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JMave
Singapore1803 Posts
It's really helpless feeling to have. Now I really understand a glimpse of what all this is about. Somehow, I feel that maybe my pride is getting in the way. I don't know why this is so hard. I'm so caught up with the thought that she might have a boyfriend. It's days like this where I really hate myself.   | ||
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Muirhead
United States556 Posts
 Just wait two-three days and let the feelings die down a little before you try anything with her? | ||
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cody1024d
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zatic
Zurich15328 Posts
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Qzy
Denmark1121 Posts
 I'm not getting into it.I liked the "Don't put the pussy on a pedastool" advise! | ||
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StorkHwaiting
United States3465 Posts
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ludic123
Norway161 Posts
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Catch]22
Sweden2683 Posts
Or, if you met her at work because she works there, don't bother, nothing good will come out of it. And I agree with zatic, the feeling is sort of a bittersweet one, on one hand it might be the only thing on your mind so hard it cripples you, but you still feel good thinking about her. | ||
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Servius_Fulvius
United States947 Posts
On January 17 2011 23:52 JMave wrote: I don't know why this is so hard. I'm so caught up with the thought that she might have a boyfriend. You're going to drive yourself crazy with the possibility. Why not talk to her and get to know her better? | ||
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quirinus
Croatia2489 Posts
On January 17 2011 23:52 JMave wrote: Personally, I had always found being caught up with a girl really juvenile. I think having sleepless nights over girls is something that you only get going with in high school. And here I am at 21 years old not being able to sleep because I'm thinking so much about this girl I met at work. It's really helpless feeling to have. Now I really understand a glimpse of what all this is about. Somehow, I feel that maybe my pride is getting in the way. I don't know why this is so hard. I'm so caught up with the thought that she might have a boyfriend. It's days like this where I really hate myself. Uh I remember that feeling, as someone said, it's bittersweet. I miss it now though, I don't feel it anymore.  Try to ask her out, unless you're working pretty close, then I'd think about it twice. | ||
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cArn-
Korea (South)824 Posts
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fabulously
Norway724 Posts
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LaSt)ChAnCe
United States2179 Posts
if she frowns, you don't have a chance (i'm lying, you still do unless she reports you to the manager...but you have a 66% chance to win!) | ||
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Comeh
United States18918 Posts
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samalie
Canada87 Posts
Rule #2: When in doubt, refer to rule #1 | ||
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OpRaider
United States307 Posts
On January 18 2011 02:47 LaSt)ChAnCe wrote: just grab her ass - if she does it back, you win, if she just smiles, you have a chance if she frowns, you don't have a chance (i'm lying, you still do unless she reports you to the manager...but you have a 66% chance to win!) Your username fits perfectly. | ||
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Shaka_Kon
Canada112 Posts
anyway, just keep do nice things to her and see how she reacts | ||
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YourMom
Romania565 Posts
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Scorcher2k
United States802 Posts
On January 18 2011 00:12 zatic wrote: Jealous. I always loved that feeling when I was young. Embrace it. Agreed, but I still hold out hope that I'll find it again. | ||
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lixlix
United States482 Posts
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DoubleZee
Canada556 Posts
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DragoonPK
3259 Posts
On January 18 2011 00:12 zatic wrote: Jealous. I always loved that feeling when I was young. Embrace it. Oh Zatic, dont worry you are still young | ||
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Tony Campolo
New Zealand364 Posts
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Impervious
Canada4200 Posts
On January 18 2011 05:26 Tony Campolo wrote: Wow, please get on to reading www.domesticdeath.com and roissy.wordpress.com ASAP. I'm not kidding If you are already 21 then you are already behind in the game - you need to alpha up otherwise you'll be pussy-whipped for life. Wow. I just checked out those sites. Wow. Really? You're advocating some of that shit? my troll-senses are tingling | ||
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Tony Campolo
New Zealand364 Posts
On January 18 2011 05:38 Impervious wrote: Wow. I just checked out those sites. Wow. Really? You're advocating some of that shit? my troll-senses are tingling Be in denial all you want, it doesn't take a genius to see that nice guys finish last. | ||
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forgotten0ne
United States951 Posts
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Nyx
Rwanda460 Posts
On January 18 2011 00:12 zatic wrote: Jealous. I always loved that feeling when I was young. Embrace it. Oh my god +1 | ||
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Impervious
Canada4200 Posts
On January 18 2011 05:52 Tony Campolo wrote: Be in denial all you want, it doesn't take a genius to see that nice guys finish last. They do. But that's some serious extremes they're advocating. 50/50 is more reasonable lol. I'm a bit of a chauvanist, but if she wouldn't cover a third of the costs, I'm out as well. 100% coverage tho? Complete opposite. | ||
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tonight
United States11130 Posts
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Zim23
United States1681 Posts
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doihy
668 Posts
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Tony Campolo
New Zealand364 Posts
On January 18 2011 06:55 tonight wrote: There is nothing wrong with feeling that way at 21. I know people at 25-26 that still can feel that way. It just depends on the type of person you are. That's pretty sad and pathetic though. Guys should have stopped feeling that way after high school, in fact after their first rejections at 14-15. If they're still getting nervous about chickydees at 21 then they'll remain virginised for quite some time until they decide to grow some balls. Think about it. All the girls in college and university at that age - are they fucking guys who act all effiminate or are they fucking the jocks who are confident and get all wussy around women. | ||
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Redmark
Canada2129 Posts
On January 18 2011 05:52 Tony Campolo wrote: Be in denial all you want, it doesn't take a genius to see that nice guys finish last. hahaha domesticdeath.com is amazing, I can't stop reading it. I don't know if it's a troll or not but either way it's mesmerizing. Though it never says nice guys finish last, I don't know where you got that from. It basically says to be yourself and not let others' perceptions of you restrain you. In the case of females, it says to act like the superior creatures you are, e.g. the way you would normally act if no one was watching. Nothing to do with being nice, more like not giving a shit lol. http://www.domesticdeath.com/bitch_management/physical-appearance-effect-attractiveness/ Actually I kind of hope that this is a troll, and that you are too. The guy who writes these seems like a very intelligent person in every way but one. | ||
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JMave
Singapore1803 Posts
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Chef
10810 Posts
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Brett
Australia3820 Posts
On January 18 2011 08:12 JMave wrote: She does. Oh wells. Back to work. That was hard wasn't it? ;p | ||
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Tony Campolo
New Zealand364 Posts
On January 18 2011 08:12 JMave wrote: She does. Oh wells. Back to work. Once again, you have shown your ineptitude. If you really want her, then she's yours. If he is only a boyfriend then it's open game. Women treat relationships like jobs - if a better one comes along, they resign from the first. Don't be deluded into thinking romance movies are real life. You can be a white knight and keep your hands off her because some other chobe has her, or you can dictate how you want to live your life and not let limitations restrict you. Chances are if you don't fuck her her boyfriend will continue doing so until some other guy comes along to replace him. You could be that guy. Or you can just watch the events unfold as your penis gets smaller. | ||
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Nyx
Rwanda460 Posts
On January 18 2011 08:34 Tony Campolo wrote: Once again, you have shown your ineptitude. If you really want her, then she's yours. If he is only a boyfriend then it's open game. Women treat relationships like jobs - if a better one comes along, they resign from the first. Don't be deluded into thinking romance movies are real life. You can be a white knight and keep your hands off her because some other chobe has her, or you can dictate how you want to live your life and not let limitations restrict you. Chances are if you don't fuck her her boyfriend will continue doing so until some other guy comes along to replace him. You could be that guy. Or you can just watch the events unfold as your penis gets smaller. Beware, attempting this without experience with women may leave you in the friend zone and the months of torment that follow. | ||
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tonight
United States11130 Posts
On January 18 2011 08:34 Tony Campolo wrote: Once again, you have shown your ineptitude. If you really want her, then she's yours. If he is only a boyfriend then it's open game. Women treat relationships like jobs - if a better one comes along, they resign from the first. Don't be deluded into thinking romance movies are real life. You can be a white knight and keep your hands off her because some other chobe has her, or you can dictate how you want to live your life and not let limitations restrict you. Chances are if you don't fuck her her boyfriend will continue doing so until some other guy comes along to replace him. You could be that guy. Or you can just watch the events unfold as your penis gets smaller. Some pretty bad advice. | ||
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Tony Campolo
New Zealand364 Posts
Got anything better? I suppose you want him to remain a 21 year old virgin who pisses his pants everytime he's around a girl. There's nothing 'cute' about the OP's OP. It just makes him look like a teenage boy discovering puberty. Teenage boys don't get the chickydees. He needs to become a real man. He'll be happier in the longterm if he doesn't act like a wussy. He'll be too busy fucking girls in the ass to be caring about anxiety and insecurity and having TL's nerd population encouraging him in it. | ||
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tonight
United States11130 Posts
On January 18 2011 09:48 Tony Campolo wrote: Got anything better? I suppose you want him to remain a 21 year old virgin who pisses his pants everytime he's around a girl. There's nothing 'cute' about the OP's OP. It just makes him look like a teenage boy discovering puberty. Teenage boys don't get the chickydees. He needs to become a real man. He'll be happier in the longterm if he doesn't act like a wussy. He'll be too busy fucking girls in the ass to be caring about anxiety and insecurity and having TL's nerd population encouraging him in it. This is the kind of advice you should adhere to if you want to be a coors light pounding, fist pumping, herpes having, genital warts maintaining, chest waxing, emotionless, cocky, douche. | ||
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tonight
United States11130 Posts
Party on, bro. | ||
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zfr
Australia70 Posts
On January 18 2011 01:25 ludic123 wrote: Invite her to a party and take it from there. Liquid courage does wonders. Off topic slightly... Liquid'Courage is a great alias for Jinro. | ||
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Tony Campolo
New Zealand364 Posts
On January 18 2011 10:34 tonight wrote: This is the kind of advice you should adhere to if you want to be a coors light pounding, fist pumping, herpes having, genital warts maintaining, chest waxing, emotionless, cocky, douche. As I said, if you have any better advice feel free to impart your wisdom. And if anal sex offends you... Your sister is engaging in it right now, just like any other good-looking, American-culture-abiding, red-blooded human being with a healthy sex life. | ||
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tonight
United States11130 Posts
Your advice is just, "If that girl won't fuck you find one that will." I don't really think that's what he's looking for, but if that's what you're looking for it makes little to no difference to me. At least if you're having anal sex you're not running the risk of reproducing. | ||
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Brett
Australia3820 Posts
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Schplyok
64 Posts
On January 18 2011 09:48 Tony Campolo wrote: ... He needs to become a real man. He'll be happier in the longterm if he doesn't act like a wussy. He'll be too busy fucking girls in the ass to be caring about anxiety and insecurity and having TL's nerd population encouraging him in it. Its funny how you encourage him to act like a man when your values are typical for a 16 year old. ... or have I been trolled? | ||
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fabulously
Norway724 Posts
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JMave
Singapore1803 Posts
On January 18 2011 18:42 fabulously wrote: Wow, I come back to this thread after one day and see it has gone from this cuteish story about a boy inlove to everyone talking about bumsex..Impressive xD some of the replies are quite funny. its really weird cuz she's sitting right oppositeme now | ||
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BottleAbuser
Korea (South)1888 Posts
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ludic123
Norway161 Posts
On January 18 2011 10:38 zfr wrote: Off topic slightly... Liquid'Courage is a great alias for Jinro. lol. Yeah, it is actually. xD | ||
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SpoR
United States1542 Posts
On January 18 2011 04:21 lixlix wrote: Insomnia when you don't even know whether she has a boyfriend or not? Thats pretty lame man. Its not like she died or she divorced you. yea this thread is a ban trap | ||
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