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On March 27 2010 13:48 hahaimhenry wrote:Show nested quote +On March 23 2010 22:40 baller wrote:
i got my girlfriend Claire by going the friends first nice guy route. i first met her in class and she became friends with me mainly because i was good at the subject and took notes for her when she wasnt there. then we talked a lot on internet chat and i listened to all her complaints about the guys she dated, wondering when she will realize i was the one for her. even one time when her boyfriend canceled on her, i took her out to a movie and paid for everything, it was very "date" like but she didnt kiss me or anything at the end.
eventually, after months of doing this, Claire broke up with her bf and i talked to her about it. i was very hopeful that she'd finally notice me, but she dated another guy who was just as big an asshole right away. i was sad, but i didnt end our friendship -- she was too important to me. then for her birthday, she was sick and very sad. her new bf got her some shitty flowers and candy, but i made her this DVD with all her favorite songs and filmed her favorite locations around the city. i spent hours on it. she finally realized that she was with the wrong guy.
right before winter break she texted me, breathless and happy that she finally realized it. i was so happy and literally cried in the cab (i was on the way to the airport to go home) when i read the texts that she wanted to be with me. i felt on top of the world and that my months of hardship were finally rewarded. i couldnt wait until after break, so i yelled to the cabby yo homes smell you later, looked at my new girlfriend i was finally there to sit on my throne as the boyfriend of Claire. Okay there Taylor Swift.
She wears short skirts, I wear t-shirts. She wears high heels, I wear sneakers.
Seriously though, I didn't read the whole thread, but from my experience, all most girls ultimately want is a nice guy. In general, just be yourself, dress tidily, be well mannered and be fairly confident without being arrogant (a difficult balance for some). Basically be a gentleman is what I'm saying.
You'll hear a lot of crap advice thrown around, and a lot of complaining that girls never go for the "nice guy". Trust me, for most guys, the girl that you want is a girl who wants a "nice guy". A lot of other girls just end up sleeping with many many guys and never really settle down properly. And even when they do, divorce rates are very high in this group.
But yeah, if you want to just mess around with a girl and your goal is NOT to develop a decent and loving relationship, ignore everything I just wrote. Instead, listen to more Taylor Swift lol. She's cheer captain and I'm on the bleachers!
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The whole "nice guy" or "playboy arsehole" thing is just so.. blind.
These guys always complaining, girls dont know what they want!!, girls only want to be treated like dirt! nice is too boring for them, etc.
Girls do know what they want, we just dont all want the same thing, we arnt all the same person afterall.
Being attractive isnt just about being a nice person, and a nice person doesnt do nice things just for selfserving purposes (eg. I did 'x' for you, therefore you owe me VIP access to your pants :O! and if you dont give it then your a heartless bitch!!!!!!!). Nice people dont feel entitled to someone, just because they made friends, or because they bought them something, or they helped them with homework.
To the op, you have decided your friends are the best guys for women because you say they are nice, so by training your friends how to be what you decide girls find attractive you are being super gosu awsome, giving not only your friends an amazing service but also women everywhere, since they are too silly to figure out who they should really find attractive and want to date. Its really rather arrogant and super stupid.
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There's a difference between being a nice guy and being a fucking pussy.
Who wants to waste their time calling a girl multiple times per day? Its fucking desperate. Girls subconsciously pick up on this. Even if they arew dumb enough to think it means the guy is 'nice'.
And just because your calling and sending flowers doesn't make you nice. In fact, doing that stuff all the time might just be a cover for the fact that you're an insecure ass. In most cases, claiming your a 'nice' guys is just an excuse for being a weener, because you have nothing else you can impress a girl with.
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On March 28 2010 10:12 Wretched wrote:
There's a difference between being a nice guy and being a fucking pussy.
Who wants to waste their time calling a girl multiple times per day? Its fucking desperate. Girls subconsciously pick up on this. Even if they arew dumb enough to think it means the guy is 'nice'.
This a thousand times. Of course girls want you to be nice to them. But when you give off the impression that you're dependent on them, it's pathetic.
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On March 23 2010 22:40 baller wrote:
i got my girlfriend Claire by going the friends first nice guy route. i first met her in class and she became friends with me mainly because i was good at the subject and took notes for her when she wasnt there. then we talked a lot on internet chat and i listened to all her complaints about the guys she dated, wondering when she will realize i was the one for her. even one time when her boyfriend canceled on her, i took her out to a movie and paid for everything, it was very "date" like but she didnt kiss me or anything at the end.
eventually, after months of doing this, Claire broke up with her bf and i talked to her about it. i was very hopeful that she'd finally notice me, but she dated another guy who was just as big an asshole right away. i was sad, but i didnt end our friendship -- she was too important to me. then for her birthday, she was sick and very sad. her new bf got her some shitty flowers and candy, but i made her this DVD with all her favorite songs and filmed her favorite locations around the city. i spent hours on it. she finally realized that she was with the wrong guy.
right before winter break she texted me, breathless and happy that she finally realized it. i was so happy and literally cried in the cab (i was on the way to the airport to go home) when i read the texts that she wanted to be with me. i felt on top of the world and that my months of hardship were finally rewarded. i couldnt wait until after break, so i yelled to the cabby yo homes smell you later, looked at my new girlfriend i was finally there to sit on my throne as the boyfriend of Claire.
sit on your throne my ass...
you cried?
you are the biggest pussy ever.
Biologically, girls need to be with someone strong who can ensure the survival of their offspring.
Confidence = strong
Doing what is best for yourself = strong
The 'assholes' she dated were probably just not that interested in her, which is why they acted like assholes from her point of view. Everything is relative.
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On March 28 2010 10:25 Wretched wrote:Show nested quote +On March 23 2010 22:40 baller wrote:
i got my girlfriend Claire by going the friends first nice guy route. i first met her in class and she became friends with me mainly because i was good at the subject and took notes for her when she wasnt there. then we talked a lot on internet chat and i listened to all her complaints about the guys she dated, wondering when she will realize i was the one for her. even one time when her boyfriend canceled on her, i took her out to a movie and paid for everything, it was very "date" like but she didnt kiss me or anything at the end.
eventually, after months of doing this, Claire broke up with her bf and i talked to her about it. i was very hopeful that she'd finally notice me, but she dated another guy who was just as big an asshole right away. i was sad, but i didnt end our friendship -- she was too important to me. then for her birthday, she was sick and very sad. her new bf got her some shitty flowers and candy, but i made her this DVD with all her favorite songs and filmed her favorite locations around the city. i spent hours on it. she finally realized that she was with the wrong guy.
right before winter break she texted me, breathless and happy that she finally realized it. i was so happy and literally cried in the cab (i was on the way to the airport to go home) when i read the texts that she wanted to be with me. i felt on top of the world and that my months of hardship were finally rewarded. i couldnt wait until after break, so i yelled to the cabby yo homes smell you later, looked at my new girlfriend i was finally there to sit on my throne as the boyfriend of Claire. sit on your throne my ass... you cried? you are the biggest pussy ever.
lol...on one hand he got the girl...on the other he cried.
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On March 28 2010 10:25 Wretched wrote:Show nested quote +On March 23 2010 22:40 baller wrote:
i got my girlfriend Claire by going the friends first nice guy route. i first met her in class and she became friends with me mainly because i was good at the subject and took notes for her when she wasnt there. then we talked a lot on internet chat and i listened to all her complaints about the guys she dated, wondering when she will realize i was the one for her. even one time when her boyfriend canceled on her, i took her out to a movie and paid for everything, it was very "date" like but she didnt kiss me or anything at the end.
eventually, after months of doing this, Claire broke up with her bf and i talked to her about it. i was very hopeful that she'd finally notice me, but she dated another guy who was just as big an asshole right away. i was sad, but i didnt end our friendship -- she was too important to me. then for her birthday, she was sick and very sad. her new bf got her some shitty flowers and candy, but i made her this DVD with all her favorite songs and filmed her favorite locations around the city. i spent hours on it. she finally realized that she was with the wrong guy.
right before winter break she texted me, breathless and happy that she finally realized it. i was so happy and literally cried in the cab (i was on the way to the airport to go home) when i read the texts that she wanted to be with me. i felt on top of the world and that my months of hardship were finally rewarded. i couldnt wait until after break, so i yelled to the cabby yo homes smell you later, looked at my new girlfriend i was finally there to sit on my throne as the boyfriend of Claire. sit on your throne my ass... you cried? you are the biggest pussy ever. Biologically, girls need to be with someone strong who can ensure the survival of their offspring. Confidence = strong Doing what is best for yourself = strong The 'assholes' she dated were probably just not that interested in her, which is why they acted like assholes from her point of view. Everything is relative.
lol....
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Korea (South)17174 Posts
LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL ahahah
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so i yelled to the cabby yo homes smell you later, looked at my new girlfriend i was finally there to sit on my throne as the boyfriend of Claire.
how has no one on TL seen fresh prince of bel air? everyone's taking baller's story so literally lol
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Yeah seriously, as a netizen I am sorely disappointed
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On March 28 2010 10:25 Wretched wrote:Show nested quote +On March 23 2010 22:40 baller wrote:
i got my girlfriend Claire by going the friends first nice guy route. i first met her in class and she became friends with me mainly because i was good at the subject and took notes for her when she wasnt there. then we talked a lot on internet chat and i listened to all her complaints about the guys she dated, wondering when she will realize i was the one for her. even one time when her boyfriend canceled on her, i took her out to a movie and paid for everything, it was very "date" like but she didnt kiss me or anything at the end.
eventually, after months of doing this, Claire broke up with her bf and i talked to her about it. i was very hopeful that she'd finally notice me, but she dated another guy who was just as big an asshole right away. i was sad, but i didnt end our friendship -- she was too important to me. then for her birthday, she was sick and very sad. her new bf got her some shitty flowers and candy, but i made her this DVD with all her favorite songs and filmed her favorite locations around the city. i spent hours on it. she finally realized that she was with the wrong guy.
right before winter break she texted me, breathless and happy that she finally realized it. i was so happy and literally cried in the cab (i was on the way to the airport to go home) when i read the texts that she wanted to be with me. i felt on top of the world and that my months of hardship were finally rewarded. i couldnt wait until after break, so i yelled to the cabby yo homes smell you later, looked at my new girlfriend i was finally there to sit on my throne as the boyfriend of Claire. sit on your throne my ass... you cried? you are the biggest pussy ever. Biologically, girls need to be with someone strong who can ensure the survival of their offspring. Confidence = strong Doing what is best for yourself = strong The 'assholes' she dated were probably just not that interested in her, which is why they acted like assholes from her point of view. Everything is relative.
LOLOL, omg. hahahaha
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being a nice guy is like being a macro terran
it takes a while to come into your own, but once you do you wont have to rely on gimmicky builds. you can just play your style and dominate.
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On March 28 2010 17:08 esla_sol wrote:
being a nice guy is like being a macro terran
it takes a while to come into your own, but once you do you wont have to rely on gimmicky builds. you can just play your style and dominate.
Well done. (3/4 bonjwas are terran...eh eh?!)
On March 28 2010 23:40 snotboogie wrote:
Put her in the rape zone
...O.o
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The only way to win that game was to approach the unattractive girl. fail.
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On March 29 2010 09:14 Koiru wrote:
The only way to win that game was to approach the unattractive girl. fail.
Just like in real life, fren. Lol.
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girls just want to get nailed hard by a popular/rich/attractive guy
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Okay there Taylor Swift.
Haha, that's exactly what I thought of when I read that post.
"She's going off about something that you said
She doesnt get your humour like I do"
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On March 28 2010 11:02 jalstar wrote:Show nested quote +so i yelled to the cabby yo homes smell you later, looked at my new girlfriend i was finally there to sit on my throne as the boyfriend of Claire. how has no one on TL seen fresh prince of bel air? everyone's taking baller's story so literally lol
The thing is we couldn't tell if he was genuinely taking the piss or not, LOL.
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I think the majority of us on this thread are generally "nice guys" in real life. I personally think this is a thread to make all of us nerds feel better, but that's just my opinion.
There's a reason why a lot of 'confident' people don't discuss their girl issues on the internet, it's 'cause they don't need to. Just be confident.
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