EPTbest way i think is if you meet a girl and you're interested, then just go for it. easier to go from getting rejected to being friends, than to go from being friends to rejected and then AWKWARD.
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pyrogenetix
United Arab Emirates5090 Posts
best way i think is if you meet a girl and you're interested, then just go for it. easier to go from getting rejected to being friends, than to go from being friends to rejected and then AWKWARD. | ||
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Pika Chu
Romania2510 Posts
I broke me 1337 POSTS because of this damn thing. So it's quite important... DAMN MY 1337 POST COUNT, ah crap it's gone.. stupid women destroy it  .Again thanks for reading, you've no clue that it actually makes me feel better to see some comments here. Reincremate. I know that mate, it was more of a pissed rethoric question  .Yes Horiz0n it is so. Jibba.. it all went so fast, actually slow but still fast? Wtf, paradox. nosliw Yep, though i'm not afraid of the transition, i've done it in the past. I really hate it when things go out of my control mechanix I don't think this was really love, but would've eventually led to it yes. love1another Got a guide on how to make a bloody pika chu costume? I just wrote her a huge, like HUGE e-mail. Probably has like 10 pages of thoughts that i wanted to share with her but didn't get to. I wrote it more for myself. Just wanted to get my thoughts on paper. It's all the naked truth about my feelings and how everything evolved inside. It's about my weaknesses and hers, about her good parts and bad parts. What do you guys say, should i send it to her or should i not? | ||
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Pika Chu
Romania2510 Posts
On March 25 2010 07:55 pyrogenetix wrote: shit sucks man =( best way i think is if you meet a girl and you're interested, then just go for it. easier to go from getting rejected to being friends, than to go from being friends to rejected and then AWKWARD. Yeah mate, you're totally right. But given my case... we were colleagues and friends for 2 damn years. And i simply DIDN'T like her (like a woman like a partner) until now, so avoiding that was impossible in my case. | ||
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nosliw
United States2716 Posts
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SoLaR[i.C]
United States2969 Posts
On March 25 2010 07:59 Pika Chu wrote: I just wrote her a huge, like HUGE e-mail. Probably has like 10 pages of thoughts that i wanted to share with her but didn't get to. I wrote it more for myself. Just wanted to get my thoughts on paper. It's all the naked truth about my feelings and how everything evolved inside. It's about my weaknesses and hers, about her good parts and bad parts. What do you guys say, should i send it to her or should i not? Dude are you serious? Have you actually thought about some of the advice I've mentioned? Go ahead, send it. Then you can wonder why she wants nothing to do to you. You need to start from scratch and actually learn about what women want... | ||
FakeSteve[TPR]
Valhalla18444 Posts
'i love u and want to be with u forever' is basically what you said why couldn't you start with 'hey would you like to have dinner with me sometime'? | ||
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Pika Chu
Romania2510 Posts
Let's clarify something, It's all done. I don't expect anything more from this, i want to move on. I asked her, she answered, it's all done. Time won't turn back. But please don't give me the usual crap about what women want because you red C&F and deangello and other dating experts. Because i have too and i've been to seminars and i've studied women psychology. And i eventually decided to drop it all and act natural. Which sometimes coincides with what they say, and sometimes like now simply is something different .Good idea nosliw. I will wait until tomorrow before i decide. | ||
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Pika Chu
Romania2510 Posts
So i had to chose between investing a shitload of time, and waiting after her ass or simply going all-in like that and finishing it, one way or another. I chose the second, sure it will hurt me for a while but i still think it's better this way. | ||
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SoLaR[i.C]
United States2969 Posts
On March 25 2010 08:21 Pika Chu wrote: It's COMMON SENSE not some stuff you or I've read in a book. It doesn't matter what you eventually want from a woman, simple sex or something serious like a long lasting relationship - neither want a guy who acts like a snivelling little trick and writes blogs on a gaming website titled "Will it always hurt?"I have obviously red it Solar and i appreciate it. Let's clarify something, It's all done. I don't expect anything more from this, i want to move on. I asked her, she answered, it's all done. Time won't turn back. But please don't give me the usual crap about what women want because you red C&F and deangello and other dating experts. Because i have too and i've been to seminars and i've studied women psychology. And i eventually decided to drop it all and act natural. Which sometimes coincides with what they say, and sometimes like now simply is something different .Good idea nosliw. I will wait until tomorrow before i decide. Are you kidding me? Also, I have the same question as FakeSteve. On March 25 2010 08:19 FakeSteve[TPR] wrote: why did you feel it necessary to basically deliver this girl an ultimatum 'i love u and want to be with u forever' is basically what you said why couldn't you start with 'hey would you like to have dinner with me sometime'? | ||
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FakeSteve[TPR]
Valhalla18444 Posts
On March 25 2010 08:24 Pika Chu wrote: Well Steve, she's a bit anxious and it's hard to get her to come on a date. She always says YEEEES then 2h before she calls and gives some random excuse. a more clever man would have taken the hint and then not put her in that position i don't mean to hate on you or anything but you need to be able to control your emotions to the point where you don't act so selfishly | ||
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Pika Chu
Romania2510 Posts
Snivelling little trick? You lost me here. About the blog? What's the matter with it, i wrote after anyhow. And it's not like she knows or will ever find out. | ||
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Pika Chu
Romania2510 Posts
I tried a couple of times over 2-3 weeks to get her out on a date. She always made up an excuse. So i did got a bit fed with it. And you're right, I've been overwhelmed by my emotions. It's not about being selfish, it's about taking a stand. | ||
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SoLaR[i.C]
United States2969 Posts
If the email is for yourself why are you sending it to her? She already knows you tried, and she's clearly responded with a NO. There's absolutely no way you can convince her otherwise. | ||
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FakeSteve[TPR]
Valhalla18444 Posts
On March 25 2010 08:49 Pika Chu wrote: I don't mind criticism, i welcome it. I tried a couple of times over 2-3 weeks to get her out on a date. She always made up an excuse. So i did got a bit fed with it. And you're right, I've been overwhelmed by my emotions. It's not about being selfish, it's about taking a stand. the fact that you find it necessary to 'take a stand', as you put it, and put this girl in a tremendously awkward position because you can't stand the personal emotional turmoil is incredibly selfish. the fact that you don't realize this, nor are you willing to take ownership of the situation, compounds it | ||
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HeadhunteR
Argentina1258 Posts
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Pika Chu
Romania2510 Posts
And it's just done and show must go on . Oh and I'm surprised no one asked for pictures of her lol, i was expecting "pics or it didn't happen, or pics please" posts . | ||
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hifriend
China7935 Posts
On March 25 2010 07:59 Pika Chu wrote:I just wrote her a huge, like HUGE e-mail. Probably has like 10 pages of thoughts that i wanted to share with her but didn't get to. I wrote it more for myself. Just wanted to get my thoughts on paper. It's all the naked truth about my feelings and how everything evolved inside. It's about my weaknesses and hers, about her good parts and bad parts. What do you guys say, should i send it to her or should i not? I strongly advise against sending her that. Even though your intentions are good it could potentially screw up your friendship completely. Of course, I don't know her, but at least wait a couple of days and see if you still think sending it is a good idea then. | ||
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Kyuukyuu
Canada6263 Posts
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hifriend
China7935 Posts
On March 25 2010 09:10 Kyuukyuu wrote: holy shit do NOT send that unless you never want to talk to her again. actually even then don't send it If I could invent a device that prevented me from smsing, phoning or sending emails in the heat of emotion/while drunk, my life would probably be tremendously easier | ||
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SoLaR[i.C]
United States2969 Posts
On March 25 2010 09:06 Pika Chu wrote: Whatever it is that's making you write " ....as well as for her", that's what you need to get rid of. Clear them for me... as well as for her. Trust me, she doesn't need things cleared up for her and you are only jeopardizing things further by sending her that email. | ||
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