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We are extremely close to shutting down this thread for the same reasons the PUA thread was shut down. While some of the time this thread contains actual discussion with people asking help and people giving nice advice, it often gets derailed by rubbish that should not be here. The moderation team will be trying to steer this thread in a different direction from now on. Posts of the following nature are banned: 1) ANYTHING regarding PUA. If your post contains the words 'alpha' or 'beta' or anything of that sort please don't hit post. 2) Stupid brags. You can tell us about your nice success stories with someone, but posts such as 'lol 50 Tinder matches' are a no-no. 3) Any misogynistic bullshit, including discussion about rape culture. 4) One night stands and random sex. These are basically brags that invariably devolve into gender role discussions and misogynistic comments. Last chance, guys. This thread is for dating advice and sharing dating stories. While gender roles, sociocultural norms, and our biological imperative to reproduce are all tangentially related, these subjects are not the main purpose of the thread. Please AVOID these discussions. If you want to discuss them at length, go to PMs or start a blog. If you disagree with someone's ideologies, state that you disagree with them and why they won't work from a dating standpoint and move on. We will not tolerate any lengthy derailments that aren't directly about dating. | ||
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Harbinger631
United States376 Posts
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Deleted User 183001
2939 Posts
On October 18 2011 08:42 Harbinger631 wrote: I went on my first date my senior year of college, and the relationship lasted 2 weeks. 1 and a half years later, I met another girl and I'm going to be proposing to her in a few months. Sounds like how I usually play Starcraft. Try out something once, then the next time I do it srs mode. Awwwww yeah. Btw, congrats, and I hope it doesn't turn out badly or something. | ||
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Believersoul
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FabledIntegral
United States9232 Posts
On October 18 2011 08:57 Believersoul wrote: I don't know, but im a christain guy and I just think christain girls, or girls who atleast aren't athiest have a good understanding of respect, because majority of the time christain parents teach their kids to be.. well respectful and not rude and stuck up but still sometimes that doesn't even matter. Girls your age should be more mature if you find one.. But at 14 lets give it some tension as your both trying to figure out who you are and what you want to do, and really only looking for physical love.. But! You know there's alot of fish in the sea, just don't be shy and be out going and the time will come lmao. Maybe it's because I'm atheist, but I can't respect your point of view whatsoever. | ||
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DarkPlasmaBall
United States45333 Posts
On October 18 2011 08:57 Believersoul wrote: I don't know, but im a christain guy and I just think christain girls, or girls who atleast aren't athiest have a good understanding of respect, because majority of the time christain parents teach their kids to be.. well respectful and not rude and stuck up but still sometimes that doesn't even matter. Girls your age should be more mature if you find one.. But at 14 lets give it some tension as your both trying to figure out who you are and what you want to do, and really only looking for physical love.. But! You know there's alot of fish in the sea, just don't be shy and be out going and the time will come Really? You think religion automatically equates to respectfulness? I can't wait for your first run in with a religious fundamentalist lol. I was born and raised Christian and over time I became non-religious. That didn't make me any less respectful ::shrugs:: | ||
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Darclite
United States1021 Posts
On October 18 2011 09:13 DarkPlasmaBall wrote: Really? You think religion automatically equates to respectfulness? I can't wait for your first run in with a religious fundamentalist lol. I was born and raised Christian and over time I became non-religious. That didn't make me any less respectful ::shrugs:: No, my female atheist friend is so disrespectful with all her studying and good manners and volunteer work and donating blood and whatnot...so fucking rude. | ||
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iamahydralisk
United States813 Posts
On October 18 2011 08:57 Believersoul wrote: I don't know, but im a christain guy and I just think christain girls, or girls who atleast aren't athiest have a good understanding of respect, because majority of the time christain parents teach their kids to be.. well respectful and not rude and stuck up but still sometimes that doesn't even matter. Girls your age should be more mature if you find one.. But at 14 lets give it some tension as your both trying to figure out who you are and what you want to do, and really only looking for physical love.. But! You know there's alot of fish in the sea, just don't be shy and be out going and the time will come I truly hope you're a youngin (can't believe I'm using that word) who just hasn't experienced much in life yet... Once you do, you'll realize that there are very respectful atheists and very disrespectful religious people. Religion and respect aren't even close to being mutually exclusive. | ||
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Lorken
New Zealand804 Posts
I just be nice to chicks I know/like and hope they think I'm cool too. I'm quite happy being single though, it would just be convenient to have a girlfriend. | ||
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gosuRob
United States319 Posts
On October 18 2011 17:40 Lorken wrote: So wait, how do you go up to and talk with/whatever some random girl you don't even know? (like some guy who recommended a grocery store) I just be nice to chicks I know/like and hope they think I'm cool too. I'm quite happy being single though, it would just be convenient to have a girlfriend. Lock eyes, give the head nod > if she smiles go talk to her, if not its GG no re | ||
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Cedstick
Canada3336 Posts
On October 18 2011 17:40 Lorken wrote: So wait, how do you go up to and talk with/whatever some random girl you don't even know? (like some guy who recommended a grocery store) I'll be honest, I've only tried the grocery store once -- I think it's harder because it's a very public place, so you're less likely to want to fail and embarrass yourself. I couldn't think of any good thing to use as an approach, so I just walked up kind of rigidly out of the corner of her eye with a goofy, awkward, almost-smiling look on my face and said, "I see you are in the tea isle. I am also in the tea isle. Hi, my name is Cedric." Though that might not work for everyone -- I get away with the goof thing a lot. But, shit, worth a try I say :D You can always try again if it fails -- we all fail at some point, so don't be afraid of it. Unless, of course, you have a better approach, which I'd probably suggest XD | ||
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Canada505 Posts
On October 18 2011 19:49 Cedstick wrote: I'll be honest, I've only tried the grocery store once -- I think it's harder because it's a very public place, so you're less likely to want to fail and embarrass yourself. I couldn't think of any good thing to use as an approach, so I just walked up kind of rigidly out of the corner of her eye with a goofy, awkward, almost-smiling look on my face and said, "I see you are in the tea isle. I am also in the tea isle. Hi, my name is Cedric." Though that might not work for everyone -- I get away with the goof thing a lot. But, shit, worth a try I say :D You can always try again if it fails -- we all fail at some point, so don't be afraid of it. Unless, of course, you have a better approach, which I'd probably suggest XD Don't leave us hanging, man. What did the tea isle girl say!? | ||
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Zorkmid
4410 Posts
On October 18 2011 22:19 Back wrote: Don't leave us hanging, man. What did the tea isle girl say!? "Not for all the tea in China?" | ||
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SgtDK
United States54 Posts
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Thebbeuttiffulland
Brazil288 Posts
On October 18 2011 08:57 Believersoul wrote: I don't know, but im a christain guy and I just think christain girls, or girls who atleast aren't athiest have a good understanding of respect, because majority of the time christain parents teach their kids to be.. well respectful and not rude and stuck up but still sometimes that doesn't even matter. Girls your age should be more mature if you find one.. But at 14 lets give it some tension as your both trying to figure out who you are and what you want to do, and really only looking for physical love.. But! You know there's alot of fish in the sea, just don't be shy and be out going and the time will come i think religion in these things shouldnt matter at all  | ||
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Geosensation
United States256 Posts
On October 19 2011 01:59 SgtDK wrote: Some of these posts are depressing. A lot of hurt guys in here. How can you be happy if you have never known sadness? | ||
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BouBou.865
Netherlands814 Posts
On October 19 2011 02:06 Geosensation wrote: How can you be happy if you have never known sadness? I think you know how can you know you're happy when you've never known sadness. Also my love life is fucking awesome, got my first girlfriend within the first week of university, been together for over a month now. Figured I'd cheer this place up a bit. | ||
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FlamingForce
Netherlands701 Posts
On October 12 2011 11:07 lololol wrote: I despise people, too. We should hang out. :'D | ||
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MaestrO_
United States591 Posts
On October 19 2011 02:06 Geosensation wrote: How can you be happy if you have never known sadness? woah, thats deep | ||
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Trentelshark
Canada385 Posts
On October 18 2011 17:40 Lorken wrote: So wait, how do you go up to and talk with/whatever some random girl you don't even know? (like some guy who recommended a grocery store) I just be nice to chicks I know/like and hope they think I'm cool too. I'm quite happy being single though, it would just be convenient to have a girlfriend. That's actually a good attitude to have, you're not going out of your way (and trying too hard which women pick up a mile away) and not saying forget it all together . | ||
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Dawski
Canada435 Posts
On October 19 2011 04:11 Trentelshark wrote: That's actually a good attitude to have, you're not going out of your way (and trying too hard which women pick up a mile away) and not saying forget it all together .Problem being that's a recipe for being friend-zoned by every girl you like. You do actually have to try | ||
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