EPTIt's true that in Asia parents are much more respected than in western society..
Bus Driver Beats Up Student - Page 11
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1tym
Korea (South)2425 Posts
It's true that in Asia parents are much more respected than in western society.. | ||
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Jathin
United States3505 Posts
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Liquid`Jinro
Sweden33719 Posts
On June 02 2005 08:15 Liquid`Drone wrote: you should treat children with the same kind of respect you'd treat an adult that's how you teach them to be respectful. Exactly. | ||
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Liquid`Nazgul
22427 Posts
On June 02 2005 08:15 Liquid`Drone wrote: you should treat children with the same kind of respect you'd treat an adult that's how you teach them to be respectful. if they don't learn when they're crossing the line it'll only get worse I would think It's not like he beat him up he just grabbed him a bit | ||
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Liquid`Jinro
Sweden33719 Posts
Grab someones arm, ok. Grab someones throat, not ok. | ||
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Girlzsux
Bulgaria10 Posts
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Girlzsux
Bulgaria10 Posts
WRONG i mean NAZGUL listen to me -> kids must get drugs while they are PEEng into the sea. that HELPS ahahgahahhahaha i am soooooooooooooooooooooooo understanduBLE | ||
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wishterran
United States1045 Posts
On June 01 2005 22:26 ihatett wrote: No. In the bus, if students continue to act up, it becomes a danger for the driver, students, and cars around. Plus, I have no problem with beating the shit out of 11 year old stuck-up pricks who think no one is allowed to touch them. What the kids did was very wrong but the driver wouldn't have been in danger if he had waited for help or made the kid leave the bus. The students weren't in danger except of getting home late. The cars around weren't in danger because the bus was parked. If you have no problem with beating the shit out of eleven year olds who think no one can touch them (which is most of the eleven year olds in our country) that's your opinion. The fact is that in our society when an authority figure (teacher, preacher, adult) hits/grabs a child they are in trouble 99/100 times wether the kid deserved it or not. The 66 year old bus driver knows that and still, even in an intense situation, lost control or consiously decided to act that way. I think that's wrong. | ||
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SoLsiTO
United States573 Posts
I agree, if you respect children and treat them with respect then they will respect you and thus be more inclined to listen to you. | ||
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Ceril
Sweden1343 Posts
On June 02 2005 10:12 FrozenArbiter wrote: Throat. Grabbed him by the throat. Grab someones arm, ok. Grab someones throat, not ok. To grab someones throat is something I learned to do by default, on the other hand I had a little rough time because of my temper back in early school days, once it was found out I could go into a rage sort of state someone found it very funny to bring that forth in me, hence since I learned the art called: Grab them by the throat and they turn from being predator eyed into sheepeyed. All in all, if you want to realy scare someone, grab them by the throat, nothing seem to work on such a instictive level of fright as being grabbed around the throat ^^ | ||
Liquid`Drone
Norway28727 Posts
On June 02 2005 10:07 Liquid`Nazgul wrote: if they don't learn when they're crossing the line it'll only get worse I would think It's not like he beat him up he just grabbed him a bit although this is more true for younger kids (it still holds somewhat true for 11 year olds), generally bad behaviour is caused by lack of attention/ the kid wanting attention. the thing is just that they don't separate as well between good and bad attention, thus they end up doing whichever gives them more attention. thus, through punishing bad behaviour you might be encouraging it, especially if you punish bad behaviour more than you reward good behaviour. of course you still need to make the kid aware of it when (s)he does something wrong. but simply saying "don't do that" and explaining why is much better than yelling at her/him, and a LOT better than doing anything physical. grounding is also pretty unwise. | ||
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DV8
United States1623 Posts
On June 02 2005 08:15 Liquid`Drone wrote: you should treat children with the same kind of respect you'd treat an adult that's how you teach them to be respectful. Because children have the same kind of comprehension as an adult? Either way I don't mean this in any jocular way but those kids should have been shot. | ||
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bburn
United States1039 Posts
On June 02 2005 10:12 FrozenArbiter wrote: Throat. Grabbed him by the throat. Grab someones arm, ok. Grab someones throat, not ok. I just watched the video twice to make sure, he grabed the kid by the back of the neck, and applied a pressure point from the looks of it, when did he grab the kid by the throat, am I missing something? | ||
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Josh124
United Kingdom144 Posts
Hard to tell though. | ||
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Liquid`Nazgul
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Liquid`Nazgul
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WiredBomb
United States398 Posts
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Slaughter
United States20254 Posts
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