EPTseconded.. but u gotta do it sometimes.. i try not to do it so often and use my hand more often on her.
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leviathan400
United Kingdom393 Posts
seconded.. but u gotta do it sometimes.. i try not to do it so often and use my hand more often on her. | ||
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Yaqoob
Canada3346 Posts
On July 23 2008 14:27 leviathan400 wrote: seconded.. but u gotta do it sometimes.. i try not to do it so often and use my hand more often on her. Maybe it tastes bad if she doesn't clean herself but iirc it doesn't taste bad at all. | ||
lilsusie
3861 Posts
Sex feels awesome. But make sure you're ready for it. And as for the licking? Keep it light and sensuous. Flatten your tongue and use lips.  | ||
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snowbird
Germany2044 Posts
On July 23 2008 18:43 lilsusie wrote: This blog makes me smile. I often forget how new and exciting a first time could be. And the guys are right - girls DON'T cum by just intercourse and most women actually haven't ever had an orgasm before so if you ask her if she's had one and she says, "Um, I think so", she hasn't. Don't sweat it. That come with time and communication. Sex feels awesome. But make sure you're ready for it. And as for the licking? Keep it light and sensuous. Flatten your tongue and use lips. careful! "thanks a lot susie, but I need someone I could practice with. would you help me out?" comments incoming! | ||
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Jayson X
Switzerland2431 Posts
Just let marvin gaye lead you... Mmmhh marvin. The best thing is to just roll with the flow. Groove smooth and feel the magic. After that you're going to do it like rabbits anyway, nuff time to practice. It's more like a trust thing the first time. After that you can walk around her naked all day long, sex for whole weekends in every corner of the hotel room doing all kinds of stuff. The bed, shower, kitchen, car, wardrobe, on a field, park bench, before / after / while bungee jumping... And after that you take it to the next level. Cosplay. "Mhh ja y suon sensei, what are you doing?" "My queen your gladiator is at your service." "I heard there was a problem with the washing machine?" "Omhuh dip iy tdlip oun yu benus" First: "Sexual Healing" After: "Ain't To Proud To Beg" *naked dance* | ||
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ATeddyBear
Canada2843 Posts
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nA.Inky
United States794 Posts
Taste is not a definite thing. Things don't have an inherently good or bad taste, generally speaking. Taste is socialized. Taste is ACQUIRED. Guys should learn to love the taste of pussy. Lilsusie, I respect that you are a woman, and that you don't orgasm from vaginal sex. But that you are a woman does not mean you can generalize for all women. Many women DO cum from vaginal intercourse, and many women that DON'T cum that way COULD with time and patience. Again, I would point to the fact that women with higher education are more likely to cum from vaginal intercourse. Why would this be the case unless it implies that there is some general difference in ATTITUDE towards sex between educated and uneducated women? Again, psychology is at work. Beyond that, it is largely experience. Too, my experience is that women will be able to orgasm better from certain positions. Rear-entry seems to be pretty effective compared to typical missionary style, for example. I was with a woman who would cum repeatedly - and so easily, especially if she was really turned on - from vaginal intercourse, and she actually slightly prefered orgasms from intercourse to orgasms from clitoral stimulation (though she really liked both). I've been with other women who cum from vaginal intercourse as well, but with more effort. | ||
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nA.Inky
United States794 Posts
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Snet
United States3573 Posts
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lilsusie
3861 Posts
On July 24 2008 00:06 nA.Inky wrote: I never thought going down tasted bad at all. I actually really like it. Slight piss/armpit smell/taste going on, and it turns me on like crazy - makes me feel like a wild animal. The only time it could be potentially bad, in my view, is if the woman has some kind of yeast issues - issues that are easily solved by a change to a healthier diet and loose fitting, breathable clothes. Taste is not a definite thing. Things don't have an inherently good or bad taste, generally speaking. Taste is socialized. Taste is ACQUIRED. Guys should learn to love the taste of pussy. Lilsusie, I respect that you are a woman, and that you don't orgasm from vaginal sex. But that you are a woman does not mean you can generalize for all women. Many women DO cum from vaginal intercourse, and many women that DON'T cum that way COULD with time and patience. Again, I would point to the fact that women with higher education are more likely to cum from vaginal intercourse. Why would this be the case unless it implies that there is some general difference in ATTITUDE towards sex between educated and uneducated women? Again, psychology is at work. Beyond that, it is largely experience. Too, my experience is that women will be able to orgasm better from certain positions. Rear-entry seems to be pretty effective compared to typical missionary style, for example. I was with a woman who would cum repeatedly - and so easily, especially if she was really turned on - from vaginal intercourse, and she actually slightly prefered orgasms from intercourse to orgasms from clitoral stimulation (though she really liked both). I've been with other women who cum from vaginal intercourse as well, but with more effort. I was generalizing from the point that it's actually studied that most women don't cum from vaginal intercourse. Of course a few do. However, most cum from clitoral stimulation + vaginal penetration. That's awesome that you were able to find women who were able to, it's really quite rare. You can argue all you want, but I am an educated woman with experience so don't disregard what I am saying either. Some women are built differently so don't say it's attitude that allows them to cum - trust me, I've had a great attitude about it but just ain't built in such a way. | ||
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8Pylon
United States223 Posts
 Again nothing wrong with waiting a little while longer :p. I waited until I was 20 gg eh? lolMake sure not to scarab the hive. lol thought I would give it a try. rawr!! | ||
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anotak
United States1537 Posts
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nA.Inky
United States794 Posts
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8Pylon
United States223 Posts
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nA.Inky
United States794 Posts
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8Pylon
United States223 Posts
I just dont want this poor guysthread to go into shit mode you know? lol Either way Im enjoying your guys' debate. | ||
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nA.Inky
United States794 Posts
I'll just add to this thread that my first times having sex were very awkward and weird. I only had sex with my first girlfriend twice (she was less a girlfriend and more a fling - and I was 22 at the time!) Neither of us came either time. The first time, I was doing her from behind on the carpet, and I managed to get really bad rugburn on my toes to the point of my large toes being bloody (I didn't know it at the time). Then a few minutes later she was on top of me and I got soft. I was freaked out. Now I realize the pain in my toes caused too much discomfort to stay aroused. Second time with her was better, but still neither of us got off and she got impatient about 15 minutes into it and ended it. It was very shameful and embarrasing to me, and really drove home the point to me that it is good to be in a deep and trusting relationship when you are just starting out with sex. Really it's always better to be in a loving and trusting relationship, but casual sex has its place too. With my next girlfriend (her and I were very much in love) we first tried to have sex in a cave, and I couldn't get hard. It was a combination of nervousness and the fact that it was cold as hell and very uncomfortable in there. She was very patient and enthusiastic with me despite the fact that I couldn't get hard (I was so embarrased and disappointed in myself, but she was very cool about the whole thing) Next time we had sex was out in the open on the mountain, and then it was great - she came about 5 times, but I still didn't cum. The first time I came was about my 5th time having sex, 2nd time with that second girlfriend, in the front passenger seat of my tiny car, her on top of me. It was awesome, and it feels so good to cum with someone you love. Sex is a lot different than you'd expect. Part of what makes it awesome, IMO, is the closeness of it, the holding, the warmth. It's just awesome. Been about 6 or 7 months since I last got laid - sexual frustration is kicking in. | ||
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EsX_Raptor
United States2802 Posts
I'm learning a lot about this stuff reading such informative comments (honestly I know shit about the topic, same with my girl) and a lot of things are starting to make sense. By the way, since it will be our first time having sex, will it really be very painful to her >.<? If so, what should I do to make it a less painful experience for her? I suppose go slower. Don't worry about our attachment and relationship, we've been going out for almost 3 years and they've been really fun, touching months for both of us... I'm pretty sure I might marry her too =S | ||
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Jayson X
Switzerland2431 Posts
On July 23 2008 23:57 ATeddyBear wrote: hot apple pie Thank you. Noone ever called me that. Call me. | ||
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Zherak
Norway256 Posts
Sex isn't difficult. Sex isn't a science, it isn't technique, it isn't micro. The actual sex part is really simple, easy and instinctive. If you actually care about her, there isn't much which can go wrong - find a good location, a bed is usually good. Start things from the top - i.e. cuddling, feeling, kissing. Try to watch her face, communicate (don't overdo the whole verbal thing), make sure you are getting positive response. Proceed to undressing, intimate zones and actual sex if you both feel comfortable about it. For God's sake, do not go into it with the mindset this night we are going to do it, however things turn out - that's recipe for disaster. And don't expect things to be all flags to the top - it might very well turn out somewhat awkward at times, and it's not a given either or both of you will be comfortable enough to truly enjoy it. That doesn't mean you are a terrible person, or that you aren't meant for each other, or anything else, it just means you should try again later. Good luck - if you manage to have a good, healthy relationship without sex, you are probably going to have a great time together. Don't get overworked up about sex, it isn't a turning point in your life and it is going to suck if you expect it to be - just try and get comfortable together and enjoy watching her pleasure. | ||
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