EPTSo yeah, how will it feel? Will I feel like im having a good time and then ill start regretting it for the rest of my life or will it be different? Also, how will it actually physically feel? ;D is sex different from masturbation? O_o
Thanks bros
Sex Feel
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EsX_Raptor
United States2801 Posts
So yeah, how will it feel? Will I feel like im having a good time and then ill start regretting it for the rest of my life or will it be different? Also, how will it actually physically feel? ;D is sex different from masturbation? O_o Thanks bros | ||
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Yaqoob
Canada3329 Posts
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johnmaster
125 Posts
i hope u dont get her pregnant before marrying her.. better yet,, dont do premarital sex. | ||
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Little-Chimp
Canada948 Posts
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FirstBorn
Romania3955 Posts
On July 23 2008 03:35 johnmaster wrote: how old r u two? i hope u dont get her pregnant before marrying her.. better yet,, dont do premarital sex. ![[image loading]](http://media.philly.com/images/condom.jpg) | ||
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Yizuo
Germany1537 Posts
no one can tell you if you're ready, you have to know yourself, but if you use a condom there is really no reason not to try it imo... | ||
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Salv
Canada3083 Posts
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Mickey
United States2606 Posts
On July 23 2008 03:35 johnmaster wrote: how old r u two? i hope u dont get her pregnant before marrying her.. better yet,, dont do premarital sex. ARE YOU SERIOUS? What are you a Mormon, or a religious zealot or something? There's nothing wrong with premarital sex. Sex is healthy, and completely natural. Why am I even trying to explain this? I don't know how to describe sex, but it's a completely natural high. Just go on the internet, and order some condoms. Get lubricant if you want it to be awesome. Sex is awesome sex is good, not everyone does, but everyone SHOULD. | ||
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boss420
Cyprus109 Posts
I dont think you're ready.. lol. It's pretty akward if you are both virgins, trust me. Feel? Figure that out for yourself, just remember you need to communicate with your girlfriend, and make sure shes comfortable and whatnot  . | ||
JWD
United States12607 Posts
Also, I have to warn you that the first time you have sex, even if it's with someone you've been with for a really long time and know really well (sexually and emotionally), is probably going to suck. If you're not nervous, she'll definitely be. And one of the hardest things to do is to enjoy yourself while she's squirming around under you. So take it slow and don't expect fireworks the first time. Keep practicing and eventually you'll hit your stride. Good sex is brilliant, but it's more than just sticking your dong in the right hole. You need to have the right kind of relationship with the girl (not necessarily a romantic one, but there HAS to be a lot of chemistry) and be comfortable to kind of just let yourself go. If either person isn't having a good time it ruins it for the other, but if you're both enjoying yourselves it's an amazing time. Purely based on how you worded your OP, I am thinking that you're not ready for sex. I'm not insulting your manhood or anything but rather just saying that I think you won't miss out on anything by waiting for a while, since it doesn't sound like you're in the type of relationship or mindset that will make for good sex anyway. And obviously, always use protection. One fuck session is NOT WORTH risking a pregnancy. I have seen a lot of smart people have unprotected sex thinking they'll get away with it (and not). So, always have condoms, tell girls to carry condoms, and be aware of the availability of the morning after pill (just in case). Birth control is ideal, but I'm guessing you're not going to find many chicks that are on the pill at your age. | ||
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anch
United States5457 Posts
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Smorrie
Netherlands2922 Posts
Honestly, if you are pondering your decision so much I'd say you aren't ready yet. Like others said: bring a raincoat. I guess it can be good emotionally and physically, but most likely it won't be... I heard a lot of stories where a first time sucked ass, but the more often you do it, the better it gets. But I guess you gotta start somewhere at some point. It won't be like heaven, it won't be like eating your favorite apple pie, it will be a new experience though, and the start of something new. It will be a new tool for you guys to express each others love to each other and the more you practice the better it gets. GL~ ps. how old are you? just wondering ps2. your funny title made me read this.. 'sex feel' | ||
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nA.Inky
United States794 Posts
Sex is complex, but as long as you have good communication and trust with your partner, you probably won't get any insane emotional issues from having sex. There may be fear of pregnancy and fear of getting caught, but otherwise, if you guys are both into the idea, you'll probably not have any problems emotionally. Now sex can be really weird when you start out. It is not like masturbation, where you have complete control over your rhythm and sensation. It also doesn't feel like masturbation. In my experience the first few times, it seemed less pleasurable than masturbation - I got very little sensation. It took a few times to get used to it, and once I did, it was greatly preferable to masturbation. Rather than talking directly about sex... Let's say this. You guys should have great communication. Be williing and comfortable with voicing concerns and what you feel/experience/want/etc. Don't put the focus exclusively on sex. Let the focus be on touching each other, holding each other, feeling your partners breath, feeling how good it is just to groove with her (not even having sex yet - just dry humping and such), kissing each other deeply. You guys might experiment with mutual masturbation and oral sex before moving on to the "real deal." DON'T make the focus perfection. The focus is EXPLORATION! You have to learn each other's bodies, and learn trust. Talk about it, talk about how it feels, talk about what you like and what you want. Gently guide each other. Let it be fun! A game! The goal is not to be a sex master and cum cum cum! The goal is to just explore and have fun. Get used to each other's bodies and body parts before you go all the way. Have her touch and stroke your cock, and you should touch her cunt, finger her, lick her. Show each other how you like to be touched - it is a playful show and tell. Get comfortable with your bodies, learn to not be afraid of each other. Sex, to start with, will be holding... hugging, and slipping into her, and grooving. No goal here, just enjoy holding each other, enjoy being in love, enjoy the warmth of each other. Enjoy how you both smell. Just go from there. If one or both of you is having trouble getting aroused or staying aroused (you might be nervous and lose your erection for example), that's OK. Just take it slow and do "other things" until you become aroused again. Kiss, hug, touch, etc. Take your time. Your cock may slip out of her and it may be hard to find the hole. Just have her guide you - you'll get used to it. You, her, or both of you, may not cum the first time. That's ok, it just takes practice. You may cum very fast. That's ok - just try to take it slower, and be willing to touch her and try things with her that give her pleasure. Sex is not all just in and out, you know. All problems/issues/concerns/difficulties that may arise are easily solved if there is genuine affection, desire, trust and communication. Where you get into trouble is if you guys do not openly talk and you think you have to perform perfectly automatically and be a mind-reader. Don't put unrealistic expectations on it. The first few times will probably be kind of weird, not amazing porno-esque love fests. Just relax and appreciate it for what it is. If you do that, the mediocre sex will gradually become mind-bending good times - better than you even expect. But it won't be that way right away. Good luck. Remember, this is all about fun. It's not a test. It's not a trial. It's just fun with someone that you hopefully love and trust. | ||
LosingID8
CA10828 Posts
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nA.Inky
United States794 Posts
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JWD
United States12607 Posts
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nA.Inky
United States794 Posts
Still, I agree that it's great to go down and to "finger her." One thing I like doing is using my cock as a giant finger to stimulate the clit. Works better if you aren't wearing a condom though (thank god for my vasectomy.) | ||
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InfeSteD
United States4658 Posts
On July 23 2008 04:29 LosingID8 wrote: personally, i'm waiting until marriage. i'd recommend you to do the same. but in the end it's your choice. I'm just gonna give my opinion, don't take it as a flame, but.... How can you recommend that to someone? sex is normal and is a natural thing. How can you know if you really like having sexual relationships with the woman you married if you have never had it before? Trust me, relationships in the long run are soooo defined by the sex. I mean if sex sucks, it ain't going very far... someone will end up either divorcing or cheating imo.. I know soooo many wives that want to get away for a weekend to have sex with random people because their husbands suck.. On the other hand, like Smorrie said.. Raptor, que edad tienes? si lo estas planiando mucho y estan muy preocupados por si sera bueno o no, significa que no estan preparados... va a ser bien chimbo man.. eso tiene q pasar espontaneamente, traten de estar solos todo el tiempo que salgan que si alguna ves se les pega la locura, lo hacen espotaneamente donde esten y aunque no dure mucho.. fue algo de repente que no fue planiado y lo van a disfrutar bastante.. dale pasito la primera ves pq les duele bastante.. first time sux, 2nd gets better and after that... van a estar haciendolo todo el tiempo lol!!! good luck! | ||
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Naib
Hungary4843 Posts
Don't plan everything. It will suck ass and besides, there's always something that hinders your plan. No plan is 100% fool-proof. I don't mean going in blindfolded at a totally random moment when you both feel like it, that's even worse than planning everything . You gotta walk the golden pave between these two (you know, a good meal, candles, rose(s), etc.Obviously, it's a different feeling. I'm not an expert, but a good advice before your first time is that you jack off the previous day, so you don't cum too fast (that could make your girl feel a bit disappointed, but if she's like that then she's an undeserving dumbass bitch anyway. I hope it's not the case ). Uh, what else. Make sure you both experienced one another's body already for a little while (I mean a few months that is if possible - makes it a LOT easier, trust me) if you know what I mean  Other than that...just do what your feelings tell you to. You could read shit for years about the subject, but freeing your mind from doubts does that job better. Well, what can you expect: as many have mentioned: Many girls (yes this is actually true) don't get off with intercourse alone, and especially not on their first time (they're usually too nervous, etc.) You really have to make sure she's wet enough already, and even if she is, you can still take your time - it's only better the more you delay it (for her at least, but it can be for you, too ). Foreplay is important for women (usually, this paragraph is just an overgeneralization), just give it time to make her comfortable so that not only you will enjoy it.P.s.: Repeat the process when you're both ready again (be it a week, days, hours, minutes or seconds ) It will only get better with experiencing each other, don't EVER get discouraged.Noone does bad sex, that's a myth. It's just good, and better - dependant on a lot of factors. P.p.s.: Obligatory "How old are you?" question here. Edit: I left out the most important thing because I thought it's self-explanatory, but it might not hurt to insert that here: PROTECTION ! Discuss it, may it be condom, pills (she has to start taking that for at least one cycle before your intercourse though) or whatever crazy shit they're coming it nowadays, but protect yourself. | ||
micronesia
United States24690 Posts
+ Show Spoiler + lol I wouldn't have done it if there weren't already several very serious responses here | ||
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