Girl Blog - what to do?? - Page 6

GeorgeForeman

United States1746 Posts

July 15 2012 20:57 GMT

#101

First question: Do you like yourself/think you're awesome?

If no: Fix this. Learn to like yourself and realize that you're awesome.

If yes: You will eventually meet girls, and if they're even marginally decent judges of character, they'll also realize that you're awesome. It sounds like you're not the kind of person who enjoys parties. That's fine, though drinking helps (both with you and with them). When you get to med school, you'll be forced to be around people, and many of those people will be girls. Join study groups. Hang out with these people. If you like one and think you might like to date them, take a time when you're alone and say that. Literally. Just say that. "Hey. I think you're cute/funny/interest/whateveritdoesn'treallymatter. Would you like to get coffee/drinks with me some time?" Confidence is really 95% of the battle. (The rest is not looking/smelling hideous.)

I could go on, but really most of this comes down to the first question. The more comfortable you become with who you are the easier it will be to get dates with girls if you want them.

SarR

476 Posts

July 15 2012 22:08 GMT

#102

On July 05 2012 12:05 Elegance wrote:
The girl doesn't find you attractive based on how you look, what you are wearing, what job you have or how much money you have. They find you attractive based on how you can handle your SHIT, carry yourself as a man, not be worried about picking up some chick (because if you really are worth it, why would you need to chase someone?). It's not what you say in a conversation that attracts her to you, its an aura you set around you when you have a killer mindset (vaginas TINGLE when they sense the aura).

This man knows his shit listen to him

+1

Endymion

United States3701 Posts

July 15 2012 22:48 GMT

#103

you're barking up the wrong tree.. going to parties won't get you a girl thats like you, you'll find extroverted girls... if you want a bookworm, start looking in their natural habitat: the library.. you need to overcome your social anxiety, start going up to girls and being retarded, then eventually you'll realize it's not that bad and you can start approaching girls like a normal human being... you're in med school, literally every girl you talk to will be impressed by that.

Salv

Canada3083 Posts

July 15 2012 23:27 GMT

#104

On July 11 2012 13:05 Polar_Nada wrote:
man. this week there were so many girls that were like sitting alone, but i had NO CONFIDENCE at all to talk to them. I have no idea how to open!!!

For example, today there was this hot ass asian girl in the bus, and there were very few people also in the bus. She was even wearing a see-through shirt (kinda) so i saw her underwear. I got an instant boner and it was awkward as fuck. ~_~

I usually wouldn't suggest what I'm about to suggest because I don't think it's necessary for a lot of men, but you could really benefit from working out. If you work out at home or at a gym you'll feel a lot better about yourself and you'll be more attractive. If you notice women paying more attention to you or looking at you then maybe you'll develop some more confidence in yourself because that seems to be your problem right now. A woman isn't likely to come up to you and do all the work for you, you're have to go out and do some of it yourself.

I don't know you personally (obviously) so I can't say with much confidence what the problems are for you, but it's clear that confidence is at least one of them, and you seem a little awkward - feeling better about yourself is going to help you in both cases, so go out, meet some people at the gym, and work out a bit, it'll likely do you wonders.

Also, by the direction of this thread it doesn't seem like you're capable of a meaningful relationship with a woman right now to be honest, even if a woman came along who was willing to drag you down that path kicking and screaming. Best to wait and prepare for when you are.

PowerDes

United States520 Posts

August 23 2012 07:03 GMT

#105

How'd it go with that girl on the bus?

Aerisky

United States12129 Posts

August 23 2012 07:40 GMT

#106

On July 16 2012 07:08 SarR wrote:

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This man knows his shit listen to him

+1

rofl "vaginas TINGLE"

Focus on med school now but just try to make friends and talk to girls in general I guess? Don't seriously pursue a relationship if you think it will interfere with your life at this point, but get yourself out there and learn not to be so awkward I suppose.

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