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Personally, I had always found being caught up with a girl really juvenile. I think having sleepless nights over girls is something that you only get going with in high school. And here I am at 21 years old not being able to sleep because I'm thinking so much about this girl I met at work.
It's really helpless feeling to have. Now I really understand a glimpse of what all this is about. Somehow, I feel that maybe my pride is getting in the way.
I don't know why this is so hard. I'm so caught up with the thought that she might have a boyfriend.
It's days like this where I really hate myself.
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Hehe... good luck
Just wait two-three days and let the feelings die down a little before you try anything with her?
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Honestly I think what may help you in this situation is to stop relating this girl to your ego. Detach from it. It seems like you're getting caught up in this girl. Don't put the pussy on the pedastool....so to speak.
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Jealous. I always loved that feeling when I was young. Embrace it.
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This is such a ban-trap I'm not getting into it.
I liked the "Don't put the pussy on a pedastool" advise!
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What's a pedastool? Is it a type of poop?
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Invite her to a party and take it from there. Liquid courage does wonders.
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Just ask her out? People used to get shit done man.
Or, if you met her at work because she works there, don't bother, nothing good will come out of it.
And I agree with zatic, the feeling is sort of a bittersweet one, on one hand it might be the only thing on your mind so hard it cripples you, but you still feel good thinking about her.
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On January 17 2011 23:52 JMave wrote: I don't know why this is so hard. I'm so caught up with the thought that she might have a boyfriend.
You're going to drive yourself crazy with the possibility. Why not talk to her and get to know her better?
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On January 17 2011 23:52 JMave wrote: Personally, I had always found being caught up with a girl really juvenile. I think having sleepless nights over girls is something that you only get going with in high school. And here I am at 21 years old not being able to sleep because I'm thinking so much about this girl I met at work.
It's really helpless feeling to have. Now I really understand a glimpse of what all this is about. Somehow, I feel that maybe my pride is getting in the way.
I don't know why this is so hard. I'm so caught up with the thought that she might have a boyfriend.
It's days like this where I really hate myself.
Uh I remember that feeling, as someone said, it's bittersweet. I miss it now though, I don't feel it anymore.
Try to ask her out, unless you're working pretty close, then I'd think about it twice.
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Aww, the feeling of being in love, such a curse and such a bliss. Hope it works out for you, the first stages of a budding romance is so wonderful.
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just grab her ass - if she does it back, you win, if she just smiles, you have a chance
if she frowns, you don't have a chance (i'm lying, you still do unless she reports you to the manager...but you have a 66% chance to win!)
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Step #1 - figure out if she actually has a boyfriend.
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Rule #1: Never stick your pen in the compny ink Rule #2: When in doubt, refer to rule #1
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On January 18 2011 02:47 LaSt)ChAnCe wrote: just grab her ass - if she does it back, you win, if she just smiles, you have a chance
if she frowns, you don't have a chance (i'm lying, you still do unless she reports you to the manager...but you have a 66% chance to win!) Your username fits perfectly.
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ask her if she has a boyfriend....but when im in that situation, i always assume they have a "boyfriend" since i always ask to myself "how can she not have a boyfriend?" ... .etc.... anyway, just keep do nice things to her and see how she reacts
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Tell her she gave you insomnia.
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On January 18 2011 00:12 zatic wrote: Jealous. I always loved that feeling when I was young. Embrace it. Agreed, but I still hold out hope that I'll find it again.
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Insomnia when you don't even know whether she has a boyfriend or not? Thats pretty lame man. Its not like she died or she divorced you.
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