Sex = OP in society? - Page 13

On July 22 2011 18:51 Zapdos_Smithh wrote:
Considering the main goal of human life is to reproduce (in terms of biology), it should be pretty obvious why sex is so important in society.

On July 22 2011 18:45 valaki wrote:
Just relevant:

You probably saw the movie The 40 Year Old Virgin and thought it was hilarious how that man lived with his nerdy lifestyle and sexless life. It was a movie about that guy's rise from the decadent, boring life into an exciting, sex filled and normal life, right? Wrong. Think about it. The titular 40 year old virgin started his day with a little exercise, made his breakfast and rode his bike to work. When he got to work we saw that he didn't have the best job in the world, and probably not the best pay either, but he liked it, he liked his job, and had enough money to buy everything he wanted. After work, he rode his bike home, greeted his friendly neighbors and spent his night playing video games, watching movies, painting figures, and building models, in other words, he did whatever the fuck he wanted.

Now this is where it gets tricky, he went out with his co-workers and let slip the fact that he was a virgin. They immediately start making fun of him, which makes him feel bad about his virginity. Remember, he never once felt bad about it, he was living a happy existence, peer pressure was the only reason why he even thought about it.
Suddenly he is going to nightclubs, he's drinking, talking to women and does he feel happy about it? No, he feels awkward, but he can't stay a virgin right?
After a few failed attempts, he finally meets a women that seems to like him and gives him her number. They go out a few times and eventually she's ready to have sex but oops, her teenage daughter walks in on them. This is an important part, because now you realize that this women has 2 children, a teenage girl and a young boy. Suddenly, the poor 40 year old virgin finds that he has to take care of 2 obnoxious kids, but that's not enough. The women finally sees the virgin's apartment, and marvels at his action figures. She immediately says "Hey, let's sell this kiddy shit.", the virgin doesn't want to sell it, he likes having all that shit, but is pressured by the women anyway. Because HER little store is going to sell the toys, it means more profit for her. Remember, this women is supposed to be miss right, the nice, mature women that you should marry. The guy finally snaps because he realizes how much his life has changed, but it's too late now. After a couple of shenanigans he asks her to marry him and he eventually has sex.

In conclusion, the poor bastard left his happy carefree life and is left with a women who doesn't like his nerdy shit and two kids who aren't his but he has to raise anyway. His free time his gone, his money his gone, his toys are gone and his independence is gone, but that's ok, at least he had sex.

And that's why I don't have a girlfriend, because to me, the 40 year old virgin is a tale of a man who descended into darkness.

On July 22 2011 19:04 Khenra wrote:


Ok, the point you have made is:
- In one specific movie, some guy was a virgin and was unhappy once he tried to have sex.

And that is the reason you don't have a girlfriend? I feel bad for you.

First of all, there are plenty of people in happy relationships. They don't change the way they are in order for their partner to like them. If my girlfriend would tell me to stop playing games, that's when the relationship ends.

Furthermore, sex is great. You can have sex without being a relationship, so yeah, you can have sex without "descending into darkness".

On July 22 2011 18:45 valaki wrote:
Just relevant:

You probably saw the movie The 40 Year Old Virgin and thought it was hilarious how that man lived with his nerdy lifestyle and sexless life. It was a movie about that guy's rise from the decadent, boring life into an exciting, sex filled and normal life, right? Wrong. Think about it. The titular 40 year old virgin started his day with a little exercise, made his breakfast and rode his bike to work. When he got to work we saw that he didn't have the best job in the world, and probably not the best pay either, but he liked it, he liked his job, and had enough money to buy everything he wanted. After work, he rode his bike home, greeted his friendly neighbors and spent his night playing video games, watching movies, painting figures, and building models, in other words, he did whatever the fuck he wanted.

Now this is where it gets tricky, he went out with his co-workers and let slip the fact that he was a virgin. They immediately start making fun of him, which makes him feel bad about his virginity. Remember, he never once felt bad about it, he was living a happy existence, peer pressure was the only reason why he even thought about it.
Suddenly he is going to nightclubs, he's drinking, talking to women and does he feel happy about it? No, he feels awkward, but he can't stay a virgin right?
After a few failed attempts, he finally meets a women that seems to like him and gives him her number. They go out a few times and eventually she's ready to have sex but oops, her teenage daughter walks in on them. This is an important part, because now you realize that this women has 2 children, a teenage girl and a young boy. Suddenly, the poor 40 year old virgin finds that he has to take care of 2 obnoxious kids, but that's not enough. The women finally sees the virgin's apartment, and marvels at his action figures. She immediately says "Hey, let's sell this kiddy shit.", the virgin doesn't want to sell it, he likes having all that shit, but is pressured by the women anyway. Because HER little store is going to sell the toys, it means more profit for her. Remember, this women is supposed to be miss right, the nice, mature women that you should marry. The guy finally snaps because he realizes how much his life has changed, but it's too late now. After a couple of shenanigans he asks her to marry him and he eventually has sex.

In conclusion, the poor bastard left his happy carefree life and is left with a women who doesn't like his nerdy shit and two kids who aren't his but he has to raise anyway. His free time his gone, his money his gone, his toys are gone and his independence is gone, but that's ok, at least he had sex.

And that's why I don't have a girlfriend, because to me, the 40 year old virgin is a tale of a man who descended into darkness.

On July 22 2011 18:48 Silentness wrote:
I just now realized this thread makes me think about my relationship with my fiancée. Towards the beginning of our relationship she finally asked me an awkward question in my opinion, it was either "when was your first time or how many partners have you had sex with."

I just looked at her like wtf... she told me she wouldn't get mad at me if I answered, but I didn't answer her. She didn't tell me either so we are both left in the dark about each other's sexual past.

I mean we both talked some stuff about past relationships, but we never talked about sexual stuff. I guess it felt taboo? *scratches head* I know my ex GF straight up told me virgins don't exist in Seoul when we were together. (I had asked her if she was a virgin haha. )

Honestly though I love sex. Sometimes I miss my 2nd ex GF... my God she was a nymph. She literally wanted sex at least 2 times a day... EVERY DAY the week! My fiancée was shy the first time I finally asked her after like 2 months of waiting for that "timing attack" . I gave up waiting for that moment and just finally told her I wanted to bang. She got all offended saying she's not a prostitute and I was like "Wtf Sex isnt' that evil we been together a good 2 months I just want some sex!"


It really depends on the person. Most of the girls I've been with loved sex. My current relationship I don't think she enjoys sex. I think she just does it mainly because I want it which kind of makes me feel awkward like it's a chore for her or something.

/end long rant >,<

On July 22 2011 19:14 valaki wrote:


Nah, I didn't write this. But this is relevant to the whole "pressure to have sex or you become a loser thing", and since he was 40, sex meant a relationship too. Of course sex is really good but you CAN live without it.

On July 22 2011 18:48 Silentness wrote:
I just now realized this thread makes me think about my relationship with my fiancée. Towards the beginning of our relationship she finally asked me an awkward question in my opinion, it was either "when was your first time or how many partners have you had sex with."

I just looked at her like wtf... she told me she wouldn't get mad at me if I answered, but I didn't answer her. She didn't tell me either so we are both left in the dark about each other's sexual past.

On July 22 2011 18:45 valaki wrote:
Just relevant:

You probably saw the movie The 40 Year Old Virgin and thought it was hilarious how that man lived with his nerdy lifestyle and sexless life. It was a movie about that guy's rise from the decadent, boring life into an exciting, sex filled and normal life, right? Wrong. Think about it. The titular 40 year old virgin started his day with a little exercise, made his breakfast and rode his bike to work. When he got to work we saw that he didn't have the best job in the world, and probably not the best pay either, but he liked it, he liked his job, and had enough money to buy everything he wanted. After work, he rode his bike home, greeted his friendly neighbors and spent his night playing video games, watching movies, painting figures, and building models, in other words, he did whatever the fuck he wanted.

Now this is where it gets tricky, he went out with his co-workers and let slip the fact that he was a virgin. They immediately start making fun of him, which makes him feel bad about his virginity. Remember, he never once felt bad about it, he was living a happy existence, peer pressure was the only reason why he even thought about it.
Suddenly he is going to nightclubs, he's drinking, talking to women and does he feel happy about it? No, he feels awkward, but he can't stay a virgin right?
After a few failed attempts, he finally meets a women that seems to like him and gives him her number. They go out a few times and eventually she's ready to have sex but oops, her teenage daughter walks in on them. This is an important part, because now you realize that this women has 2 children, a teenage girl and a young boy. Suddenly, the poor 40 year old virgin finds that he has to take care of 2 obnoxious kids, but that's not enough. The women finally sees the virgin's apartment, and marvels at his action figures. She immediately says "Hey, let's sell this kiddy shit.", the virgin doesn't want to sell it, he likes having all that shit, but is pressured by the women anyway. Because HER little store is going to sell the toys, it means more profit for her. Remember, this women is supposed to be miss right, the nice, mature women that you should marry. The guy finally snaps because he realizes how much his life has changed, but it's too late now. After a couple of shenanigans he asks her to marry him and he eventually has sex.

In conclusion, the poor bastard left his happy carefree life and is left with a women who doesn't like his nerdy shit and two kids who aren't his but he has to raise anyway. His free time his gone, his money his gone, his toys are gone and his independence is gone, but that's ok, at least he had sex.

And that's why I don't have a girlfriend, because to me, the 40 year old virgin is a tale of a man who descended into darkness.