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I would have just called them up and confirm what the hell was going on if I get suspiciously weird messages from friends. Don't continue to text.
On May 30 2008 00:07 Scorpion wrote: I did this once at a party. I was fucking drunk and I started texting people that I liked them and I got an instant text response from this one chick who likes me a lot. She's a loud, annoying bitch and she has serious problems and her face is covered in acne(but she has a nice body) and she started texting back "really?"
Me: "Hell yessssss!"
Her: "Oh, how sweet! I like you a lot!!!"
I saw this as an opportunity to be a royal dick so I started leading her on. We kept going along with it till I got extremely irrational and just started saying "I loveeeee youuuu" over and over. I then just told her "Oh, sorry, wrong person" and I stopped texting her after that.
She was pissed off at me in school. Hahah XD LOL!
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Saying "I love you" over text is just asking for trouble.
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On May 29 2008 20:37 diehilde wrote: yeah on another note i totally agree withy jayson, confessing over text messages is pretty fucking pathetic. fortunately that cant happen to me since I dont even have a mobile (yep, thats true oldschool fuckers!)
high five mate! i aint got no cellies either!!
anyways confessing over cells, or whatver is generally bad. always, always you have to confront the person. the emotions, sights, sounds are way more amplified in real life.
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On May 29 2008 20:42 H_ wrote: Internet and cellphone romance is the norm these days. Seriously, move out of the 80s.
Oh i'm so sorry that i'm not emotionaly aroused by some text messages probably full of ascii emoticons.
Call me old fashion but i like to see my partners face when she tells me she loves me. Well ok if she's ugly i prefer textmsgs too.
Ahhh...i see...
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Guys, I didn't choose these circumstances. She was gone on a vacation and she's a text-whore. What can I do? Even when we're together and sitting right across/next to each other, she'll still text me. I don't understand it, either.
As for calling, she did say something about me calling her (by then it was 6 in the morning) and I actually did try to call her twice. She never answered either time. I figured she was already asleep by then.
I don't know, now that I've had some time to sleep on this, it doesn't seem like such a big deal. Basically, I'm in the "Oh well, fuck her." mood today.
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Yea bitches...can be bitches...While I was in high school it was funny b/c I dated 2 girls that never uses text messages and once high school was over I talked to some other girl that our mobile services musta had text issues b/c we would get mad delays on messages so I really never had that "text-happy" fling go on between me and a girl. Tell you truth I don't even text anybody at all. I think i'm glad I dated those girls...Speaking eye to eye is way better IMO.
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On May 29 2008 19:50 pubbanana wrote:I guess I didn't explain it clearly enough in the post, but I tried several times to ignore her. Believe me, I fucking tried my hardest to just say "She's just drunk, she doesn't like you." and then I'd turn around and give myself a stupid reason to think otherwise (like how her spelling and grammar were perfect.) I don't know. When you want to believe something, anything seems possible. Show nested quote +On May 29 2008 19:23 NeoIllusions wrote: Women are evil.
Edit: you are 20, yes? Still 19 T_T
23 here. I'm not going to judge your situation but at least when I was at your age, the thought of marriage never crossed my mind. So man, your situation is drastic. Oh, and the way she batted off your answers post-drunkenness was mad lame.
But no matter what happens, you have a fan in me. :3
<3 pubbanana
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in my experience anyone who heard "i love you" from their partner before they went out didn't last, you just don't really know yet and thats too much pressure.
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Most likely, she was the one with the phone when texting that stuff to you. She didn't talk to you for 4 days because she didn't want your old relationship to change. There's a good chance that those feelings are real. That is to say "I like you, I love you *maybe*" probably describes her true feelings.
If she breaks up with her boyfriend ever, it may be worthwhile taking the chance to sweep in assuming your feelings for her are good at that time.
If you seriously really do hate her right now though.... then I think you just had a crush. o.o
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Wow, and I thought I got owned by women.
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Leechers, the lot of em! Enjoy your phone bill :>
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On May 30 2008 00:07 Scorpion wrote: I did this once at a party. I was fucking drunk and I started texting people that I liked them and I got an instant text response from this one chick who likes me a lot. She's a loud, annoying bitch and she has serious problems and her face is covered in acne(but she has a nice body) and she started texting back "really?"
Me: "Hell yessssss!"
Her: "Oh, how sweet! I like you a lot!!!"
I saw this as an opportunity to be a royal dick so I started leading her on. We kept going along with it till I got extremely irrational and just started saying "I loveeeee youuuu" over and over. I then just told her "Oh, sorry, wrong person" and I stopped texting her after that.
She was pissed off at me in school. Hahah XD LOL
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Thats tough dude but heres one of many corny notes from facebook:
+ Show Spoiler +IT'S 7TH GRADE...
I stared at the girl next to me...She was my so called "best friend"... I stared at her... Long, silky hair... And I wished she was mine... But she didn't notice me like that... I knew it... After class she walked up to me and asked me for the notes she had missed the day before... And I handed them to her... She said "thanks"... And gave me a kiss on the cheek... I wanted to tell her... I want her to know that I don't want to be "just friends"... I love her but I'm too shy to tell her... And I don't know why...
IT'S JUNIOR YEAR...
My phone rang... On the other end it was her... She was in tears... Mumbling on and on about how her love had broken her heart... She asked me to come over because she didn't want to be alone... So I did... As I sat next to her on the sofa... I stared at her soft eyes... Wishing she was mine... After 2 hours... A Drew Barrymore movie... And 3 bags of chips... She decided to go to sleep... She looked at me.. Said "thanks" and gave me a kiss on the cheek... I wanted to tell her... I want her to know... That I don't want to be "just friends"... I love her but I'm too shy to tell her... And I don't know why...
IT'S SENIOR YEAR...
The day before prom... She walked to my locker... "My date is sick" she said... He's not going to go... Well... I didn't have a date and in 7th grade... We made a promise that if neiter of us had dates... We'd go together just as "best friends"... And so we did...
IT'S PROM NIGHT...
After everything was over with... I was standing at her front door step... I stared at her ... She smiled at me... I wanted her to be mine... But she doesn't think of me like that... And I know it... Then she said "I had the best time... Thanks!"... And she gave me a kiss on the cheek... I wanted to telll her... I wanted her to know that I don't want to be "just friends"... I love her but I'm just too shy... And I don't know why...
IT'S GRADUATION DAY...
A day passed... And then a week... And then a month... Before I could blink... It was graduation day... I watched her... Perfect body... Floated like an angel up on stage to get her diploma... I wanted her to be mine... But she doesn't think of me that way... And I know it... Before everyone went home... She came to me in her smock and hat... And cried as I hugged her... Then she lifted her head from my shoulders and said "you're my best friend"... "Thanks!"... And gave me a kiss on the cheek... I wanted to tell her.. I wanted to know that I wanted to be more than "just friends"... I love her but I'm too shy... And I don't know why...
IT'S A FEW YEARS LATER...
Now I sit in the pews of the church... A church that she is getting married in now... I watched her say "I do" an drive off to her new life... Married to another man... I wanted her to be mine... But she didn't see me like that... And I knew it... But before she drove away... She came to me and said "You came!... Thanks!"... And she kissed me on the cheek... I wanted to tell her... I wantd her to know that I didn't want to be "just friends"... I love her but I'm just too shy... And I don't know why...
YEARS PASSED...
I looked down at the coffin of a girl who used to be my "best friend"... At the service they read a diary entry she had wrote in her high school years... This is what it said... "I stare at him... Wishing he was mine... But he doesn't notice me like that... And I know it... I wanted to tell him... I wanted him to know... That I don't want to be "just friends"... I love him but I'm just too shy... And I don't know why... I wish he would tell me he loved me"... I wish I did too... I thought to myself and I cried...
Lesson: Tell her before it's too late.
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I feel for you pubbanana. That might just be the definition of getting your heart ripped out and then being slapped around with it. :[ I am no expert in these matters but I agree that the brother story was made up.
And Flying_Llama, why do you have to post such tear-duct-provoking pieces of crap :'(
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don't play that kind of game involving texting and not in person.
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lol that shit's so fucking typical, and lol i agree with poilord xD blatantly some cheap ass cop out.
My advice: look for more girls (single) like her and stop hanging around hoping her boyfriend disappears in a freak yachting accident.
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On May 30 2008 08:00 Flying_Llama wrote:Thats tough dude but heres one of many corny notes from facebook: + Show Spoiler +IT'S 7TH GRADE...
I stared at the girl next to me...She was my so called "best friend"... I stared at her... Long, silky hair... And I wished she was mine... But she didn't notice me like that... I knew it... After class she walked up to me and asked me for the notes she had missed the day before... And I handed them to her... She said "thanks"... And gave me a kiss on the cheek... I wanted to tell her... I want her to know that I don't want to be "just friends"... I love her but I'm too shy to tell her... And I don't know why...
IT'S JUNIOR YEAR...
My phone rang... On the other end it was her... She was in tears... Mumbling on and on about how her love had broken her heart... She asked me to come over because she didn't want to be alone... So I did... As I sat next to her on the sofa... I stared at her soft eyes... Wishing she was mine... After 2 hours... A Drew Barrymore movie... And 3 bags of chips... She decided to go to sleep... She looked at me.. Said "thanks" and gave me a kiss on the cheek... I wanted to tell her... I want her to know... That I don't want to be "just friends"... I love her but I'm too shy to tell her... And I don't know why...
IT'S SENIOR YEAR...
The day before prom... She walked to my locker... "My date is sick" she said... He's not going to go... Well... I didn't have a date and in 7th grade... We made a promise that if neiter of us had dates... We'd go together just as "best friends"... And so we did...
IT'S PROM NIGHT...
After everything was over with... I was standing at her front door step... I stared at her ... She smiled at me... I wanted her to be mine... But she doesn't think of me like that... And I know it... Then she said "I had the best time... Thanks!"... And she gave me a kiss on the cheek... I wanted to telll her... I wanted her to know that I don't want to be "just friends"... I love her but I'm just too shy... And I don't know why...
IT'S GRADUATION DAY...
A day passed... And then a week... And then a month... Before I could blink... It was graduation day... I watched her... Perfect body... Floated like an angel up on stage to get her diploma... I wanted her to be mine... But she doesn't think of me that way... And I know it... Before everyone went home... She came to me in her smock and hat... And cried as I hugged her... Then she lifted her head from my shoulders and said "you're my best friend"... "Thanks!"... And gave me a kiss on the cheek... I wanted to tell her.. I wanted to know that I wanted to be more than "just friends"... I love her but I'm too shy... And I don't know why...
IT'S A FEW YEARS LATER...
Now I sit in the pews of the church... A church that she is getting married in now... I watched her say "I do" an drive off to her new life... Married to another man... I wanted her to be mine... But she didn't see me like that... And I knew it... But before she drove away... She came to me and said "You came!... Thanks!"... And she kissed me on the cheek... I wanted to tell her... I wantd her to know that I didn't want to be "just friends"... I love her but I'm just too shy... And I don't know why...
YEARS PASSED...
I looked down at the coffin of a girl who used to be my "best friend"... At the service they read a diary entry she had wrote in her high school years... This is what it said... "I stare at him... Wishing he was mine... But he doesn't notice me like that... And I know it... I wanted to tell him... I wanted him to know... That I don't want to be "just friends"... I love him but I'm just too shy... And I don't know why... I wish he would tell me he loved me"... I wish I did too... I thought to myself and I cried... Lesson: Tell her before it's too late. corny yes, but sad, very sad i liked it
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On May 30 2008 00:07 Scorpion wrote: I did this once at a party. I was fucking drunk and I started texting people that I liked them and I got an instant text response from this one chick who likes me a lot. She's a loud, annoying bitch and she has serious problems and her face is covered in acne(but she has a nice body) and she started texting back "really?"
Me: "Hell yessssss!"
Her: "Oh, how sweet! I like you a lot!!!"
I saw this as an opportunity to be a royal dick so I started leading her on. We kept going along with it till I got extremely irrational and just started saying "I loveeeee youuuu" over and over. I then just told her "Oh, sorry, wrong person" and I stopped texting her after that.
She was pissed off at me in school. Hahah XD you asshole
jk nice
On May 30 2008 02:23 pubbanana wrote: Guys, I didn't choose these circumstances. She was gone on a vacation and she's a text-whore. What can I do? Even when we're together and sitting right across/next to each other, she'll still text me. I don't understand it, either.
As for calling, she did say something about me calling her (by then it was 6 in the morning) and I actually did try to call her twice. She never answered either time. I figured she was already asleep by then.
I don't know, now that I've had some time to sleep on this, it doesn't seem like such a big deal. Basically, I'm in the "Oh well, fuck her." mood today. bitches under everything
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