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If you are happy, who gives a crap what others think.Sex = OP in society? - Page 14
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JBanKs
United Kingdom617 Posts
If you are happy, who gives a crap what others think. | ||
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edc
United States666 Posts
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Bshad
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DoXa
Switzerland1448 Posts
On July 22 2011 18:45 valaki wrote: Just relevant: You probably saw the movie The 40 Year Old Virgin and thought it was hilarious how that man lived with his nerdy lifestyle and sexless life. It was a movie about that guy's rise from the decadent, boring life into an exciting, sex filled and normal life, right? Wrong. Think about it. The titular 40 year old virgin started his day with a little exercise, made his breakfast and rode his bike to work. When he got to work we saw that he didn't have the best job in the world, and probably not the best pay either, but he liked it, he liked his job, and had enough money to buy everything he wanted. After work, he rode his bike home, greeted his friendly neighbors and spent his night playing video games, watching movies, painting figures, and building models, in other words, he did whatever the fuck he wanted. Now this is where it gets tricky, he went out with his co-workers and let slip the fact that he was a virgin. They immediately start making fun of him, which makes him feel bad about his virginity. Remember, he never once felt bad about it, he was living a happy existence, peer pressure was the only reason why he even thought about it. Suddenly he is going to nightclubs, he's drinking, talking to women and does he feel happy about it? No, he feels awkward, but he can't stay a virgin right? After a few failed attempts, he finally meets a women that seems to like him and gives him her number. They go out a few times and eventually she's ready to have sex but oops, her teenage daughter walks in on them. This is an important part, because now you realize that this women has 2 children, a teenage girl and a young boy. Suddenly, the poor 40 year old virgin finds that he has to take care of 2 obnoxious kids, but that's not enough. The women finally sees the virgin's apartment, and marvels at his action figures. She immediately says "Hey, let's sell this kiddy shit.", the virgin doesn't want to sell it, he likes having all that shit, but is pressured by the women anyway. Because HER little store is going to sell the toys, it means more profit for her. Remember, this women is supposed to be miss right, the nice, mature women that you should marry. The guy finally snaps because he realizes how much his life has changed, but it's too late now. After a couple of shenanigans he asks her to marry him and he eventually has sex. In conclusion, the poor bastard left his happy carefree life and is left with a women who doesn't like his nerdy shit and two kids who aren't his but he has to raise anyway. His free time his gone, his money his gone, his toys are gone and his independence is gone, but that's ok, at least he had sex. And that's why I don't have a girlfriend, because to me, the 40 year old virgin is a tale of a man who descended into darkness. dude, thats an awesome conclusion. Doesn't mean you shouldn't have sex, just have it with the right peron and don't let anyone put pressure on you | ||
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ZERG_RUSSIAN
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Krede
Denmark139 Posts
On July 22 2011 11:46 travis wrote: welcome to the virgin club *high five* it doesn't matter, lol I have to expect people do make way too big of a deal about sex, but that's not surprising since a lot of people are very shallow. sry...gotta say...sex is pretty good...not telling you guys to do something you dont want to - but trust me om the sunscreen..ehm...sex | ||
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Ermac
336 Posts
When you say "fate hasn't allowed you to experience it yet" that means you want to have sex but haven't had the opportunity yet? Maybe I'm jumping to conclusions here, but that means you're not very "popular" with the opposite gender, right?(popular as in sexually attractive) If that's the case then well... large part of how you're perceived by society depends on your sexual attractiveness, as superficial as it may sound. Try to look at it this way - roughly half of the world population are women. If most of those women don't see you as a man that they would like to have sex with/build a family/etc. it makes you look like a "loser" to them. Know what I mean? To me personally it's just something natural. I'd consider myself a very sexual person meaning that I developed a sexual drive as early as 10 or 11 years old. Maybe even earlier. Since then I basically found myself very much attracted to girls and also wanting to have sex with them of course. Dirty sex and lots of it. If that's not the case for you, just take your time and wait for the opportunity to present itself. Don't let society's pressure get to you. For some people a real sexual drive only develops after they actually had their first time. | ||
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link0
United States1071 Posts
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antmoss
United States4 Posts
On July 22 2011 11:42 ClysmiC wrote: I've always had the following view on sex: Save it till you meet your wife and it will be a million times more satisfying than it would be just hooking up with some random girls. Or he has been tempted just like everyone else, but has the self-control to make the smarter choice. Smarter choice? That the religion in you talking. | ||
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Caloooomi
Scotland188 Posts
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JoFritzMD
Australia163 Posts
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Caloooomi
Scotland188 Posts
On July 22 2011 20:36 JoFritzMD wrote: Sex is weh. First time I got bored halfway through and finished only for the girls sake. I haven't bothered chasing it down ever since. If it happens it happens if it doesn't it doesn't and my life doesn't change either way. Least you could do that. My first time I was to drunk to keep it up, hahaha. | ||
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Sindriss
Denmark263 Posts
On July 22 2011 20:36 JoFritzMD wrote: Sex is weh. First time I got bored halfway through and finished only for the girls sake. I haven't bothered chasing it down ever since. If it happens it happens if it doesn't it doesn't and my life doesn't change either way. Maybe it is boring because you only tried it once. It is the same as with sc2, practice, practice, practice. It keeps getting better and at some point you will realize just how awesome it is. Really, I do not think that sex is overrated in any way, it is in a lot of cases, greatness! Also, I find it very amusing how several posters who haven't had sex says it is overrated and that people who pursue it are in many cases shallow. Indeed, ironic. | ||
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Wrongspeedy
United States1655 Posts
On July 22 2011 17:55 nOia.pod wrote: Dont get me wrong and no offense, but is everybody in this thread a little girl or what? Denying the opportunity to have sex, because its not the "right moment"?! What? What is the right moment? I tell you, when you have a boner you could kill with... Ummm. Just because you haven't had it happen doesn't mean it doesn't happen. I have turned girls down. I even had a boner, but thats not really whats important. What is, is that I was not comfortable with A. The Partner B. The Location C. The Time Seriously, if I told you that every day for the rest of your life some skanky girl was going to ask you to pleasure her (even though you've only just met her that day). Would you do it? Everyday? OR would you be a "little girl". Seriously get out if you just wanna insult people for using their Brain instead of their Dick. Use your other head please. | ||
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LittLeD
Sweden7973 Posts
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Wrongspeedy
United States1655 Posts
On July 22 2011 21:08 LittLeD wrote: It's funny to think about it. Billion years of evolution has lead to this very specific species, the homo sapeins. which as with every other species has one soul purpose in life, to replicate. And yet, here I am, at the brink of my 20's and still completely incompitent of finding a mating partner. Isn't it just hilarious? Nature has failed me. No! You've failed nature Sir!  Stork's everywhere are being put down!  | ||
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Mirosuu
England283 Posts
To be honest, seeing so many children and teenage moms out there right now makes me just want to honestly not ever have a kid. It frankly sickens me at the sight of seeing so many kids being born to moms that are younger than I am (I'm 20). EDIT: forgot a paragraph | ||
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Dagobert
Netherlands1858 Posts
On July 22 2011 21:08 LittLeD wrote: It's funny to think about it. Billion years of evolution has lead to this very specific species, the homo sapeins. which as with every other species has one soul purpose in life, to replicate. And yet, here I am, at the brink of my 20's and still completely incompitent of finding a mating partner. Isn't it just hilarious? Nature has failed me. Try parties/clubs, look for drunk girls (guys?), feel them up, if nobody punches you in the face, score. | ||
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OpticalShot
Canada6330 Posts
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Goliathsorrow
Italy317 Posts
On July 22 2011 21:16 Dagobert wrote: Try parties/clubs, look for drunk girls (guys?), feel them up, if nobody punches you in the face, score. I do not want to attack you but that this status of having to do sex asap has lead to more alcool abuse where the guys try to incapacitate the girl to have an easier approach with them. I'm part of the virgin "club" and while i do not feel a loser i, however, would like to try these sensations but really getting girl drunk in order to have more chances with them seems so cheap to me. | ||
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