EPTWhy does this happen
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Zealously
East Gorteau22261 Posts
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Chairman Ray
United States11903 Posts
 If I was in your place, I wouldn't know what to tell your sister either; it's such a hard thing to do. Best of luck man. | ||
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Kingsky
Singapore298 Posts
i think its ok to cry it out... take care of yourself | ||
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FiWiFaKi
Canada9858 Posts
Good luck & RIP. | ||
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Pandain
United States12979 Posts
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slowbacontron
United States7722 Posts
crap man i'm really sorry that had to happen to you, nobody deserves that best wishes | ||
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darthfoley
United States7999 Posts
Sorry for her, her family, you and everyone else affected. RIP | ||
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Clazziquai10
Singapore1949 Posts
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teddyoojo
Germany22369 Posts
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ninazerg
United States7291 Posts
On December 09 2013 14:34 Zealously wrote: I feel like shit for being miserable when she's dead and im not, when she suffered and i didnt even know. I just hope there's no pain in whatever comes next. Honestly, the living do all the suffering, and the dead get to sleep. | ||
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JonIrenicus
Italy602 Posts
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Zealos
United Kingdom3571 Posts
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Daumen
Germany1073 Posts
Stop trying to figure out why, there is no answer. Although I know very well that its impossible to stop asking and trying to figure out why. My condolences | ||
Destructicon
4713 Posts
However you don't have to be afraid of breaking down. Its natural to feel pain for this loss, its natural to be in grief and shock, and its perfectly natural to cry. In fact, if you hold it all in, it will just make it worst. Just, let it off your chest, it won't magically make you feel better, but it will relief some of your pain. You have my sympathies and I hope you find the strength to get over it quickly. | ||
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Zealously
East Gorteau22261 Posts
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DarkPlasmaBall
United States43529 Posts
My sister isnt home, she doesnt even know yet and i have to tell her, but how can i do that? I want to call someone but i dont want to break down so i don't. There is absolutely nothing wrong with breaking down or showing weakness during a tragedy like this. In fact, not only is it obviously more natural, but your sister will want to connect with you emotionally at a stage like this. Cry it out. Go full fetal position if you need to. It's far worse to be emotionless. RIP <3 | ||
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gg_hertzz
2152 Posts
"Live damnit! LIVE!" Don't forget about your friend but don't let her death take time away from you living your life. Mourn and move on. That's what she would have wanted. | ||
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c0ldfusion
United States8293 Posts
You should ideally tell your sister in person. She'll need you and you'll need her for the support. | ||
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packrat386
United States5077 Posts
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woreyour
582 Posts
So maybe you could try to live and enjoy life while it last. Always be careful as well to try to extend your life(span) but always try to enjoy (at least do that as a reason why you are living) (this works for me). I had my 18 y/o friend die too and I am sure she was a virgin. She lived life so prim and proper only being too careful and focused on her studies. And one complication caused Meningitis and ended her in 1 week. She was under observation like 3 days after she got fever and boom she was dead in a week. As we all know these things happen and it is just sad she was the one to be dying and not some criminal out there. That is why there is no god or shit. It is just life and reality. Wake up to reality and live your life the way you want it. On the death part, try to accept it, pain will be there but when you have accepted and faced it you will learn to endure pain. Be strong for your sister and tell her. Be the stronger person even when you know it hurts you. It will help her to be strong too. | ||
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