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lilsusie
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XCetron
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shavingcream66
United States1219 Posts
On September 10 2008 12:22 .kaz wrote: Concentrate on the things about her you dislike. Imagine all the cute things about her as being annoying, like things she says and does. Start fights about those guys for no reason like you're paranoid and it will make her push away from you, and then you can end it. that's what i did, it works, but its not painless | ||
geometryb
United States1249 Posts
or find something you care about more than her. it could be starcraft, WoW, poker, tennis, art, school, an instrument, etc. (these will help with future chicks that will be impressed with your leet skillz) or become more awesome so you can get better chicks. this is kind of related to the 2nd option. become knowledgeable about important issues and stuff (economist), and fashion (GQ), and try lots of things like volunteering at soup kitchens and political campaigns and tutoring and the math team. but, you gotta make sure you don't become a douche. | ||
MeriaDoKk
Chile1726 Posts
On September 10 2008 13:08 lilsusie wrote: ... You're 16. (17?) You'll find someone else. Fuck her. (not literally. unless you *could* then you should do that and then leave her) Girls like to play mindgames and especially girls at that age have no idea what they want. They just like the attention. She likes that you like her and that you get upset over other men. You want to focus on everything she does and find it annoying - just understand that she's using you, you're nothing to her, don't spend your money on her, she's got plenty of other shmucks to dote on her. Don't be one of them. this post opened my eyes O.O | ||
mister.bubbles
Canada171 Posts
This probably doesn't sound too helpful does it? | ||
sqwert
United States781 Posts
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Nyovne
Netherlands19125 Posts
On September 10 2008 13:08 lilsusie wrote: ... You're 16. (17?) You'll find someone else. Fuck her. (not literally. unless you *could* then you should do that and then leave her) Girls like to play mindgames and especially girls at that age have no idea what they want. They just like the attention. She likes that you like her and that you get upset over other men. You want to focus on everything she does and find it annoying - just understand that she's using you, you're nothing to her, don't spend your money on her, she's got plenty of other shmucks to dote on her. Don't be one of them. I love female advice. | ||
NarutO
Germany18839 Posts
On September 10 2008 13:08 lilsusie wrote: ... You're 16. (17?) You'll find someone else. Fuck her. (not literally. unless you *could* then you should do that and then leave her) Girls like to play mindgames and especially girls at that age have no idea what they want. They just like the attention. She likes that you like her and that you get upset over other men. You want to focus on everything she does and find it annoying - just understand that she's using you, you're nothing to her, don't spend your money on her, she's got plenty of other shmucks to dote on her. Don't be one of them. THAT FROM A GIRL! WHOA O_O! Susie you are hardcore^^ | ||
semioldguy
United States7488 Posts
Then go and find another girl. Also... ignoring her is not going to make her not like you. She will just become curious as to why you are ignoring her when she thought you liked her. And don't buy her a birthday gift. A card at most. She isn't your girlfriend after all so use the money on yourself for sure. Besides, a nice gift is never going to win a girl over unless she is already wanting to be yours before she gets it. In which case you didn't need to get her a gift. | ||
Ohforf
Singapore80 Posts
On September 10 2008 13:08 lilsusie wrote: ... You're 16. (17?) You'll find someone else. Fuck her. (not literally. unless you *could* then you should do that and then leave her) Girls like to play mindgames and especially girls at that age have no idea what they want. They just like the attention. She likes that you like her and that you get upset over other men. You want to focus on everything she does and find it annoying - just understand that she's using you, you're nothing to her, don't spend your money on her, she's got plenty of other shmucks to dote on her. Don't be one of them. wonder if lilsusie's taken... | ||
semioldguy
United States7488 Posts
Her's is actually one of the few females you should ever listen to on advice in these matters. Most give horrible advice as women have no clue what they want and try to give advice based on the image they wish to portray to others. Sue's uniquely awesome. I'm sure she will agree with both aspects of this post. | ||
lilsusie
3861 Posts
I've just been playing this relationship game for waaaaay too long. And I'm old enough to understand how teenage girls/boys act and motives behind them (I was also a school counselor) so.... yeah ultimately, boys are dumb and girls are evil. I stick to that. On September 10 2008 17:57 Ohforf wrote: wonder if lilsusie's taken... nope. Sick of men right now. Too busy for one as well. | ||
semioldguy
United States7488 Posts
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semioldguy
United States7488 Posts
On September 10 2008 18:22 lilsusie wrote: nope. Sick of men right now. Too busy for one as well. heh... they all say that. Takes a man to show them otherwise. :p | ||
pyrogenetix
United Arab Emirates5090 Posts
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Aerox
Malaysia1213 Posts
On September 10 2008 14:33 XCetron wrote: lilsusie needs her own "girl advice" section | ||
ThePhan2m
Norway2739 Posts
*nods* | ||
Ghardo
Germany1685 Posts
definitely stick to what she is saying. don't be the victim of mind games with all your well-meaning. | ||
Durak
Canada3684 Posts
On September 10 2008 14:30 lilsusie wrote: why not just.. stop talking to her? or at least pull back. dont be an asshole, just ... focus your attention on something else and put her on the back burner. trust me, girls who love attention HATE it when you take it away. That's really good advise. From a guy's perspective, this has always worked for me. You have to know when to be "hard to get" though and not keep it up for a long period of time (two years didn't go so well...). | ||
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