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There is a girl on this planet who I would marry right this second if given the chance. I've only known her for around a year now, and even I can't explain why I feel so strongly for her. I just always have.
But I didn't dare ever let her know that. We'd jokingly say "Let's get married" every now and then, and my heart always beat a little harder after she would say it.
So, this past weekend, she's away at her beach house with her family and she decides to text me for a little bit while she's drinking. I ask if she's 'drunk yet' every now and then, always being told "no, not yet"
And then shit starts getting weird.
I'd ask her a question, and then out of nowhere, she'd say something like "I like you."
After a few times, I just said "I like you, too." back to her. I am seriously of two minds at this point.
She then says "I love you ... maybe"
I don't think there was a happier human being in the history of the world in the moment I read that. So, while she's being unusually affectionate with me while she's (presumably) intoxicated, I just go right along with it. I figure if she's sincerely embarrassed by this in the morning, I'll take it all in stride and tell her not to worry about it.
But then the texts stop coming. It's around 2 AM.
I was hanging out with a friend from 1 to around 6, so when he finally left, I went back inside to lay down. Then, I started getting texts again.
"I love you."
No maybes, no periods, no nothing. Just a statement. "I love you."
I use all of everything I have to type "I love you, too." back to her. I wait.
She says some incoherent shit about me calling her and for me to be quiet, and I just tell her to go to bed. I know that in the morning, things between us may be completely different (but in a good way.)
But I don't hear anything from her for 4 days. I knew she had a boyfriend, so I was wondering if he somehow read her text messages or something.
Then, just now, at 5 in the morning, she texts me and asks "Did I talk to you this weekend?"
I said "You just texted me a little when you were REALLY drunk."
and then comes this
"Oh lol well my little brother's friend had the phone half the time, so I didn't know what was being said."
That explains the outbursts of emotion inbetween our random question asking sessions.
"It's okay. Don't worry about it."
"Lol ok"
Lol ok.
Lol ok.
EL OH FUCKING EL OH KAY.
I really wanted her to die at that point. I'm not sure why. I just had this intense hatred for her in that moment that I can't really explain.
But we're not done yet. I casually try and start conversation with her. Who knows? It's worth a try.
"What are you doing up so late?"
"Bout to pass out. Night."
"Oh. You just woke me up and now you're going to bed?"
"Lol sorry night."
I fucking hate this girl.
(I don't want advice or sympathy, I just wanted to write this down because ... I don't know. I just felt like it.)
 
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United States37500 Posts
Women are evil.
Edit: you are 20, yes?
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On May 29 2008 19:23 NeoIllusions wrote:
Women are evil.
Edit: you are 20, yes?
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Listen, let's put aside that you got "pranked" by her brother's friend, this is a general rule: Never ever respond to advances of drunken girls. They tend not to think about what they're doing. Just be polite and don't let yourself in on it. Then, the next morning, talk to her about what she said and things will clear up quite quickly.
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Dude, that sucks ass.
Nothing worse than having your raised hopes dashed in a bullshit revelation like that.
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yeah what what d1v said!
girls are just so much more emo than boys (on average) that some of them really abuse their sexual superiority over the males to make themselves feel better with all their complexes and girl problems.
Add alcohol and some girls will really turn into pure evil.
Trying to hit on you cus they know u have a gf, hitting on you and then letting you drop right when u think its about to happen, giving the guy who loves you some hope only to crush it the next day.
Wait as I read that last sentence again It fucking bothers me how irrational and retarded many girls are. Crushing the one who most likely loves u, falling for the one who most likely will cheat on you?
Welcome to a girls world.
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Hong Kong20321 Posts
FUCKKKKINGG FUCK man dude that's some fucking painful shit right there -_-
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I guess I didn't explain it clearly enough in the post, but I tried several times to ignore her. Believe me, I fucking tried my hardest to just say "She's just drunk, she doesn't like you." and then I'd turn around and give myself a stupid reason to think otherwise (like how her spelling and grammar were perfect.) I don't know. When you want to believe something, anything seems possible.
On May 29 2008 19:23 NeoIllusions wrote:
Women are evil.
Edit: you are 20, yes?
Still 19 T_T
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ahh you are confuseed~~
Confussed I say :D
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I tought it was a pretty fucking funny story.
That should teach you a lesson to stop confessing over text messages.
You kids these days are fucked up.
I once had a girlfriend who was that text-happy too. Hated it, she could not tell me in person that she loved me, allways over messages when she left and i treated it as nothing more than a "bye" or "cya". Where's the real romance?
The hill near the lake, the green grass, the smell of flowers, unter the old tree, the silence, the fear, and then *POW* I LOVE YOU -> the sex -> the sex -> the sex -> the sex -> the food -> the sex -> the sex
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- She might really like you, but she's either really shy so she backs up sometimes or she's still uncertain about you respectively if she wants to start a (real) relationship
- She might also just toy around with you
Basically you gotta find out more. :p How she feels about you. It's nearly impossible to tell that from text messages. Especially when it might have been someone else sending them, lol.
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yeah on another note i totally agree withy jayson, confessing over text messages is pretty fucking pathetic. fortunately that cant happen to me since I dont even have a mobile (yep, thats true oldschool fuckers!)
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Internet and cellphone romance is the norm these days. Seriously, move out of the 80s.
Anyway, that sucks ass. What a load of shit. -_-
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That's a bunch of bull, sorry man
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My intuition is that in actuality she was the one sending those texts (while drunk, which makes them no less true because one's guard comes down when inebriated) and her embarrassment the next day prompted her to make up that bullshit story about her little brother's friend having her phone. Why else would she ask you, "Did I talk to you this weekend?" What would even prompt her to ask that other than to have your response as a lead-in to her bullshit story.
I mean, reaaaaaaaaaaally?
Either she is a technologically-challenged baboon who can't unravel the mysteries of her cell phone's "Sent Messages," "Inbox," and "Call History," - in which case, you should ask yourself why you would want to date such an insipid half-wit in the first place - or she is just another young, stupid girl who doesn't know how to deal with her emotions.
You decide which is really the most probable case.
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My intuition is that in actuality she was the one sending those texts (while drunk, which makes them no less true because one's guard comes down when inebriated) and her embarrassment the next day prompted her to make up that bullshit story about her little brother's friend having her phone. Why else would she ask you, "Did I talk to you this weekend?" What would even prompt her to ask that other than to have your response as a lead-in to her bullshit story.
Said it before I could. It definitely sounds like an excuse.
I say you quit pretending you don't like her that way and just confess yourself lol. Worst thing that could happen is she say "aw, I'm sorry I don't feel the same," and you move on. No point in entertaining this retarded friendship lol. If she already had a boyfriend when you met her, and still does now, I don't know what you were doing or what your plan was, but it was bad.
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I did this once at a party. I was fucking drunk and I started texting people that I liked them and I got an instant text response from this one chick who likes me a lot. She's a loud, annoying bitch and she has serious problems and her face is covered in acne(but she has a nice body) and she started texting back "really?"
Me: "Hell yessssss!"
Her: "Oh, how sweet! I like you a lot!!!"
I saw this as an opportunity to be a royal dick so I started leading her on. We kept going along with it till I got extremely irrational and just started saying "I loveeeee youuuu" over and over. I then just told her "Oh, sorry, wrong person" and I stopped texting her after that.
She was pissed off at me in school. Hahah XD
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but I bet she remembered what she had written in her text messages and used the brother story as an excuse ..
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