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On March 24 2010 02:22 Jibba wrote:Show nested quote +On March 24 2010 00:21 Zurles wrote:On March 24 2010 00:02 Jibba wrote:
Except in the countless cultures, including early American culture, where women still worked up to and directly after pregnancy? Furthermore, you're talking about evolutionary psychology, which is also horse shit.
Please show us some of this hardwiring. You could win a Nobel prize for the discovery. lol. So women are exactly the same as men. Just completely different. Firstly women are far more emotionally complicated than men. They have more of a need for drama. on the whole women aren't as self confident about life as men are, you assume that the good looking girl is confident in herself but she knows her looks are going to fade, her value comes from how much she feels desired, men's are from how useful and needed we are. Women are less self-reliant than men as well, women are almost exclusively the buyers of relationship and self help books. Women are naturally nurturing, when it isn't demanded or taken for granted, especially after she's found feelings for you. Women don't want it too easy either, they want to roller-coaster ride of emotions, they say they don't want to play games, but they initiate emotional games alll the time, they're lying. Also men usually learn to use their physical power where women are far more likely to use their sexual attractiveness or social skills as their power. I'm not trying to attack your character here but if you want to know more, go educated yourself, you are assuming you know things that you know nothing about. Ugh, not even worth my time. It's like explaining calculus to someone working on "timesing."
On March 24 2010 04:03 armed_ wrote:
<3 Jibba.
Annoys me to no end how many posts I've read lately claiming that the social trends they accept are some sort of absolute genetic trait, and then backing it up with some sort of nonsense pseudoscience.
On March 24 2010 00:32 Chill wrote:
Girls have literally no idea what they actually want.
All of these. Wow. This thread is one of the best I've seen in a while.
Edit: Why are so many people looking at women as if they are all the same being? They're just as simple minded as us, guys, and they're all different. Quit trying to come up with some fantastic theory about how women are genetically predisposed to be one way, or how the perfect way to pick up a girl is this way or that way. They're all different, each and every one of them. Some will like getting their hair lit on fire and giggle about it, others will light your house on fire in return.
+ Show Spoiler +On March 24 2010 03:04 HeadhunteR wrote:
the last time i had some girls at home (last saturday) we were drinking and all. one of the girls that texted me to pick them up went to light a ciggarette at the stove i said to her "dont get your hair burnt" and i pushed her head very lightly in a jokeing way and her eyebrow and a bit of her hair got burnt..
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Korea (South)17174 Posts
be real, never lie or exagerrate unless you're fucking with them, and don't give into their childish games
it's not about being 'nice guy' or an 'asshole' because real men are both depending on the situation
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On March 23 2010 23:33 Severedevil wrote:Show nested quote +On March 23 2010 23:17 baller wrote:On March 23 2010 23:01 Zurles wrote:On March 23 2010 22:40 baller wrote:
i got my girlfriend Claire by going the friends first nice guy route. i first met her in class and she became friends with me mainly because i was good at the subject and took notes for her when she wasnt there. then we talked a lot on internet chat and i listened to all her complaints about the guys she dated, wondering when she will realize i was the one for her. even one time when her boyfriend canceled on her, i took her out to a movie and paid for everything, it was very "date" like but she didnt kiss me or anything at the end.
eventually, after months of doing this, Claire broke up with her bf and i talked to her about it. i was very hopeful that she'd finally notice me, but she dated another guy who was just as big an asshole right away. i was sad, but i didnt end our friendship -- she was too important to me. then for her birthday, she was sick and very sad. her new bf got her some shitty flowers and candy, but i made her this DVD with all her favorite songs and filmed her favorite locations around the city. i spent hours on it. she finally realized that she was with the wrong guy.
right before winter break she texted me, breathless and happy that she finally realized it. i was so happy and literally cried in the cab (i was on the way to the airport to go home) when i read the texts that she wanted to be with me. i felt on top of the world and that my months of hardship were finally rewarded. i couldnt wait until after break, so i yelled to the cabby yo homes smell you later, looked at my new girlfriend i was finally there to sit on my throne as the boyfriend of Claire. would have taken no time if you acted the way I mentioned, man and you're called "baller" too. nah, if i didnt go the friend route it wouldnt have happened. like being there for her when her bf was an asshole... she was on the phone with her boyfriend, shes upset, going off about something that he said because he doesnt get her humor like i do. i knew that if she could just the one who understands her and ive been here all along so she could see that she belonged with me. WHAT IF I SAY SHE'S NOT LIKE THE OTHERS?
WHAT IF I SAY SHE'S NOT JUST ANOTHER ONE OF YOUR PLAYS?
YOU'RE THE PRETENDER
WHAT IF I SAY THAT SHE'LL NEVER SURRENDER?
Strong lines :o
foo fighters are awesome
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On March 24 2010 04:29 Rekrul wrote:
be real, never lie or exagerrate unless you're fucking with them, and don't give into their childish games
it's not about being 'nice guy' or an 'asshole' because real men are both depending on the situation
That's actually really good advice. I'm kinda shocked and impressed.
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On March 23 2010 22:40 baller wrote:
so i yelled to the cabby yo homes smell you later, looked at my new girlfriend i was finally there to sit on my throne as the boyfriend of Claire.
4 pages of romanian posts or what
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I few weeks ago I stumbled upon this site called Heartless Bitches. It had a section called Nice Guys? BLEAH, which give a perspective on this topic. According to this group of females, the "nice guys" do not need advice on women, rather advice on life.
A lot of advice on women focuses on manipulating women, which is definitely something negative. Teaching people to have confidence in themselves is fine. It really depends on how you do it, sometimes it's very useful, other times people feel they cannot be themselves and have to adapt a different persona. Based on what your female friends are saying, you might be giving the guys ideas of how to be someone else instead of how to make girls enjoy themselves, which is pretty much the essense of the issue.
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this last post above has a lot of answers.. try to send it to your friends
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Korea (South)17174 Posts
On March 24 2010 08:05 Jibba wrote:Show nested quote +On March 24 2010 04:29 Rekrul wrote:
be real, never lie or exagerrate unless you're fucking with them, and don't give into their childish games
it's not about being 'nice guy' or an 'asshole' because real men are both depending on the situation That's actually really good advice. I'm kinda shocked and impressed.
whats so shocking about common sense
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On March 23 2010 22:40 baller wrote:
i got my girlfriend Claire by going the friends first nice guy route. i first met her in class and she became friends with me mainly because i was good at the subject and took notes for her when she wasnt there. then we talked a lot on internet chat and i listened to all her complaints about the guys she dated, wondering when she will realize i was the one for her. even one time when her boyfriend canceled on her, i took her out to a movie and paid for everything, it was very "date" like but she didnt kiss me or anything at the end.
eventually, after months of doing this, Claire broke up with her bf and i talked to her about it. i was very hopeful that she'd finally notice me, but she dated another guy who was just as big an asshole right away. i was sad, but i didnt end our friendship -- she was too important to me. then for her birthday, she was sick and very sad. her new bf got her some shitty flowers and candy, but i made her this DVD with all her favorite songs and filmed her favorite locations around the city. i spent hours on it. she finally realized that she was with the wrong guy.
right before winter break she texted me, breathless and happy that she finally realized it. i was so happy and literally cried in the cab (i was on the way to the airport to go home) when i read the texts that she wanted to be with me. i felt on top of the world and that my months of hardship were finally rewarded. i couldnt wait until after break, so i yelled to the cabby yo homes smell you later, looked at my new girlfriend i was finally there to sit on my throne as the boyfriend of Claire.
Hahahahaha. holy fucking shit this post is amazing. LOL
(not drunk at alllllllll)
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On March 24 2010 13:17 Rekrul wrote:Show nested quote +On March 24 2010 08:05 Jibba wrote:On March 24 2010 04:29 Rekrul wrote:
be real, never lie or exagerrate unless you're fucking with them, and don't give into their childish games
it's not about being 'nice guy' or an 'asshole' because real men are both depending on the situation That's actually really good advice. I'm kinda shocked and impressed. whats so shocking about common sense
that it isn't common anymore...
in response to the OP : every guy / girl is different and any guy is able to get any girl he wants... it's mainly a matter of chemistry too... because if you consider yourself a nice guy and you're getting involved with a heartless bitch then you're gonna end up frustrated and she's gonna be bored as hell...
PS: also, as a rule of thumb... if the post includes (I have a hard time getting women but this is what you need to do) you probably shouldn't take it TOO seriously...
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On March 23 2010 22:40 baller wrote:
i got my girlfriend Claire by going the friends first nice guy route. i first met her in class and she became friends with me mainly because i was good at the subject and took notes for her when she wasnt there. then we talked a lot on internet chat and i listened to all her complaints about the guys she dated, wondering when she will realize i was the one for her. even one time when her boyfriend canceled on her, i took her out to a movie and paid for everything, it was very "date" like but she didnt kiss me or anything at the end.
eventually, after months of doing this, Claire broke up with her bf and i talked to her about it. i was very hopeful that she'd finally notice me, but she dated another guy who was just as big an asshole right away. i was sad, but i didnt end our friendship -- she was too important to me. then for her birthday, she was sick and very sad. her new bf got her some shitty flowers and candy, but i made her this DVD with all her favorite songs and filmed her favorite locations around the city. i spent hours on it. she finally realized that she was with the wrong guy.
right before winter break she texted me, breathless and happy that she finally realized it. i was so happy and literally cried in the cab (i was on the way to the airport to go home) when i read the texts that she wanted to be with me. i felt on top of the world and that my months of hardship were finally rewarded. i couldnt wait until after break, so i yelled to the cabby yo homes smell you later, looked at my new girlfriend i was finally there to sit on my throne as the boyfriend of Claire.
That's a nice story and everything but how do you feel about the fact that her pussy has already been filled by several other cocks?
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On March 24 2010 13:17 Rekrul wrote:Show nested quote +On March 24 2010 08:05 Jibba wrote:On March 24 2010 04:29 Rekrul wrote:
be real, never lie or exagerrate unless you're fucking with them, and don't give into their childish games
it's not about being 'nice guy' or an 'asshole' because real men are both depending on the situation That's actually really good advice. I'm kinda shocked and impressed. whats so shocking about common sense
Common Sense can incite revolution.
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Korea (South)17174 Posts
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So Rekrul, how many relationships have you been in during your life? You seem actually quite wise when it comes to these matters (not being sarcastic).
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Korea (South)17174 Posts
On March 24 2010 15:46 Koiru wrote:
So Rekrul, how many relationships have you been in during your life? You seem actually quite wise when it comes to these matters (not being sarcastic).
3, the longest of which being 5 months and haven't been in one for 4 years
that depends on your definition of the word 'relationship' though
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Osaka27149 Posts
Rekrul and I shared a special night once.
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btw rekrul isn't this like the 4th blog that uve derailed into a discussion about urself
u crave attention more than girls, and thats pretty hard to do
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