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On September 07 2011 10:27 DiaBoLuS wrote: yes.
society is mainly run by "aggressive" woman and men, therefore sex plays the main role.
intellectual people acutally give sex a huge role into mankind, but not EVERYTHING.
i concider myself as an intellecutal, therefore, i concider SC2 as the only thing that matters in my life.
What if they shut down SC2 server?!?!?! That would suck.
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On September 07 2011 07:57 NewbieOne wrote: I am 28 and never had sex, even though I've been in love a couple of times and certainly am not immune to a beautiful girl. But I actually am a religious person (Catholic) and such are my values. This isn't going to change, obviously, with the exception of getting married, which I'd very much love to do if I were to meet the right person, and I'm sure I'd enjoy every part of it. Otherwise I'd rather at least be unhappily single than unhappily married. I would say you're doing well if you don't just go and lose your "virginity" (strictly speaking "virgin" is a feminine word) for the sake of it, which is among the dumbest reasons of all. I wish you a very fulfilling, normal, rewarding family life with a caring and faithful wife.
Sex is overrated, it is generally a marketing tool these days. In a certain sense advertisers want us to dig it because then they don't have to be creative or anything, it's enough to supply some sexual stimulus and the product will be selling. The same goes for the film industry. I'm probably exaggerating a bit but still not far from how it is, I guess. And frankly, as much as I love looking at attractive girls, I wish more dignified outfits were the norm, in which case you could just talk like normal human beings and appreciate each other's personality instead of bedroom value.
For the record, I'm not a guy who "couldn't get it". I've had it offered to me and refused. I'm not saying this to show off but to show an example that this is viable.
Yeah but if you're dumb enough to be a Catholic and follow a dirty old man like the Pope why would anyone value your judgment on sex?
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[QUOTE]On September 07 2011 10:30 Xiphos wrote: [QUOTE]On September 07 2011 10:27 DiaBoLuS wrote: yes.
society is mainly run by "aggressive" woman and men, therefore sex plays the main role.
intellectual people acutally give sex a huge role into mankind, but not EVERYTHING.
i concider myself as an intellecutal, therefore, i concider SC2 as the only thing that matters in my life.[/QUOTE]
What if they shut down SC2 server?!?!?! That would suck. [/QUOTE
Diablo 3 will come soon. Wc3 and D2 in the meanwhile. prolly Blobby Volley. NP.
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On September 07 2011 10:46 DiaBoLuS wrote:Show nested quote +On September 07 2011 10:30 Xiphos wrote:On September 07 2011 10:27 DiaBoLuS wrote: yes.
society is mainly run by "aggressive" woman and men, therefore sex plays the main role.
intellectual people acutally give sex a huge role into mankind, but not EVERYTHING.
i concider myself as an intellecutal, therefore, i concider SC2 as the only thing that matters in my life. What if they shut down SC2 server?!?!?! That would suck. Diablo 3 will come soon. Wc3 and D2 in the meanwhile. prolly Blobby Volley. NP.
Fixed your quotes thingy! lol
I doubt taht D3 > SC2 though lol
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On September 07 2011 09:16 Vul wrote:Show nested quote +On September 07 2011 09:13 NaEjeOn88 wrote: Sex isnt op in society, its op IN OUR BRAINS. Many studies of the human brain show the power of sex on many actions we make not only on an everyday basis but as an entire life plan. I agree, but I don't even think its OP. Without sex you don't have kids and without kids you have extinction. Its as powerful as it should be, given the obvious. I think we forget that people are literally animals and it has implications lol. We can't decide not to care about sex
Yes i strongly agree, sex is there to remind us how much of animals we really are. Usuaully people dont understand or recognize how much of animals we really are. It can amaze a person as to how many things we choose to do in life which actually is because of sex and survival instincts. Humans are what is known as the "selfish gene". This is a very good book which displays the reality of the human psyche. ( http://www.amazon.com/Selfish-Gene-Anniversary----Introduction/dp/0199291152/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1315360725&sr=1-1)
We are naturally selfish animals and we cannot not be selfish because it is the way we are made. When someone tells another "your not having sex? damn your lame". They are subconsciously being controlled by their animalistic brain to say these things SELFISHLY and SUBCONSCIOUSLY thinking about the human races survival as a whole, for the future and presence of the human race. If you ask them why they think its cool to have sex they will just say cuase it feels good it pleasures the mind. The mind is built to feel pleasure everytime it has an increase in survival. When you eat food it feels good, when you work out and heal it feels good etc. The human body is control of how we are who we are in ways we dont understand. Some people will say sex is just "the cool thing", not being able to understand the true reasons besides the fact that everyones doing it.
Btw I reccommend reading that book. Knowing reality behind these forces can change your life
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On September 07 2011 10:34 Black Man wrote:Show nested quote +On September 07 2011 07:57 NewbieOne wrote: I am 28 and never had sex, even though I've been in love a couple of times and certainly am not immune to a beautiful girl. But I actually am a religious person (Catholic) and such are my values. This isn't going to change, obviously, with the exception of getting married, which I'd very much love to do if I were to meet the right person, and I'm sure I'd enjoy every part of it. Otherwise I'd rather at least be unhappily single than unhappily married. I would say you're doing well if you don't just go and lose your "virginity" (strictly speaking "virgin" is a feminine word) for the sake of it, which is among the dumbest reasons of all. I wish you a very fulfilling, normal, rewarding family life with a caring and faithful wife.
Sex is overrated, it is generally a marketing tool these days. In a certain sense advertisers want us to dig it because then they don't have to be creative or anything, it's enough to supply some sexual stimulus and the product will be selling. The same goes for the film industry. I'm probably exaggerating a bit but still not far from how it is, I guess. And frankly, as much as I love looking at attractive girls, I wish more dignified outfits were the norm, in which case you could just talk like normal human beings and appreciate each other's personality instead of bedroom value.
For the record, I'm not a guy who "couldn't get it". I've had it offered to me and refused. I'm not saying this to show off but to show an example that this is viable. Yeah but if you're dumb enough to be a Catholic and follow a dirty old man like the Pope why would anyone value your judgment on sex?
If you're dumb enough to enjoy slinging mud why would anybody value your judgement on a religion?
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On August 31 2011 11:08 Endymion wrote:Show nested quote +On August 31 2011 11:04 submit wrote:
(btw, if you can't fck pussy... fck asshole, LOL) this made me laugh for some reason, no idea why. OP I feel like if you don't have sex with someone you like the first time you'll feel like a douche, so don't lose it on some random slut. Get a pretty girl, court her, then do her, and you're good to go.
Yeah I agree. I didn't lose my virginity until I was 20 in Korea. The girl stopped me because she said I should be having sex with someone I really care about for the first time. (AKA FAIL) I remember I was "ALMOST" about to lose my virginity to this really hot Korean chick with nice T&A and then I got all nervous and told her "I'm new to this" because I was trying to stick it in the Ulralisk Den but I kept missing the hole. I'm not ashamed to admit how nervous I was the first time I did it. Now I'm 24 and sex to me is like breathing air or walking.
On September 01 2011 13:04 Diizzy wrote: get a girlfriend. then its almost impossible to not have sex.
That's not exactly true. It depends on the girl...
My 2nd GF was a nymph, she wanted sex at least twice a day every day. My current GF never wants sex. I have to ask her and even then it's rare because she'll make excuses or say she doesn't feel like it. (Took over 2 months to do it the first time together)
The last time we did it though... it was GLORIOUS. hahaha you know it's good when you can't hold it in and you're trying to tell her to slow down, but it's too late. That kind of good
I remember though one time my EX gf had me in happy tears because it was so good. *good times good times*
True story: Once I had the Terran Brood War theme song playing in my head the whole time I was having sex with my EX Korean girlfriend that introduced me to Starcraft. It was pretty awkward because I couldn't get the song out of my head.
Also I remember the 2nd time I had sex ever I was pretty bored for some reason... I just stared at the wall as it went on *shrugs* I guess it just depends on the situation and person.
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On September 07 2011 18:07 Silentness wrote: I was trying to stick it in the Ulralisk Den but I kept missing
]Once I had the Terran Brood War theme song playing in my head the whole time I was having sex with my EX Korean girlfriend that introduced me to Starcraft. It was pretty awkward because I couldn't get the song out of my head. lol
At least you didn't call it a defilers mound.
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Casual sex is overrated. Unless you are a sex addict, committed relationship sex is the best thing in life
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On September 08 2011 00:51 nukeazerg wrote: Casual sex is overrated. Unless you are a sex addict, committed relationship sex is the best thing in life
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In my opinion, sex is more of a beneficial aspect of a relationship than anything else, so it would be meaningless if it's not with someone you really care about. I know this from experience, having been with 3 women and only actually having a meaningful relationship with two of them.
First there was my high school girlfriend that I dated from the end of 10th grade until the end of my freshman year of college (we ended up splitting up since we went to different colleges across the US, and it was too hard to make it work after that long). After that I was extremely depressed so that summer I took up drinking and SC2 (lol) Then early in my sophomore year at college, I got really drunk and me and one of my semi-close girl friends ended up making out. And since I was pretty depressed and stuff I really just didn't care about her and I went on to fooling around with her on a regular basis over the next few months. She was a pretty cool person, but I still wasn't ready for another relationship (and she was extremely religious, while I am an adamant atheist). So after trying to have a relationship with her and it failed miserably, I just focused on school and SC2 for a while. Then late spring semester sophomore year I started dating the girl I'm currently with now, and we probably have sex on average once every two days or so, which is great because we really care for each other, etc..
Basically, the bottom line is: Sex with people you don't truly care about leaves you feeling empty, while it is amazing between two people who love each other.
Don't feel like you should have to have sex because society wants you to or because you're in your 20s and still a virgin. That doesn't matter at all, and you should just wait until you find someone you really care about.
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On September 08 2011 01:35 MaFFGeeK wrote: Basically, the bottom line is: Sex with people you don't truly care about leaves you feeling empty, while it is amazing between two people who love each other.
This has more to do with a persons mentality. You obviously are more relationship minded and actively seek them out as evidenced by the second girl you used as a rebound.
You get out of sex what you put into it. Don't go having casual sex expecting romantic fulfillment you would get from an actual relationship because you set yourself up to be emotionally let down.
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On September 08 2011 01:54 couches wrote:Show nested quote +On September 08 2011 01:35 MaFFGeeK wrote: Basically, the bottom line is: Sex with people you don't truly care about leaves you feeling empty, while it is amazing between two people who love each other.
This has more to do with a persons mentality. You obviously are more relationship minded and actively seek them out as evidenced by the second girl you used as a rebound. You get out of sex what you put into it. Don't go having casual sex expecting romantic fulfillment you would get from an actual relationship because you set yourself up to be emotionally let down.
This man knows his stuff. This actually solved the problem I am having. I am looking at things differently while the peers wants me to do something else so I could act "cool" and not a "loser". In the end, its really adapt or stick to what you want. If YOU don't want to do a certain act, they really can't force can't they? lol
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I don't know my stuff I just know from experience.
Casual sex is fun and shouldn't be looked at as more than that. Fun between two people. If you say it's meaningless it's because you expected something more from something that never could have provided what you expected in the first place.
Meaningful romantic sex is satisfying different desires.
It's all in what you are after. Get your priorities straight, stay true to what you really want, and it's all good.
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