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On July 22 2011 11:42 ClysmiC wrote:I've always had the following view on sex: Save it till you meet your wife and it will be a million times more satisfying than it would be just hooking up with some random girls. Show nested quote +The only other option is you are super religious and haven't ever seen a beautiful women Or he has been tempted just like everyone else, but has the self-control to make the smarter choice.
You will also have terrible sex with your wife and never know if you're really sexually compatible. Humans aren't meant to be monogamous from birth to death - it will still be much more satisfying than hooking up with random girls. The difference is that it will be satisfying for her too.
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or simply are insecure???
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sex is awesome. maybe if you have only had sex when you are fucked up or never at all you might think it's not great but you are wrong. having a long term partner will lead to better and more meaningful sex, at least until you stop liking them or whatever. too many people here with what seems like very little experience are knocking sex and that's just plain wrong.
Sex has many benefits besides just feeling good, so without it you are completely missing out. Gratifying in more than 1 way. I would also dare to say that it's a better idea to have only 1 partner to avoid diseases and waking up to someone ugly looking...
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Sorry, but people who talk about sex are shallow?
LOL, some of the posts in this thread are a bit silly.
Sex is important for our race in case you hadn't realised. The more you keep it repressed the more the people who come from these backgrounds struggle when they experience it and many develop tastes that in some way punish them as they feel they are doing something bad or else never truely get to enjoy it fully.
To the guy who wrote the OP. You will only know the answer once you have it as a part of your life.
There is no rush to do it, its not a race, I lost my virginity at 15 and had friends who lost theirs at 28 everyones healthy and happy so when its meant to be its meant to be. But dont for one minute surpress your urges to have it unless that goes against your belief system, its the most natural, ingrained instinct that your body has, along with eating, breathing fight or flight etc.
Dont beat yourself up about it, go out and enjoy yourself and it will happen.
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United Arab Emirates1141 Posts
Hilarious thread with all the replies.
Seeing as OP is not a devout Christian, this is my suggestion to you:
Sex is awesome. God made sex so that Man and Woman could enjoy and join together in a passionate activity that is a very very intimate expression of their love for each other. It is awesome. Yet - God created it such that if you have sex with someone, you will have joined your bodies together. Meaning that you will be one body. You will share thoughts, attributes and become "one". Anyone with a brain can see the implications of this: that if you have sex with multiple partners, then you are going to be joined to several people and this is when things go wrong.... the intimate trust, the love and the original purpose of sex is misused leading to disaster.
That said - if you don't believe in God, why care? Just screw anything that is Hot / moves. After all, having an orgasm is pretty awesome right?
Or
lying in bed 10+ years into the future when current TL-ers (avg age of posters = 20yrs) are married, and thinking that: My wife's vagina has been pounded over and over and over by several different guys, some whom I actually know. No you don't have to think about it, but it's true and it's not awesome.
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On July 22 2011 21:40 JesusOurSaviour wrote:
Hilarious thread with all the replies.
Seeing as OP is not a devout Christian, this is my suggestion to you:
Sex is awesome. God made sex so that Man and Woman could enjoy and join together in a passionate activity that is a very very intimate expression of their love for each other. It is awesome. Yet - God created it such that if you have sex with someone, you will have joined your bodies together. Meaning that you will be one body. You will share thoughts, attributes and become "one". Anyone with a brain can see the implications of this: that if you have sex with multiple partners, then you are going to be joined to several people and this is when things go wrong.... the intimate trust, the love and the original purpose of sex is misused leading to disaster.
That said - if you don't believe in God, why care? Just screw anything that is Hot / moves. After all, having an orgasm is pretty awesome right?
Or
lying in bed 10+ years into the future when current TL-ers (avg age of posters = 20yrs) are married, and thinking that: My wife's vagina has been pounded over and over and over by several different guys, some whom I actually know. No you don't have to think about it, but it's true and it's not awesome.
A Christian on TL??? Not particularly religious here but he's totally right
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Nerds are, sometimes, socially awkward, not that big of a deal ....
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United States1655 Posts
On July 22 2011 21:33 lolsixtynine wrote:Show nested quote +On July 22 2011 11:42 ClysmiC wrote:I've always had the following view on sex: Save it till you meet your wife and it will be a million times more satisfying than it would be just hooking up with some random girls. The only other option is you are super religious and haven't ever seen a beautiful women Or he has been tempted just like everyone else, but has the self-control to make the smarter choice. You will also have terrible sex with your wife and never know if you're really sexually compatible. Humans aren't meant to be monogamous from birth to death - it will still be much more satisfying than hooking up with random girls. The difference is that it will be satisfying for her too.
Says who. Is there some good reason why they shouldn't? You haven't said a reason, except maybe "you'll be less experienced"
So I guess I will just have to fuck my wife a lot to get good? I don't think you have to wait, but I don't think there is anything wrong with two people holding out for each other. Kinda romantic ironically.
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Without Sex the human race would die out in one generation.
So yeah, it's pretty balanced.
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Sex is amazing. You are very much missing out if you aren't getting it on for some sort of "moral code"
Go get a girlfriend, and get it on. Or find some random woman and get it on. There is no reason to wait any further once you are out of school.
If you don't find sex satisfying, than the person you are with is horrible. Train them to be awesome or move on.
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I have sex for fun since I was 12 (had a curious cousin lol) and I can assure you that any guy that has had a lot of sex in his life won't marry any girl, specially one pounded by a lot of guys. That happens with the guys that did not have a good amount of sex and will be in love with the first girl that shows good perfomance.
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The way I see it is, it's your life live it how you want to who gives a shit what other people think. If someone says your a loser or they think there better than you because of it just laugh and remind yourself that your not the one who has to insult people over petty things just to make yourself happy.
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Let it be man. It's OK.
If our personalities can be as different as we are, then so can our sex. Some people enjoy getting shit in their mouth during sex, some people wait until they get married. Just let it be.
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Society shouldnt tell you who you are.... your not a loser... And you are not gay for looking a special way... there is alot of stuff like that and all of it is wrong... You are who you are... your not what the society tells you who u are......
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Charlie Sheens House51490 Posts
The lesser person thing for being a virgin is very "school boy" no? just another thing to rip people on in school, being what 21? you shouldnt even have mates that immature no more ? In school it was funny after school well it doesn't become a topic, of course you discuss fit women with your mates or yeh wouldnt mind her kind of comments, but you dont really ask your mate over a pint, so bro whens last time you had sex.....or so when you going to pop ur cherry bro. Becomes irrelevant with age, ones life is theres not anyone elses'
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Well... yes.
Sex is overrated.
That is why there isn't as much sex as there should be. Because our expectations are so high regarding what it "should be" both in terms of performance or meaning that we dismiss fucking just for the fuck of it  .
Lets fuck more!
If there were more women in TL, id propose a TL orgy right now.
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Only the 12-17year old demographic is where anyone will ridicule you for not getting some, but that's because it's 'fun' at that age...anyone older than this that does the same is just not very intelligent or open-minded.
I'm 18 and don't get me wrong, in my friend circle we always give someone an up-top for getting it in a a humorous fashion but we also have virgins who don't get laughed at or anything even said, if they don't bring it up we don't ask and everyone is cool with it and it doesn't even enter our minds to say anything about it. If they're talking to a girl or something we'll say like "oh you are definitely tapping dat!" and have the same banter with them...
Interesting point though - my girl friend (who has an active sex life) says she thinks so much of virgins at her age (18) and if there were two twins in a bar and one was a virgin, she would pick the virgin every time and all of her friends say the same...
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I'm surprised no one has brought up the race issue yet lol.
If you're Asian and you've already had sex when you're less than 21 years old, I'm sure your parents will beat the shit out of you. Also, Asian parents are also pretty protective of their children. Plus, it's not the "norm" for Asians to be having sex nor making babies at age of 18 like Americans/Hispanics.Actually, you'll be looked down upon even from your friends for being sluts.
But to the OP, why does it matter if you don't care right? If you don't care, who gives a shit whether you're a virgin or not?
Edit: I just saw someone's post about most people with brains are still virgins at 20+ and saving it for the special girl. I totally agree. Educated people know enough from studies (jacking off *cough*) that first time won't be good anyway. Might as well save it for someone special. And if you're justifying yourself that "Oh I did it with some girl so I can be good for that special one." That's the most retarded shit. With a special one, you don't have to do anything really. Everything with that one will be perfect.
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Sex feels absolutely amazing but its kind of short-term and sometimes leaves you feeling empty afterwards. It's like eating candy, there's no real nutritional value there. There's a Weezer song called 'Tired of Sex' about how boring even something as exciting as sex can become when it becomes mundane. What's truly rare is finding someone who you can *make love to* and really mean it.
Honestly it is much more impressive to get into Grandmaster's than to have a lot of sex. Women just take up too much of my Starcraft time XD
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On July 22 2011 11:44 Inkcrow wrote:
You don't need sex to be happy,
You don't need sex to be confident
You don't need sex to be healthy
And you don't need sex to be fulfilled
but it helps all of them (in most cases)
Pretty much this.
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