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Personally, I had always found being caught up with a girl really juvenile. I think having sleepless nights over girls is something that you only get going with in high school. And here I am at 21 years old not being able to sleep because I'm thinking so much about this girl I met at work.
It's really helpless feeling to have. Now I really understand a glimpse of what all this is about. Somehow, I feel that maybe my pride is getting in the way.
I don't know why this is so hard. I'm so caught up with the thought that she might have a boyfriend.
It's days like this where I really hate myself.
   
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Hehe... good luck 
Just wait two-three days and let the feelings die down a little before you try anything with her?
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Honestly I think what may help you in this situation is to stop relating this girl to your ego. Detach from it. It seems like you're getting caught up in this girl. Don't put the pussy on the pedastool....so to speak.
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Jealous. I always loved that feeling when I was young. Embrace it.
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This is such a ban-trap I'm not getting into it.
I liked the "Don't put the pussy on a pedastool" advise!
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What's a pedastool? Is it a type of poop?
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Invite her to a party and take it from there. Liquid courage does wonders.
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Just ask her out? People used to get shit done man.
Or, if you met her at work because she works there, don't bother, nothing good will come out of it.
And I agree with zatic, the feeling is sort of a bittersweet one, on one hand it might be the only thing on your mind so hard it cripples you, but you still feel good thinking about her.
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On January 17 2011 23:52 JMave wrote: I don't know why this is so hard. I'm so caught up with the thought that she might have a boyfriend.
You're going to drive yourself crazy with the possibility. Why not talk to her and get to know her better?
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On January 17 2011 23:52 JMave wrote: Personally, I had always found being caught up with a girl really juvenile. I think having sleepless nights over girls is something that you only get going with in high school. And here I am at 21 years old not being able to sleep because I'm thinking so much about this girl I met at work.
It's really helpless feeling to have. Now I really understand a glimpse of what all this is about. Somehow, I feel that maybe my pride is getting in the way.
I don't know why this is so hard. I'm so caught up with the thought that she might have a boyfriend.
It's days like this where I really hate myself.
Uh I remember that feeling, as someone said, it's bittersweet. I miss it now though, I don't feel it anymore. 
Try to ask her out, unless you're working pretty close, then I'd think about it twice.
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Aww, the feeling of being in love, such a curse and such a bliss. Hope it works out for you, the first stages of a budding romance is so wonderful.
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just grab her ass - if she does it back, you win, if she just smiles, you have a chance
if she frowns, you don't have a chance (i'm lying, you still do unless she reports you to the manager...but you have a 66% chance to win!)
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Step #1 - figure out if she actually has a boyfriend.
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Rule #1: Never stick your pen in the compny ink Rule #2: When in doubt, refer to rule #1
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On January 18 2011 02:47 LaSt)ChAnCe wrote: just grab her ass - if she does it back, you win, if she just smiles, you have a chance
if she frowns, you don't have a chance (i'm lying, you still do unless she reports you to the manager...but you have a 66% chance to win!) Your username fits perfectly.
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ask her if she has a boyfriend....but when im in that situation, i always assume they have a "boyfriend" since i always ask to myself "how can she not have a boyfriend?" ... .etc.... anyway, just keep do nice things to her and see how she reacts
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Tell her she gave you insomnia.
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On January 18 2011 00:12 zatic wrote: Jealous. I always loved that feeling when I was young. Embrace it. Agreed, but I still hold out hope that I'll find it again.
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Insomnia when you don't even know whether she has a boyfriend or not? Thats pretty lame man. Its not like she died or she divorced you.
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Talk to her and it should go away. I think it's the not knowing if you have a chance that is the main issue.
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On January 18 2011 00:12 zatic wrote: Jealous. I always loved that feeling when I was young. Embrace it.
Oh Zatic, dont worry you are still young
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Wow, please get on to reading www.domesticdeath.com and roissy.wordpress.com ASAP. I'm not kidding If you are already 21 then you are already behind in the game - you need to alpha up otherwise you'll be pussy-whipped for life.
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On January 18 2011 05:26 Tony Campolo wrote:Wow, please get on to reading www.domesticdeath.com and roissy.wordpress.com ASAP. I'm not kidding If you are already 21 then you are already behind in the game - you need to alpha up otherwise you'll be pussy-whipped for life. Wow.
I just checked out those sites.
Wow.
Really? You're advocating some of that shit?
my troll-senses are tingling
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On January 18 2011 05:38 Impervious wrote:Show nested quote +On January 18 2011 05:26 Tony Campolo wrote:Wow, please get on to reading www.domesticdeath.com and roissy.wordpress.com ASAP. I'm not kidding If you are already 21 then you are already behind in the game - you need to alpha up otherwise you'll be pussy-whipped for life. Wow. I just checked out those sites. Wow. Really? You're advocating some of that shit? my troll-senses are tingling
Be in denial all you want, it doesn't take a genius to see that nice guys finish last.
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I'm 23, and first dates can still do this to me if I get no reply from the girl later on, after the date. No reply doesn't actually mean anything, a lot of girls just like to wait until the next day to talk to you. You can't help but lay in bed and wonder "did it go as well as I thought? Did I say something I shouldn't have? Did I mess up the goodnight kiss?"
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On January 18 2011 00:12 zatic wrote: Jealous. I always loved that feeling when I was young. Embrace it.
Oh my god +1
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On January 18 2011 05:52 Tony Campolo wrote:Show nested quote +On January 18 2011 05:38 Impervious wrote:On January 18 2011 05:26 Tony Campolo wrote:Wow, please get on to reading www.domesticdeath.com and roissy.wordpress.com ASAP. I'm not kidding If you are already 21 then you are already behind in the game - you need to alpha up otherwise you'll be pussy-whipped for life. Wow. I just checked out those sites. Wow. Really? You're advocating some of that shit? my troll-senses are tingling Be in denial all you want, it doesn't take a genius to see that nice guys finish last. They do. But that's some serious extremes they're advocating. 50/50 is more reasonable lol. I'm a bit of a chauvanist, but if she wouldn't cover a third of the costs, I'm out as well. 100% coverage tho? Complete opposite.
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There is nothing wrong with feeling that way at 21. I know people at 25-26 that still can feel that way. It just depends on the type of person you are.
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Just go for it, you never know until you try. In the worst case scenario even if you are rejected, you will have some sense of closure that will help you sleep at night.
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On January 18 2011 06:55 tonight wrote: There is nothing wrong with feeling that way at 21. I know people at 25-26 that still can feel that way. It just depends on the type of person you are.
That's pretty sad and pathetic though. Guys should have stopped feeling that way after high school, in fact after their first rejections at 14-15. If they're still getting nervous about chickydees at 21 then they'll remain virginised for quite some time until they decide to grow some balls.
Think about it. All the girls in college and university at that age - are they fucking guys who act all effiminate or are they fucking the jocks who are confident and get all wussy around women.
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On January 18 2011 05:52 Tony Campolo wrote: Be in denial all you want, it doesn't take a genius to see that nice guys finish last. hahaha domesticdeath.com is amazing, I can't stop reading it. I don't know if it's a troll or not but either way it's mesmerizing.
Though it never says nice guys finish last, I don't know where you got that from. It basically says to be yourself and not let others' perceptions of you restrain you. In the case of females, it says to act like the superior creatures you are, e.g. the way you would normally act if no one was watching. Nothing to do with being nice, more like not giving a shit lol.
http://www.domesticdeath.com/bitch_management/physical-appearance-effect-attractiveness/
Actually I kind of hope that this is a troll, and that you are too. The guy who writes these seems like a very intelligent person in every way but one.
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She does. Oh wells. Back to work.
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Here you are, a wise old man of 21 years with a grey, grey beard reaching down to the floor, and you've discovered infatuation.
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On January 18 2011 08:12 JMave wrote: She does. Oh wells. Back to work. That was hard wasn't it? ;p
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On January 18 2011 08:12 JMave wrote: She does. Oh wells. Back to work.
Once again, you have shown your ineptitude. If you really want her, then she's yours. If he is only a boyfriend then it's open game. Women treat relationships like jobs - if a better one comes along, they resign from the first. Don't be deluded into thinking romance movies are real life. You can be a white knight and keep your hands off her because some other chobe has her, or you can dictate how you want to live your life and not let limitations restrict you. Chances are if you don't fuck her her boyfriend will continue doing so until some other guy comes along to replace him. You could be that guy. Or you can just watch the events unfold as your penis gets smaller.
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On January 18 2011 08:34 Tony Campolo wrote:Once again, you have shown your ineptitude. If you really want her, then she's yours. If he is only a boyfriend then it's open game. Women treat relationships like jobs - if a better one comes along, they resign from the first. Don't be deluded into thinking romance movies are real life. You can be a white knight and keep your hands off her because some other chobe has her, or you can dictate how you want to live your life and not let limitations restrict you. Chances are if you don't fuck her her boyfriend will continue doing so until some other guy comes along to replace him. You could be that guy. Or you can just watch the events unfold as your penis gets smaller.
Beware, attempting this without experience with women may leave you in the friend zone and the months of torment that follow.
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On January 18 2011 08:34 Tony Campolo wrote:Once again, you have shown your ineptitude. If you really want her, then she's yours. If he is only a boyfriend then it's open game. Women treat relationships like jobs - if a better one comes along, they resign from the first. Don't be deluded into thinking romance movies are real life. You can be a white knight and keep your hands off her because some other chobe has her, or you can dictate how you want to live your life and not let limitations restrict you. Chances are if you don't fuck her her boyfriend will continue doing so until some other guy comes along to replace him. You could be that guy. Or you can just watch the events unfold as your penis gets smaller. Some pretty bad advice.
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On January 18 2011 09:44 tonight wrote:Show nested quote +On January 18 2011 08:34 Tony Campolo wrote:On January 18 2011 08:12 JMave wrote: She does. Oh wells. Back to work. Once again, you have shown your ineptitude. If you really want her, then she's yours. If he is only a boyfriend then it's open game. Women treat relationships like jobs - if a better one comes along, they resign from the first. Don't be deluded into thinking romance movies are real life. You can be a white knight and keep your hands off her because some other chobe has her, or you can dictate how you want to live your life and not let limitations restrict you. Chances are if you don't fuck her her boyfriend will continue doing so until some other guy comes along to replace him. You could be that guy. Or you can just watch the events unfold as your penis gets smaller. Some pretty bad advice.
Got anything better?
I suppose you want him to remain a 21 year old virgin who pisses his pants everytime he's around a girl.
There's nothing 'cute' about the OP's OP. It just makes him look like a teenage boy discovering puberty.
Teenage boys don't get the chickydees.
He needs to become a real man. He'll be happier in the longterm if he doesn't act like a wussy. He'll be too busy fucking girls in the ass to be caring about anxiety and insecurity and having TL's nerd population encouraging him in it.
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On January 18 2011 09:48 Tony Campolo wrote:Show nested quote +On January 18 2011 09:44 tonight wrote:On January 18 2011 08:34 Tony Campolo wrote:On January 18 2011 08:12 JMave wrote: She does. Oh wells. Back to work. Once again, you have shown your ineptitude. If you really want her, then she's yours. If he is only a boyfriend then it's open game. Women treat relationships like jobs - if a better one comes along, they resign from the first. Don't be deluded into thinking romance movies are real life. You can be a white knight and keep your hands off her because some other chobe has her, or you can dictate how you want to live your life and not let limitations restrict you. Chances are if you don't fuck her her boyfriend will continue doing so until some other guy comes along to replace him. You could be that guy. Or you can just watch the events unfold as your penis gets smaller. Some pretty bad advice. Got anything better? I suppose you want him to remain a 21 year old virgin who pisses his pants everytime he's around a girl. There's nothing 'cute' about the OP's OP. It just makes him look like a teenage boy discovering puberty. Teenage boys don't get the chickydees. He needs to become a real man. He'll be happier in the longterm if he doesn't act like a wussy. He'll be too busy fucking girls in the ass to be caring about anxiety and insecurity and having TL's nerd population encouraging him in it.
This is the kind of advice you should adhere to if you want to be a coors light pounding, fist pumping, herpes having, genital warts maintaining, chest waxing, emotionless, cocky, douche.
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I base this all off your comment of "fucking chicks in the ass".
Party on, bro.
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On January 18 2011 01:25 ludic123 wrote: Invite her to a party and take it from there. Liquid courage does wonders.
Off topic slightly... Liquid'Courage is a great alias for Jinro.
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On January 18 2011 10:34 tonight wrote:Show nested quote +On January 18 2011 09:48 Tony Campolo wrote:On January 18 2011 09:44 tonight wrote:On January 18 2011 08:34 Tony Campolo wrote:On January 18 2011 08:12 JMave wrote: She does. Oh wells. Back to work. Once again, you have shown your ineptitude. If you really want her, then she's yours. If he is only a boyfriend then it's open game. Women treat relationships like jobs - if a better one comes along, they resign from the first. Don't be deluded into thinking romance movies are real life. You can be a white knight and keep your hands off her because some other chobe has her, or you can dictate how you want to live your life and not let limitations restrict you. Chances are if you don't fuck her her boyfriend will continue doing so until some other guy comes along to replace him. You could be that guy. Or you can just watch the events unfold as your penis gets smaller. Some pretty bad advice. Got anything better? I suppose you want him to remain a 21 year old virgin who pisses his pants everytime he's around a girl. There's nothing 'cute' about the OP's OP. It just makes him look like a teenage boy discovering puberty. Teenage boys don't get the chickydees. He needs to become a real man. He'll be happier in the longterm if he doesn't act like a wussy. He'll be too busy fucking girls in the ass to be caring about anxiety and insecurity and having TL's nerd population encouraging him in it. This is the kind of advice you should adhere to if you want to be a coors light pounding, fist pumping, herpes having, genital warts maintaining, chest waxing, emotionless, cocky, douche.
As I said, if you have any better advice feel free to impart your wisdom. And if anal sex offends you... Your sister is engaging in it right now, just like any other good-looking, American-culture-abiding, red-blooded human being with a healthy sex life.
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My advice is be who you are. If you want to have random anal sex with whoever with no cares then so be it, but if you want a relationship then do what's right for you by being who you are.
Your advice is just, "If that girl won't fuck you find one that will." I don't really think that's what he's looking for, but if that's what you're looking for it makes little to no difference to me. At least if you're having anal sex you're not running the risk of reproducing.
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lol.. spot the guy who's been reading game material for a year and thinks he's fucking Hank Moody from behind his keyboard.
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On January 18 2011 09:48 Tony Campolo wrote:Show nested quote +On January 18 2011 09:44 tonight wrote:On January 18 2011 08:34 Tony Campolo wrote:On January 18 2011 08:12 JMave wrote: She does. Oh wells. Back to work. Once again, you have shown your ineptitude. If you really want her, then she's yours. If he is only a boyfriend then it's open game. Women treat relationships like jobs - if a better one comes along, they resign from the first. Don't be deluded into thinking romance movies are real life. You can be a white knight and keep your hands off her because some other chobe has her, or you can dictate how you want to live your life and not let limitations restrict you. Chances are if you don't fuck her her boyfriend will continue doing so until some other guy comes along to replace him. You could be that guy. Or you can just watch the events unfold as your penis gets smaller. Some pretty bad advice. ... He needs to become a real man. He'll be happier in the longterm if he doesn't act like a wussy. He'll be too busy fucking girls in the ass to be caring about anxiety and insecurity and having TL's nerd population encouraging him in it.
Its funny how you encourage him to act like a man when your values are typical for a 16 year old. ... or have I been trolled?
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Wow, I come back to this thread after one day and see it has gone from this cuteish story about a boy inlove to everyone talking about bumsex..Impressive xD
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On January 18 2011 18:42 fabulously wrote: Wow, I come back to this thread after one day and see it has gone from this cuteish story about a boy inlove to everyone talking about bumsex..Impressive xD
some of the replies are quite funny. its really weird cuz she's sitting right oppositeme now
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Turn your monitor around.
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On January 18 2011 10:38 zfr wrote:Show nested quote +On January 18 2011 01:25 ludic123 wrote: Invite her to a party and take it from there. Liquid courage does wonders. Off topic slightly... Liquid'Courage is a great alias for Jinro.
lol. Yeah, it is actually. xD
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On January 18 2011 04:21 lixlix wrote: Insomnia when you don't even know whether she has a boyfriend or not? Thats pretty lame man. Its not like she died or she divorced you.
yea this thread is a ban trap
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