EPTAnyone have experience with this type of situation?
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killanator
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Anyone have experience with this type of situation? | ||
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paper
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/thread o_o; | ||
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StalinRusH
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Whiplash
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LuMiX
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Iaaan
Canada578 Posts
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Kentor
United States5784 Posts
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Flow.of.soul
United States210 Posts
On July 21 2009 10:06 StalinRusH wrote: Take advantage | ||
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ghermination
United States2851 Posts
For two, why do you ask for relationship help on a STARCRAFT site of all places? For three, 1000'th post :D | ||
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ghermination
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endGame
United States394 Posts
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mucker
United States1120 Posts
then don't call for 3 days unless to call her back. then call, ask first about her dad, her family, then her. then ask her to hang out. then move. | ||
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Kentor
United States5784 Posts
On July 21 2009 10:21 mucker wrote: call, ask if she is ok, if she needs anything, make yourself available. then don't call for 3 days unless to call her back. then call, ask first about her dad, her family, then her. then ask her to hang out. then move. i doubt you've had a girlfriend before. | ||
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KP_CollectoR
United States744 Posts
On July 21 2009 10:12 Metal[x] wrote: carpe diem | ||
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food
United States1951 Posts
he is trolling | ||
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icystorage
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Xusneb
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GeneralStan
United States4789 Posts
If you aren't very close to her, then leaving her be is probably the best option. If you're close enough that offering support is natural, the do that. If this is the case, doing something light-hearted is probably the best, since what she needs is distraction / taking her mind off things. | ||
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YPang
United States4024 Posts
Gl sir. | ||
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29 fps
United States5724 Posts
On July 21 2009 10:04 paper wrote: don't make a move /thread o_o; i agree with this, actually. she's not going to be very cheery, so maybe it's best to wait btw, what does /thread mean? or /anything, in fact | ||
micronesia
United States24705 Posts
On July 21 2009 10:33 YPang wrote: Hmm you girlfriend's father is having a stroke? Then i'd assume he won't live much longer even if he did survive this, so i suggest you to buy some date rape drugs and a lot of booze, and invite his daughter to a crunked up party. After party you won't have to deal with her father, cuz he's in a hospital; PERFECT OPPORTUNITY DON'T MISS IT. Gl sir. YPang you can't deny that you deserve to be told to shadap. | ||
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Zoler
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food
United States1951 Posts
On July 21 2009 10:41 micronesia wrote: YPang you can't deny that you deserve to be told to shadap. imo OP deserves anything that comes at him, it actually benefits the society if he fails to replicate | ||
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New Zealand6138 Posts
On July 21 2009 10:10 Whiplash wrote: Be like water good advice for any situation | ||
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Purind
Canada3562 Posts
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Manifesto7
Osaka27154 Posts
Ultra-move. | ||
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Manifesto7
Osaka27154 Posts
On July 21 2009 10:49 Purind wrote: I think you should cheer her up with a joke. But the joke has to be about a stroke, otherwise it wouldn't work If he loses vision in one eye you could buy him a pirate eye-patch, then turn to the girl and say "Arrr, yer booty is mine". | ||
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YPang
United States4024 Posts
On July 21 2009 10:58 Manifesto7 wrote: If he loses vision in one eye you could buy him a pirate eye-patch, then turn to the girl and say "Arrr, yer booty is mine". ROFL | ||
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Xusneb
Canada612 Posts
On July 21 2009 10:58 Manifesto7 wrote: If he loses vision in one eye you could buy him a pirate eye-patch, then turn to the girl and say "Arrr, yer booty is mine". hahaha, so bad yet so good... | ||
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Jayme
United States5866 Posts
On July 21 2009 10:58 Manifesto7 wrote: If he loses vision in one eye you could buy him a pirate eye-patch, then turn to the girl and say "Arrr, yer booty is mine". Oh god this is awful yet so great. | ||
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BisuBoi
United States350 Posts
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killanator
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iNcontroL
USA29055 Posts
On July 21 2009 10:55 Manifesto7 wrote: 2x flowers to the hospital. 1x "I got these for you... Dad". 1x "And I got these for you beautiful". Ultra-move. Jane Austin called. She wants her moves back. | ||
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StorrZerg
United States13919 Posts
On July 21 2009 10:19 Flow.of.soul wrote: This gives you such an opening. You just ask she is and how her dad is. You then tell her some story about how one of your relatives got really sick but then everything turned out ok. You then try to comfort her as much as possible with out being creepy. Then you make your move once everything is somewhat back to normal with her. hes got the right idea. just be chill with her, she needs someone to open up to | ||
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Kyuukyuu
Canada6263 Posts
On July 21 2009 10:58 Manifesto7 wrote: If he loses vision in one eye you could buy him a pirate eye-patch, then turn to the girl and say "Arrr, yer booty is mine". HAHAHA | ||
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AzureEye
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ilistis
United States828 Posts
On July 21 2009 10:28 Xusneb wrote: If you actually care about this girl, you should try to be there for emotional support. By doing this, you are hovering dangerously to the dreaded 'friend zone' but you may also end up being seen as extremely attractive once she manages to move on with her life. Basically, be a friend for now, make your move later. God damn it, tl.net made me aware of this "friend zone", it makes me cringe every time I read it. | ||
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Jonoman92
United States9104 Posts
On July 21 2009 10:58 Manifesto7 wrote: If he loses vision in one eye you could buy him a pirate eye-patch, then turn to the girl and say "Arrr, yer booty is mine". looool omg | ||
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konadora
Singapore66307 Posts
You serious? | ||
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killanator
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aeroH
United States1034 Posts
On July 21 2009 10:58 Manifesto7 wrote: If he loses vision in one eye you could buy him a pirate eye-patch, then turn to the girl and say "Arrr, yer booty is mine". i lmao'd | ||
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GoSu
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eXigent.
Canada2419 Posts
On July 21 2009 11:43 killanator wrote: Well would it be the worst to like text her and say "hey i heard your dad had a stroke, is he ok?" or something like that? wtf dude, whats with alot of people on here not knowing jack shit about girls / real life. What do YOU think you should do. Are you really that much of a robot that you gotta not only post for help FAST!!! but also gotta ask this forum before you do anything at all? You would rather take the words of people you don't know at all, over your own gut instincts? Why don't you try thinking for yourself, instead of asking the most mundane questions ever, that anybody with an ounce of common sense can figure out. Seriously, it feels like you just came out isolation and have no idea how to react / respond to other people. sigh. | ||
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Deleted User 31060
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On July 21 2009 10:19 Flow.of.soul wrote: This gives you such an opening. You just ask she is and how her dad is. You then tell her some story about how one of your relatives got really sick but then everything turned out ok. You then try to comfort her as much as possible with out being creepy. Then you make your move once everything is somewhat back to normal with her. winning advice, I would suggest this too | ||
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epicdoom
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Ronald_McD
Canada807 Posts
Easy. | ||
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A3iL3r0n
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thoraxe
United States1449 Posts
On July 21 2009 10:19 ghermination wrote: For one, seriously that is one of the worst times to possibly try to become emotionally involved with a person. For two, why do you ask for relationship help on a STARCRAFT site of all places? For three, 1000'th post :D Because this is his blog and normal people visit this website whom can deliver fairly relevant feedback on any concerns or questions that you may have, because for the most part, Teamliquid is a civilized site. | ||
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Bub
United States3518 Posts
On July 21 2009 10:40 29 fps wrote: i agree with this, actually. she's not going to be very cheery, so maybe it's best to wait btw, what does /thread mean? or /anything, in fact means End thread. Like "end of discussion" | ||
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Fontong
United States6454 Posts
On July 21 2009 12:47 eXigent. wrote: wtf dude, whats with alot of people on here not knowing jack shit about girls / real life. What do YOU think you should do. Are you really that much of a robot that you gotta not only post for help FAST!!! but also gotta ask this forum before you do anything at all? You would rather take the words of people you don't know at all, over your own gut instincts? Why don't you try thinking for yourself, instead of asking the most mundane questions ever, that anybody with an ounce of common sense can figure out. Seriously, it feels like you just came out isolation and have no idea how to react / respond to other people. sigh. Dude if manifesto is going to give him advice, then when the hell would he not post for help of this site? ;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;; | ||
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Flakes
United States3125 Posts
+ Show Spoiler + That ischemia pun gave me brain damage I think | ||
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Railxp
Hong Kong1313 Posts
fortune is grinning at you from ear to ear and chuckling at its own joke edit: damnit, beaten to the punch | ||
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The_Australian
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MoltkeWarding
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LimitlessSky
United States434 Posts
On July 21 2009 17:13 MoltkeWarding wrote: It depends on whether you feel any empathy for the person in this situation, or are merely interested in self-aggrandisement. Your natural impulses should give you the proper answer. No need to ask tl.net. Agree. Simply be there for her...she must be worried for him and offer your assistance if she needs it. | ||
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Manifesto7
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killanator
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FakeSteve[TPR]
Valhalla18444 Posts
'hey its important for you to be with your dad how about we take a rain check on the movie' lemme put it this way: her dad just had a stroke, do you know how shitty it is to do ANYTHING that even hints at "what about MY needs" the girl doesn't need the added complication of some retard with no common sense trying to woo her right now, so don't be that retard please | ||
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killanator
United States549 Posts
I didnt ask her on the movie, she informed me via text message that we were going. All ive done so far is ask how her dad is doing. I am certainly not trying to "woo" her, and im very self-councious about being a dick(reason i made thread, wanted to make sure i didnt do anything retarted) | ||
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FakeSteve[TPR]
Valhalla18444 Posts
i'm not saying you ARE "that retard" i'm saying don't BE "that retard"  | ||
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poilord
Germany3252 Posts
On July 21 2009 12:18 killanator wrote: Well she doesnt seem distraught, she immediately changed the subject to the new harry potter movie. Maybe she doesn't want to show it too much and is looking for some distraction. If somebody is in the hospital there is usually not much you can do besides visiting him and keeping him company. But these are emotional troubled times for her for sure so don't make a move and be patient. | ||
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killanator
United States549 Posts
I sort of relate to what your saying poilord, when my sister was in her auto accident i sort of wanted to not think about it to, ill keep that in mind. Alright well ill watch what I do fakesteve, thanks. | ||
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