EPTUnfortunately it's not from choice ;__________;
Sex = OP in society? - Page 6
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Deadlyhazard
United States1177 Posts
Unfortunately it's not from choice ;__________; | ||
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Alejandrisha
United States6566 Posts
On July 22 2011 12:36 pedrotrv wrote: Not having sex defines you as a failure as a male of your species. We can't fight biology. I don't think valuation is that subjective in this topic, because we are born to do it, and we all want to do it. This is my view. I don't defend that pussy should be pursued before everything else, but it's pretty important stuff for a guy. --- This topic is kinda meh. I defend masculinism (anti-feminism) points of view and all I can see here are a lot of opinions that make me sad. C'mon guys, we are men, natural born hunters!! This is actually wrong. Don't feed bullshit and try to make the OP feel like an idiot. Sex in humans is different than sex as we observe it from an evolutionary standpoint. Why? culture. Do species we observe in nature have religion? Is it legally/morally wrong for a x year old panda to have sex with a y year old panda? No. The sex he is talking about is not necessarily to procreate. If a tortoise has sex with another tortoise but pulls out, or uses a condom, and fails to reproduce and then dies, then he has 'failed' to create grandchildren and is a failure by an evolutionary standpoint. These sexual "conquests" of losing virginity at a certain age in neither here nor there. You think a 14 year old that has sex and gets the girl pregnant is proud of his accomplishment and revered by everyone in his community because he has successfully procreated? No. Sex is, almost inexclusively, part of the life of every human's life and his or her access to it is not a function of his evolutionary success. | ||
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sealpuncher
United States130 Posts
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Power Overwhelming
46 Posts
On the other hand, the topic might have some merit if written with more insight. My advice, take it easy kid, just wing it. | ||
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Alpino
Brazil4390 Posts
I'm one of those people who think that teenagers NOT having sex is a grave, grave mistake, i just get so angry(with both involved) when I see a boy who says "oh she won't let me have sex with her..but it's okay..", two young people should do what their best at, and what they'll enjoy the most. It is something you'll do for the rest of your life, there is no difference when you start doing it.(given that the other person is not a much older person taking advantage of you ofc). The only problem is when people make sex more than it is. Make it value more than it does. In the end it is just two bodies going at each other, for their own selfish pleasure. Rejoice on that. It is when we are most close to our animal side we reliquish everyday. And that to me, is true enlightenment(not exactly sex, but when you are in touch with your inner being, the one centuries of evolution molded, not society's culture) . I'm not even begin to talk about religion and sex because the shitstorm will get effin heavy(I stopped believing in god when I was 11). (sorry for bad english.) | ||
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Alejandrisha
United States6566 Posts
On July 22 2011 12:46 Alpino wrote: The only problem is when people make sex more than it is. Make it value more than it does. In the end it is just two bodies going at each other, for their own selfish pleasure. Rejoice on that. It is when we are most close to our animal side we reliquish everyday. And that to me, is true enlightenment(not exactly sex, but when you are in touch with your inner being, the one centuries of evolution molded, not society's culture) . (sorry for bad english.) I'll drink to that  | ||
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phyre112
United States3090 Posts
On July 22 2011 12:21 NotJack wrote: A lottttttt of denial in this thread. Nothing wrong with being a virgin; I won't hate on you and I feel bad that you have to put up with so many idiots out there, but they're idiots for judging you like that, not for being socially and sexually active. Personally, I'm a 20 year old virgin. I'm not your typical awkward basement-dwelling videogame nerd; I work a decent job, go out to parties all the time, have a large circle of friends, do well in school, work out, etc. etc. In all respects, I am an average or better, pretty cool guy. Hell, I've had a couple girls approach me about a relationship, what seems to me to be completely out of left field. Thing is, I just don't give a fuck. Sure, I'm religious. Sure, I'm a guy, and I know sex is supposed to be really awesome. But it is never something that has been a sticking point in my mind, it has never been a goal or a focus of mine. I don't go out looking to get laid. I don't talk to a girl expecting anything other than a fun conversation. Sure... if I worked for it, I could probably have sex.... but really, I don't care. And if I don't think it's a big deal, who's to say that it is? | ||
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YouGotNothin
United States907 Posts
Also be happy that while you're a virgin you don't have to worry about having unwanted kids or STD's. | ||
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lorkac
United States2297 Posts
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Loser777
1931 Posts
Personally I think 21 years old is a bit too early to be worrying about being a virgin O_o. It's more of a nominal accomplishment than anything else. | ||
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THE_DOMINATOR
United States309 Posts
 Yea, you feel a lot of pressure on you when you're a virgin. I got laid just so I could get over it, which led to a chain of events that got me a wonderful girlfriend. Point is, it's going to bother you until you stop giving a fuck and you screw the first chick you meet. The first time will be the worst and probably really awkward but after that it's great fun and the best stress relief out there. Go live life. | ||
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super_toast
United States269 Posts
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Twistacles
Canada1327 Posts
re a beta, meaning you're lesser. Honestly, though, any smart person can read up on the female psychology and become an 'alpha' with a bit of effort. Truth is, though, is that it is as awesome as people say. | ||
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katzby
United States110 Posts
As for me, there's so many things that could happen that prevent me from continuing the 'opportunities' I get. What if I get pregnant, what if I get STDs, what if this guy wants something more than a fling, and the perennial what if I just want to have sex because I'm stupidly drunk. But then again it all boils down to personal choice. Choosing to have sex is a personal part of peoples' lives and their own choices should be respected. | ||
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Zerksys
United States569 Posts
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NotJack
United States737 Posts
On July 22 2011 12:49 phyre112 wrote: Personally, I'm a 20 year old virgin. I'm not your typical awkward basement-dwelling videogame nerd; I work a decent job, go out to parties all the time, have a large circle of friends, do well in school, work out, etc. etc. In all respects, I am an average or better, pretty cool guy. Hell, I've had a couple girls approach me about a relationship, what seems to me to be completely out of left field. Thing is, I just don't give a fuck. Sure, I'm religious. Sure, I'm a guy, and I know sex is supposed to be really awesome. But it is never something that has been a sticking point in my mind, it has never been a goal or a focus of mine. I don't go out looking to get laid. I don't talk to a girl expecting anything other than a fun conversation. Sure... if I worked for it, I could probably have sex.... but really, I don't care. And if I don't think it's a big deal, who's to say that it is? Not giving a fuck isn't a good point. Either you're just saying stuff to feel better, or you're making a useless point. If you're a socially capable person that just doesn't care about it, you shouldn't be in this conversation. Personally I'm about to be a junior in college and my goal for this year is to meet someone I have a real relationship with. Not a one night stand or mindless frat rat, but someone I actually care about. That said, I wouldn't change the last two years for anything. | ||
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Alejandrisha
United States6566 Posts
On July 22 2011 12:49 phyre112 wrote: Personally, I'm a 20 year old virgin. I'm not your typical awkward basement-dwelling videogame nerd; I work a decent job, go out to parties all the time, have a large circle of friends, do well in school, work out, etc. etc. In all respects, I am an average or better, pretty cool guy. Hell, I've had a couple girls approach me about a relationship, what seems to me to be completely out of left field. Thing is, I just don't give a fuck. Sure, I'm religious. Sure, I'm a guy, and I know sex is supposed to be really awesome. But it is never something that has been a sticking point in my mind, it has never been a goal or a focus of mine. I don't go out looking to get laid. I don't talk to a girl expecting anything other than a fun conversation. Sure... if I worked for it, I could probably have sex.... but really, I don't care. And if I don't think it's a big deal, who's to say that it is? Do we look like ants from up there? | ||
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GloomyBeaR
United States77 Posts
You can take solace in the fact that anyone who gives you shit for being a virgin is either a closet virgin themselves or doesn't actually like/appreciate sex and sees it as another social obligation/bragging right, or something equally horrid. I honestly think you have the right mindset and have nothing to worry about in life. | ||
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LaSt)ChAnCe
United States2179 Posts
On July 22 2011 11:55 MrMotionPicture wrote: To be honest, I do not see how sex should essentially be the focal point of a relationship. There are many more aspects than that, and it really shouldn't have to be necessary. sex is the entire point of a relationship (in the sense of relationships we are talking about) men and women are attracted to each other for reproductive reasons, that reproduction requires sex (let's not split hairs and talk about artificial insemination, etc) | ||
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Perseverance
Japan2800 Posts
Sex is great Sex is awesome Sex is wonderful Society doesn't place too much value in sex, sex is just awesome and society understands that. Go buy a hooker and come back to us. | ||
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