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On October 18 2011 13:30 TutsiRebel wrote: Anyone justifying the indifference with "the bystanders were afraid of being sued / fined" is full of shit.
I'd gladly fork over thousands in court rather than watch a little girl die, knowing I could have done something.
You think this video was disturbing to watch? Imagine seeing that in person. Unless you were one of the sick fucks in this video, that image would stay with you for the rest of your days.
I'm not going to blame the legal system over in China for this. That's bullshit. Aside from the woman who picked up that little girl, everyone in that video has blood on their hands. I was thinking this.
Money for a human life? Worth it. And the guilt for the rest of your life....
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On October 18 2011 13:44 Reason.SC2 wrote:Show nested quote +On October 18 2011 13:39 Blasterion wrote:On October 18 2011 13:33 Anabolicqt wrote: "If she is dead, I may pay only about 20,000 yuan ($3,125). But if she is injured, it may cost me hundreds of thousands yuan," said the driver over the phone to the media, before he gave himself up to the police.
wtf? Now to just clarify It is true that a auto-accident fatality is a fixed fine. but a disabled/injured victim allows the family to make the defendant liable for most of the medical costs for as long as the victim in question remains by law, alive. Which includes brain dead i believe in the case that the family does not approve of plug pulling. This law is a fact. How tactless and unsympathetic of him to be saying this. At least he is taking responsibility. I was hit by a car when I was 5 years old. The driver stayed in the hospital with me and came to visit me after I got out. He brought my grandma flowers and still asked about me years after. This happened in a country with a failing government, corruption, and rampant scamming. <-- That's proper behavior. Leaving the scene and then later talking about how you may have to pay a larger fine if she survives is not cool lol. Fuck that guy. I am glad you were fortunate enough to meet such a person andthat you were not submit to similar fate to the victim of the case in question. I hope that your injuries have healed, and glad that the person responsible is responsible. It is very hard to swallow what the defendant in this case has said, although true it is hard to agree with him. I do hope the Judges have a proper sentence for this person.
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On October 18 2011 13:46 squattincassanova wrote: Being Chinese and having traveled to China. I do notice there being a lot of indifference in China. Nothing racial, just what I have observed. People pushing and shoving, not holding doors, not respecting elderly. It seems conflicting with what seems to be traditional Chinese culture. My uncle just came to visit US for the first time, I asked him what was different in the US and the first thing he said was that people appeared to be kinder in body language, he didnt know what they were saying., Morals vary city to city but it overall sucks, Big cities have it a bit better, and people are more polite when they;re higher class.
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I think I'm gonna be sick after watching this.
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Lol "it may seem barbaric to us in the US".... Really? really? It happens all the freakin time in the US. Don't even act like it never happens. There was a case where a girl was getting raped in the streets and she was screaming for help. Everybody who heard her assumed the other people who also heard her were going to help. She was found dead the next day... LMAO, it's a human phenomenon, not a chinese one.
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I started to watch the video, and then "nope". Luckily my better judgment kicked in right as the toddler was about to be run over. Not many things make me sad... but this might be the worst thing I've ever almost seen.
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Man, TL is becoming the site for depressing news and events.
That's a profoundly disturbing video. Those people are horrible, utterly horrible. How must you be raised, or what is your environment like for you to just walk over a kid writhing on the ground after being run over. Or how fucked up must you be to drive over the kid after the fact.
Does not compute.
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On October 18 2011 13:54 Mjolnir wrote:
Man, TL is becoming the site for depressing news and events.
That's a profoundly disturbing video. Those people are horrible, utterly horrible. How must you be raised, or what is your environment like for you to just walk over a kid writhing on the ground after being run over. Or how fucked up must you be to drive over the kid after the fact.
Does not compute.
Something involving a piss poor law that makes you pass less of a fine if your victim is dead
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This isn't new or exclusive to the Chinese, although culture, more specifically big-city culture may have been a factor.
It's call the bystander effect, and has been studies many times since the Kitty Genovese incident. Note that I don't condone this by any means, I'm just saying this is more common than you'd expect. While many people say they would lend a helping hand to someone in trouble, the majority(in a big city environment) will in fact ignore it and go on about their business.
Also knowing about the 'bystander effect' increases your chance of being reactive in those situations, which means I've done my good deed for the day.
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On October 18 2011 13:35 lariat wrote:Show nested quote +On October 18 2011 13:30 TutsiRebel wrote: Anyone justifying the indifference with "the bystanders were afraid of being sued / fined" is full of shit.
I'd gladly fork over thousands in court rather than watch a little girl die, knowing I could have done something.
You think this video was disturbing to watch? Imagine seeing that in person. Unless you were one of the sick fucks in this video, that image would stay with you for the rest of your days.
I'm not going to blame the legal system over in China for this. That's bullshit. Aside from the woman who picked up that little girl, everyone in that video has blood on their hands. Would you? I'd wager that you are a student or have lived comfortably for most of your life, not someone who has made their own path through society and has earned everything they've had. If you have, imagine losing everything as a reward for saving a person's life, living the rest of your life in dejection and bitterness against society for punishing you for doing the morally correct action. Would you still go through with that action? If so, then you are truly remarkable. I know I can't speak to the same myself. From your name I think you are familiar with the Rwandan genocide. Now imagine that the Tutsis enforced Belgian rule because they thought it would be the best option for all the repressed Rwandans and that they knew that freedom was coming soon. How would the Tutsis react to the Rwandan genocide then?
It's a good thing you didn't bet the farm on your first wager, because you're almost completely wrong. I am a student, but I've paid for everything myself and I've earned everything I have. As for 'bitterness and dejection", I don't think I would be dejected from any society worth being a part of for helping save a little girl. Bitter? Probably, but that sure as shit beats bloodied hands. If the law could be twisted to fuck me for helping, then I'd hope CCTV took interest in my case, because I wouldn't bend over and take it. I stand up for what I believe.
As for your latter wager, I have no idea what point you're trying to make. If you're implying that the Tutsis were in any position to "enforce Belgian rule", then I don't think you're very familiar with the Rwandan Genocide.
On October 18 2011 13:52 SoKHo wrote: Lol "it may seem barbaric to us in the US".... Really? really? It happens all the freakin time in the US. Don't even act like it never happens. There was a case where a girl was getting raped in the streets and she was screaming for help. Everybody who heard her assumed the other people who also heard her were going to help. She was found dead the next day... LMAO, it's a human phenomenon, not a chinese one.
No, it doesn't.
To those bringing up the Kitty Genovese incident: she was stabbed in an alleyway where no one could see her, and it happened on a cold night in early march when everyone keeps their windows closed. Her assault and the purported "indifference" of her neighbors was sensationalized by the earliest articles, and most of the misconceptions regarding the case clearly remain to this day. The unfortunate truth is that after her initial stabbing, the only person who witnessed it thought she made it into the apartment complex and understandably did not leave the building to confront her armed assailant. Numerous calls to the police were made, but none of the callers realized she was being stabbed.
On October 18 2011 14:03 RavenLoud wrote:Show nested quote +On October 18 2011 13:57 TutsiRebel wrote:
Probably, but that sure as shit beats bloodied hands. If the law could be twisted to fuck me for helping, then I'd hope CCTV took interest in my case, because I wouldn't bend over and take it. I stand up for what I believe.
I think you're a good person, it's just that in a country like China it really could get you into a lot of trouble if you apply your morals in the same way because of a retarded law. Also...your CCTV comment doesn't seem to sound that you realize that there is no free media in China...if the right person wants you dead and silenced, you will be and no one would give a fuck. That's how it works. Read up on Kaiyotic's post for more. + Show Spoiler + On October 18 2011 13:35 Kaiyotic wrote: I wouldn't put it past the courts to "reason" that if you stopped driving to make an emergency call, you probably caused the accident. Not that it makes it right to not call, just something to think about.
The legal problem in this situation is not straightforward at all. In the US, and most western countries, you can generally count on due process and rule by law: You'll be tried with the same laws in the same way as everyone else. You cannot assume that in mainland China. The judges can do basically whatever they like, with no real check to their power. Your video evidence? Not likely to make a difference if the judge has already decided how to rule-- there's a reason a courtroom is one of the scariest places to be in mainland China. And something about lawyers: defense lawyers regularly get intimidated by the CCP when they take on a controversial case. There are probably hundreds of thousands of lawyers; how many are going to stand up to the party and risk being imprisoned or "disappeared"? Even they are doing the right thing, they won't be doing it for much longer. The Constitution itself states that you have rights...until the government takes them away (Article 51, for those who want to check).
There's no redress of grievances. Someone mentioned that half a billion signatures on a petition would change things. I wanted to laugh at the absurdity of this, and cry at how depressing it is. A petition in China can often be little more than a list of people the government targets next. Hence the "mind your own business" mentality.
Part of it is just the class problem in the mainland. My family's from Taiwan, but we visit China often enough. The first thing my parents tell me when we get to the airport? Don't trust anyone you don't know. There are a lot of poor people in China, desperate for money, who prey upon people who are overly generous, overly trusting-- it's not unheard of to be kidnapped when you try to help someone, though obviously that wasn't the case here. This is the environment you live in. Add in the fact that the 2006 precedent scares the crap out of the altruists who are left, it's almost surprising anyone steps in to help anyone anymore. I agree with Blasterion's point here; of course it would be morally right to help the girl, but you can't know what the risk is to yourself. In the most perverse interpretation, if you walked and saw the girl lying there, you could think that she was faking it to bait you into helping her before someone else abducts you for ransom; a longshot, for sure, but not beyond possibility-- which is truly scary. (If you think that her injuries couldn't possibly be faked, remember what China is known for. The blindings like in Slumdog Millionaire still happen, and sometimes it's not just eyes you lose.)
I can't say that I would help the girl out even if I walk past; I'd probably report the emergency and walk away, because there's not much more you can do without exposing yourself to harm or costs that could ruin you and all of your relatives.
If you want me to say who's a fault, it's clear: the truck drivers and the system. It's tragic that this occurs, but understand why people don't help: there's a real threat of financial and bodily harm.
I'm aware that CCTV is state controlled media, but I see your point that the chinese government probably doesn't want its citizens rocking the boat. And if kaiyotic's description of the Chinese court system is on the money, (I'm in no position to tell, I've never traveled to China) then holy living fuck, that's frightening. Nevertheless, I think the worst any would-be Chinese Samaritan would have to face is perhaps wage garnishment to pay for medical bills. No amount of yuan would keep me or most of the people I know from helping in that situation.
If China wants its perception in the west to ever improve, this shit needs to change.
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I 90% thought it was a hoax. Sadly it was too late to unsee this video.
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Chinese person living in Australia, and I also would not have gone over to help the girl. Immediately called 120, certainly, but not going to go and physicially help her because of the '06 case.
If that had happened in Australia, I would've been over in a heartbeat to try and help.
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On October 18 2011 13:30 TutsiRebel wrote: Anyone justifying the indifference with "the bystanders were afraid of being sued / fined" is full of shit.
I'd gladly fork over thousands in court rather than watch a little girl die, knowing I could have done something.
You think this video was disturbing to watch? Imagine seeing that in person. Unless you were one of the sick fucks in this video, that image would stay with you for the rest of your days.
I'm not going to blame the legal system over in China for this. That's bullshit. Aside from the woman who picked up that little girl, everyone in that video has blood on their hands.
The bystanders probably had a previous case in mind, so infamous it has a nickname "Nanjing Judge":
"Nanjing judge" refers to the infamous 2006 case of a man named Peng Yu who helped a woman to the hospital after she had fallen only to have the old woman accuse him of knocking her down. The Nanjing judge in that case ultimately ruled that common sense dictated that only the person who hit her would take her to the hospital, setting a precedent that continues only further discourages and reinforces many Chinese people's wariness to help others in similar situations.
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On October 18 2011 13:57 TutsiRebel wrote:
Probably, but that sure as shit beats bloodied hands. If the law could be twisted to fuck me for helping, then I'd hope CCTV took interest in my case, because I wouldn't bend over and take it. I stand up for what I believe.
I think you're a good person, it's just that in a country like China it really could get you into a lot of trouble if you apply your morals in the same way because of a retarded law.
Also...your CCTV comment doesn't seem to sound that you realize that there is no free media in China...if the right person wants you dead and silenced, you will be and no one would give a fuck. That's how it works.
Read up on Kaiyotic's post for more.+ Show Spoiler + On October 18 2011 13:35 Kaiyotic wrote: I wouldn't put it past the courts to "reason" that if you stopped driving to make an emergency call, you probably caused the accident. Not that it makes it right to not call, just something to think about.
The legal problem in this situation is not straightforward at all. In the US, and most western countries, you can generally count on due process and rule by law: You'll be tried with the same laws in the same way as everyone else. You cannot assume that in mainland China. The judges can do basically whatever they like, with no real check to their power. Your video evidence? Not likely to make a difference if the judge has already decided how to rule-- there's a reason a courtroom is one of the scariest places to be in mainland China. And something about lawyers: defense lawyers regularly get intimidated by the CCP when they take on a controversial case. There are probably hundreds of thousands of lawyers; how many are going to stand up to the party and risk being imprisoned or "disappeared"? Even they are doing the right thing, they won't be doing it for much longer. The Constitution itself states that you have rights...until the government takes them away (Article 51, for those who want to check).
There's no redress of grievances. Someone mentioned that half a billion signatures on a petition would change things. I wanted to laugh at the absurdity of this, and cry at how depressing it is. A petition in China can often be little more than a list of people the government targets next. Hence the "mind your own business" mentality.
Part of it is just the class problem in the mainland. My family's from Taiwan, but we visit China often enough. The first thing my parents tell me when we get to the airport? Don't trust anyone you don't know. There are a lot of poor people in China, desperate for money, who prey upon people who are overly generous, overly trusting-- it's not unheard of to be kidnapped when you try to help someone, though obviously that wasn't the case here. This is the environment you live in. Add in the fact that the 2006 precedent scares the crap out of the altruists who are left, it's almost surprising anyone steps in to help anyone anymore. I agree with Blasterion's point here; of course it would be morally right to help the girl, but you can't know what the risk is to yourself. In the most perverse interpretation, if you walked and saw the girl lying there, you could think that she was faking it to bait you into helping her before someone else abducts you for ransom; a longshot, for sure, but not beyond possibility-- which is truly scary. (If you think that her injuries couldn't possibly be faked, remember what China is known for. The blindings like in Slumdog Millionaire still happen, and sometimes it's not just eyes you lose.)
I can't say that I would help the girl out even if I walk past; I'd probably report the emergency and walk away, because there's not much more you can do without exposing yourself to harm or costs that could ruin you and all of your relatives.
If you want me to say who's a fault, it's clear: the truck drivers and the system. It's tragic that this occurs, but understand why people don't help: there's a real threat of financial and bodily harm.
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This video is probably the worst thing ive ever seen. Disgusting.
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Yeah heard about it.
Being chinese and living in Shanghai you hear about these things all the time. It started with this guy helping an old lady then getting counter owned.
However, such cases are rampant in the world. I've heard people tell you to yell FIRE instead of HELP because people will help put a fire out but not help others. Was another video of a guy pretending to be ill lying facedown in the busiest street in Stockholm yet no one came to help in 20min.
I think it's just that we as humans will risk asses the situation based on how much we have to lose. Some people just have a lot to lose or they just think they have nothing to gain from helping a fellow species.
It's basically how the world has always worked.
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Ok....where to start...
This is my opinion.
It is without a doubt very disgusting. Just....speechless, I agree with that.
Having said that, I decided to do a little more research. I saw the video last night, and I decided to research more. What I found was that this stuff didn't only happen in China, but in other countries as well. I learned about Kitty Genovese, and others (just look at the video up there that Kupon3ss posted).
And, looking at today's perspective, it is easy for people to just simply bash the Chinese simply because the Chinese people are known to be ruthless, heartless, no emotions, etc. Because this poor toddler scenario happened in China, people try to expose and bash as much as they can about China, whereas if this happened in ANY other country as long as its not China, they will try to minimize the exposure and try to forget everything.
So in the end, this has gained popularity so quickly because it happened in China, if it happened in any other countries, I'm sure it would not be as popular as it is now.
Sure, Chinese people are renowned to be like that, but do you seriously think every single human being in China is like that?
The problem, as with ANY other problem in this world, is human HEART or personality. You can be Chinese and help others, and you can be non-Chinese and not help. It is not the race, it is the human heart.
Having said that, remember what i said above. Let's pick an action, any action. Jumping, for example. If a Chinese person jumps, it will be considered to be bad, annoying, basically all sorts of negative things. However, when a non-Chinese person (preferably White person) does the EXACT same action (jumping), it will be considered to be normal.
I will end this post by saying that yes, it was a nightmare to see that, but remember that this thing can happen everywhere. And the reason why it is so popular is because it happened in China, not other countries.
Peace, God bless you all
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On October 18 2011 12:25 xAPOCALYPSEx wrote:People really aren't getting the fact that should idea that there is a chance, however small, that if you do help that girl, you could end up on your fucking ass with your entire family with you. Now I guess if you really wanna be a white knight, go for it (especially if you don't have anyone relying on you like a family etc), but think about what the consequences would be should you do it. I'm not bashing anyone that says they would help that kid, cause I really would have liked to see someone help that kid in the video, but I don't get how you guys are blaming them for not doing it. Now I've never had kids but I know damn well that I wouldn't want to reduce my family to living on the streets no matter what the cost is. Yes, its fucked up, but it's not their fault and it's ridiculous to blame them for think about their families before anything else. In other news, + Show Spoiler + No its not, because ultimately they are also responsible for being in that position in the first place. Remember change comes from you personally and if you are not willing to do it, no one else is.
My biggest problem though is the driver, you can clearly see that he saw the child and still ran over it. He then stopped for like 5 seconds and then ran over it again and drove off.
To me he might as well be a serial killer and even though I'm against death penalty even in this case, I can see why people often want the death penalty !
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On October 18 2011 13:30 TutsiRebel wrote: Anyone justifying the indifference with "the bystanders were afraid of being sued / fined" is full of shit.
I'd gladly fork over thousands in court rather than watch a little girl die, knowing I could have done something.
You think this video was disturbing to watch? Imagine seeing that in person. Unless you were one of the sick fucks in this video, that image would stay with you for the rest of your days.
I'm not going to blame the legal system over in China for this. That's bullshit. Aside from the woman who picked up that little girl, everyone in that video has blood on their hands.
Giving over thousands of dollars is different for someone living in the US. The equivalent Chinese value would probably be something more along the lines of hundreds of thousands of dollars.
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I even see articles saying that the daughter of the old lady who helped blamed her mother for "minding other people business" and want "to be famous".
I do not know if that true but it does sounds like what a typical rural Chinese would say!
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