Real, even the phone post from JackMcCoy. Atleast it made me laugh a bit.
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Centaurion Netherlands. December 21 2010 05:29.
Wow, guys. thanks for all the fast comments. yeah, I agree I overreacted on the phone thing, but it's just not only that.
I just asked her if she still likes me, she said no. Just while I was reading your posts.
She said it wasn't my fault, she just doesn't feel the same for me anymore.
I asked her if we were going to hang out on wednesday? She said no, I understand, I'm not crying. I just need your advice.
Break up now?
WTF is she doing with your phone anyway? Listening to you, i'll say she's a player taking advantage of how much you love her. Don't break up. Yet. Play the game. Cold her out and go out with girls. Actively, like 1 girl a day LOL Preferably not your friends. If she doesnt bring it up in a couple of weeks or so, it means you are officially free. If she does, quote here "doesnt feel the same way for you anymore." GG
EDIT: Before you break up, be sure to score (one last time) big ok? xd
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On December 21 2010 06:07 Centaurion wrote:
Real, even the phone post from JackMcCoy. Atleast it made me laugh a bit.
Listen man it's not so bad, at least you don't play terran amiright?
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She is a bitch who is playing with you and has no good feeling about you. At the moment she gets a blackberry herself, she will dump you without hesitating a second. Don't have any hopes on her and stop loving her as soon as you can.
I had one like that (the particular thing she wanted was not blackberry, but yes, she was playing with me), and the same things happened to me. So, I know what I'm talking about.
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On December 21 2010 06:08 `Zapdos wrote:Show nested quote +On December 21 2010 06:07 Centaurion wrote:
Real, even the phone post from JackMcCoy. Atleast it made me laugh a bit. Listen man it's not so bad, at least you don't play terran amiright?
Hahaha, nah man..I switch a lot from Toss to Zerg. But I kinda stopped playing SC2 now. TL and youtube sc2 videos are much more interesting.
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On December 21 2010 06:08 gongryong wrote:Show nested quote +Centaurion Netherlands. December 21 2010 05:29.
Wow, guys. thanks for all the fast comments. yeah, I agree I overreacted on the phone thing, but it's just not only that.
I just asked her if she still likes me, she said no. Just while I was reading your posts.
She said it wasn't my fault, she just doesn't feel the same for me anymore.
I asked her if we were going to hang out on wednesday? She said no, I understand, I'm not crying. I just need your advice.
Break up now? WTF is she doing with your phone anyway? Listening to you, i'll say she's a player taking advantage of how much you love her. Don't break up. Yet. Play the game. Cold her out and go out with girls. Actively, like 1 girl a day LOL Preferably not your friends. If she doesnt bring it up in a couple of weeks or so, it means you are officially free. If she does, quote here "doesnt feel the same way for you anymore." GG EDIT: Before you break up, be sure to score (one last time) big ok? xd
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He knows what he's saying. Score one then dump her! Also from now you don't let anyone take your phone. If she can't trust you to have your OWN phone then she's not worth wasting your time over. You're only 16yrs old, there are more girls to come, stop wasting your time getting hurt over 1 girl.
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On December 21 2010 05:23 Xeofreestyler wrote:The more you start being an attention-seeking child in her eyes the more you'll push her away.
Cat-string theory son.
True when getting girls, not so true when trying to keep girls. Vast amounts of attention required.
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real men do not cry over girls.
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Before you break it off give her shampoo as a parting gift and put nair in it 
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I lost my first serious gf after 11 months when i was 17 and i was devastated. Looking back to it i should've just said fuck her and move on never think about her again. I meet her time to time and i jsut can't understand what was so special about her. I think it was just the time spent together and it makes you really miss it/her, but man up and don't look back - it is not worthy and trust me in this. Good luck geting over it asap.
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On December 21 2010 06:15 Forgottenfrog wrote:Show nested quote +On December 21 2010 06:08 gongryong wrote:Centaurion Netherlands. December 21 2010 05:29.
Wow, guys. thanks for all the fast comments. yeah, I agree I overreacted on the phone thing, but it's just not only that.
I just asked her if she still likes me, she said no. Just while I was reading your posts.
She said it wasn't my fault, she just doesn't feel the same for me anymore.
I asked her if we were going to hang out on wednesday? She said no, I understand, I'm not crying. I just need your advice.
Break up now? WTF is she doing with your phone anyway? Listening to you, i'll say she's a player taking advantage of how much you love her. Don't break up. Yet. Play the game. Cold her out and go out with girls. Actively, like 1 girl a day LOL Preferably not your friends. If she doesnt bring it up in a couple of weeks or so, it means you are officially free. If she does, quote here "doesnt feel the same way for you anymore." GG EDIT: Before you break up, be sure to score (one last time) big ok? xd ^ He knows what he's saying. Score one then dump her! Also from now you don't let anyone take your phone. If she can't trust you to have your OWN phone then she's not worth wasting your time over. You're only 16yrs old, there are more girls to come, stop wasting your time getting hurt over 1 girl.
Ya man switch to terran just this once and all in her and make her gg.
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I'm guessing your phone has a vibrate function?
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On December 21 2010 06:16 UrASofty wrote:
real men do not cry over girls.
*reads username* ... *reads post*
Perfect.
Don't worry about it man, its alright to cry, but when you do - don't do it in front of others.
She seems to have lost interest in you... she can say that she loves you, but it is just to help you destroy yourself some more. Happened to me and I learned from it, just know next time you can't become too complacent and predictable in the relationship.
Once you are in the palm of her hand its gg, F10 N and hit that search button.
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On December 21 2010 06:19 Flaccid wrote:
I'm guessing your phone has a vibrate function?
oh snap.
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She made an obviously kidding remark and then you gave her the silent treatment and cried at your computer....
I hope this is not true, because I have no idea why you'd want people to know that about you. Either way you're taking a trip to frown town.
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On December 21 2010 06:19 Flaccid wrote:
I'm guessing your phone has a vibrate function?
mystery: SOLVED
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Netherlands19133 Posts
On December 21 2010 06:19 Flaccid wrote:
I'm guessing your phone has a vibrate function?
Comming from a guy nicknamed flaccid haha.
Classic.
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you know that probably 70% of your problems with her is because you " so love her and just can't break up ".. man she knows it better than you, the difference is she can just break up with you, like this..
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This sounds like a girlfriend that i had for a week in high school. I really liked her and she got jealous that i started liking a different girl so she asked me out and i said yes because it was kinda what i wanted. Long story short, i'm glad i broke up with her as fast as possible. She was bipolar and insane. She never spoke plainly and wasn't in full control of her emotions. She told me several times while dating me (for one week) that she didn't like me and then 10 minutes later said that she changed her mind again.
Beware of these girls. Find a normal girl who is laid back and chill. (If you can chill, chill). Try being friends and spot spending time on the internet. Dating takes up too much time to be doing stuff like play sc2 hours a day.
Also consider this time in your life. You might not believe it but the girls in college are 1000 times cooler than in high school mostly because they tend to be the more educated and intelligent ones (unless you live in a country where everyone goes to college, then college is probably just high school 2.0). I met my wife at 19, started dating my wife when i was 20 and got married at 22. These things take time. Also, your 16. SC2 is an awesome game that you should enjoy, much better than dating bad girls.
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On December 21 2010 04:53 Centaurion wrote:
Havn't talked to her since a hour ago, I feel like we're falling apart, this wednesday i'll see her again after school for a couple of hours and i'll try to settle things with her and see what's really wrong with her. But I wrote this blog also to ask you guys, what did I do wrong? I kind of admitted to her that I was a little bitch and made a huge problem from it to like make her happy, today after school.
if you guys need any details about fights or us, just ask me.
I'm kind of mad at her right now, but I love her so much I just can't break up.
Sounds like the problem is with you. You tweaked out cause she always plays on your phone to the point of tears? Don't go in being all sweet trying to "help her" on wednesday, that's probably the crap she's finding annoying about you. Sounds like your relationship needs to change and grow up a little or else it will end. This involves you changing too. Figure out whats wrong but don't be surprised if you have to take a look at yourself.
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did you consider getting an ipad ?
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On December 21 2010 05:54 Kyuukyuu wrote:
you're 16 AND you post on a pro-gaming forum AND you had a girlfriend already
this is good enough tbh
agreed
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Well Teamliquid has "dubbed me" a " real treat to be a boyfriend" which is not good at all. but i been with my girlfriend for about three weeks now and we havnt fought or anything, but imo you need to get time apart from eachother and see how that goes.. wait a few days without talking. then start talking and if she isnt giving those one words texts ( i know a few girls who do it and its annoying) but if she isnt. id say its getting back , if its not changing then id have to say end it!
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Oh my god, no offense, but its like she's the dude and your the girl! LOL!
edit: Seriously, everyone, replace 'she' with 'he' and 'girlfriend' with 'boyfriend' and this blog makes a lot more sense, i swear!
but in all seriousness, dont be such a needy guy :\. If she doesnt want to talk, dont non stop talk to her on msn, just leave her alone, lol
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Korea (South)11575 Posts
On December 21 2010 06:34 Chef wrote:
She made an obviously kidding remark and then you gave her the silent treatment and cried at your computer....
I hope this is not true, because I have no idea why you'd want people to know that about you. Either way you're taking a trip to frown town.
this.
i lol'd when i read that you cried at your computer because she was teasing you. She was teasing and you took it wayyy too seriously. If she hides the phone behind her back and say you cant have it. Do something cheesy like say 'well at least i can have you' and kiss her or something. Or you can just whip it out and start wanking saying you don't need a toy to have fun. whichever works best for you.
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Belgium6768 Posts
indeed, very valid options
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On December 21 2010 09:41 CaucasianAsian wrote:Show nested quote +On December 21 2010 06:34 Chef wrote:
She made an obviously kidding remark and then you gave her the silent treatment and cried at your computer....
I hope this is not true, because I have no idea why you'd want people to know that about you. Either way you're taking a trip to frown town. this. i lol'd when i read that you cried at your computer because she was teasing you. She was teasing and you took it wayyy too seriously. If she hides the phone behind her back and say you cant have it. Do something cheesy like say 'well at least i can have you' and kiss her or something. Or you can just whip it out and start wanking saying you don't need a toy to have fun. whichever works best for you.
Hell you don't even need an excuse like she took your phone to whip it out and start wanking.. just do that randomly with her, at school, while eating dinner, when she's in the bathroom i mean whatever it'll make the relationship fun!
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Ah youth, I faintly remember the intensity of emotions and the high-flying drama. To be young again . I miss the knives of pain and sorrow that struck my naive < 20 year old heart. Nowadays I feel like a tired old man who wouldn't blink if I caught my girlfriend shagging the neighbor's dog. And I'm only 25...
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wtf how old are you 14?
you are def not ready for a relationship/gf
kids these days, starting so early
she said that she came for my phone. I just..kind of snapped, went on my pc, and said nothing for 10 minutes. I started crying and pushed her out of my room, well let me fast forward, everything was cool 1 hour later, she said she understood me etc.
what a pussy you are LOL
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Voltaire once said that Love is the illusion that one woman is better than another, and who are you to talk back to Voltaire, one of the greatest minds that ever lived.
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On December 21 2010 10:55 Amnesia wrote:wtf how old are you 14? you are def not ready for a relationship/gf kids these days, starting so early Show nested quote +she said that she came for my phone. I just..kind of snapped, went on my pc, and said nothing for 10 minutes. I started crying and pushed her out of my room, well let me fast forward, everything was cool 1 hour later, she said she understood me etc. what a pussy you are LOL
^ I agree, OP, you need to grow a pair and stop being whipped.
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Just my two cents,
If I was a girl, and I took your phone, and you cried... I would find you a lot worse than just annoying. She isn't your mom, so don't go crying to her expecting to be babied. Start acting like a man, and things will change.
EDIT: And I still think this is a troll, because seriously, who does that?
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Maybe anyone has some ideas how to forget a girlfriend quick without dating other girls?
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On December 22 2010 03:31 Hawk wrote:
Start dating dudes.
k, if you say so!
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On December 22 2010 03:31 Hawk wrote:
Start dating dudes.
Might work!
On a more serious note the only advice I can give is put a lot/most of your energy and time into something you are passionate about. Whether it is sports, games, music or whatever really, just try to keep your mind occupied. Good luck
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Belgium6768 Posts
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I only read your first post, but all I have to say is get rid of her now. You may think thats love since you may be younger and this might be one of your first g/f's but its not.... You have it easy; your not living together or anything. My g/f and I just had a fight and she packed her shit and left....after 2+ years.... now that is something to worry about. What you have is just a typical highschool girl. I feel like no girl is going to know what they want until they mature substantially.
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On December 21 2010 05:40 Centaurion wrote:Show nested quote +On December 21 2010 05:38 fabulously wrote:On December 21 2010 05:32 Thegilaboy wrote:
Also, just out of curiosity, how old are you two?
I kind of wonder this too, no disrespect or anything, but the age can sometimes put some more perspective into the situation. I'm 16
LOL
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The girl's acting materialistic and unreasonable.
Dump that trash and move on. You're young and you got shit tons more to do than to hang around with a girl that won't respect you. Even if you "love her" so much that you can't break up, at least have some self-respect for yourself and learn when you shouldn't let love get in the way of dropping shit that's bad for you.
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