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On October 24 2013 03:54 farvacola wrote: "Everyone should have the ability to individually determine who they are attracted to and act on it accordingly."
That wasn't so hard. everyone should give his best that (his) society endures.
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On October 24 2013 04:00 Hryul wrote:Show nested quote +On October 24 2013 03:54 farvacola wrote: "Everyone should have the ability to individually determine who they are attracted to and act on it accordingly."
That wasn't so hard. everyone should give his best that (his) society endures.
Everyone should make statements which aspires to put the maximal distance between itself and the tautological.
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On October 24 2013 02:55 Lixler wrote:Show nested quote +On October 23 2013 05:08 Shiori wrote:On October 23 2013 03:46 IronManSC wrote:On October 22 2013 09:55 ETisME wrote:On October 22 2013 01:37 IronManSC wrote:On October 21 2013 23:49 ETisME wrote: if you would describe Christianity as love, it is a selfish form of love that binds people to follow their rules and banish those who don't. This is a shame because Christianity as a religion should be spreading love, instead of establishing what are right and wrong.
This is why I dislike religion as a whole. They started with a very good intention: bring people together, form what's good for the society, teaches love and peace and forgiving EVEN to those that are born in a harsh environment and receive no education.
But now they are just degraded themselves further with arrogance, ignorance, power corrupted etc. This is what happens when Church has too much wealth and power. Not every church is like this. I know mine isn't. Please don't generalize and say that all Christian churches are bad now. You just haven't been to a good church yet. Of cause, I am sorry if I offended anyone. But it's my belief that if the church remains in a structural order, such as the core church saying gay marriage is not acceptable, no matter what teachings there are,the church has failed to set an example of understanding and loving because it sets command of the fellow Christians to follow their decision. The church is not about tolerance, or as people say, "live and let live." It's not about accepting the sinful lifestyle of another being. We can understand the sin, relate to the person in that area, and cope with it, but we can't just accept it and leave it that way. The church - the Christian life - is about changing lives. God changes your life if you allow him, and it's a good change. James 2:14-16 says, "What good is it, dear brothers and sisters, if you say you have faith but don't show it by your actions? Can that kind of faith save anyone? Suppose you see a brother or sister who has no food or clothing, and you say, 'Goodbye and have a good day; stay warm and eat well'--but then you don't give that person any food or clothing. What good does that do?" Although this is more in line with expressing your faith in love to others, I do like to correlate this verse to changing lives as well within the church. If you're not helping someone become a better Christian, what was the point of inviting them to church? Give a man a fish and you've fed him for a day. Teach a man to fish and you've fed him for the rest of his life. Unfortunately, many Christians and churches are not very smooth and gentle about loving another person. Many are forceful, condemning and judgmental, and... "banishing" like you said. 2 Timothy 3:5 says, "they will act religious, but will reject the power that could make them godly. Stay away from people like that!" It may have to do with the area I'm in or perhaps I'm just lucky with the churches I've attended, but I haven't seen or witnessed a church be like that. The ones i've been to were very loving and hospitable. I've seen those attitudes in certain individuals from time to time, but not in churches. But like I said, that may have to do with the area i'm in or if I'm just lucky with finding the right church that my girlfriend and I currently attend. On account of God changing lives, most people think it's a bad change, or simply just an outward change, like giving up certain hobbies or other "fun" things (parties, etc), prohibiting certain things in sex, and a few others. One person told me before, "the Christian life is boring, you guys have no fun." It's really not about that. Of course we have fun. It's about getting to know your Creator and letting him work through you to display his love to other people. Change comes inwardly by the working of the Holy Spirit, and he does all the work. Your outward change is a gradual process and happens for the rest of your lifetime. Your perspective on life becomes more in line with God's (you think and see certain things the way that he does with the Holy Spirit's help). What you do on the outside stems from the inward change. This is called 'Sanctification', which is becoming more and more Christ-like as life goes on. It's not vice versa like many people presume: that when you become a Christian you have to "behave." I think a lot of people forget about that part. There is literally no way to reconcile a good Creator (who created homosexuals) with the explicit forbidding of any and all homosexual actions, given that homosexuality is equivalent in every sense to the sexuality of heterosexual people, just with inverted targets. If homosexual sex is so sinful, then why the fuck would God make homosexual people to begin with? We're not talking like some tiny, dysfunctional minority group with associated pathologies, like pedophiles, or something. We're talking about people who are exactly the same as everyone else except they happen to be sexually attracted to a different gender. Why is it okay for a woman to feel attracted to a man but suddenly wrong when a man experiences the exact same thing? Before you can reject "sinful lifestyles," you have to actually prove that they're sinful, which means that you have to prove that they are somehow immoral lifestyles or resort to a "God said so in the Bible" approach, which fails on account of the fact that the Bible is not a philosophy textbook, not concerned with making specific ethical commands (i.e. stuff other than universal like love your neighbour) to the 21st century, and, perhaps most importantly, not actually written by God. placing the blame for the wrongs of Christianity at its structure really is a ground upon which a lot of Christians set off their apologia ("it's not Christianity that's wrong, it's the Church!") Well, what do you want them to say? When someone tells me about the Westboro Baptist Church, I'm not guilty by being in the same category of religious affiliation (i.e. Christian). I don't think many people really object to the key tenets of Christianity, honestly, because many are purely theological (and have no ethical relevance to a non-believer) whereas others are basically just pretty obvious, broad ethical dictates like "do unto others" and so on. Given the nature of the early Church, it's not picking and choosing to say that the letters of Paul, of all the books in the NT, need to be taken in context, because they were written specifically for a context (i.e. to a particular Church undergoing a particular crisis or asking a particular question). Paul did not sit down and compose a huge body of letters to be read for all time. We should not act as if he did. Show nested quote +In what way is homosexuality a "deficiency of good," then? And give actual reasons that can be discussed, not just assertions or Biblical quotes. I don't think the Bible constitutes the sum-total of human knowledge, nor was it intended to; ergo, I think that the Bible should, at least, be broadly compatible with reason in its universals, and, with respect to things that proscribe interpersonal relations, should be absolutely connected to reason. Show nested quote +Um, I think it's probably more the former, but it's also the latter. I'm not sure what "natural freedom" is. I think, in some senses, the two are the same thing. I am more or less a Kantian, if that helps. It should be fairly easy for a Kantian to see how homosexuality is a deficiency of good. One cannot perform homosexual behavior in a way that accords with the categorical imperative; there is no rationally universalizable maxim that allows one to perform homosexual activity ("everyone should have sex with people they're attracted to" "one should have sex without wanting to procreate" etc.).
By Kantian, I don't mean that I'm literally Immanuel Kant. I mean that I agree with the spirit of his moral philosophy (that is, his deontological system) and the categorical imperative strikes me as pretty good. I also think Kantianism (in some form) is the strongest alternative to utilitarianism, and I really fucking hate utilitarianism.
That said, I don't see what's so problematic about "everyone should have sex with people they're attracted to," unless you mean to say that the other person is obligated to have sex with them. We could just say "people should have sex only with those who consent to having sex with them, and whom they consent to having sex with."
In any case, your view of the issue is misguided because you view homosexuality as an integral part of identity whereas pedophilia etc is a disease. First of all, the idea that homosexuality really defines your identity is a totally modern creation; Greeks or Romans wouldn't define themselves in these terms, because homosexual behavior was not seen as central to your identity. God doesn't decide what traits people decide to see an integral to their identity, which means that there's no reason for God to make "parts of identity" morally uncondemnable as compared to "accidental behaviors" which he can condemn. There are no essential eternal lines that divide up identity and accidental behaviors, which means there is no way to construct an argument to say that identity, rather than accidental behaviors, cannot rightly be condemned by God (since there's no way to appropriately divide up these categories in the first place).
No. Homosexuality isn't integral to your identity, as such, except insofar as sexuality as a whole is certainly part of one's identity. It's not that homosexuality qua homosexuality is uniquely integral to one's identity, but that sexual identity is integral to one's identity because humans are pretty obviously sexual creatures. I don't think pedophilia qua pedophilia is immoral, since it's not an actual action controlled by any agent. It's just an attraction. So long as it's not acted upon, there's no decision to be condemned. The reason pedophilic acts are immoral isn't that it's a "disease," but rather that it's raping children.
Side note: that the Greeks and Romans were wildly homosexual in their actions is a bizarre myth. While it's true that pederasty was common (and noble) in Greek society, the Greeks (nor the Romans) didn't think of homosexuality and heterosexuality is some abstract psychological construction because, well, they just didn't! In addition, the Greeks explicitly condemned anal sex.That doesn't mean that homosexuality didn't exist back then, or that there weren't people who were exclusively attracted to people of the same sex as themselves. But, again, it's tangential to the point: it's clear that there exist, today (and almost certainly throughout history) a whole lot of people who are exclusively and genuinely only attracted to persons of the same sex. Now, provided both parties are consenting, and, for the hell of it, let's say they're in a loving, mutually respectful relationship, how exactly does homosexual sex wind up being immoral?
Moreover, you think that the fact that homosexual behavior is determined by physical factors means that it cannot be condemned (well, maybe you wouldn't go this far).
No, but it does mean you can't claim, as Ironman did, that homosexuality is a choice.
It simply doesn't matter whether or not we have a physical explanation of some piece of behavior unless we've already got a moral philosophy in hand that explains what kinds of physical causes absolve us of guilt and what kinds don't. We can give a theoretically physical explanation for why a person murdered someone else, but that doesn't mean the murder has no moral significance. Given your espoused proclivity for moral philosophy, you ought to see that the question of whether determinism invalidates moral responsibility is very controversial, and in no way settles in such a way that "homosexuals can't be at fault because they are biologically different" simply has to be accepted by any reasonable moral philosopher.
It matters when the thing being condemned isn't even a choice proper. Sexual orientation isn't something you decide, neither under hard determinism, nor under compatibilism, nor under libertarianism because it has nothing to do with the will., if such a thing exists.
You are very un-Kantian in your thinking. Kant makes a distinction between the rational moral agent and the contingent empirical agent who is subject to inclinations and desires. A rational moral agent simply must act in accordance with the categorical imperative, and it is not immediately clear that homosexuals really do that. Given Kant's broader views on sex and relationships, a lot of doubt is cast on the notion that a Kantian can really hold that homosexual behavior is morally acceptable.
You think you have to agree with Kant on sex to be a Kantian? I don't think any neo-Kantian scholars would seriously hold to Kant's views on sex. His views on relationships (interpersonal in general) aren't bad, but he doesn't seem to understand what sex even is, the way it's described.
I don't understand how homosexual sex violates the CI anymore than other kinds of sex. From the point of view of agency, the motivations and consenting and, really, just the whole thing in general doesn't really differ much from heterosexuality.
I think the danger of staying too close to Kant's original writings is that one could end up becoming a very sterile human being. I don't think that's particularly healthy, neither for morality nor for life in general. As much as Kant wishes it weren't so, human emotions, desires, inclinations, and whatnot do exist. Yes, we can talk about being rational till we're blue in the face, but you haven't (and nobody ever really has) provided anything even resembling a rational argument as to why people are obliged not to engage in homosexual intercourse. I'm not sure how you can say that "it is not immediately clear that homosexuals really do that" but then fail to mention that the moral imperative not to engage in homosexual sex (as opposed to, say, heterosexual sex) is even less clear.
I mean, homosexual sex is basically the same deal as any other kind of consensual sex, as far as I'm concerned. We can talk about counter-examples viz. what volition underpins said consent (e.g. I'm sure Kant would object to prostitutes on the grounds that, if nothing else, they're conceivably not respecting themselves or treating themselves/someone else as an end in themselves etc. etc. I'm sure he'd come up with something) till we're blue in the fact, but the fact is that homosexual sex, in the sense which one decides to engage in it/experiences it/desires it/perceives it, is nearly identical to heterosexual sex. Given that, you have to show that something about homosexual sex in particular (with respect to how it differs from heterosexual sex) makes it invalid to use the same or similar arguments as those which justify heterosexual sex to justify homosexual sex.
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On October 24 2013 05:49 MoltkeWarding wrote:Show nested quote +On October 24 2013 04:00 Hryul wrote:On October 24 2013 03:54 farvacola wrote: "Everyone should have the ability to individually determine who they are attracted to and act on it accordingly."
That wasn't so hard. everyone should give his best that (his) society endures. Everyone should make statements which aspires to put the maximal distance between itself and the tautological.
Everyone?
I think it should be:
Some people that have the ability to communicate may make statements which may or may not aspire to anything, and these statements, if heard and perceived correctly or incorrectly by potential listeners, may or may not be disagreed with, due to chemical releases in the brain, and therefore, pledge your hearts, minds and bodies to Mother Russia.
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I think I need to hear Wittgenstien's opinion about this.
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He is mostly silent on the matter
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Wait, so we can stop with the analytic philosophy nonsense now ?
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Well I'm sure you know my answer to that, but for others I'm not so sure.
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On October 24 2013 07:18 ninazerg wrote:Show nested quote +On October 24 2013 05:49 MoltkeWarding wrote:On October 24 2013 04:00 Hryul wrote:On October 24 2013 03:54 farvacola wrote: "Everyone should have the ability to individually determine who they are attracted to and act on it accordingly."
That wasn't so hard. everyone should give his best that (his) society endures. Everyone should make statements which aspires to put the maximal distance between itself and the tautological. Everyone? I think it should be: Some people that have the ability to communicate may make statements which may or may not aspire to anything, and these statements, if heard and perceived correctly or incorrectly by potential listeners, may or may not be disagreed with, due to chemical releases in the brain, and therefore, pledge your hearts, minds and bodies to Mother Russia.
Yes, I think my imperatives need some work.
Concerning Shiori, by saying that
By Kantian, I don't mean that I'm literally Immanuel Kant. I mean that I agree with the spirit of his moral philosophy (that is, his deontological system) and the categorical imperative strikes me as pretty good. I also think Kantianism (in some form) is the strongest alternative to utilitarianism, and I really fucking hate utilitarianism.
you are really conjuring the impression of an eclectic system of personal values. What you are saying is that Categorical Imperative and its inversion in evil are good principles generally, but do not justify a critique of certain select actions.
The Kantian ethical system is merely a framework through which the validity of specific actions may be measured. It's unfair to demand a universal framework ("broadly compatible with reason in its universals") and then ask for a particular justification independent of that framework. I do not understand this, unless you do not see how homosexuality could possibly violate the aforementioned ethical system at all?
Can you not see that at least in its procreative function, heterosexual sex has a definite final cause which is missing in homosexual sex?
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On October 24 2013 03:54 farvacola wrote: "Everyone should have the ability to individually determine whom they are attracted to and act on it accordingly."
That wasn't so hard. No rational agent could will that to be universal moral law. An inclination-driven and irrational agent could will it, but in "acting on it accordingly," we reduce the other person to a mere object to desire; their fundamental dignity is destroyed.
On October 24 2013 06:04 Shiori wrote:Show nested quote +On October 24 2013 02:55 Lixler wrote:On October 23 2013 05:08 Shiori wrote:On October 23 2013 03:46 IronManSC wrote:On October 22 2013 09:55 ETisME wrote:On October 22 2013 01:37 IronManSC wrote:On October 21 2013 23:49 ETisME wrote: if you would describe Christianity as love, it is a selfish form of love that binds people to follow their rules and banish those who don't. This is a shame because Christianity as a religion should be spreading love, instead of establishing what are right and wrong.
This is why I dislike religion as a whole. They started with a very good intention: bring people together, form what's good for the society, teaches love and peace and forgiving EVEN to those that are born in a harsh environment and receive no education.
But now they are just degraded themselves further with arrogance, ignorance, power corrupted etc. This is what happens when Church has too much wealth and power. Not every church is like this. I know mine isn't. Please don't generalize and say that all Christian churches are bad now. You just haven't been to a good church yet. Of cause, I am sorry if I offended anyone. But it's my belief that if the church remains in a structural order, such as the core church saying gay marriage is not acceptable, no matter what teachings there are,the church has failed to set an example of understanding and loving because it sets command of the fellow Christians to follow their decision. The church is not about tolerance, or as people say, "live and let live." It's not about accepting the sinful lifestyle of another being. We can understand the sin, relate to the person in that area, and cope with it, but we can't just accept it and leave it that way. The church - the Christian life - is about changing lives. God changes your life if you allow him, and it's a good change. James 2:14-16 says, "What good is it, dear brothers and sisters, if you say you have faith but don't show it by your actions? Can that kind of faith save anyone? Suppose you see a brother or sister who has no food or clothing, and you say, 'Goodbye and have a good day; stay warm and eat well'--but then you don't give that person any food or clothing. What good does that do?" Although this is more in line with expressing your faith in love to others, I do like to correlate this verse to changing lives as well within the church. If you're not helping someone become a better Christian, what was the point of inviting them to church? Give a man a fish and you've fed him for a day. Teach a man to fish and you've fed him for the rest of his life. Unfortunately, many Christians and churches are not very smooth and gentle about loving another person. Many are forceful, condemning and judgmental, and... "banishing" like you said. 2 Timothy 3:5 says, "they will act religious, but will reject the power that could make them godly. Stay away from people like that!" It may have to do with the area I'm in or perhaps I'm just lucky with the churches I've attended, but I haven't seen or witnessed a church be like that. The ones i've been to were very loving and hospitable. I've seen those attitudes in certain individuals from time to time, but not in churches. But like I said, that may have to do with the area i'm in or if I'm just lucky with finding the right church that my girlfriend and I currently attend. On account of God changing lives, most people think it's a bad change, or simply just an outward change, like giving up certain hobbies or other "fun" things (parties, etc), prohibiting certain things in sex, and a few others. One person told me before, "the Christian life is boring, you guys have no fun." It's really not about that. Of course we have fun. It's about getting to know your Creator and letting him work through you to display his love to other people. Change comes inwardly by the working of the Holy Spirit, and he does all the work. Your outward change is a gradual process and happens for the rest of your lifetime. Your perspective on life becomes more in line with God's (you think and see certain things the way that he does with the Holy Spirit's help). What you do on the outside stems from the inward change. This is called 'Sanctification', which is becoming more and more Christ-like as life goes on. It's not vice versa like many people presume: that when you become a Christian you have to "behave." I think a lot of people forget about that part. There is literally no way to reconcile a good Creator (who created homosexuals) with the explicit forbidding of any and all homosexual actions, given that homosexuality is equivalent in every sense to the sexuality of heterosexual people, just with inverted targets. If homosexual sex is so sinful, then why the fuck would God make homosexual people to begin with? We're not talking like some tiny, dysfunctional minority group with associated pathologies, like pedophiles, or something. We're talking about people who are exactly the same as everyone else except they happen to be sexually attracted to a different gender. Why is it okay for a woman to feel attracted to a man but suddenly wrong when a man experiences the exact same thing? Before you can reject "sinful lifestyles," you have to actually prove that they're sinful, which means that you have to prove that they are somehow immoral lifestyles or resort to a "God said so in the Bible" approach, which fails on account of the fact that the Bible is not a philosophy textbook, not concerned with making specific ethical commands (i.e. stuff other than universal like love your neighbour) to the 21st century, and, perhaps most importantly, not actually written by God. placing the blame for the wrongs of Christianity at its structure really is a ground upon which a lot of Christians set off their apologia ("it's not Christianity that's wrong, it's the Church!") Well, what do you want them to say? When someone tells me about the Westboro Baptist Church, I'm not guilty by being in the same category of religious affiliation (i.e. Christian). I don't think many people really object to the key tenets of Christianity, honestly, because many are purely theological (and have no ethical relevance to a non-believer) whereas others are basically just pretty obvious, broad ethical dictates like "do unto others" and so on. Given the nature of the early Church, it's not picking and choosing to say that the letters of Paul, of all the books in the NT, need to be taken in context, because they were written specifically for a context (i.e. to a particular Church undergoing a particular crisis or asking a particular question). Paul did not sit down and compose a huge body of letters to be read for all time. We should not act as if he did. In what way is homosexuality a "deficiency of good," then? And give actual reasons that can be discussed, not just assertions or Biblical quotes. I don't think the Bible constitutes the sum-total of human knowledge, nor was it intended to; ergo, I think that the Bible should, at least, be broadly compatible with reason in its universals, and, with respect to things that proscribe interpersonal relations, should be absolutely connected to reason. Um, I think it's probably more the former, but it's also the latter. I'm not sure what "natural freedom" is. I think, in some senses, the two are the same thing. I am more or less a Kantian, if that helps. It should be fairly easy for a Kantian to see how homosexuality is a deficiency of good. One cannot perform homosexual behavior in a way that accords with the categorical imperative; there is no rationally universalizable maxim that allows one to perform homosexual activity ("everyone should have sex with people they're attracted to" "one should have sex without wanting to procreate" etc.). By Kantian, I don't mean that I'm literally Immanuel Kant. I mean that I agree with the spirit of his moral philosophy (that is, his deontological system) and the categorical imperative strikes me as pretty good. I also think Kantianism (in some form) is the strongest alternative to utilitarianism, and I really fucking hate utilitarianism. That said, I don't see what's so problematic about "everyone should have sex with people they're attracted to," unless you mean to say that the other person is obligated to have sex with them. We could just say "people should have sex only with those who consent to having sex with them, and whom they consent to having sex with." Show nested quote +In any case, your view of the issue is misguided because you view homosexuality as an integral part of identity whereas pedophilia etc is a disease. First of all, the idea that homosexuality really defines your identity is a totally modern creation; Greeks or Romans wouldn't define themselves in these terms, because homosexual behavior was not seen as central to your identity. God doesn't decide what traits people decide to see an integral to their identity, which means that there's no reason for God to make "parts of identity" morally uncondemnable as compared to "accidental behaviors" which he can condemn. There are no essential eternal lines that divide up identity and accidental behaviors, which means there is no way to construct an argument to say that identity, rather than accidental behaviors, cannot rightly be condemned by God (since there's no way to appropriately divide up these categories in the first place). No. Homosexuality isn't integral to your identity, as such, except insofar as sexuality as a whole is certainly part of one's identity. It's not that homosexuality qua homosexuality is uniquely integral to one's identity, but that sexual identity is integral to one's identity because humans are pretty obviously sexual creatures. I don't think pedophilia qua pedophilia is immoral, since it's not an actual action controlled by any agent. It's just an attraction. So long as it's not acted upon, there's no decision to be condemned. The reason pedophilic acts are immoral isn't that it's a "disease," but rather that it's raping children. Side note: that the Greeks and Romans were wildly homosexual in their actions is a bizarre myth. While it's true that pederasty was common (and noble) in Greek society, the Greeks (nor the Romans) didn't think of homosexuality and heterosexuality is some abstract psychological construction because, well, they just didn't! In addition, the Greeks explicitly condemned anal sex.That doesn't mean that homosexuality didn't exist back then, or that there weren't people who were exclusively attracted to people of the same sex as themselves. But, again, it's tangential to the point: it's clear that there exist, today (and almost certainly throughout history) a whole lot of people who are exclusively and genuinely only attracted to persons of the same sex. Now, provided both parties are consenting, and, for the hell of it, let's say they're in a loving, mutually respectful relationship, how exactly does homosexual sex wind up being immoral? Show nested quote +Moreover, you think that the fact that homosexual behavior is determined by physical factors means that it cannot be condemned (well, maybe you wouldn't go this far). No, but it does mean you can't claim, as Ironman did, that homosexuality is a choice. Show nested quote +It simply doesn't matter whether or not we have a physical explanation of some piece of behavior unless we've already got a moral philosophy in hand that explains what kinds of physical causes absolve us of guilt and what kinds don't. We can give a theoretically physical explanation for why a person murdered someone else, but that doesn't mean the murder has no moral significance. Given your espoused proclivity for moral philosophy, you ought to see that the question of whether determinism invalidates moral responsibility is very controversial, and in no way settles in such a way that "homosexuals can't be at fault because they are biologically different" simply has to be accepted by any reasonable moral philosopher. It matters when the thing being condemned isn't even a choice proper. Sexual orientation isn't something you decide, neither under hard determinism, nor under compatibilism, nor under libertarianism because it has nothing to do with the will., if such a thing exists. Show nested quote +You are very un-Kantian in your thinking. Kant makes a distinction between the rational moral agent and the contingent empirical agent who is subject to inclinations and desires. A rational moral agent simply must act in accordance with the categorical imperative, and it is not immediately clear that homosexuals really do that. Given Kant's broader views on sex and relationships, a lot of doubt is cast on the notion that a Kantian can really hold that homosexual behavior is morally acceptable. You think you have to agree with Kant on sex to be a Kantian? I don't think any neo-Kantian scholars would seriously hold to Kant's views on sex. His views on relationships (interpersonal in general) aren't bad, but he doesn't seem to understand what sex even is, the way it's described. I don't understand how homosexual sex violates the CI anymore than other kinds of sex. From the point of view of agency, the motivations and consenting and, really, just the whole thing in general doesn't really differ much from heterosexuality. I think the danger of staying too close to Kant's original writings is that one could end up becoming a very sterile human being. I don't think that's particularly healthy, neither for morality nor for life in general. As much as Kant wishes it weren't so, human emotions, desires, inclinations, and whatnot do exist. Yes, we can talk about being rational till we're blue in the face, but you haven't (and nobody ever really has) provided anything even resembling a rational argument as to why people are obliged not to engage in homosexual intercourse. I'm not sure how you can say that "it is not immediately clear that homosexuals really do that" but then fail to mention that the moral imperative not to engage in homosexual sex (as opposed to, say, heterosexual sex) is even less clear. I mean, homosexual sex is basically the same deal as any other kind of consensual sex, as far as I'm concerned. We can talk about counter-examples viz. what volition underpins said consent (e.g. I'm sure Kant would object to prostitutes on the grounds that, if nothing else, they're conceivably not respecting themselves or treating themselves/someone else as an end in themselves etc. etc. I'm sure he'd come up with something) till we're blue in the fact, but the fact is that homosexual sex, in the sense which one decides to engage in it/experiences it/desires it/perceives it, is nearly identical to heterosexual sex. Given that, you have to show that something about homosexual sex in particular (with respect to how it differs from heterosexual sex) makes it invalid to use the same or similar arguments as those which justify heterosexual sex to justify homosexual sex. I don't think you seriously considered what I meant in explaining that homosexuality need not be considered integral to identity, so I'm not going to respond to what you said w/r/t that.
In any case, there are, I think, serious issues for someone who wants to maintain Kant's deontological framework while doing away with his views on the dignity of persons and the separation of the agent qua rationality and agent qua inclinations etc. There's no reason to get into exegetical arguments about Kant, though, so I'll move the argument to the level of homosexual sex. It is difficult to maintain that sex performed solely for the sake of pleasure (which, I remind you, means all homosexual sex, and most heterosexual) can be endorsed if we see autonomy of the will as supreme.
It's not as though this is a silly result of Kant's views on reason vs inclinations and so forth. Rather, there are real problems if we start viewing others and ourselves just as a means to pleasure. Kant's emphasis on human freedom and autonomy are tied up with his disparagement of inclinations. We're acting freely when we act according to our own reason, but it's difficult to see how we can act freely as a result of our inclinations. Or rather, it's difficult to distinguish between "inappropriate" inclinations like drug addictions or sudden whimsy and "appropriate" inclinations like garden-variety desires etc. This isn't impossible, but I don't think we can maintain the same overall structure shaped around autonomy (i.e. the foundation of Kant's ethical system) if we allow our inclinations to dictate some of our free actions.
People are obliged not to engage in homosexual sex, and a good deal of heterosexual sex, because it is morally wrong to reduce another person to a means for pleasure. Kant, obviously, didn't think the aim of procreation really made heterosexual sex rationally justifiable, but this view is certainly open to a Kantian. Given that someone with even vaguely Kantian beliefs about human dignity has a prima facie strong reason to think that sex for the sake of pleasure is bad, the defender of homosexual sex needs to build up an edifice for validating it besides that which immediately suggests itself in the case of heterosexuality, viz. producing kids and making it so humans don't die out. I don't think Kant's own defense of sex within a marriage is available to a modern proponent of homosexual sex, namely because he won't think that homosexual sex is only okay within a marriage, nor that marriage means gaining a total right to the other person's body and soul. (Very few people think both that homosexual sex is okay and that there is no such thing as rape within a marriage)
So, put shortly: from a Kantian point of view, how can the obvious breach of human dignity present in homosexual sex be justified?
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"Rational agents" don't exist anyway, so I'm not sure why I even commented
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On October 24 2013 04:00 Hryul wrote:Show nested quote +On October 24 2013 03:54 farvacola wrote: "Everyone should have the ability to individually determine who they are attracted to and act on it accordingly."
That wasn't so hard. everyone should give his best that (his) society endures.
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On October 24 2013 07:52 MoltkeWarding wrote: Can you not see that at least in its procreative function, heterosexual sex has a definite final cause which is missing in homosexual sex?
I thought this to be obvious from the context -.-
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It is difficult to maintain that sex performed solely for the sake of pleasure (which, I remind you, means all homosexual sex, and most heterosexual)
Are you kidding me? You think that all that stuff about deepening one's emotional connection to another person, establishing intimacy/trust, and so on and so forth, doesn't exist?
You are in no way using another person solely as a means when you have sex in a consensual, "loving" context. That's just absolutely false, and if we can't even agree on that, there's not much point moving forward.
Thinking that having homosexual sex (or, really, anything other than strictly procreative sex, or whatever bizarre restriction you'd put on it) amounts to disregarding the dignity of the person is just...ridiculously offensive. Are people not allowed to love other people in the world you're arguing for? And I mean are they actually allowed to love as human beings, not as empty computers, or whatever.
Or rather, it's difficult to distinguish between "inappropriate" inclinations like drug addictions or sudden whimsy and "appropriate" inclinations like garden-variety desires etc.
Well, I'm not really arguing for us to think of people as "just a means to pleasure." I don't think that homosexuals are arguing for special status in that regard. They're asking why, even if they view the person they're having sex with as the light of their life and consider sex (like the rest of humanity) to be the most intimate way of bonding (which is probably accurate given its neurochemical effects) how are they treating that person as a means, or particularly "just" as a means? This is how human beings express love. To deny one's emotions entirely (when they are so obviously tied to one's thoughts, as modern psychology has demonstrated) is more of an attack on dignity than anything else. Kant was brilliant, but he was pre-psychological. That's important.
I don't think Kant's own defense of sex within a marriage is available to a modern proponent of homosexual sex, namely because he won't think that homosexual sex is only okay within a marriage, nor that marriage means gaining a total right to the other person's body and soul. (Very few people think both that homosexual sex is okay and that there is no such thing as rape within a marriage)
That's fine. Kant's arguments about marriage are very obviously him biting the bullet, in a sense. Sex, for Kant, seems to be the one thing that, well, just can't be done away with, but which is emotionally laden.
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On October 24 2013 07:59 farvacola wrote:"Rational agents" don't exist anyway, so I'm not sure why I even commented Explain though...!
I've seen you in threads which have substance so I was wondering why your posts are so short and so "naked" so to speak. So checked it out and you've posted 24 times in this thread, and you've averaged 2.5 lines per post (probably less because I rounded partial lines as one). Your only post with more than 5 lines had 12 and it's because I insisted that you write something. 10 of your 24 posts are one-liners and 8 are two-liners.
It's clear to me that in some areas you're at least a pretty smart guy and I could learn a thing or two from you, if you stopped acting like everything you say is obvious because you know (or believe) it.
PS: I know what you mean when you say rational agents don't exist, but the conversation can't possibly end with that.
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Am I the only person who has had sex or believes that it's possible to have sex in a way that isn't a transaction i.e with someone you love?
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Lixler is still operating under the assumption that Shiori subscribes to a Kantian outlook, and both provides and demands his justification in the same currency. If this were so, his critique is valid: it would be extremely difficult to justify homosexuality in Kantian ethics.
However it's obvious that Shiori has abandoned that outpost a while ago, although we don't exactly know where he has fled to.
They're asking why, even if they view the person they're having sex with as the light of their life and consider sex (like the rest of humanity) to be the most intimate way of bonding (which is probably accurate given its neurochemical effects) how are they treating that person as a means, or particularly "just" as a means?
Actually, the artificial inducement of intimate feelings through the secretion of endorphins undoubtedly accounts for the implausibly high number of teenage girls who trespass into dead-end relationships. Using sex to drug the mind into pushing a friendship into the relationship zone generally does not end well. To put it in the prosaic language of economics, it's the stimulus which distorts the price equilibrium set by the market.
I thought this to be obvious from the context -.-
Sorry, when I read your high-minded language, my mind was too lofty to look into the gutter.
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On October 24 2013 09:12 MoltkeWarding wrote: Lixler is still operating under the assumption that Shiori subscribes to a Kantian outlook, and both provides and demands his justification in the same currency. If this were so, his critique is valid: it would be extremely difficult to justify homosexuality in Kantian ethics.
Not really. Kantianism has evolved in some ways to make it serviceable.
However it's obvious that Shiori has abandoned that outpost a while ago, although we don't exactly know where he has fled to. Haven't fled anywhere. But it's ultimately irrelevant. The question stands as it was. Are there any good arguments against all homosexual sex?
They're asking why, even if they view the person they're having sex with as the light of their life and consider sex (like the rest of humanity) to be the most intimate way of bonding (which is probably accurate given its neurochemical effects) how are they treating that person as a means, or particularly "just" as a means?
Actually, the artificial inducement of intimate feelings through the secretion of endorphins undoubtedly accounts for the implausibly high number of teenage girls who trespass into dead-end relationships. Using sex to drug the mind into pushing a friendship into the relationship zone generally does not end well. To put it in the prosaic language of economics, it's the stimulus which distorts the price equilibrium set by the market.
I don't think this is unique to females. This is more or less true of everything teenagers do. I'm not really sure what this has to do with consenting adults though.
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On October 24 2013 08:27 Shiori wrote:Show nested quote + It is difficult to maintain that sex performed solely for the sake of pleasure (which, I remind you, means all homosexual sex, and most heterosexual) Are you kidding me? You think that all that stuff about deepening one's emotional connection to another person, establishing intimacy/trust, and so on and so forth, doesn't exist? You are in no way using another person solely as a means when you have sex in a consensual, "loving" context. That's just absolutely false, and if we can't even agree on that, there's not much point moving forward. Thinking that having homosexual sex (or, really, anything other than strictly procreative sex, or whatever bizarre restriction you'd put on it) amounts to disregarding the dignity of the person is just...ridiculously offensive. Are people not allowed to love other people in the world you're arguing for? And I mean are they actually allowed to love as human beings, not as empty computers, or whatever. Show nested quote + Or rather, it's difficult to distinguish between "inappropriate" inclinations like drug addictions or sudden whimsy and "appropriate" inclinations like garden-variety desires etc. Well, I'm not really arguing for us to think of people as "just a means to pleasure." I don't think that homosexuals are arguing for special status in that regard. They're asking why, even if they view the person they're having sex with as the light of their life and consider sex (like the rest of humanity) to be the most intimate way of bonding (which is probably accurate given its neurochemical effects) how are they treating that person as a means, or particularly "just" as a means? This is how human beings express love. To deny one's emotions entirely (when they are so obviously tied to one's thoughts, as modern psychology has demonstrated) is more of an attack on dignity than anything else. Kant was brilliant, but he was pre-psychological. That's important. Show nested quote + I don't think Kant's own defense of sex within a marriage is available to a modern proponent of homosexual sex, namely because he won't think that homosexual sex is only okay within a marriage, nor that marriage means gaining a total right to the other person's body and soul. (Very few people think both that homosexual sex is okay and that there is no such thing as rape within a marriage)
That's fine. Kant's arguments about marriage are very obviously him biting the bullet, in a sense. Sex, for Kant, seems to be the one thing that, well, just can't be done away with, but which is emotionally laden. Of course humans are free to love each other! In fact, that everyone may love each other is something we all ought to hope for. But there is no reason to confuse this love for other humans qua their humanity with love for other humans qua their attractiveness etc. It's a quite modern convention to think that love and sex necessarily go together (blah blah).
In what sense are you treating the other person as an end in themselves when you have gay sex with them? Please explain it to me. When I consider sex, a variety of motives all present themselves to me, but none of them seem to be to treat the other person as as end. It looks like you are resorting to a fairy tale movie-version of sex where sex is just partaken of in order to bond the two partners, or to express love, or something. But clearly this is not the case, and no rational defender of gay sex is going to draw the line here. A good deal of sex is done solely in order to derive pleasure (or some other emotion), not in accordance with the categorical imperative. Someone really defending gay sex can't agree that you ought only to treat other rational agents as ends in themselves, unless they also hold the ridiculous notion that all or most sex is done solely for the sake of the partner.
Note that Kant's distinction between an animalistic desire-filled love and a real love for rational agents really does have something going for it. There is no reason to think that expressing this latter sort of love culminates in sex, and there is plenty of reason to think that sex demonstrating the former kind cannot satisfy the categorical imperative. If you have to hold that all sex is really some sublimated deep expression of selfless interest, then your defense of gay sex looks prima facie implausible to anyone who has ever glimpsed a porno.
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You're arguing against something that I don't hold. I have no idea why you move from "a lot of sex is done for pleasure" to "homosexual sex is particularly bad."
See, your argument is against promiscuity, not homosexuality.I don't know what world you live in, but, for my part, I can say that I've definitely had sex to express love/enrich a bond. Nowhere have I argued that this is always the case.
You seem to be implying that all gay people are promiscuous, or something. Do you seriously believe that all gay sex is done solely for pleasure?
Here's what Kant actually says: "Act in such a way that you treat humanity, whether in your own person or in the person of any other, never merely as a means to an end, but always at the same time as an end."
Sex in no way violates this, unless you consider the other MERELY as a means to an end. MERELY. For God's sake, sex is not a substitute variable for "person's dignity."
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