EPTOn July 05 2012 08:49 Polar_Nada wrote:
how do you do this? I don't go to parties.
how do you do this? I don't go to parties.
why not?
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Kalingingsong
Canada633 Posts
why not? | ||
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GhandiEAGLE
United States20754 Posts
On July 05 2012 08:33 Polar_Nada wrote: how would they know if i dont even talk to them? =[ Nice clothes. Niiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiice clothes. They know. | ||
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Polar_Nada
United States1548 Posts
On July 05 2012 09:06 Qwyn wrote: God damnit I love TL. OP, why don't you focus on getting through med-school before you get in a relationship? If you do get in a relationship make sure you set your boundaries and focus on your work. that sounds pretty good but how do I meet people after that? I will be so old... | ||
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blabber
United States4448 Posts
On July 05 2012 08:49 Polar_Nada wrote: how do you do this? I don't go to parties. maybe you should start | ||
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Kalingingsong
Canada633 Posts
On July 05 2012 09:14 Polar_Nada wrote: that sounds pretty good but how do I meet people after that? I will be so old... lol meet old people. | ||
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Polar_Nada
United States1548 Posts
Im not very social, so i don't enjoy parties :/ | ||
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JerKy
Korea (South)3013 Posts
I'm pretty sure youre going to make friends who are girls EVENTUALLY and youll naturally start getting close to them. I think. Thats how it happens a lot for me o.O | ||
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hazelynut
United States2196 Posts
i assume you are because darren posted stop trolling  | ||
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Dalguno
United States2446 Posts
But decide right now if you want a girlfriend. That way, if you decide you do, you can just go for it without second guessing yourself. Don't be scared about it, if you mess up, no big. Lots of other ladies to talk to. | ||
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Thrill
2599 Posts
On July 05 2012 08:49 Polar_Nada wrote: how do you do this? I don't go to parties. Think of it this way - the girl you want to meet is probably pretty similar to yourself. If she can overcome her fears/whatever and go to a party, she won't ever get to meet you if you're not there. If you don't want to meet someone in a social setting, just wait for med school then chose female lab partners etc, there's so much stuff you do that's 1on1 that you'll quicky get over any intimacy issues. You stare into each others eyes during retina exams, poke each other with needles, listen to each others hearts - the list goes on. The program literally forces you into these awkward situations to make sure you will be able to handle patient interaction. You'll also roleplay a lot with doctor-patient scenarios so yeah... There's training waiting for you further down the road but i wouldn't wait. Go to a party or two. | ||
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blabber
United States4448 Posts
On July 05 2012 09:19 hazelynut wrote: are you uci polar i assume you are because darren posted stop trolling it's very real. as evidenced in our raidcall chat. which btw is consistently empty besides the uci channel. | ||
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Polar_Nada
United States1548 Posts
On July 05 2012 09:19 JerKy wrote: Ive always said "Confidence and swagger go a long way". Then go charm them with your personality ;D I'm pretty sure youre going to make friends who are girls EVENTUALLY and youll naturally start getting close to them. I think. Thats how it happens a lot for me o.O But I am sooooo quiet ~_~ | ||
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Polar_Nada
United States1548 Posts
On July 05 2012 09:21 Thrill wrote: Think of it this way - the girl you want to meet is probably pretty similar to yourself. If she can overcome her fears/whatever and go to a party, she won't ever get to meet you if you're not there. If you don't want to meet someone in a social setting, just wait for med school then chose female lab partners etc, there's so much stuff you do that's 1on1 that you'll quicky get over any intimacy issues. You stare into each others eyes during retina exams, poke each other with needles, listen to each others hearts - the list goes on. The program literally forces you into these awkward situations to make sure you will be able to handle patient interaction. You'll also roleplay a lot with doctor-patient scenarios so yeah... There's training waiting for you further down the road but i wouldn't wait. Go to a party or two. if shes similar to me, I guess ill meet her on starcraft ^_^ | ||
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KarneEspada
United States72 Posts
On July 05 2012 09:21 blabber wrote: it's very real. as evidenced in our raidcall chat. which btw is consistently empty besides the uci channel. It's true. We are keeping CSL Raidcall alive! | ||
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PowerDes
United States520 Posts
On July 05 2012 09:19 hazelynut wrote: are you uci polar i assume you are because darren posted stop trolling Seems pretty real to me | ||
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Polar_Nada
United States1548 Posts
i love these guys. obligatory video: | ||
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eXigent.
Canada2419 Posts
That's just an excuse you are telling yourself. Nothing is stopping you from just walking up to someone, complimenting something about them , and maybe engaging in further conversation. It's not that hard at all to talk to women so long as you actually try. Stop theorycrafting it, and just walk up to a girl and say something positive. The worst thing that will happen is she wont be interested, in which case you are still perfectly fine. College is an amazing place to meet people, due to the mass amount of attendees. Once you get out of school into the real world it gets a bit harder. Don't let the moment pass you by! | ||
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jvo
United States122 Posts
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Polar_Nada
United States1548 Posts
On July 05 2012 10:05 jvo wrote: youre at irvine where theres a ton of asian girls...whats wrong with you (<- just think of it this way) yeah i am fully aware of this. Fuck me man. ~_~ | ||
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DarkPlasmaBall
United States45971 Posts
Polar_Nada: 1. Do you feel that you could have enough time for both a healthy relationship and your current amount of education/ work? If yes, move to #2. If no, don't bother trying and just focus on your studies first. You can always try finding someone when you're employed. If you don't know, ask others who are in relationships while studying what you're studying. For the record, if you can afford trying, try it just to build experience on what to do (or not to do) in the future. You don't need to find your future wife on the first try. 2. Do you have access to women? If yes, try to go out to places where you'll be seen and see them more (parties, hang-outs, bars, etc.). If no, make friends with guys who have connections to those places, and then go there more often. Regardless, go to #3. 3. Are you sociable around women? If yes, good. You can pick up a girl. If no... you need to be confident, friendly, and casual. You don't need to do anything flashy or super-intense. This is something that can be elaborated on later, but figure out whether or not you even want/ can handle a relationship (time-wise) first. | ||
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