EPTFind the ways to motivate and improve yourself first, then you can confidently tackle the issue of women.
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FractalsOnFire
Australia1756 Posts
Find the ways to motivate and improve yourself first, then you can confidently tackle the issue of women. | ||
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iKill[ShocK]
Vietnam3530 Posts
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CecilSunkure
United States2829 Posts
On July 05 2012 09:24 Polar_Nada wrote: if shes similar to me, I guess ill meet her on starcraft ^_^ I met my girlfriend over BW looool | ||
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TheToast
United States4808 Posts
On July 05 2012 08:38 mastergriggy wrote: To get a girlfriend, you need one of the three "B's": Balls, Booze, or Bullion. If you have that it isn't hard, but girlfriends are really expensive anyway so unless you are ready for that in addition to giving up a lot of your free time, then it's probably best to just avoid it. But it's up to you. Just let us know what option you chose so we can congratulate/mock you for it! The amount of mysogyny in this thread is spectacular. -edit: On July 05 2012 12:46 heyoka wrote: You're thinking too much. Just go talk to some girls. Yeah it's scary but it turns out they are just people too and most of them are shy as well. nononono Don't treat women like human beings, that could lead to a meaninful relationship. See it's all like a contest and women are the prizes. You have to learn to trick them into having meaningless sex with you. When you find yourself inevitably unfulfilled then you can start rediculous exercise programs, not aimed at being healthy, but aimed at being physically attractive so you can have more meaningless sex with vain and shallow women. Then you can go onto the internets and brag to everyone about how much of a baller you are to compensate for all your shortcomings! + Show Spoiler + PS: heyoka's advice is the best advice in this whole thread. Lol @ the guy who posted the exercise video. | ||
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MetalMarine
United States1559 Posts
On July 06 2012 04:53 iKill[ShocK] wrote: are you white by any chance? Asian bitches love white guys, i know because im asian. And you got lots of asian bitches at Irvine. Not always true... >_> I also know because I'm Asian. | ||
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Fumanchu
Canada669 Posts
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Polar_Nada
United States1548 Posts
On July 06 2012 04:53 iKill[ShocK] wrote: are you white by any chance? Asian bitches love white guys, i know because im asian. And you got lots of asian bitches at Irvine. Too bad. Im a nerdy asian lollolol. On July 06 2012 11:40 Fumanchu wrote: Everywhere you go, you notice attractive women. It's impossible to venture out of your house without encountering at least one. When you see an attractive women, don't think, don't contemplate, just walk up and start talking. Introduce yourself, inquire about their current activities, make jokes, complement them, and then ask them out. Sounds scary, but it's really not. The trick is to not think after seeing an attractive girl. Once a girl says yes, and they will say yes, date for as little or as much as you want. Your first date, you will suck. You will be an awkward nerd who does everything wrong and probably comments on how her arms are hairier than yours. But the next time you will do better. And better after that. And eventually, you will come to realize just what it is exactly you want in a relationship. To whatever extent that might be. And then you can move on comfortably with your life. Yes. People keep telling me this. The hardest part is just walking up to a random girl and talking to her. I never EVER see other people do this, but I know I should ~_~ | ||
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Azera
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FractalsOnFire
Australia1756 Posts
On July 06 2012 05:13 TheToast wrote: -edit: nononono Don't treat women like human beings, that could lead to a meaninful relationship. See it's all like a contest and women are the prizes. You have to learn to trick them into having meaningless sex with you. When you find yourself inevitably unfulfilled then you can start rediculous exercise programs, not aimed at being healthy, but aimed at being physically attractive so you can have more meaningless sex with vain and shallow women. Then you can go onto the internets and brag to everyone about how much of a baller you are to compensate for all your shortcomings! + Show Spoiler + PS: heyoka's advice is the best advice in this whole thread. Lol @ the guy who posted the exercise video. Although what you say about men chasing sex for external validation to be true, i know of a few guys who don't brag about their conquests to everyone they know but rather they truly enjoy having the company of numerous different women. They even go into relationships when they want to, though they usually somewhat regret it heh. And the exercise video wasn't actually about exercise, you missed the whole point. It was about determination, persistence and going for what you really want. Essentially finding the motivation to chase your dreams. | ||
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Otolia
France5805 Posts
On July 06 2012 16:02 FractalsOnFire wrote: Although what you say about men chasing sex for external validation to be true, i know of a few guys who don't brag about their conquests to everyone they know but rather they truly enjoy having the company of numerous different women. They even go into relationships when they want to, though they usually somewhat regret it heh. And the exercise video wasn't actually about exercise, you missed the whole point. It was about determination, persistence and going for what you really want. Essentially finding the motivation to chase your dreams. I feel like I could write a paper on the social pressure inflicted upon newcomers by the overachiever of our world. | ||
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FractalsOnFire
Australia1756 Posts
On July 06 2012 17:14 Otolia wrote: I feel like I could write a paper on the social pressure inflicted upon newcomers by the overachiever of our world. I feel like i could have a really good answer for this if it wasn't so passive aggressive. And seriously, what do you mean? What social pressure? The guy in the video is an overachiever because he worked his ass off, realising his potential? | ||
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MetalMarine
United States1559 Posts
On July 06 2012 15:59 Azera wrote: Make friends w/ the girls first Simple, yet effective! | ||
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Arcanefrost
Belgium1257 Posts
I don't think that's effective at all, if you want her to be your gf you shouldn't give her the impression that you want to be just friends. | ||
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PulFre
7 Posts
 some of your female friends will friendzone you and some won't. chances are, many of the ones who *permanently friendzone you (whatever that means) probably wouldn't be interested in being your gf regardless of how you approached her. so no worries.^but on the other hand if you really are interested in a girl, friend or not, you should def let her know that... | ||
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OpticalShot
Canada6330 Posts
On July 06 2012 15:59 Azera wrote: Make friends w/ the girls first Legit advice. Something you could follow yourself... =P If you're nervous around girls, you have to first get around that by becoming casual / activity friends with girls. What are your interests other than gaming? Perhaps music, arts, drama, or maybe even juggling? In College there should be an abundance of student clubs and organizations you can join and meet new people and make new friendships. A lot of girl blogs on TL are about how to pick up a specific girl in a particular situation, but for you, I think it's best to start at the friendship level. Drop the thought of marriage or long-term relationship or whatever, focus on the present and enjoy what's there. It all starts when you say hi to your stand partner as you take your seat in the first violin section of the school orchestra... and she says hi back. | ||
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Arcanefrost
Belgium1257 Posts
On July 06 2012 22:19 OpticalShot wrote: It all starts when you say hi to your stand partner as you take your seat in the first violin section of the school orchestra... and she says hi back. "Hey" has a higher success rate than "Hi" btw :p | ||
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MrASAP
United Kingdom63 Posts
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lefix
Germany1082 Posts
On July 06 2012 23:05 Arcanefrost wrote: "Hey" has a higher success rate than "Hi" btw :p ![[image loading]](http://urlybits.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/Heyyyy-610x322.png) | ||
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Polar_Nada
United States1548 Posts
On July 06 2012 23:05 Arcanefrost wrote: "Hey" has a higher success rate than "Hi" btw :p Sounds like an excellent idea! I will join the tennis club next school year. | ||
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obesechicken13
United States10467 Posts
On July 07 2012 08:46 Polar_Nada wrote: Sounds like an excellent idea! I will join the tennis club next school year. HS Tennis is fun I wasn't on the team but I played with people on it a lot. Mostly just ended up getting the ball when I hit it into the woods :/ | ||
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